90. Chapter 90
Xiao Yi went back to her parents' house in anger, hoping that Xiao Hai would come back and beg him to turn it over, earn enough face for himself, borrow the slope and go home on the donkey, and then live a good life......
Xiao Hai's performance is really infuriating, watching the motorcycle go away, Xiao Yi herself regretted it, she actually didn't want to make such a storm: the parents and relatives on both sides were already anxious and sad because of Xiao Hai's affairs, and she didn't sprinkle salt on their wounds anymore......
But Xiaoyi also has her own grievances and pitiful: she gets up early and is greedy for darkness like a man, works hard to make money to support her family, is reluctant to eat, reluctant to wear, and rarely buys a few beautiful clothes a year, working hard for the family...... Not only do men not appreciate it, but they do such things, okay, I will forgive you for being lonely and lonely and finding a woman at random, but you actually brought it home and didn't agree...... In the end, I abandoned everything and followed that woman, leaving behind the family, old and young, I still didn't give up on you, I took care of the children for you at home, honored the elderly, I was stupid and waiting for you to come home...... In the outer waves, the money is spent, the woman runs away and you come back...... It's time to change your mind and be a new person, husband and wife, I've done so much for you, I just want to hear you say a word of repentance, a word of promise, is this too much, is it too much
He is good, he doesn't give me his heart, he doesn't give me his body, he doesn't even give me a pretended soft word......
"Eldest sister, what do you say I am with a man like him, if it weren't for the two children, I would be so desperate...... Xiao Hai pinched my weakness, he knew that I couldn't give up two children, but I ......" Xiao Yi choked and couldn't speak.
"Xiao Yi, everyone understands your pain and knows your grievances, but what to do with a man like Xiaohai, persuade and persuade, scold and scold, but you see, what kind of nurturing feelings, the love of husband and wife is not worth that woman's words...... Fortunately, the woman left alone, and Xiaohai also turned back, for the sake of the two children, you forgive him this time......"
There is always a selfish side to human nature, this is what Xiaohai did, although I have always been ashamed as a sister, but I don't want my brother-in-law Xiaoyi to divorce him, I am worried about my elderly parents, and I am more worried about my two nephews, I think the consummation of our whole family...... For all this, I can only wronged one woman, that is Xiao Yi, I do everything possible to do my work, and I do not hesitate to use rhetoric to envelop my brother and daughter-in-law, during the time that Xiaohai left, I accompanied her and comforted her, so that she firmly believed that Xiaohai would turn back.
I barely managed to make ends meet, even if it was just for a day...... But if it were me, my two sisters, I would never be like this.
No matter how precious the child is in my heart, how important the parents are in my heart, I will not wronged myself because of them, the parents will eventually grow old, the child will eventually grow up, and the only person who can accompany you for a long time is the person around you, if he has no heart for you, no love, he will never care about your warmth and joy, rather than being with an indifferent person, it is better to go quickly and pursue his own life.
But now Xiao Yi doesn't seem to think of this, this woman who has only read the third grade of primary school and is almost illiterate, has not received any teachings since she was a child, but she has always regarded her husband and children as the whole of her life, as long as the child has a complete home, even if Xiaohai treats him indifferently to him, she has said more than once, as long as I guard the man, I will raise him, and respect him "Other people's children are fathers, and my children will be born if they have fathers".
How much courage and determination does this take, and in my heart I have an extra layer of heartfelt respect and emotion for this brother and daughter-in-law who was not very treated.
I really can't do it.
But a woman's forbearance is a virtue in the eyes of the man who loves her, but in the eyes of the man who no longer loves him, it is a pile of shit, Xiao Hai doesn't say a good word about Xiao Yi, including coming back this time - for those men, it's already this situation, no matter what, you have to say something soft even if you coax a woman to be happy, but Xiao Hai is not, still like a proud donkey, twisting his neck.
In the end, Xiao Yi still didn't screw a man, and on the third morning, he went home with the child - first, he was worried about the eldest son at home, and the father said on the phone how the child missed his mother, and the woman's heart was always too soft; Second, the water spilled by the married daughter, how can a woman with children always rely on her mother's house......
Xiao Yi's initiative to turn back did not move Xiao Hai, but made him a little proud and forgetful.
A woman in a family has too many grievances, and the man not only does not understand, but repeatedly stimulates it, and the outbreak of war is inevitable.
didn't stop for three days, and the father's phone call came again in the middle of the night: Xiao Hai and Xiao Yi were playing hotly upstairs, the child was so frightened that he cried, and Xiao Hai even hit Xiao Yi with his hands......
Xiao Yi was cloaked, crying and grabbing the ground, and only two words "divorce" were turned over and over in her mouth!
These two words have always been mentioned by Xiao Hai, Xiao Yi did not have a single time, and my parents knew the seriousness of the problem, so they had to ask me for help.
"Alas! They really can't live this kind of life, so they might as well leave! "As soon as I hear about them, my head goes up.
In fact, I have been paying close attention to them in the past two days, sometimes Xiao Yi is happy, more often he is sad, sighing, Xiao Hai is still lazy all day long, going in and out with a gloomy face, no one can see his thoughts.
I asked my mother to go and find out quietly.
The result was unsatisfactory, Xiao Hai was much more honest for the time being under the suppression of his family, but as long as he was alone with Xiao Yi, he would always be stimulated intentionally or unintentionally, and even when he was married together, he had to compare "Say Pan Xiaoyan is gentle, how Pan Xiaoyan is obedient Yunyun......" Comparing again and again, stimulating again and again, Xiao Yi was overwhelmed, and finally exploded like a silent volcano.
Xiao Yi's outburst was fierce and the consequences were serious, Xiao Yi filed for divorce for the first time, and his attitude was resolute: he didn't want a child, and he had to connect the fallopian tubes.
When my parents heard this, they panicked, and so did I: it took so much trouble to find Xiaohai home, and I was counting on his prodigal son to come back to maintain the consummation of this family, and now that Xiaoyi is making such a fuss, things are even worse.
Knowing what happened, I think there is still room for redemption: as long as Xiaohai is willing to turn back, forget about that woman, and plan to live with Xiao Yi again, this matter will take a turn for the better - he can change his mind and treat it well, Xiao Yi will definitely be able to change his mind "Xiao Yi will not ignore the two children, you can rest assured" I comforted my father.
I say this without a bottom in my heart, I am a woman who naturally knows women best: there are thousands of words, but once she touches her bottom line, she will definitely hate more than men - those women in the TV who use all kinds of means, who do not have an unforgettable sad love.
If I want to help deal with this relationship, I must first know the true thoughts of the two people, and I can only put aside the vow I once made - never to get involved in their feelings again.
I had insomnia all night again trying to match them again.
Ask myself that I feel that everything I do is for them, I do my best, I do my best, I do my best to get Xiaohai back from Chongming Island, I am complacent and proud - it is I who turned the tide and saved their marriage and family, I have imagined more than once that a few years later, Xiaohai suddenly woke up and was grateful to me for what I did back then......
But what happened next gave me a slap in the face unexpectedly.