"It's not okay to expect you to take the baby at home, my little Lele is so cute, you are so so-so with him. His pants are dirty, what a big deal you have to wash his little ass. It's good to see you, just give him a change of pants. ”

Ike felt that his baby son had been wronged, because his baby son had an unreliable father.

"Didn't I wipe his little ass clean, you don't know, if our fat son goes crazy as soon as he sits in the bathtub, I can't handle him alone."

Lin Shan felt that he was very wronged, and the fat son was too troublesome; And he thinks that his level of raising children is also good, but this is criticized by Echo.

"You're so unskilled with children, I thought you were going to take care of children. But it turned out to be good, Lele took it away to his grandmother, and you slept on the sofa. Ike was very disappointed, and expressed a serious mistake in the level of her husband with children, "You are not at ease with a baby, I used to watch some videos or news and the like, saying that a man with a child is unreliable and a disaster, and now it seems that this is indeed the case." If you let Lele take him, I guess he will definitely be led crooked when he grows up. ”

Hearing his wife's words, Lin Shan decisively chose to remain silent; He thinks he's doing a good job, and he doesn't think he's unreliable. At least, he didn't play games when he was with his children, and there was no such thing as playing games by himself and putting the baby on the computer desk and lap. Such unreliable dads are actually relatively rare.

But there is no way, this misunderstanding is really a bit deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and those unreliable dads have indeed lowered people's distrust of young dads. It's really hard to completely unravel such a thing for a while.

And Lin Shan also knew that a large part of the reason was because of his usual unreliability, which would also make his family a little less confident in him. So the result of such bias. I really can't reassure my family for a while.

"Ahh

Lin Shan was stunned, the fat son kept shouting something, Lin Shan didn't know what the fat son was talking about; This kid is now in a state of babbling, the little guy loves to play and make trouble, and the cheerful Lele is now constantly playing with his sense of existence. He always wanted to tell everyone what he thought.

"Don't you see where his finger is? Go and dump his bath water, if you don't bathe him, forget it, not even the bath water. I can't stand it, and I can't stand it. You don't understand our son, you haven't seen his little hand for so long. ”

Iko laughed, the baby son was so cute; The little guy is now slowly starting to be sensible, and he now knows that he has to let his father do things, let him pour water and do housework.

"Oh my God, you know how to let me do things at such a young age. This kid is really going to turn the sky upside down. At such a young age, I want to instruct his father, and when he grows up, he must not ride on his father's head to be a blessing. ”

Although he said that, Lin Shan was still very happy; The fat son has grown up now and is slowly beginning to know a lot of things, and now he has really grown up and remembered. Watching the growth of his fat son, Lin Shan had no reason to be unhappy.

"My fat son knows that his mother is hard, but his father is not responsible at all and likes to be lazy. So you have to do more things, my son can't stand you being so lazy at home now. Iko kissed his son's fleshy little face fiercely.

And the son immediately responded. The little guy tried hard to get up, stretching out his little hand to hold his mother's face. Pouting with a small mouth, he kissed his mother's face fiercely. This kid really likes to be coquettish and sensual.

I'm too lazy to watch the scene of the mother-son love between Ike and the fat son, otherwise this would be complete envy, jealousy and hatred; Anyway, Lin Shan felt that he was a little redundant now.

He felt that there was a serious psychological imbalance. In the past, Iko and he were slimy, but after having a fat son. A large part of her attention shifted to her fat son. As for the fat son, Lin Shan felt that he was really good to the fat son; But the little guy seems to prefer his mother, and even Lin Shan suspects that in the fat son's mind, Xiaobai should be more important than his father.

Stay at home, accompany your wife and children. There is also a group of mischievous little brothers, which is really too comfortable. And I have to admit that because my career is successful now, at least I don't need to worry about economic and material pressure, which is really satisfying, and this is a very satisfying state of life.

"Lin Shan, are you here to help? Now there are so many shrimp fry and fish fry in the new water, you just come to see how to do it. Lin Shuqiang's phone came, and he had some opinions on Lin Shan always disappearing and being a shopkeeper.

"It's good if you don't keep an eye on it, I don't have a shortage of feed and fish fry for you. I'm not going to interfere, you just have to do it yourself. If I go to point fingers, not to mention helping, that is, the people in the village say that I like to point fingers and control too widely, I can't stand it. I won't go, as long as there is no big mess, I don't care, I can do whatever I want. Besides, I don't know that much. ”

Lin Shan shook his head, he felt that there was really no need for him to brush up on his sense of existence at this time; Obviously, they are all from the villagers, especially Lin Shan, who is now considered the leader, but his age and generation are here. If you go and say a little more or something, sometimes it's really offensive.

"You're just too lazy, how can you say that you're also the boss. You don't have to think so much, some things really have to be decided by you. Now there are more aquatic products, the vegetable planting area has also increased, and there are many new people to partner, but now they are a little unfamiliar, and you really can't be the boss if you don't come out. ”

Lin Shuqiang didn't know what to say, in fact, the people in the village were a little embarrassed sometimes, and he could really understand. After all, Lin Shan's age is here, and he is still a 'boss' when he is a young man in his twenties. If this is really commanded by him to do things, it is really a little difficult to accept; After all, it is difficult for people to adapt to such a change in relationship, especially since many people in the village are counted as growing up watching Lin Shan, so this feeling is even more weird.

For Lin Shan's current embarrassment, Yi Ke is naturally very clear.

To put it simply, one cooperated with Lin Shan at the beginning, one was her father, and the other was Lin Shan's cousin; In fact, this will be very embarrassing, because Lin Shan's age is a generation younger. Moreover, Lin Shan has always been the leader in the cooperation, so it is really difficult for them to feel more twisted.

Sometimes, age is really convincing; There is no hair on the mouth, and the work is not firm, such a saying is actually deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. Many people think that young people are not reliable and sophisticated enough, and young people's experience and experience in dealing with people are not convincing enough.

These things are really normal; After all, Longquan Village is just an ordinary village, although Linshan has risen strongly in the past two years, and the people in the village will also have some changes when treating Linshan. But young people, after all, are young people; Even some large companies may not have much confidence in leaders who are too young.

No way, when a young man leads a group of middle-aged people, everyone actually feels a little strange and unaccustomed. It is indeed very difficult to change such things completely and suddenly; In fact, this requires everyone to adapt slowly, and Lin Shan needs to make more achievements, which will make everyone more confident in him.

Some of Lin Shan's achievements now seem to prove that he can make money; With the people in the village to get rich together or something, in fact, Lin Shan is not doing enough now. It seems that this is the case, it is true that some people in the village have lived a good life with Lin Shan and made some money, but this group is still a little less.

"You don't care what other people think, you can't help things are good or not. Of course, I know that I can't say that life is life and work is work, but you still have to pay attention to the balance. The most important thing is that you are not RMB, and it is impossible for everyone to like you, as long as most people recognize you. ”

Ike knows very well that they are all from the village, and sometimes they are 'at work', and it will also affect some personal relationships and the like. These things don't mean that you can be so generous, and everyone is so reasonable. Even Lin Shan will affect his judgment and perception of some people on these matters.

So, it's better to pay attention to a few things as much as possible; As long as you have a conscience, as long as you do the majority of people recognize you, that's it. As long as he wasn't pointed at the backbone by the whole village, anyway, Lin Shan felt that he was slowly adapting now.

Especially after starting a family and having a wife and children, Lin Shan's focus is definitely different now, and he is now more concerned about his family. He was not so great, he wanted the whole village to live a rich life, he did not have that much ambition to make Longquan Village one of the richest villages in the country.

Still, it's good to take care of your family, and the people around you have a good impression of you; There's really no need to make everyone like themselves, there's really no need to demand perfection in everything.

Lin Shan is also slowly changing his mentality now, because he knows very well that even if he doesn't want to change his way of doing things, there will still be many people in the village who will change their attitude towards him. So, it's better to get used to it. (To be continued......)