137 The Art of Manipulating
Su Luoran was lying alone on the bed with a dark fragrance, and there was a faint fragrance between his noses.
"Eh, what kind of perfume do you use, it smells so good, give me a bottle. So when you're not with me, when you smell it, I feel as if you're still with me. ”
With his eyes closed, Su Luoran reveled.
As a result, no one responded at all, and when she opened her eyes, she saw that Fu Qingyao had already closed the door of the dressing room with her clothes.
When she came out, she had changed into a goose yellow knee-length dress, covered with a white shoulder, and held a small bag of the same style in her hand. This outfit, among the movie stars on the red carpet, is definitely low-key to the extreme, and it does not attract the attention of reporters at all.
After all, at this time, all kinds of celebrities, whether big or small, are all kinds of innovative ideas, or expose their breasts or backs, or expose their thighs, or directly see through their outfits.
No one would think that Qing Yao would be like this, wearing an ordinary dress and an ordinary bun, even if she is plain, she has a unique bearing.
Looking at the silence between her eyebrows and those waveless eyes, Su Luoran's heart pounded even more violently.
That's it, Qingyao is like a book, every time you read it, you can read different flavors from it.
You've seen her naughty, her rudeness, her wit, you think you've discovered all of her sides, but the next time you meet, she'll give you different feelings.
For example, this bedroom is like a goblin, a soul destroyer.
Everything fascinated him so much.
And when she quieted down, the unique mellow and quiet between the eyebrows, thin and waveless. It's as if to silence your whole being.
Fu Qingyao turned around in front of the dressing mirror. Nodding his head, he said, "Just wear this one." Anyway, it won't be my home stadium today, so there's no need to think about it so much. ”
If someone else hears this, I don't know how much blood they will vomit secretly.
You must know that there are so many celebrities in the entertainment industry, and the number of places invited to watch every year is also limited, because at this moment, the focus of all the media is focused on this red carpet, and the stars who have won this quota have all tried their best to compete for beauty at this moment.
But Fu Qingyao has such an indifferent attitude, which makes people look so unashamed.
Of course, since it was a layman who was talking to her. What the so-called wife said was right, Su Luoran implemented this truth, nodded and said: "That's right, what's the use of you wearing novelty, everyone values your works." Without good works, no matter how many drinks you participate in, it is useless, you have no value to bring them benefits, and there will be no future, and interests are the most important bundle. ”
Fu Qingyao sat in front of the vanity mirror and began to comb her hair. He seemed to be smiling, "Yo." Sure enough, this time is different from the past, and after staying in the company for a few days, this ideological consciousness is broken! ”
Su Luoran sighed: "That's not it, when I was in the student union before, I thought I was very good, but now I started a company by myself, and when I went out of society, I realized that you were nothing." ”
In these few short sentences, how many sighs were expressed, Su Luoran had absolutely no such feeling in the past.
"But you've learned more from it, haven't you?"
Su Luoran nodded, he especially liked to chat with Fu Qingyao, the two of them had a discussion, just like two people.
It's a very comfortable and sweet feeling.
"Well, during this time, I socialized with a few uncles and uncles every day and learned a lot of things. For example, the most critical point is that in China, you just know how to do things, but it is definitely not good, and it is the key to be able to do things. For example, in the technical industry, there are too many Chinese cattle, just our company, I have dug several technical backbones, there is absolutely nothing to say in technology, much better than me, but interpersonal communication is simply a scum. The salary is extremely high, and the garage is available, but there is no girlfriend. ”
Speaking of this, it really made him feel very emotional.
Fu Qingyao nodded and smeared on her face, "No, whether learning will be secondary, the question is whether the relationship is in place." In fact, even those foreigners who preach the idea of equality all day long, and those who really control economic and political resources, are all "good at things and good at pulling relationships".
Speaking of this, Su Luoran remembered a question.
"The last time I attended a cocktail party, I had a few chats with one of my uncle's partners, and he praised me for my young and promising future, and I will definitely succeed in the future, but I think the definition of success is too broad and too difficult to define this word. Before I met you, I felt like I was all successful. Successfully admitted to the university, successfully won various awards, and was successfully envied by all students. But then I felt like a failure in my life, and I suddenly felt that the greatest success in my whole life was to have such a good birth, especially after going to your hometown. ”
"Seeing so many idealistic, capable and ambitious children, struggling for life, I suddenly wondered, if I were to switch places with you, would I be able to achieve your today's achievement, such success. I kept asking myself in my heart, but there was no answer, and at this moment I realized that my life was not successful, and there was nothing that could truly reflect my own value. ”
Thinking of the days when he constantly denied himself and had no confidence, Su Luoran's tone was infinitely embarrassed.
"If then you are defeated, then you are not Su Luoran." Fu Qingyao said with a smile.
"Well, those blows to me can't even be considered blows, I should say that the shock is not too big. After all, I have the ability to help the people I want to help, and the one who really makes me feel helpless and hit by someone is the real pain. Speaking of this, Su Luoran stretched, "Fortunately, everything has survived, as long as you are by your side, everything can be solved." ”
"I'm like a bodhisattva, and I've always felt that luck is also a kind of strength. If you have a good background, it is your destiny that should be like this, and if you have a bad background, you must work harder, calm your mind, and use your own ability to interpret your own life. Otherwise, what else can I do, I have always felt that life is difficult to measure with a few simple words of "success or not". ”
"What is success? Some people will feel that the family can be together, live a peaceful life, and have no worries about food and clothing. It's success; Some people will feel that they have achieved material satisfaction. It's success; There are also people who pursue spiritual heights. Feeling that you have pursued the truth is also a success. Everyone's life is different, and the definition of success is naturally different. ”
"Just like me, I've always felt that the family can be together, do what they love to do, do what they want to do, and reach their predetermined goals. Then I'm a success. I don't need to compare myself to others, as long as I get what I want, I don't have to care about what other people think and say. ”
"It's a harmony between the material and the spiritual, and it's the life I want. And what I want, is the best. ”
What I want, is the best.
Su Luoran's eyes showed a different color, and he kept chewing this sentence in his heart.
While speaking, Fu Qingyao had already painted light makeup and began to wear her hair in a bun.
Her dresser was full of jars and jars, and she watched her fiddle with it in an orderly manner. Su Luoran sighed secretly in her heart, sure enough, no matter what kind of girl she is. I will never relax when it comes to shopping and taking care of myself.
Even a girl like Fu Qingyao, who seems to have no desires, is really crazy enough when she buys things. Like now, there are a lot of unopened clothes, pants and shoes in his bedroom, all of which are set in sets. If you buy a shirt or T-shirt, you'll be sure to have the matching jacket, pants, socks, shoes, tie and watch.
That time for shopping, he also had his own car, and he had to send it to the parking lot, but this posture decisively scared him.
Because of that set of clothes, it was more fortunate than him staying up late for meetings to make plans. And secretly decided in his heart that he would tell her his size directly in the future, so that she could buy what she liked, and she didn't need to run over to try it on.
"By the way, didn't you say last time that the company had just started, and many systems and plans were still being discussed? I thought about it for a while, and I think that your company can refer to the system of some foreign companies, and match it with China's national conditions, which should have a very good effect. ”
"Well, refer to the big four."
The "Big Four" here are: PricewaterhouseCoopers (PWC), KPMG, Deloitte (DDT) and Ernst & Young (EY) Puhua. The Big Four accounting firms of foreign companies are famous for their high wages and benefits, and of course, the entry threshold and labor intensity are also very high.
"Think about it, why is the Four Conferences so famous, obviously its salary is like that, the intensity is unbearable, and the threshold is higher, but there are still so many people rushing to it. What does it depend on, that is, the vanity and halo in people's bones. ”
"What do young people have, they don't have money, but they have the ability and enthusiasm of youth, you incite a little, promise a small profit, those people will naturally obediently count the money for you and be grateful to you. As long as they are on a business trip, they must stay in the highest local star hotels, they must wear dresses at the annual meeting every year, as long as they hold their badges or business cards, those high-end restaurants in the International Trade Center will give them discounts, and when outsiders mention Qingyu, they will involuntarily compliment themselves and be proud to enter this enterprise. ”
"Only if you raise your own positioning level, can you attract more talents to join this team, everyone has weaknesses, desires and vanity. As long as you master these things, then you will be a successful boss. ”
Su Luoran's eyes flashed again and again, he had never been sure of Qingyu's positioning, but now her words simply made him pause, as if he had found another world.
"So how can we let employees spontaneously burn themselves, let them consciously shine, and maximize profits?"
"It's very simple, first of all, your company's positioning is very high, to what extent, only recruit children from famous universities, and even students from some schools of 985 do not accept it, as long as there are several well-known colleges and universities such as Qingdao University or Zhejiang University. In this way, your company's reputation will be fought in the school, and this threshold is high enough. ”
"It's not enough to have highly educated students, but also to have the ability, so brush down a batch, and these children left behind are basically the elite of the elite, and these children have one characteristic, that is, they are particularly good at learning."
Speaking of this, Su Luoran faintly grabbed something.
In China, if nothing else, as long as a student is particularly good at studying, no matter how many strengths and advantages he has, but there is a characteristic, or a fault, he likes to link his self-worth with the results of his efforts.
It's like the college entrance examination, what is the college entrance examination? It's a standard. What is the standard? A standard used to determine one's own value and that of others.
I am more valuable than you in the score, and this is a quantifiable standard for pricing yourself.
At the company, this set of standards is also very practical.
The work done by themselves is too poor, and those who are used to being excellent and perfect can't stand it themselves and don't need to be taught by their bosses at all. And as long as the work is better than others, you feel that you are better than others.
Even if you don't say it, those heavenly pride will think so in their hearts.
This is a kind of pride, a kind of pride that is not allowed to be spoken and invisible. (To be continued......)
PS: Okay, this is more of last week's update, and it's finally done. There should be another update today, which is today's update. The college entrance examination has just ended, no matter what the results are, I wish all candidates a happy and a good summer vacation. Of course, it's important to think more about your future path.