Chapter 547: Find
One more to. 、——
"Mom, I want to go too."
Looking at her little daughter-in-law rolling up her sleeves and eager to try, Lin Yanqiu couldn't cry or laugh: "Xia, look at you like this, you want to fight?" ”
Chu Xia smiled embarrassedly and put down the sleeves that had been rolled up: "Mom, how can I fight like mine to be someone else's opponent, I'm worried that Zhou Mikang is stupid and can't understand." ”
After pondering for a while, Lin Yanqiu nodded: "It's okay, Yu Mingtao's sister and mother are not easy to get along with, I can rest assured that you can help Xiaomi, but you remember, if they want to do it, you should quickly hide behind Xiaomi, don't let yourself suffer." ”
"Mom, I know." In response, early summer quickly chased after him,
Yun Duo couldn't help laughing: "Third aunt, it's really not a family that doesn't enter the door." ”
"Yes, this is fate, Xiaomi has been waiting for so many years, and she has finally waited." When her eyes touched her daughter with a sluggish expression, Lin Yanqiu sighed, "It's all fate, it's all good and bad, and if you meet it, you have to bear it." ”
Zhou Jiping and Yu Mingtao's affairs, Yun Duo also knew about it, so he sighed: "Third aunt, speaking of which Yu Mingtao is still good to Jiping, he is his family, and his personality is a little awkward.
Speaking of which, Ji Ping really didn't say anything about their family, but people, they are so dissatisfied, in fact, they are probably too inferior.
This person, he can't look down on himself, and it's useless how much face others give, Ji Ping, you are also responsible, love and affection are not completely forbearing, you should fight. You have to fight too. ”
"How many times have I said her, I can't listen to her at all." Lin Yanqiu's face was gloomy. She felt that when she was young, Yu Mingtao helped her. She has to remember that love for a lifetime, and now that the Yu family is not as good as the Zhou family, she has to give the Yu family enough face.
It's just that this person's heart is different from people's hearts, she uses her own ideas to measure others, and she is the only one who suffers the most.
Hopefully, after this incident, she can figure it out. Fortunately, everything is still in time, if it is another ten years, what can you do if you figure it out? ”
"Yes, it's not too late now...... Yun Duo took Zhou Jiping's hand affectionately, "Jiping, you have a family that loves you so much, how happy, don't always wronged yourself." Not worth it. ”
Staring at each other for a while, Zhou Jiping suddenly asked, "Yunduo, do you regret it?" ”
"Zhou Jiping!" Lin Yanqiu stared at her daughter dissatisfied, "Why are you so ignorant?" ”
"Third aunt. It's fine. Yun Duo smiled and waved his hand at Lin Yanqiu, looking at Zhou Jiping, "Jiping." I'm different from you, I married Mei Yitong back then. I just followed the advice of my elders, and I felt the same at the time. My parents' marriage is like this, they are very happy, then I should be very happy.
However, some things are not as simple as I imagined, from the day we married him, we treated each other like guests, so, in everyone's opinion, we are obviously very good, never quarrel or fight, why can't we go together?
In fact, really noisy couples are because they regard each other as the closest people, unlike the two of us, no matter how long they are, they can't show themselves openly in front of each other, which can only show that the two of us are really inappropriate.
I remember at that time, what I was most looking forward to was Mei Yitong's business trip or long-distance training, anyway, as long as he was not at home, I was very comfortable, as long as he was at home, I was uncomfortable.
I believe that he and I feel the same way, so when I filed for divorce, I could see that he was very relaxed, in fact, our decision was correct, and after the divorce, we were better off than before.
Now he and I can be regarded as friends, or friends with a better relationship, but in order not to affect each other's lives, we both chose not to contact each other unless there was something important.
Now, I have a relationship I want, and I have confirmed the wedding date, and my heart is very solid, unlike the last time, when I heard that I was going to get married, I felt that my life was coming to an end.
Ji Ping, Mei Yitong and I don't have a relationship between husband and wife, so I didn't feel sad and disappointed at all, for me, I met the right person at the right time, and I could devote myself to it.
But you are different, you love Yu Mingtao deeply, and you have sacrificed a lot for him, so my things have no reference for you, what you have to do is to understand what you want in your heart.
If you feel that you can accept another man without him, then, or one day, you can be like me, but if you feel that you can't accept another man without him, then what you have to do is to have a good talk with him and change the way you get along.
Ji Ping, my idea is that it is very important for two people to get along on an equal footing, if one party pays too much, it will gradually become unbalanced, making the other party more and more taken for granted.
Or, I'm not entirely right, but, I really learned from my own experience, I've been with my current boyfriend, I've had a run-in period, I've had a fight, but now we're very uncomfortable with each other.
He is getting better and better to me, and his family is getting better and better to me, and I won't tell you the truth, at the beginning, because I had been married once, his family didn't accept me.
Or maybe it was because I didn't love deep enough, and I proposed to him to break up at that time, and he didn't promise me anything, just told me, give him a month, and when the time comes, he asked me to see the results of his efforts.
A month later, he took me to his house again, and his family's attitude towards me was the same as before, and that kind of good look was from the heart, not pretending.
Ji Ping, I'm not telling you this, I don't want to show you anything, I just want to tell you that there are some things that you have to let yourself have an attitude, otherwise, how will the other party know how aggrieved you are? Sometimes a man is very careless, it's not that you are good to him, he sees it all in his eyes, and knows how to repay you. ”
"Xie Lu, Xie Duoduo." Lin Yanqiu thanked Yun Duo gratefully and looked at her daughter, "Ji Ping, Duo Duo said this, my mother agrees, you think about it."
After so many years, you also know that your mother never interferes with your emotional decisions, but only gives you auxiliary advice, you can't listen to it, and your mother won't force you.
However, life is for you to live by yourself, and you know whether you are comfortable or not, and this time it is that you are too tolerant, so that the other party gets used to it naturally, and it is the bitter fruit that it will cause. ”
Zhou Jiping closed her eyes painfully and did not speak.
Looking at her appearance, Yun Duo sighed slightly and said goodbye to Lin Yanqiu: "Third aunt, I have other patients, go back first, by the way, I can give Ji Ping liquid food in a while." ”
"Okay, Xie Lu Xie Duoduo, get busy." Lin Yanqiu sent her out of the door, and when she came back, she sighed lightly and sat there in a daze, Zhou Xikang came in with a jar of hot porridge, and when she saw the expressions of the mother and daughter, her face also darkened, "Mom, you and the second sister can eat something." ”
"Okay." Lin Yanqiu responded, took a small bowl of porridge, and sat on the edge of the bed, "Ji Ping, put aside the things you don't understand first, and then take care of your body." ”
"Mom, I don't want to eat."
"No way!" Lin Yanqiu's voice was fierce, "Can you kid not worry about your mother so much?" At that moment, you looked like you were trying to figure it out, why did this make a fuss again? ”
"Mom, no......" Zhou Jiping opened her eyes and looked at her mother apologetically, "I didn't mean to make a fuss, I was too messy to eat." ”
"Second sister, if you can't eat it, you have to eat it." Zhou Xikang sighed, "Besides, the eldest brother accompanied you all night, and before dawn, he ran out of thirty miles to buy you your favorite porridge, are you embarrassed not to give face?" ”
After being silent for a while, Zhou Jiping looked at Zhou Xikang: "Big brother, help me up." ”
"That's pretty much it." Zhou Xikang helped her up, put a pillow behind her, and after Lin Yanqiu fed her a spoonful of porridge, he asked, "Mom, what about Xiaomi and early summer?" ”
"I'm going to find Yu Mingtao." When Lin Yanqiu said this, Zhou Jiping's body was obviously stiff, obviously, she was very nervous.
After Yu Mingtao returned home, he sat in the hall and smoked a cigarette, he couldn't tell what he was feeling, regret was certain, and more, he was confused.
In the family, there was a short period of glory, so short as a flash in the pan, so, his grandparents, parents, and uncles had a special nostalgia for that time, and to this day, they are still nostalgic for the glory of that time when they get together.
Even, they blamed the decline of the Yu family on a big family like the Zhou family, in their opinion, if these families are not rehabilitated, then the glory of the Yu family can continue forever, which is also the source of their dissatisfaction with Zhou Jiping, the daughter-in-law.
He also remembers that time well.
It was at that time that Zhou Jiping fell in love with him.
It was also at that time that he was taking care of Zhou Jiping in everything, not now, his development borrowed the prestige of the Zhou family, when the Zhou family was calculated by the Xiao family and his son, he was also implicated, fortunately, that period of time was short and short, after the Zhou family stood again, he was quickly lifted up, and even transferred him to Kangzhuang Town, which is the most prone to results.
His family said that everything he had earned was earned by himself, and if it weren't for his efforts, it would be impossible to have everything he has today, and as for transferring him to Kangzhuang Town now, if there were no twists and turns brought by the Zhou family in the middle, he would also have a chance.
Machismo, although he denied his family's statement, he thought in his heart that what they said was reasonable, and even looked at everything he got very calmly.
It is only now, when he was kicked out by his mother-in-law, that he really has time to sit down, savor carefully, and reflect (to be continued......