309. Raising a child is 100 years old, and he is 99 years old
In Wu Jinhan's narration, Yuxi and the others realized that this was what happened.
In fact, this matter is not complicated, Wu Xiulin is married to her classmate, both of whom graduated from high school, but the conditions in the man's family are not good, so Wu Jinhan and his wife were still opposed to this matter.
But the girl fell in love with this family, and the old couple had no choice but to agree, but fortunately, the man's family had a simple population, parents and an older sister, but the sister was already married, so she thought that it would be easier for her daughter to marry in the past than in the Mo family.
The more he thinks about simple things, the more troublesome it often becomes, and the disparity between the conditions of the two families will inevitably cause contradictions in life.
"You say that your aunt wore clothes and shoes or something, and give them to her eldest sister.
The clothes that were not yet on her body, she took them home to her daughter without her consent.
Then again, these are not worth much, just give them, but your uncle's salary is all given to his mother, and your aunt has to pay for the living expenses, which is a bit too much to say.
Not long ago, your aunt and mother-in-law were sick. The old man is a rural hukou, and there is no medical treatment and no reimbursement can be made, and your sister's usual salary pays part of the living expenses, and the rest is spent on clothing and rouge gouache.
As a result, the old lady stayed in the hospital and found that she had no money, so she didn't ask your uncle's salary to pay for the hospitalization.
Which Cheng thinks that there is no salary left, and it is all spent on her daughter, you say that your aunt can not be angry, isn't this quarreling with her eldest sister, the problem is that your uncle also helped her sister count down your aunt, which is not angry and went back to her parents' house to complain......"
Yuxi doesn't think it's all a trivial matter, there is no trivial matter to talk about at home, if this matter is really not handled well, it's not just a matter of being angry. It is possible for a bad couple to get divorced.
patted Mo Xiulin's thigh, "Aunt Lin, you have to deal with this matter well, if you can't correct it, you will be angry for the rest of your life."
The key is my uncle's attitude, it's too much. Her sister is right, you can't blame it, it's okay to help her sister, but it's not right to use her brother's salary without saying a word.
The crux of the matter is that you want your husband to have a correct attitude and position, you can't just open your eyes and bully people, if you don't realize your mistakes, just divorce, such people will get sick in the future.
If only the attitude was good. Realizing what the problem is, you just move out of the house and live by yourself, and rent a house if you don't have a house.
On the old lady's side, you usually go over or hire an aunt to take care of it, you collect your uncle's salary yourself, and her mother keeps it, what's the matter, you two are husband and wife, since husband and wife are the same, the money should also belong to you.
Don't think he's too lazy to take care of his salary. It doesn't matter how much money you have, it's a matter of attitude.
And little grandma, don't help them get money this time. Zhilu said that you feel sorry for your daughter, but this is a family matter, and it really has nothing to do with money, let them go out to borrow it, and pay it back slowly, there is no money. He knew how sad it was to have no money......"
Wu Jinhan really planned to pay for his daughter at the beginning, but he couldn't watch the child make trouble.
But when Yuxi said this, her heart was full of life, and what the child said made sense, and it helped her daughter for a while. She can't help her for a lifetime, what will she do when they get old in the future?
sighed, "Xiulin, you also heard Yuxi's words, it seems that your family's affairs, your mother can't take money to solve everything for you, and some things should be faced by you."
Mom thought that the two of you were not suitable at the beginning, and you wanted to marry this man, but now you should understand it, right? The two of you are in free love, and there should be no problem communicating between the two of you.
You go back and talk to him well, if you can get by, you can live well, if you can't pass me, it's too early.
If the two of you don't solve the matter well, you will have trouble in the future, and there will be no reason for family affairs.
Mom, just the two of you, in fact, which mother has a bad time is worried about this, so don't let your dad know about this matter first.
According to his temper, he has to go over and say that they have to be beaten, and now the situation at home does not allow him to be distracted, so you can deal with it first, and if there is any problem, come back and tell your mother. “
Mo Xiulin was a little angry and couldn't go back, Yuxi smiled and patted her hand.
"Little aunt, negative anger can't solve any problems, you hurry home and deal with your family's affairs, you two talk calmly, say your own thoughts, as for how to do it depends on yourself.
How to live, no one can replace you in this matter, you go back and solve the problem, if it doesn't work, you can go out and rent a house to live. ”
Mo Xiulin frowned, "That house is still shared by our unit, why should I move out, I have to find a way to rent a house for my mother-in-law."
Mom, then I'll go back first, you three are here to accompany your little grandmother, and I'll come back and inform you of any good news. ”
Mo Xiulin packed up her things and left first, Wu Jinhan sighed, "Alas, when the children were young, I looked forward to them growing up, and I have to worry about them when they grow up and get married. ”
Bai Haoran scratched his head, "Little grandma, in fact, you can rest assured that Aunt Lin will deal with it, if you don't let go, the other party will feel that you are their dependence."
Someone pays for it, who doesn't want to, you won't have a penny in the future, and when you go back and forth, you just bring some light gifts to the past.
The money was saved for my aunt as private money, and the two of them really couldn't live together, and with this money, Aunt Lin could live a better life. ”
Bai Haoran's words had the feeling of waking up the person in the dream, Wu Jinhan secretly praised in her heart, she has lived for such a long time, why don't many children see it thoroughly, and she has been living in the belly of a dog all these years.
The look of annoyance on her face made Wu Lei look at it.
"Little grandma, this old man doesn't often say, the bystanders are confused, and we are not in this matter, and we have no distractions, so we can make a correct judgment on this matter very objectively.
You are different, aunt is your heart, there is a little bit of trouble, you are also troubled, this is not a long time, you are not led away by these things in their family, this is the so-called worry and chaos, but you should also think about it in the future......"
Wu Jinhan really admires these three children in his heart, his nephew is really blessed enough, he actually knows such three powerful children, if he grows up, he will definitely not be an ordinary character.
"Alas, little grandma, I will do what you say in the future, and I will not interfere in their family affairs.
By the way, are you going to participate in the competition in the afternoon, do you have a bottom in your heart? ”
The husband asked his nephew to bring the three children back, and everyone in the family knew about it, but she didn't see that these children still had this kind of ability. (To be continued......)