Chapter 459: Showing Favor
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"That's right, if you suddenly become very sensible, I really won't be able to adapt to it." In the early summer, she showed favor and grabbed Wang Jing, "Senior sister, only if the two of us are in a group, the teacher can not be laughed at, I also have a lot of shortcomings, in the future, let's change it together." β
"Okay, let's change it together." After saying it by the way, Wang Jing was a little embarrassed, "Actually, you don't have any shortcomings, otherwise, you would definitely not want to deal with me now." β
"I can't say that, you see, when you have a bad attitude towards me, my temper will immediately become stinky and hard, in fact, whether it is with colleagues and friends or with relatives, this is also a big taboo, what could have been laughed at may be a big trouble.
If it weren't for your sister-in-law's persuasion, the relationship between the two of us would definitely get worse and worse, in that case, in the end, it would only be us and the teacher who would be hurt, outsiders, in addition to watching jokes or watching jokes, right? β
"Yes, now I can figure it out, but at that time, I felt that I was only comfortable when I suppressed you, and there would be a pleasure of 'what if you married a big official, you are not still being bullied', now that I think about it, it is really naΓ―ve."
After a pause, Wang Jing lowered her voice, "Let me tell you a secret, the Wang Feng in the ward just now is actually my cousin, if I look at her, I will definitely be angry to count her a few words and stumble on her, but today, I can control my mood swings and gradually calm myself down, which is really not easy for me." I admire myself myself. β
"She used to bully you, huh?" Hatsu asked.
Wang Jing pursed her lips: "Didn't I be taken by my grandparents for a while, she always scolded me." Say I'm a burden, a broom star. The delicious food my grandmother gave me was always snatched away by her, and at that time I had low self-esteem and didn't dare to fight back.
Later, after being with my aunt, I gradually became inferior, and basically saw her quarrel with her once, anyway, as long as it could make her embarrassed. I was so happy.
Just like her actions today, I can understand at a glance that she doesn't really want to serve her eldest sister at all, she must think that your eldest sister has a good relationship with your in-laws, and wants to get a little light.
Otherwise, with her temperament, let alone come to accompany the bed, even if she has to come to deliver a meal, she can catch the master who will lift the sand into it on the way. β
Of course I could see what she was thinking. I won't hide it from you, her eldest sister's leader is my husband's third uncle, and the day before yesterday we accompanied the third uncle to Qin's house.
Her husband was also there at the time, and he was terrible at first. Later, the flattery was terrible, the so-called chameleon. That being the case, now I understand. It's really someone looking for someone. β
"Hey!" Wang Jing sighed heavily, "After falling out with them." I never went again, and I don't know too much about who she married, but my sister-in-law did mention it to me, but I didn't have a good impression of her, so I didn't listen to it at all.
However, you said that just like a person with a temperament like hers, and then find a man with the same temperament, how do the two get along? I can't imagine it. β
Chu Xia smiled and said: "That's why I'm divorced, and now, I'm looking forward to remarrying, but listening to her husband's intentions, I can't wait to go to her house upside down." β
"Going to her house?" Wang Jing smiled dumbly, "It seems that the man has a brain problem, just her mother, my eldest aunt, is definitely not a master that ordinary people can serve."
My uncle was originally quite a normal person, but it was a bit of a chatter for my aunt to torture, if he intervened in the door, Wang Feng and my aunt would start together, probably not a problem of neurosis, and it was difficult to say whether his life could be saved. β
Chu Xia smiled and shook his head: "It's not that the family doesn't enter the door, it seems that your uncle entered the wrong door, if Qin Sheng really gets into the house, maybe the family can live a special fate." β
"Yes." Wang Feng sighed faintly, "Actually, when I was a child, when I lived at my grandparents' house, my uncle was still very good to me, at that time, his mental state was good and bad, and when he was good, he secretly took good things for me to eat.
Now I don't know what happened to Lu Dao, think about it, I'm also quite unfilial, my dad is not good to me, but, the uncle is good to me, I didn't repay him anything, no wonder they said that raising me is raising a white-eyed wolf. β
Chuxia patted her and didn't say much.
In this era, if the conditions of the man's family are not particularly good, marrying a daughter-in-law is a particularly difficult thing, and even the daughter-in-law who marries the family must be respected, for fear that the other party will run away.
Many people's understanding of marriage is that it is appropriate for a woman to marry into a man's family and have children for the man, and it is also appropriate for a man to earn money to support the family and let the woman and children live a better life, if you can't do it, please shut up.
Thirty years later, there are still some people who think like this, but there are also a large number of people who feel that marriage is the ultimate direction of love, and having children is part of the family.
To put it bluntly, although the child follows his father's surname, she (he) calls you mother, the closest to you, and brings you too much joy in life, and even says, this is your spiritual sustenance, why should you treat this as something to do for others?
Of course, no matter what era it is, most marriages still have a certain purpose, just like her and Zhou Mikang, didn't they do it at first? Until now, it cannot be said to be a completely pure marriage.
When the two returned to the office, Song Xiaoyu was not there, and a note was left on the table, saying that she had gone to the dean's office, and if there was anything, she would go to the dean's office to find her.
Wang Jing picked up a piece of paper on the table and looked at it a few times, and shouted in surprise: "In early summer, experts from Beijing Hospital want to come to our hospital for a period of time, and the assistant will be recruited from our hospital, and we are also on the list of candidates." β
Chu Xia took it and looked at it, and said with a smile: "Senior sister can fight for this matter, me, it's not necessary, the rookie who has only come for three months to fight for this position is too self-conscious." β
"I won't go either, I've been following Teacher Song for so many years, and I'm not interested in any big expert." Wang Jing put the notice back on the table as she spoke, and then pulled the question back to herself, "Early summer, do you think I should go to see my uncle?" β
Chu Xia spread his hands: "I want to say yes, you will say that you don't want to see your uncle, I want to say that you shouldn't, you will say that your uncle is good to you, you don't see him as unfilial, so, my opinion is not important, the important thing is whether you want to see your uncle from the bottom of your heart, even if you meet your father and your stepmother, it doesn't matter." β
"Hey!" Wang Jing sighed heavily, leaning back in the chair, "If I can, I never want to see that woman, when my grandfather sent me back, that woman's son always bullied me, anyway, no matter who is wrong, it's my fault, even if her son knocks a brick on my head, I have to bear it, as long as I block it, it is bullying my younger brother, I will be beaten, such a woman, I don't want to see her in my life." β
"She's done a little bit too much." Chu Xia sighed and said, "However, there are only a few stepmothers who are kind to their stepsons and stepdaughters, you want to open some, if it is you, can you really treat your ex's children without guilt?" β
"What if it were you?" Wang Jing asked.
"I don't know what to do." Chu Xia thought for a while, and then said, "I guess I will be good to her (him), but I don't dare to be casual, my own children, beating and scolding, do not hold grudges, other people's children, if they say a wrong word, they may be remembered for a lifetime." β
"Also, if it were me, I wouldn't want to raise children for others, think about it this way, it seems that I don't hate her so much, but, I must still hate her, forget it, when I really figured it out, go and see my uncle again, I haven't been there for so many years, and he has been doing well, don't let me go, and then make up some of the things that I don't have.
Moreover, I also had to consult my sister-in-law before deciding whether to see him, when my sister-in-law adopted me, she had an unpleasant quarrel with my stepmother, and she and my father did not have much contact with me over the years.
If I run back at this time, it will be bad if my sister-in-law misunderstands, and she doesn't get along well with the people in that family, if I only have one choice, my choice is of course my sister-in-law.
In this life, as long as I have something, I must give my sister-in-law a share, whether she gets married in the future or not, I will be filial to her and take care of her for the elderly, what are you laughing at? You don't believe me? β
"No, it's not ......" Chu Xia waved her hand again and again, "You misunderstood, I laughed at what you said, as long as you have it, you must give your sister-in-law a share, if you get married, what do you say?" β
"I hate it, you catch my words, I'm talking about material, not people, hey, you haven't seen my sister-in-law, she is so beautiful, I used to be so stupid, I thought she really couldn't marry Lu, how could someone with such a beautiful personality and such a good personality not be able to marry Lu? I'm stupid. Wang Jing said with a look of annoyance.
"Don't always regret the past, it's not too late to seize the present."
Wang Jing nodded vigorously: "Yes, it's this Li'er, I'll cook when I go home tonight, so that my aunt can also taste the taste of being served." β
In early summer, he smiled: "The taste of being served should be good, the key is that you must also make the taste of the dish well, so as not to make your sister-in-law turn the enjoyment into pain." β
"You're underestimating me, am I that stupid?" Wang Jing shrunk her neck weakly as she spoke, "Of course, the dishes I cook are not delicious, but I will do my best." β
"Knock Knock Knock ......"
When I looked over in early summer, I saw Zhou Mikang standing at the door, knocking lightly with her fingers, she hurriedly greeted her, why did you come here so early, is there something wrong? (To be continued......)