1. Deed
Xiaosan is a word that has become popular through the Internet, and it is a derogatory term for "third party".
The meaning of a third party in Chinese law is a person who ignores the traditional concept of marriage and family, wantonly violates another person's family according to his own personal preferences, until the other person's family is dissolved. In folklore, there are also derogatory names such as "fox spirit" (meaning a woman who bewitches men like a fox) and "evil flower". In the current society, the phenomenon of small three is frequent, and it is no wonder that it is no wonder that "life is lonely and monotonous, feelings, interests, and even disharmony in life", etc., it is the lower body of a male animal like a man who "likes the new and hates the old" The idea is at work, on the one hand, it satisfies the vanity of men, and on the other hand, it also satisfies the deformed hope of men.
In fact, every man secretly hides a luxury hope in his heart: "The red flag flutters at home, and the colorful flags outside do not fall".
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Xiao San is different from Er Na, Er Na's starting point is mostly for money, she is willing to be covered by men, she has no financial resources, and she is completely dependent on men to live; The third child is coming for feelings and true love. At first, she may be able to control herself, but she knows that this man does not belong to her after all, and she can only have this man for a long time, but not for a long time. As time goes by, this kind of thinking will slowly fade, and Xiao San will feel that she can really call it a family when she lives with this man, she feels that what a man really likes is him, and the only difference between her and a man's wife is that piece of paper, at this time, it is easy for her to want to replace the man's wife and be the main house herself.
What should we do when our husband encounters a mistress, when someone cheats on us in the family. Is it angry and helpless, or is it to rise up and fight to defend the family and the marriage?
When "She-Pan Xiaoyan" really appeared, we knew that Xiao San was like this····· For two days and one night, infinite wisdom, endless stratagems and even fake emotions, we staged a realistic version of the "Family Wisdom Fighting Little Three", and the matter was resolved quite satisfactorily, but all this became a lingering nightmare in my mind.
Many days have passed, and I've been struggling with it.
Chapter 1 A Bolt from the Clear
On the ninth day of the Lunar New Year, the afternoon of the second day of the New Year's holiday, the work has not yet fully entered the right track, I am leisurely dealing with the work at hand, my colleague Xiao Zhao is chatting with netizens on QQ, and the office is quiet and peaceful.
"In that faraway place•;;;;·····" The mobile phone next to the computer suddenly rang with a melodious singing,
"Hey, hey, who?" I answered the phone a little impatiently,
"Ah, it's Xiaohai, is there something wrong?" My voice immediately became euphemistic,
Xiaohai, my only younger brother, just returned from working in Zhejiang a few years ago.
Xiao Hai on the other end of the phone slurred his words, and there seemed to be something unspeakable.
"Say something quickly, I'm writing materials" I've always been anxious,
"Me, I ·····" The little sea on the other side seems to be unspeakable,
"If you have something to say, you can fart quickly, and you are like a girl" I can't get used to his mother-in-law
"Eldest sister, don't scold me ——, me tell me!" Xiaohai seems to be doing a fierce ideological struggle,
"What's the matter, say it quickly, don't grind" I said this, but there was a faint uneasiness in my heart: could it be that he was in trouble again.
This younger brother has always been unconscious, playing cards and gambling, not committing big things all day long, and constantly making the whole family frightened, every time he mentions it, his mother always sighs and sighs, saying something: I really owe him in my previous life, and I have come to collect debts in this life; The father was even more simply: I knew that he was this kind of goods, and he shouldn't have been asked for him in the first place, so we guarded the three daughters and didn't live like this.
Xiaohai is an adopted son, his hometown Sichuan - he was adopted to my family 32 years ago.
For so many years, his parents have treated him as their own, and our sisters are also very loving, and the eldest sister and I are even more heartbroken for him: he dropped out of school, studied art, fell in love, started a family, and was infertile for many years after marriage, until the birth of two sons······ One by one, it makes people's hair explode when they think about it.
"Eldest sister, that- that woman is here!" After being silent for a long time, Xiaohai finally opened his mouth,
"What woman, where is it, what's going on?" I was confused, I didn't react for a long time,
"It's the woman from Zhejiang, she's chasing her!"
"What that woman is coming! Did you get her here? Or did she come on her own initiative? Where are you now? Hearing this, my head suddenly grew and I couldn't help but ask questions again and again.
——The woman in Xiaohaikou is a good friend he met in business in Zhejiang, that is, Xiaosan, who once caused an uproar in her family······" She, she came by herself, and I arranged to live in Dongzhuang·····"
"What do you live in Dongzhuang, you are talking nonsense, you don't tell her, how does she know that she will go to Dongzhuang, it must be you, a shameless gou, to lure her······ You asked me to say what is good about you, when I was in the second year of junior high school, I swore that I sincerely repented and broke off that woman, and it was only a few days later, and I actually hooked that woman······ What kind of virtue do you have, you still have to face it! I was angry and yelled at the phone.
On the other end of the phone, Xiaohai knew that he was at a loss and didn't say a word.
"Does Xiao Yin know the road?" In addition to scolding, I am still rational - if I am told by my brother-in-law Xiao Yin, I will not make a big fuss.
"No, don't tell her yet" Xiao Haiyang begged,
"Don't tell her, paper can hold fire! What are you going to do with that woman! ”
"I, I'm going to let her live first, and then find her a job, and then talk about it later······"
"What! You actually want her to live, make a house where the red flag does not fall, and the colorful flags flutter outside, you are really shameless! ”
"Hey, that's what I thought, as long as I hide it from Xiao Yin, she agrees with that woman······" Xiao Hai's laughter came from the phone, and I could imagine his disgusting hippie smile.
"You men are not good things, eating in the bowl, looking at the pot, you want me to cover for you, dream!" I have always hated this and flatly rejected it.
"Xiao Yin Zhilu said that he wanted me to make trouble, and I would divorce if it was a big deal, that woman was pregnant, and I couldn't leave her······" Xiaohai's look of love made my heart rise with anger,
"For the sake of that, you want to divorce Xiao Yin! What about those two children, you want to hand them over to the family for the elderly to raise, don't dream - it's useless to raise your son, and raise your grandson, Xiaohai, tell me, for so many years, have you done less······"
I couldn't help but turn out the rotten sesame seeds in the first three years and the next four years, and the more I talked, the more angry I became, the more sad I became, and I choked up.
"I will feed my children, Xiao Yin doesn't want them, I will take them all" Xiao Hai was resolute,
"Yes, take it away, live with that woman, wait for you to have another one, that woman doesn't see the two children as thorns in the flesh, and if you don't make trouble, you will be tortured to death·····" When I heard it, I didn't fight anywhere,
"She's not that kind of person, she promised me that I would be good to the two children"
", you can believe this kind of woman, now that she says this, you are really together, she has not become a tigress, you haven't watched TV or the news, what kind of face are all the stepmothers·····
"I can't do without her now, I have to be with her" Xiaohai still insisted,
"Isn't that woman very good at bed, and she serves you comfortably, and she doesn't even want a wife and children····· I'm dizzy, and I don't hold back,
"Don't worry about it, I have to be with her, how big a divorce is" Xiao Haiqiang reasoned,
"Yes, divorce is glorious, I want to learn from Da Xiang and Uncle Gao! Look at what kind of life they live, you just think about yourself, you don't care about anything, tell me where that woman lives, and see that I don't tear her ······" I gritted my teeth,
"Don't ask about me, hang up" After being scolded by me, Xiaohai hurriedly hung up the phone in a panic,
I hung up the phone on the other end, but I was sitting on pins and needles here, and I couldn't help but scold, scolding, scolding, but I was extremely uneasy in my heart, and I was no longer in the mood to work, so I touched the phone again.
Over and over again, no matter how hard I tried, Xiao Hai still had an iron heart: insisted on divorcing Xiao Yin and living with that woman.
Looking at his obsessive appearance, I knew that the extreme of things must be reversed, if I choke with him again, I don't know what ridiculous things he did - he really patted his ass and eloped with that woman, what should I do with this mess at home!
The top priority now is to stabilize him first, take out the woman's hiding place from his mouth, and then think of countermeasures.
Regardless of my good words, coaxing, and deceit, Xiaohai always clenched his teeth and didn't say where the woman lived, only said that it was in Dongzhuang.
"Xiaohai, I'm really curious, how attractive that woman is that woman can make you swoon!"
"Eldest sister, to be honest, that woman doesn't look good at all, but I like her"
"So what do you like about her?"
"She is gentle, obedient, and 100 times stronger than Xiao Yin, anyway, I just look at her well" Xiao Hai had a shameless face, which made me angry enough.