312 Marriage
Yang Lan thought for a while and said, "My son has been practicing internal family skills since he was a child, and he is practicing children's skills, I have been a sole pet all my life, I have thought about it, no matter who is my daughter-in-law, I will not add any concubines and aunts to my daughter-in-law, I hate those things the most, disrespect." Look at my sister-in-law, my mother never cares about my brother's house, and I don't like my son being instigated by others, who do I go to cry to? ”
When Mrs. Wang heard it, this was a vague indication that there was no one around Brother Yu, and there would be no one in the future, at least the mother-in-law would not add people, which solved a big problem, the talent given by the mother-in-law was the most difficult thing to do, to be honest, she didn't look down on the rules of the noble family, three wives and four concubines, and a big family like them was not allowed to do this.
Even if there is no child, it is better to have a succession, and no concubines are allowed to pop out, this is the root of the cholera family, but all the people with good rules are most taboo about taking concubines, which is also the reason why the Qingliu people don't like Xungui very much, and the inside is very chaotic.
In this way, this county lord looks like he is a bit of a city government, and he is also an open-minded person, so it is a good choice.
Mrs. Wang didn't go around the bush anymore, "My sister has a straight temper, and if she votes for my appetite, I will say it directly, I still have to discuss this matter with my elders and our grandfather, after all, this is a big deal." ”
As soon as Yang Lan heard that there was a door, she immediately smiled, "That's natural, whether it works out or not, I have made a friend of yours, and you can just turn around and give me a letter." ”
"Okay, I'll go back and discuss it with my family before I write to you." Mrs. Wang also smiled and nodded, she liked Yang Lan's cool personality, unlike those ladies from the capital. Say a word around three bowls. If you understand, you'll bury her wisdom. It's a real headache.
Yang Lan let go of half of her heart, although she didn't agree directly, she didn't reject herself immediately, which showed that her son still had hope and went back happily.
A few days later, the news from the Wang family surprised Yang Lan and couldn't help but be overjoyed, thinking that at most it was just a verbal decision, after all, her son had no fame. is still a nobody, it is good to be able to say it verbally, but I didn't expect the Wang family to do things very angrily, and directly sent a message to people to come over with a dowry and make up their minds.
This is simply an unexpected surprise, which shows that the Wang family is optimistic about their future son-in-law, and decided to set the meaning of the dark horse in advance. The atmosphere is heartwarming, which makes Yang Lan value her future daughter-in-law a little more.
Rong Yi also looked relieved and satisfied. The face is also excellent, and he has been busy for several days, looking for a suitable gift, and he has to take his son to hunt live geese.
The next thing is Hou Ye and Mrs. Rong, Mrs. Rong also likes the girl of the Wang family very much, and happily pulls her wife to propose marriage, this time she wants to go in person, so that she seems to pay attention to this matter, and she is also willing to do this, this is a major event for her eldest grandson, sloppy, every family ceremony The old lady has to personally inspect it.
Yang Lan didn't stop her, let her have fun, the old man would have to be busy and have goals to be healthy and happy.
After a month of busy work, he finally got engaged with great fanfare, and Hou Ye specially wrote a letter to the capital to inform relatives and friends that his eldest grandson was married.
After finishing these things, Yang Lan and the others should also go back to the capital and live here for three months in the blink of an eye, and they should also go back, and it will be cold if they don't leave.
Before leaving, the Wang family came to see them off, Yang Lan took Mrs. Wang's hand and said thoughtful words, "You take the child to the capital as soon as possible, the climate over there is colder, and the child has to adapt to it for a while, I think I can wait a little longer, and it will be too late for Brother Yu to become famous and get married, so that the child will be older, and the child will be able to have a child more smoothly in the future." ”
Mrs. Wang was very grateful when she heard this, this is sincerely for the sake of the child, with such a reasonable mother-in-law, her daughter will not have to worry too much in the future, she smiled and nodded, "Don't worry, we have a house in the capital, and we will set off to the capital after the New Year, and we will have to trouble you when the time comes." ”
"What is there to say about this, you write to me in advance, and I will send someone to pick you up." Yang Lan responded in one bite, and the big package was overwhelming.
After saying goodbye to the Wang family and the Cui family, they set foot on the road back to the capital again, Brother Yu was obviously in a good mood, and Yang Lan was naturally happy when she saw her son.
The two families have the good of Qin and Jin, but they are married, but they did not say what specific day they will marry, according to Yang Lan's meaning, they have to wait for their son's title on the gold list. The other is that the girl of the Wang family is only twelve years old, too young to open it yet, a good girl naturally has to settle down first, but the marriage can be a little later, so it is good for the son and the daughter-in-law.
She also doesn't want her son to get married too early, she got married at the age of fifteen or sixteen, she is worried that the child is not qualified, and she is also afraid that she will delay her academic achievements, but she still hopes to be a little late, how can she delay until the age of seventeen to get married.
Rong Yi didn't understand her idea very well, thinking that Yang Lan was just worried that her son would not be able to control her because he was contaminated with women, and laughed at her for being worried, but Yang Lan was very persistent, and even explained the reason to the Wang family, on the grounds that Brother Yu practiced Tongzigong, asked if the marriage could be later, and the Wang family was naturally happy and willing to keep the girl for a few more years and live a comfortable life.
And because Brother Yu is practicing Tongzi Gong, it means that he can't easily break the vows, which means that there will be no concubines or concubines who will come out to get in the way, Yang Lan herself also made her position clear, she doesn't like concubines, and she will never give her daughter-in-law a concubine, such an attitude makes the Wang family very satisfied, and feels that the Rong family is still a good family.
After returning to the capital, Yang Lan began to slowly take over the housekeeping rights, because next year the fourth family will go to Jiangnan to take up a post, and the fourth family also hopes to go with them, so it is naturally better to give up the housekeeping rights as soon as possible.
Brother Yu learned a lot of things from the Cui family, which were not in the books, and after coming back, his horizons were broadened a lot, and the whole person became more and more comfortable and atmospheric, which was appreciated by his teacher.
Brother Yu began to prepare for the exam, ready to win the fame of lifting people, hoping to achieve a good ranking and make his father and mother win glory on their faces.
Yang Lan's housekeeper took out 10,000 taels of silver again to buy a lot of sacrificial fields, this time mainly for his hometown, and he has bought some over the years, but they are relatively few, this time it is a big deal, Rong Yi and Rong Yan brothers bought it together.
The fourth family originally said that they wanted to give silver, but Yang Lan didn't ask for it, she felt that these old four families were also very hard, the housekeeper director was very hardworking, and the old four family was also a decent person, disdainful of taking money from the housekeeper, the account discrepancies were very small, and the flowers were all their own dowry silver, and they did not make money from the public account, which made Yang Lan admire very much.
Therefore, Yang Lan also wanted to repay the favor, if she gave money, it would be too a slap in the face, thinking about it, she thought that she should buy sacrificial fields for the clan anyway, so she simply paid for it in the name of the Rong Yi brothers to have a good reputation in the clan, which can be regarded as her gratitude to the fourth family for their hard work over the years.
The name of the sacrificial field is the name of several boys in their two families, Yang Lan is a little selfish, and wants to keep a hand, the son of heaven and the minister, you can't be sure that the son of heaven will turn his face one day, so you can leave a way for the children to live.
Therefore, Yang Lan bought the sacrificial field in advance in the name of the five Rong family sisters-in-law, in case they really failed to assist the prince, so that the children could still go back to their hometown and have a way to live, and they could rely on farming and reading to start anew.
For Yang Lan's hard work, the old four families were very moved, and even the clan was very grateful to their brothers, the income from the sacrificial field was more used for the food of the clansmen, especially the poor people valued this bit of food, although the Rong family is a big family, but not everyone is rich, not everyone is willing to go to the pole to beg for food, people are dignified, not everyone is willing to accept other people's alms, but the sacrificial field is different, it is a monthly example given by the clan, everyone has it, and the face is better.
After not leaving home for many years, Yang Lan was a little uncomfortable at first, but after about a month, she was almost able to get used to it, and she was much better when she got busy.
Xiao Wu and Ziqing are back, and they are crazy at their parents' house, but Xiao Wu likes his grandfather and second uncle very much, and he is almost to the point of worship, and the first sentence when he comes back is amazing.
"Mother, I want to be a general, a general like my grandfather." Xiao Wu's eyes were shining, scorching and glowing, bright and charming.
Yang Lan was stunned for a moment, looking at her little son who was standing in front of her with her hands behind her back, she suddenly felt that Xiao Wu was very serious, it was a kind of yearning, a kind of original and most innocent dream, maybe she should fulfill the child.
Rong Yi saw that Yang Lan was stunned, thinking that she was worried about the problem of the sword without eyes, so he smiled and comforted: "Don't listen to the child's nonsense, it's just that the father-in-law sees that the child has great strength and is very perceptive, and he looks at the map clearly and carefully, and he is happy in his heart, and he wants to cultivate the child." ”
Yang Lan suddenly smiled and touched his son's head, "Silly boy, the general has to endure a lot of hardships, not only hard training and hard study, but also a lot of bitterness and grievances that you can't imagine, you think about it and come and tell me again, if you don't believe it, ask your grandfather, you will know." ”
She was in a trance, general, how can it be so easy, how much bitterness and blood and tears do you have to endure to become a general, one will succeed and ten thousand bones will wither, who can understand the bitterness in this.
Every year, the Yang family has to allocate one-third of the silver to appease the families of the casualties, give them protection and care, these have to be done quietly, and they must do everything possible not to be too showy, otherwise the emperor will definitely be unhappy.
Although there is a pension, but in fact, many people can't get this money, and there is nothing left in the hands of their families layer by layer. I just accepted it calmly, and my heart was unstable. (To be continued......)