Chapter 358
Although Song Ziwen doesn't have a car, since his brother-in-law Gong Peixing bought a car, he has also driven Lu Road I don't know how many times, Wang Qiqi just wanted to ask Song Ziwen about his girlfriend's situation, he coughed, "Qiqi, do you think if I move out of Lu after marriage, will it make people gossip." "Regarding this problem, Song Ziwen has long been unaware of how many times he has thought about it, firstly, the old sister from the family lives in her mother's house, even if Yang Jing's temper is good, she sees the eldest sister who married out of Lu Dao and lives in her mother's house with a family, and her heart is always a little pimple, and secondly, he knows the temper of the old lady of Lu Dao, there are really few people who can bear her, she really loves to be clean, obviously the family is so big, and there is a child, but the old lady has to clean the house every day, and the people who come to the house as guests say that it is like a hotel, and her sister has already complained about doing housework at home, If it is replaced by a daughter-in-law, especially Yang Jing is not a person who does much housework at home, Song Ziwen really can't imagine how the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will conflict at that time, and what can he do if he is caught in the middle.
Moving out of Lu? This is a solution to many problems, but the problem is, "The daughter lives in her mother's house, and the son moves out of the house with his daughter-in-law, even if outsiders don't say it, will your wife have no idea in her heart?" Wang Qiqi thinks that in fact, as long as Song Ziwen's girlfriend Yang Jing has no problem, and the aunt and daughter-in-law get along day and night is really problematic, just ask how many people will come home from work every day and clean the house, if the daughter-in-law is diligent, then it's okay to say, but looking at Song Ziwen's expression, you can know that Yang Jing is not good at housework. But the problem is that before the habitual brother in China got married, the married daughter lived in her mother's house, although some people talked about it, there would be no big problem, but once the brother got married, the married daughter still lived in her mother's house, and the son moved out of the house with his daughter-in-law, so what do outsiders think, especially what the daughter-in-law and her mother's family think, do they feel that the family property should be given to the daughter.
on the subject. Song Ziwen also mentioned it slightly to Yang Jing, but she really wanted to live with her mother-in-law or was embarrassed to say that she wanted to live alone, she just said that she wanted to live with the elderly, which made Song Ziwen not know how to continue this topic, "I don't know very well, but I really think it's ......."
Wang Qiqi interrupted him, "It's not that you think, but your girlfriend or her parents think, after all, my aunt has a few houses in their hands and savings, plus when my ex-sister got married." Uncle and their large amount of support, will they feel that the Song family's property will be given to their daughter. Although the assets in the hands of Song Yao and his wife are not less than those of Song Wenbo and his wife, and they have big hearts and use loans flexibly, but Song Wenbo and his wife are the kind of people who are steady and steady, and all the houses are not loans, but houses that can be bought as much as the family has, so that the development is slower than Song Yao and them, and Song Ziwen is between the two. Although there is a loan, the amount of the loan is not large, but these are their internal affairs, how could Song Ziwen's girlfriend know so much about it. Everyone sees things on the surface, and these are often prone to contradictions, "Have a good talk with your girlfriend at home, right." Brother, she only has one daughter at home. ”
Song Ziwen thought that he was really thinking too simply, hey. Friends say that getting married is not an easy task, and a little thing that is not handled well often becomes a big trouble, which is not really encountered by yourself, "Well, she is the only one in her family." ”
If you have an only child, it will actually be easier to solve, "If you talk about all the situations, and then say that you are going to buy a house near your wife's mother's house to live in, maybe the other party will agree." "My daughter lives close to my mother's house, and many mothers still like it very much, which means that I can help my daughter-in-law clean up the room when I have time, of course Wang Qiqi knows that there is still a big problem in doing this, "The premise of the day is that you can talk about your aunt." Wang Qiqi can know that if Wang Damei knows that her son will take his wife to live near her in-laws' house after marriage, it is expected that her whole face will droop, and she will feel that this is a manifestation of her son's wealth.
This is the biggest trouble, Song Ziwen felt that if he opened his mouth, the old lady would definitely think it was Yang Jing's idea, "Let's talk about it then, I plan to talk to her in a few days." Song Ziwen is the best The longer this negotiation drags on, the better, but the problem is that if he wants to get married on May Day, this topic can't be delayed, if he can persuade his parents as soon as possible, maybe he can decorate the wedding room before May Day, if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be avoided, simply avoid it from the beginning, save a period of time, everyone is unhappy before moving away, but will leave a bad impression of the other party in his heart.
"You can talk to Sister Yaoyao first and unify your opinions, you know that Sister Yaoyao's opinion is also very important." Although it is a bit too much for a married daughter to participate in the marriage, the problem is that if Song Ziwen wants to move out of Lu to live, one of the reasons used is that Song Yao lives in her mother's house.
Song Ziwen snorted, he didn't say anything for the rest of the journey, drove quietly, of course, he was also thinking about how to win over the alliance and the alliance to reach an agreement, and then talk about moving the two mountains at home, the more Song Ziwen thought about it, the more he felt that this pressure was not ordinary. "I found out that getting married is really a troublesome thing, Qiqi, I really envy you, there is a great possibility that you will stay in the United States after marriage in the future anyway, Han Tao doesn't speak English, and it is unlikely that you will go abroad." Hey, that is, the so-called mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problem does not exist, plus I heard Song Yao say that the relationship between Qiqi and her future mother-in-law is really good, basically eating together, plus the New Year's goods are purchased together.
Going abroad is unlikely? Wang Qiqi doesn't see this way, "Han Tao and I are the only one who is a mother, is it because she doesn't understand English to throw her down." Wang Qiqi knows that according to Han Tao's filial piety and the days when he and his mother have been dependent on each other for life over the years, you can know that once she and Han Tao really settle down in the United States, Luo Hongjuan will also follow her, and then she will be the most troublesome thing, if you want to take your mother-in-law around, you can't let an old lady stay at home alone, of course, these complaints Wang Qiqi will not say it to anyone, in case it is missed, it is our black heart as a daughter-in-law.
Song Ziwen thinks about it, just such a son, I heard that the relationship between his in-laws and his mother-in-law is not good for the sake of Han Tao's father's affairs, if he doesn't rely on this only son to live, can't he stay in China and be a lonely old man? Thinking of this, Song Ziwen felt that Wang Qiqi's responsibilities would be heavier in the future, for example, at least in China, they could live separately, and if they went abroad, they could only face it day and night, it seemed that every family had their own troubles, "Qiqi, you will definitely deal with these relationships." "Qiqi is an all-round person in Song Ziwen's eyes, keeping the family property at a young age, and will think of ways to greatly improve the family's assets, not to mention far away, just say her own sister, hum, she will make such a big leap forward to buy so many houses with bank loans, if there is no Wang Qiqi's idea behind, Song Ziwen will not believe it.
Handled? Wang Qiqi could only smile, although she came back this time and had a good relationship with Luo Hongjuan, but the question was how long she could get along with her in a year, plus Han Tao did not come back this time, she was still waiting for her to convey something about her son.
After Song Ziwen parked the car at the door of a foreign company, he got out of the car and walked to the gate of the factory to wait for someone, he made an appointment with Yang Jing yesterday to drive to pick her up.
Yang Jing had actually been waiting for Song Ziwen in the guard room for a long time, and after seeing Song Ziwen's figure, she pointed to the figure standing at the gate of the factory and said, "That's my boyfriend Song Ziwen, okay, you all saw it, I'm leaving." Originally, according to Yang Jing's meaning, he should have waited at the gate of the factory, but colleagues in the same department had to say that he wanted to see his boyfriend, Yang Jing understood that there were other factors in this, because a young man in the procurement department took a fancy to himself, so he had a good deal with colleagues in the department, that young man's education and conversation were much better than Song Ziwen's, but Yang Jing always felt that the other party was too slippery, and it was okay to talk about friends, but if he got married, he was not a suitable object, so Yang Jing has always resisted the other party. This time Yang Jing and her colleagues said that they had a boyfriend, they all thought they were making excuses, yesterday Song Ziwen said that he would come to the factory to borrow himself, and Yang Jing did not object.
Yang Jing flew out like a butterfly, "Ziwen, you're here." ”
Song Ziwen looked at his girlfriend who was dressed up very delicately today, and felt that his eyes were really bright, although the girls introduced by his family or colleagues and friends were much more beautiful than Yang Jing before, but he just felt that Yang Jing was the most exciting to her, no matter when she spoke or was quiet, "Well, let's go, get in the car, it's cold outside." Song Ziwen knew that the gate of the factory was cold, so he hugged Yang Jing and walked to the car.
After Wang Qiqi saw Yang Jing's figure, she immediately shouted loudly, "Hello sister-in-law." Wang Qiqi noticed that there were a few people at the door of the guard's room who were probing their brains, and they couldn't figure out that they were colleagues of her future sister-in-law, so Wang Qiqi then sat in the back position.
Yang Jing looked at the girl in a red coat and the smell of books and greeted her, she was stunned at first, and then thought for a while, "You are Qiqi." Only Wang Qiqi will ask Song Ziwen to bring him to pick him up.
It seems that Song Ziwen has not said much about himself in front of his future sister-in-law, at least I don't know if it's good or bad, but it's not the point now, "Well, it's the first time we meet, hello, sister-in-law, let's get in the car first, it's cold outside." ”
Yang Jing didn't come first Wang Qiqi turned out to be such a girl, originally she thought she would see a very strong girl, after all, from Song Ziwen's description, Yang Jing came to such a conclusion, but she didn't expect that she would look so weak and elegant, she is really unseemly.
After Song Ziwen got in the car, he quickly flew the car and left, and as soon as the car left the factory gate, there was a discussion in the guard's room, "Ah, Yang Jing actually found someone to drive a private car, no wonder." Everyone was thinking about how Yang Jing could give up such a good man in the unit, and wondered if she was confused, especially Song Ziwen's first feeling that there was no young man from the unit, but he couldn't stand the other party's private car, and what everyone was thinking at the moment was that Yang Jing was also a money-worshipping girl, and the boyfriend she was looking for must be rich in the family. (To be continued......)