271 Preparation
Yang Lan thought for a while and said, "It's good, but our clan is full of children of the Rong family, will they bully them?" That would ruin the friendship. ”
Whose children are baby bumps, and adults who have suffered a little grievance are very distressed, and it is inevitable that there will be knots in the long run.
Rong Yi was also a little hesitant to say this, "Probably not, there are also children of relatives in the clan who are studying, and not all of them are children of the Rong family, I will let Rong Li take care of them more?" ”
"Then you tell Master Li directly, the good and the bad must be said, let him choose the best by himself, you are asking someone to tell the patriarch and the master, don't let the child be bullied." Yang Lan thinks it is still feasible, but it depends on the child's resilience.
"Cheng, I'll listen to you."
Rong Yi looked at a few books on the kang, Rong Yi picked them up and looked at them, and asked, "What about you enlightening Brother Yu?" ”
Yang Lan smiled and shook her head, "It's not enlightenment, our mother and daughter are idle and have nothing to do, I will play games for him in the afternoon, say some little riddles and read the three-character scripture, I mainly want to develop a good habit of reading for the child, he will not be bored with reading in the future, reading while playing, it will not be too boring, I teach him the numbers in the afternoon, he can learn quickly, but I don't know how many Lu Daominger can remember." ”
Rong Yi was half-lying on the kang, cross-legged to listen to his daughter-in-law's nagging about his son's interesting stories, counting his ears and listening, wondering whether he should teach his son in person.
"Is he a quick learner?" Rong Yi asked casually.
"Well, he memorized all the ten numbers today, and I read the three-character scripture to him, and he will memorize two sentences after listening to it once. But I don't know how much I can remember tomorrow. Yang Lan also felt very proud. The son is smart and sensible, what is more happy than this.
"Don't teach too much. It's not even two years old, you don't need to teach too much, you can usually fill the ear sound, change the Ming you teach him how to hold a pen, and teach him to write when he is three years old. Rong Yi thought about it and arranged it.
"Cheng, I'm just playing with the child, and you have to come if you want to teach seriously." Yang Lan said with a smile.
"Well, there's no hurry. Let him play for another two years, after the age of three, he will enter school, but there is not so much time to play now, don't let him sleep with you at night and learn to separate, otherwise it will be more difficult to separate when he is older, men must be strong and independent, how can they be longer than women's hands. Rong Yi was very dissatisfied with her daughter-in-law always coaxing her son to sleep and telling stories, and felt that she was too doting.
Yang Lan frowned, thought for a while and said, "Okay, sleep alone." But small stories still have to be told, and it is still useful to talk about the truth of being a human being. Besides, what I will write is the story in the three-character classic of filial piety, which can also be told to children. ”
"Well, I know that you are too soft-hearted, a loving mother and a lot of failures, I think that when the children are enrolled, I will let them clean up the outer courtyard as soon as possible, and let them move out, otherwise the children will be taught as if they were girls." Rong Yi shook his head, a little dissatisfied, his daughter-in-law was too soft-hearted, and she was reluctant to touch the child with her fingers, how could this work.
Yang Lan muttered, "How can I be so unreasonable, don't I teach everything I should teach." She pouted, not convinced.
"What do you still say, yesterday he was a picky eater and deliberately sprinkled the food all over the seat, you obviously didn't speak when you saw it, I punished him for standing on the wall, and you still protected me for leaking air, you are not right, you can't do it with me when I punish the child in the future, it will teach the child badly." Rong Yi glared at her dissatisfied.
Yesterday, the bear child didn't like to eat the carrots in the vegetables, so he used a spoon to scatter the food everywhere, Rong Yi thought that he deliberately wasted food and punished him for standing on the wall, looking at the child's face to cry or not, and the aggrieved little appearance, Yang Lan was a little unbearable, and he couldn't help but say more for a while, but the child climbed the pole quickly, and immediately pounced, but Rong Yi was angry.
Yang Lan also knew that it was really wrong for her to do that yesterday, and it would make the child think that she had found a backer and that she could be opportunistic, so she touched her nose and admitted, "Okay, I was wrong yesterday, I won't be silent when you talk about children in the future, if I don't hold back and insist on more punishments and heavier punishments, this will always work." ”
"Hmph." Rong Yi snorted coldly.
"I might have a chance to go out next year." Rong Yi took a sip of tea and talked about the affairs of the court.
Yang Lan thought for a while and asked, "Where do you want to go?" I'll go back to my mother's house in advance to give you an activity, it's easy to get results in a difficult place, and it's not without benefits to a place that is too rich, I think it's more beneficial for you to go to Fujian and Guangdong, my father has taken root there for many years, and the scope of power can not be underestimated, although he has retired, but his subordinates who have been good friends for many years can still take care of one or two. She heard the song and immediately put forward several feasible plans.
Rong Yi nodded with warmth and appreciation in his eyes, "I still want to do something practical, I don't need to be too rich, of course, I don't want to go to the place of political enemies to find myself bored, so I have to bother my father-in-law and his old man when the time comes." ”
"It's not a big deal, Dad has been thinking in his heart for a long time, just wait for the right opportunity. I have a problem, I followed you, what will happen at home? There are still children or not, I am reluctant not to take them, I am afraid of delaying the child's enlightenment, the mother has to take care of the eldest girl, and then the housekeeper is afraid that it will be hard, but the sisters-in-law are about to say kiss, not good in the housekeeper. Yang Lan definitely wants to follow Rong Yi, but she must first figure out the affairs of the family, and she can't come back to the backyard to be uprooted.
Rong Yi thought for a while and said, "A few days ago, my father gave Rong Li the idea of seeing someone's family, and he fell in love with a girl from a Qingliu family, and he planned to go to the door to propose marriage, but the other party already had this meaning." I mean that my mother and sister will be in charge for a year first, and when the new daughter-in-law enters the door, won't someone help me, and you will have to say kiss when you have Rongyan, aren't they all candidates? ”
"Well, then you mean to let my mother and sister take care of it first, and then let people sit on one side, and my mother sits in the formation?" Yang Lan guessed that Rong Yi would not rest assured that the housekeeping power would be handed over to others at will, and it would be ridiculous to have nothing left when he came back.
"Well, don't worry, don't you figure out all this matter at home, compared to the new daughter-in-law, she doesn't dare to break your rules at will, just do it, and if there is a mother to check it, I won't let people change the rules at home." Rong Yi is very relieved about this.
These days, the housekeeper Yang Lan has changed some old rules without leaving a trace, and cut off a lot of lazy and slippery people, one person does the work of two or three people, such as sweeping the floor, used to only sweep the slap place, and now you have to sweep the whole courtyard for me, in addition to this, you have to help me watch someone come to pass the word, in short, people are very busy, there are fewer people than before, but there is more work, but the silver is not more than before, it is still earned openly, naturally everyone is more happy with Yang Lan.
"It's good, I'm just afraid that I won't meet the same as before, then all my hard work will be in vain." Yang Lan muttered.
"No, this time my mother will not hand over the important position to others, how can the new daughter-in-law be presumptuous at will if she has not entered the door for three years, and her mother will not agree." Rong Yi comforted her and said.
"Well, what about Brother Yu? With or without it? Yang Lan is most concerned about this issue, and she can't bear the child.
"I want to take it with me first, and then send it back when I'm six years old, and then it's time to go to the outer courtyard, and then there will be a father, and a father-in-law and uncle, anyone can take a look, and I won't worry about the child being raised crookedly." Rong Yi planned to do it well, how could the eldest son let the eldest son raise it crookedly.
"Well, then I'll ask my father to give a few more pro-soldiers, and then give Mama Yue and my grandmother brother to Brother Yu, they all grew up watching Brother Yu, and Brother Yu can also listen to the words, no one understands that anyone is around to mention it, I don't feel sure." Yang Lan was afraid that the new daughter-in-law would come to the door and come with a Wang Yunxiang enhanced version, she was going to faint, it was best to prevent it from happening, she would not experiment with her son.
"Cheng, it's all up to you, you don't have to worry, besides, with your father-in-law and mother-in-law, how can you not let people raise your grandson crookedly, my father is not happy, this is the eldest grandson, what is a joke." Rong Yi smiled at Yang Lan and was worried.
"Aren't I worried, hey, if it weren't for Brother Yu's future in the capital, I would really have to take the child with me." Yang Lan understands that men can't always be tied to their belts, and the upbringing in the capital is different from other places, not to mention that Brother Yu needs to make friends in the capital and have his own connections, after all, men are different from girls.
"It's okay, when he is ten years old, I'll see how he reads, if he reads well, he will go on a study tour, if he doesn't study very well, he will be sent to his father-in-law's military camp for a few years, and then he will come back after seeing some blood, then he will be a man." Rong Yi is also a family from a military general, so he naturally understands that the upbringing of his eldest son is different from that of other children.
Yang Lan paused, but still gritted his teeth and nodded, "Well, it's all up to you." The voice was a little low, but I agreed.
Rong Yi smiled, "Then you can prepare this year, and when the news is confirmed, I will tell my mother, needless to say, it is too early, maybe Rong Li will be married in the second half of the year, and you can enter the door next year." ”
"Cheng, I know, I'll clean up all the things in the shop." Yang Lan immediately understood, and took advantage of this time to make things happen in the yard again, and the fence was more stable.
"Sleep, Ming'er still gets up early, don't stay up late sewing clothes, he doesn't lack clothes." Rong Yi muttered, pulled Yang Lan to put down his clothes, and went inside.
Yang Lan laughed, and went to sleep with him, Rong Yi was very enthusiastic this night, pulling his daughter-in-law to make love, and didn't ask for hot water until midnight.
Yang Lan got up early the next morning, since there is a plan for the release, I am afraid that I will not be able to come back in the short term, so some things must be prepared early, the dowry shop, the personnel and stewards in the house must be done well, and the account books must be clear.
There is also a need to transfer Mama Yue and Brother Yu to Brother Yu in advance, and ask a few personal soldiers to come over and guard the yard, don't wait for yourself to leave, the people in the yard are bullied and have nowhere to stand, that's not good. (To be continued......)