Chapter 175: Psychological Hints to Teenage Girls
"My learning weaknesses?" Li Xiaotong was stunned by Meng Li's words, then smacked his thin cherry lips, and said casually: "Except that I don't want to learn, I don't have any weaknesses, if I wanted to learn, I would have been the first to be the first!" ”
"Hehe, bragging." Meng Li smiled but did not speak.
"Don't come to this, don't think that if you sarcastically mock me like this, I will fall for your agitation, is it that if I say that I am not bragging, you will bet with me again, bet on whether I can be the first in the exam?"
Li Xiaotong stared at Meng Li with an expression that I had already seen through you, and she was now highly defensive against this seemingly harmless college student tutor.
"I won't bet with you, don't worry." Meng Li picked up the test paper on the desk and waved his hand: "Judging from the test paper, you are indeed a little smart, and your understanding and imagination are good, but it's a pity that ......"
"What a pity?" Li Xiaotong asked.
"It's a pity that your memory is not very good, otherwise, even if you don't like to study much, your grades will not be so bad." Meng Li directly pointed out Li Xiaotong's biggest weakness in learning.
"It can be seen from the test paper that you answer most of the comprehension questions well, indicating that you usually listen carefully when you are in class, of course, you are just listening carefully in class, from the paper, you have examined the questions of knowledge point memory, and your answer rate is only about 30%, that is to say, in addition to listening to lectures in class, you have basically not studied in your spare time, and have never memorized knowledge, and I guess that you will not even complete the homework assigned by the teacher on time...... Am I right? ”
Li Xiaotong looked at Meng Li in shock: "You...... How do you know so clearly? Is it really from my test papers? Or did my mom sue you? ”
"Director Li didn't tell me about your specific study, and these things can be easily seen from your paper, which is not difficult...... Well, two hours. Time is limited, so let's get down to business and talk about what you need to learn in two hours today. ”
Meng Li found Li Xiaotong's new Chinese textbook for the second semester of high school from the desk.
"Since your biggest problem in learning is poor memory, and you don't like to study very much, in order to make your academic performance as fast as possible, we face the most difficult problem, start with the things that need to be memorized, let's see, is this knowledge really that difficult to remember?"
Meng Li opened the Chinese textbook for the second semester of high school, because the school had just started. This is still a brand new book, Meng Li found two ancient poems from the text, glanced at them, and closed the book again.
Then he picked up the pen and paper on the desk and wrote down the ancient poem he had just glanced at on the paper.
"Wow! Teacher Meng. Have you never forgotten these two ancient poems, or have you memorized these two ancient poems? How can you read it once and write it down silently? ”
Li Xiaotong, who had been watching Meng Li's movements, saw Meng Li open his new textbook and write two ancient poems on the paper at a glance. Suddenly exclaimed.
"Huh. These two poems are less than eighty words in total, and if you want to remember it very simply, as long as you follow my method, you can also do it after reading it. Meng Li said lightly.
"Really?" Li Xiaotong naturally didn't believe it, her own memory was clear, and it usually took a long time to memorize a text of a few hundred words. So she was most annoyed by memorizing things, and then she simply didn't recite anything.
"Of course it's true, okay, come here. Close your eyes, take ten deep breaths, and then think in your heart that you are very willing to learn, really willing to learn, and keep giving yourself mental hints...... Do you understand psychological cues? ”
Meng Li made a mysterious gesture, intending to guide Li Xiaotong to completely settle down and study.
"What's not to understand about psychological suggestion...... But are you sure you can improve your memory this way? Li Xiaotong glanced at Meng Li dissatisfied, she hated it most when others looked down on her.
However, he will be suspicious of what Meng Li said.
Can mental suggestion improve my memory? It was the first time she had heard such a statement.
"Psychological suggestion naturally can not make a person's memory become how good, but it can allow a person to regain confidence in a short period of time, many people underestimate their potential, in my opinion, in fact, your memory is very good, but you usually have too many distracting thoughts, many external factors plus your current memory information on your own is insufficient, guide zhì your memory can not be played...... As long as you do what I say, I promise to let your memory shine! Meng Li said it so firmly that people couldn't help but choose to believe what he said.
The same is true for Li Xiaotong, she hesitated for a moment and decided to give it a try as Meng Li said.
Although she hates studying now, she is not reluctant to make her memory better and her academic performance better.
"Anyway, I'll listen to you for two hours, so try as you say." Li Xiaotong still made excuses for herself, she didn't want to bow to Meng Li.
It's just that after the bet just now, the two people who met for the first time got along a little more naturally.
Meng Li nodded and said softly, "Then you close your eyes and take a deep breath...... Inhale, exhale...... Don't think about anything, let your mind be empty...... Inhale...... Exhale ......"
Meng Li began to use hypnotic language, softly guiding Li Xiaotong to take deep breaths, giving Li Xiaotong hints in her heart, so that she could regain confidence in her memory and believe that her memory was excellent.
Gradually, the distracting thoughts in Li Xiaotong's mind were eliminated, and her mind became calm, she felt that she had not enjoyed this quiet feeling for a long, long time, as if the whole world was quiet.
She also began to believe that her memory was good, but she used to have too many distractions that interfered with her memory.
"Okay, open your eyes, now have the confidence to read it and remember the two ancient poems I just wrote?" Meng Li asked softly.
Li Xiaotong opened his eyes and said firmly: "Confidence, I could have lived after watching it once, and it was like that when I was a child!" ”
Meng Li nodded, he knew that Li Xiaotong was in a state of semi-self-hypnosis, which was the best state, so Meng Li took out the two ancient poems that he had just written down that Li Xiaotong had not yet learned, and put them in front of Li Xiaotong.
"Okay, now on, you'll be able to write it down.
Li Xiaotong didn't speak, stared directly at the paper, she read very carefully, and there was a very special feeling in her heart, that feeling was both familiar and unfamiliar, she felt that she could remember these two ancient poems after reading them once...... So, she read it carefully.
Meng Li smiled and took back the piece of paper on which he wrote ancient poems silently, then handed another piece of paper and pen to Li Xiaotong, and said, "Now you try to write down what you can remember." ”
After Meng Li took the piece of paper away from her eyes, Li Xiaotong recalled it in her mind, and was shocked to find that she could really live in the two ancient poems she had just read!
This shock, Li Xiaotong immediately came out of that quiet state.
How could I really just read it once and remember it? How is this possible?
Li Xiaotong was frightened by herself.
She took the paper and pen in Meng Li's hand and began to write silently.
After a while, she was shocked again, she actually wrote down the two ancient poems that she had not learned and had only read once!
"You look at it and see if the dictation is correct." Meng Li seemed to have expected such a result a long time ago, and handed the brand-new language book to Li Xiaotong.
Li Xiaotong turned to the page of the two ancient poems, compared them, and found that they were exactly the same, and what he wrote silently was completely correct!
It turns out that my memory is really so good, and my poor memory in the past is just a distracting attitude in my mind, and I can't completely calm down and concentrate on memorizing things.
Is this unforgettable?
At this moment, Li Xiaotong thought a lot in his mind.
When I looked up at the dream again, my eyes became different.
"Teacher Meng, did I really do it? My memory is so good that I can't even imagine it myself. ”
Li Xiaotong's "Teacher Meng" is sincere.
Meng Li became unfathomable in her eyes.
Meng Li smiled slightly and said, "You really did it, this is your potential, in fact, your memory is very good, was your memory very good when you were a child?" ”
Li Xiaotong nodded: "I was able to recite seventy or eighty ancient poems when I was three years old, but I forgot them when I grew up, and my memory deteriorated." ”
"That's right, you just developed your potential under my guidance, but if you don't have my guidance in the future, it will still be difficult for you to exert your memory, you need to pass a certain amount of training, when you find that memory thing, you can recover your childhood memory."
Meng Li said half-truths and half-truths.
When people grow up, see more things, and have complex thoughts, they will let their attention be distracted and their memories will be differentiated, so that their memory will weaken, and over time, their memory will become worse and worse. Meng Li just used part of the psychological counseling method to help Li Xiaotong concentrate and increase his self-confidence to memorize two ancient poems.
However, Li Xiaotong was able to memorize two ancient poems after reading them once, not entirely by concentration, but more mainly because of the two ancient poems he wrote silently...... When writing ancient poems silently, every word uses the meaning of the first character of the eighty-one characters in the first layer of the Heart Sutra.
When Li Xiaotong saw the words written by Meng Li, these fonts containing a trace of the mystery of the "Heart Sutra of Creation" were automatically printed into Li Xiaotong's mind, even if she was not concentrating, as long as she read it once, she could remember it.
"You can find two more ancient poems to try now, I won't guide you to see if you can't remember it so easily."
Meng Li quietly folded the paper on which he wrote ancient poems silently, put it in his pocket, and then said unhurriedly. (To be continued......)