――By Kansai Niang

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Comment #76

Although the world has gone through so many years of evolution and all kinds of earth-shaking changes, there is still one thing that has not changed.

People's dependence and demands on appearance.

The judgment of appearance has begun since the time of primitive humans, and the ignorant primitive humans did not have a stable mind and culture-related concepts, and at this time, physical constitution and appearance were the absolute factors in judging the superiority and inferiority of a race for primitive humans. In the case of the average physique, appearance has become a factor that distinguishes the good and the bad, and ranks the status.

The history of mankind is almost a short journey of minutes for the entire earth, so this extremely short history is not enough to change the instincts that have arisen since the time of primitive humans. Of course, due to the promotion of modern culture and subculture, as well as the hype of various circles, the exaggerated mentality of chasing appearance has gradually made appearance the basic condition for dividing people into three, six, nine, and so on. So we will be happy to see handsome men and women who are sought after in various ways.

Of course, we can say politely that among them, the vase is the absolute majority, but even then they are confident enough to sneer and ridicule with disdain. After all, it is they who are sought after, and this is the crushing of status.

But what about it?

It is true that physical appearance can be called a person's wealth. However, due to its short shelf life and undesirable qualities, this glossy wealth can only be called the added value of a person's overall value.

What's more, the abuse of appearance has also caused many scandals in many industries and circles. Tearing open the beautiful faces of those involved, revealing all the pitiful, pathetic, contemptible, hateful shriveled souls who have abandoned self-esteem and self-love, and have fallen into depravity for the sake of fame and fortune.

Therefore, hyping up this hard-to-last added value, or even abusing it, is not a suitable choice.

The value of a person's ontology determines whether a person can live a life calmly and calmly. The added value can add to the person, but that's about it.

As for the value of the ontology, you are not unaware of it - health, knowledge, experience, brainpower, ideological height, material wealth. With these, a person will have an excellent temperament and aura. This kind of temperament and aura will not only not discount the beautiful face, but will make it a smart and free intellectual beauty.

Of course, this kind of celestial beings with both talent and appearance can be said to be rare, so there are not so many male and female immortals from all walks of life in this world.

Therefore, you should be able to understand the source of the various tragic fates of well-known vase beauties (the number of handsome men is really small) in ancient and modern China and foreign countries. A beauty, if she does not have the calmness and ability to settle down for herself, even if she has the appearance of captivating the country and the city, is just a disposable prop in the game of power.

Today's society is certainly not as cruel as it used to be. However, I don't want to say much about the people who show off their posture but have no real talent, and even the end of their lives. Being in the appearance association, the crazy men and women who blindly pursue their appearance, the final choices and trade-offs, I still don't want to say more.

I have to thank my parents and God for the way I looked. It's not beautiful, but it's not rough. Not glamorous, but not ugly. I've never been complacent because of my appearance, but I've mastered the tricks and power to make waves in the world around me. I, who have never felt inferior because of my appearance, have the confidence and courage to go to the kitchen in the future. This is the ordinary, and it is also the pride of my ordinary.

The above qiē may be regarded as an excuse for an ordinary girl to make up for her face, but it is still the same sentence, whether a woman is happy or not does not depend on her youth. If she has gone through ups and downs, the vicissitudes of life, and has entered maturity and stability, she can still have that grace and freedom that is invisible to the avenue, at this time, it will be the time for her to be truly happy.