Yang Lan obediently leaned on her mother's arms, pouting and muttering, "Mother, I'm still married early, and my sisters don't have a score." ”

He Hui's eyes were full of love and reluctance, and he reached out to touch his daughter's delicate and silky little face, "Actually, it's not siblings and sisters, and it's reasonable not to wait, but my mother wants you to be at home for two more years, I try to discuss with Mrs. Rong, so that you can marry again in three years, on the other hand, I think that you haven't been able to get married, and having children may be hindered, marrying too early, and if you don't have children within three years, you will be talked about, so it's better to wait and wait for Lu to marry later, which is also beneficial to you." ”

"Mother, then do I want to give him a small one in the future?" Yang Lan endured it for a long time and asked, this is really difficult for her to accept,

He Hui couldn't help but laugh after hearing this, "Silly boy, there are many factors that make you small, and whether you can stand upright is also a very important reason." Marry and obey your husband, as long as you can stand on your own, even if you accept a small one? What's more, he didn't dare to do this within three or five years of marriage, as long as the queen still needed the Yang family, he wouldn't dare, no matter what the reason, it would be beneficial to you, what you have to do is to develop the situation that is beneficial to you into a long-term good prospect, and even stabilize the relationship between you, instead of chasing and blocking the masters, it is better to let them take the initiative to ask not to take concubines.

I have been with your father for so many years, he never asked for a child, your father does not love women, he is dedicated to working hard in his career, and he is decent and disdainful of stealing chickens and dogs, another reason is that I can win your father's heart, so that he does not pay attention to other women, internally I can control the inner house, and externally I can fight side by side with him and not drag him back. It is not the looks that a woman is proud of. It's your charm and temperament. It's important to have a man convince you. Even when the fairy is stunning and has a declining appearance, the color decays and love is this truth, what kind of love does the old husband and wife rely on, it is a lifetime of love, and love can last! You may not understand these truths now, but you will only understand them when you experience them yourself.

Just remember to do what you want, consult with him and your mother-in-law in everything, and be humble and prudent. Filial piety and respect, have a bottom line and principles in doing things, neither blindly forgive, nor too vicious, I believe that no one will not love. ”

No matter how much I say, I always feel that my daughter is still young, why is she going to get married in the blink of an eye, hey!

Yang Lan listened quietly, and was very reluctant in her heart, thinking of leaving home. Leave your relatives and marry into your husband's family. is not as tolerant of all her shortcomings and mistakes as her relatives, she will be picky, will blame, and has to bear a lot of things alone, she is also very hesitant and confused.

"Don't worry, no matter when, the Yang family is your waist pole, if you are wronged, just come back and tell me, your father and brothers will definitely call the shots for you!" He Hui's voice is sonorous and unwavering.

Yang Lan nodded obediently, "Mother, don't worry, I'm not so cowardly, let others bully, I have Mama Lin and Mama Yue around me to check for me, and I can't hurt me if I'm careful, as long as I abide by the rules, who dares to give me anger can't stand it." It's you, when your sister-in-law enters the door and someone takes care of the affairs of the Hou Mansion for you, you can relax. ”

He Hui smiled, "Well, I heard that Cui's has always been a housekeeper to help her mother at home, and her mother is also a clan woman, and she is very familiar with the situation, but she doesn't have much experience, and she can get started with a little training, and her personality is also gentle and generous, I like it very much,"

"Then will you give the eldest brother a small one?" Yang Lan actually wanted to ask if her mother-in-law was willing to give her son a child!

He Hui Na didn't know her daughter's careful thoughts, "I won't do this, I won't take care of the affairs in my son's room, I don't care about it too much, it's annoying, and it makes people talk about it, why bother." What's more, I have never looked down on concubines like that, and I didn't have to hook up all the good guys. You don't have to worry very much, it's still the same sentence, they need the support of the Yang family, they won't be excessive, if you can get Rong Yi's heart, he will naturally not accept it! The smile on her face was confident and indifferent, not in the slightest concern about the problem.

Yang Lan saw her mother say this, and her heart was much more steady, no wonder her brother said that a woman marries by her mother's family, and her son is the husband in the end, there is really nothing wrong at all. After all, love is too ethereal, far less solid than family affection.

"By the way, I heard Mama Lin say that Biqing in your yard is not honest?" He Hui asked casually, and if a girl doesn't like it, just send it away, don't care.

Yang Lan smiled casually, "It's just that there are too many good days, and I'm idle." ”

"If you can't bear it, my mother will help you send it away." He Hui sneered, feeling a little dissatisfied in his heart, and dared to show my daughter's face, this girl really has a big heart.

Yang Lan stretched out her lotus root arm and hugged her mother's neck, coquettishly, "Forget it, let her stay." After a few years of old age, let go out with someone or reward her with a good citizen, so as not to let Biyun and they look at me and think that I am cold, cold-hearted, just a maid, I am not short of people to call, my mother does not have to be angry for her, it is not worth it. ”

He Hui hummed and didn't force it again. Also, it's not worth it to make your daughter anxious, and you can dispose of her at any time if you want to.

After talking to her mother again, Yang Lan went back to the yard.

As soon as my mother came back, many people handed in the post, and they had to be busy with the banquet, and they also had to give gifts to a few clans that were very close to each other, such as Aunt Ping'an's aunt and grandmother, and they had to go in person anyway so as not to be rude.

Yang Lan helped her mother draw up a gift list, sorted out the gifts such as souvenirs she brought back, and sent a clever little maid to give gifts, and by the way, she was visiting with invitations, which showed respect.

These welcome to the key points of the rituals, she also took the opportunity to follow her mother to study hard, the clan connections are also very important to her, this line should be enveloped, and the future can be smooth in doing things and asking for people, otherwise you can be controlled everywhere.

Like Le'an, I can't see it now, and she will suffer in the future. Mother doesn't say anything else, she is still very influential in the clan, although she is not as senior as Aunt Ping'an, but she is also a figure who speaks, that is, she is worse than Aunt Ping'an, and others really dare not say that she is better than her mother!

The matter of this banquet was instructed by her mother, and she followed by her to learn some points, which people are behind what family, what are the outstanding people, whose wife is from the family, and how the children are in the court, they must be written down, and there must be an account in their hearts, those people can go back and forth, and those people are not on the same road, so they should be cautious.

Gift-giving is also particular, poor officials can not give gifts to valuable, people can't afford to pay this is a feud, to give books and real local products, not rude and appear to have face.

Receiving gifts is also exquisite, affectionate and close, gifts do not have to return to the valuable, gifts are exquisite, can not be sent intimate and urgently needed This is the main point; If the affection is shallow, it is not easy to refuse, but the return gift must be a little more equal to the value of the gift; If it is impossible to exchange, the return gift should be worth one percent higher than the gift sent, make a stand, and do not fall into the hands of others. This must be properly controlled, otherwise the master may be attacked and annihilated in the previous dynasty.

After a few days, Rao is Yang Lan has a good memory, and she is also said to be dizzy, her brain is buzzing, it is difficult for her mother to remember, how such a long list of characters is matched one by one, she has no concept at all now, and she still can't recognize who is who when she sees someone!

He Hui said with a smile: "You are young and inexperienced, but after a long time, you will understand, and it is easy to remember." ”

Yang Lan suddenly remembered that tomorrow was the banquet, pulled her mother's sleeve and asked, "Mother, do you think I should prepare a gift for my sister-in-law or something?" ”

"Hehehe! Why is this child confused, you are a sister-in-law, it should be your sister-in-law who gave you a gift, she gave you a gift and then returned the gift. ”

Yang Lan didn't understand it very well, but she felt that it should be right to listen to her mother, and she thought about what to prepare for the return gift! If you don't send a hand-embroidered purse, it is also a meaning, saying that you are willing to be close to your sister-in-law, I don't know what your sister-in-law likes, or it is easy to find some, but unfortunately my brother is not there, otherwise it is good to let my brother run two more times.

She thought about it and thought that it would be too light to send a purse, so she ran back to the yard and turned over the cabinets, trying to find something interesting and cute, pleasing to the girl's favorite objects, and sent it over, and also said that our family is happy with this daughter-in-law, and the sister-in-law likes the meaning of sister-in-law, people must have a good beginning to get along well!

"Master, what are you looking for?" Bi Yue asked cautiously, and Bi Qing stood next to her, ready to take a hand at any time.

Although Biqing didn't go out, Lin Zhang's two grandmothers called a few maids in turn, and gave them a hard beating, everyone deducted their monthly money, and Biqing was deducted for three months.

Now Biqing has been a lot more honest these days, and she doesn't do strange actions, she doesn't say strange things, she just does whatever she wants, but people are silent a lot.

Yang Lan was busy with a lot of things, so she couldn't take care of her at all, so she said to herself: "I want to give my future sister-in-law an interesting and thoughtful gift, but I don't know what my sister-in-law likes?" What kind of gift do you say to give to show importance and not lose identity? ”

Biyue glanced at Bi Qing, meaning that you gave an idea, Bi Qing thought for a while and said: "The girl's house is always comfortable in the boudoir, such as incense, rouge makeup powder, or paint for painting, which can also be circulated in patterns, and there are rare and interesting things, or anecdotes and the like, and the elegant point is that the famous calligraphy of the poetry collection is also an elegant thing." ”

After hearing this, Yang Lan felt very reasonable, clapped her hands and smiled: "I know what I'm going to give, I want to send Hexiang to my sister-in-law, I made Hexiang and the balm to wipe her face, this girl will like it, that's it, I'll go to Lin Fuzi and ask." Saying that, he ran away again with his skirt in a hurry.

Leaving a mess, the chest of drawers was also turned into a mess, Biyue sighed helplessly, and said with a smile: "Clean it up quickly, otherwise when Mama comes in and sees it, she will scold us for being lazy." (To be continued......)

PS: Thank you Long Qingyue, Bing Fei, the pink of the autumn Yanzi, thank you very much, today is the third watch that I said.