Yang Lan has thought about it, and when the time comes, she will take the girls of the Wang family to introduce a few good ladies to the big guys, which can be regarded as a meeting, and when they become relatives, it is time for her to follow the third daughter-in-law to learn housekeeping directors, and the clansmen and clansmen should also get to know each other, take this opportunity to meet each other, and they will be married in a few months, and they can be regarded as their own family.

She also wanted to see how the child's adaptability was, and she had a good number in her heart, although she had not yet married, but with Mrs. Wang with her, it was not too polite.

Brother Yu, who was admitted to Tanhua, was assigned to the Hanlin Academy to study qualifications, which is what Rong Yi meant, he hopes that his son can further learn and practice, and at the same time, he can also sharpen his temperament, young people are always a little arrogant and upright.

But what to do in order to make a person have room to learn, not a word of integrity can be completely encompassed, but also need some sleek means and scheming, as well as how to communicate between colleagues not to offend people, having a good popularity is also good for your career.

These all need Brother Yu to further study, life is not a melting pot, this is knowledge that is not in books.

There are still a lot of things to be busy in the future, taking advantage of the opportunity to hold a large feast, Yang Lan grabbed the eldest girl and followed her and the third daughter-in-law, so that she could see with her own eyes what to do, and she would be able to use it when she went out in the future.

The eldest girl has no mother and grandmother and aunt are teaching, so she learns very carefully, follows her side to help calculate an account, learns very carefully, and asks from time to time, and her modest and cautious attitude makes her let go of her heart.

It was dark that day, Yang Lan didn't sleep in the house, and when Rong Yi came back, he saw it and asked strangely, "Why haven't you slept yet?" Didn't you go to sleep first? Are you reluctant to give me up? He laughed twice.

"Go. I wonder if it's time to teach the kids about personnel in advance. When the feast was over, she was going to leave by boat. She doesn't have a mother, and no one teaches her this, and no one tells her how to get along with husband and wife. Yang Lan was a little hesitant, wanting to go but not wanting to go.

She felt very sorry for this child, and the initial indifference, to the later observation, and then to recognition and liking, the process was very complicated and long. But this child touched herself with her caution, forbearance and kindness, and also made her see clearly that this child's quality is really good, and she felt pity.

How could Rong Yi not know what she was struggling with? smiled and said: "It's okay, if you don't want to go, don't go, her soft temperament can still offend her in-laws, she can't get out of the circle, it's okay." He waved his hand nonchalantly and got ready for bed, giving her a sly smile when she wasn't looking.

Yang Lan felt that she couldn't go away. Those who should tell their children are going to be out of the cabinet. It doesn't hinder you from anything, you have to say it, and you have to do it.

After thinking about it like this, I felt that I couldn't sleep, so I simply put on my clothes and got up, dropped a sentence and said, "I'll go see the big girl, you can sleep first." ”

"Well, light a lamp." Rong Yi turned over and laughed twice, I knew you couldn't help it.

Yang Lan lit the lamp, Lamei helped her to the eldest girl's yard, and the people were startled when they saw Yang Lan, and hurriedly greeted her and asked, "Second grandma, why did you come here, but what orders can't be made?" Summoning a man, we went. ”

"Is the big girl there? I want to talk to her. Yang Lan tilted her head and asked.

The mother-in-law in front of me immediately understood that this was to teach people to say that it was inappropriate to say these things during the day, so she nodded, "Yes, I haven't slept yet." ”

"Well, I'll stay for a while and leave." Yang Lan nodded and entered the house.

Lamei pulled her mother-in-law and said with a smile: "Auntie, I got your bad fish to eat before, you still have it, grandma loves to eat this bite, I want to ask you again, just what you make delicious, the master said let me reward you, I heard that your granddaughter has reached the age, change the Ming you brought it in, let the master see, maybe you can stay." ”

The mother-in-law nodded happily when she heard this, "Zhong, then what am I suitable for?" ”

"Come back after the banquet, I'll give you a letter, I've been very busy these days." Lamei thought for a moment and said.

"Okay, I'll listen to you, I still have it at home, I'll bring it to you tomorrow." The mother-in-law nodded happily.

The two of you chatted with me one by one, and Lamei was waiting for Yang Lan to come out in the pantry.

Yang Lan entered the house, and the eldest girl had already gotten off the kang to greet her, "Auntie, why are you here, sit down, I'll pour you a glass of water, it's easy to get sleepy after drinking tea at night." She carefully gave her a glass of honey water.

Yang Lan took her hand and sat down, looked at the broken hair on her sideburns, and smiled gently, "You have grown up, you will leave in a few days, there are some things I want to talk to you." ”

The eldest girl sat on the corner of the kang with her head bowed, "I listen to my aunt's orders." "Bow your head and reveal a beautiful neck, white and soft as the buds of the first bloom, with a shallow fragrance.

Yang Lan smiled, and her tone was gentle, "You should leave in a few days, your mother will go early, I have to talk to you about some things, you don't have to be afraid to have a round house on the day of marriage, just listen to him, don't resist or reject, experience every change in life with your heart, and find happiness in it, so that both of you can be happy." I can't tell you more, it's enough for you to feel it with your heart. As for the housekeeper director in the future, these are actually very simple, and you will learn it as soon as you learn it. ”

The eldest girl's face instantly turned red as if she was dripping blood, but she still nodded obediently and listened.

"Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along with sincerity, some things to say clearly, don't hide and don't hint, what you think, just say what you think, the world is reasonable, the most important thing to tell you is that you don't get your hands dirty, that will ruin the relationship between husband and wife. Husband and wife get along with each other in communication and trust, no matter what you think, you can talk to your husband first and then do it, it's too late, don't be rash and arrogant, you want to intervene in everything, that is very disgusting.

I heard that his house has a room, but there is only one, you don't have to embarrass others, it's okay to be cold. No matter what she says to you, you have to be more attentive, tell your husband the truth, don't deceive and don't be jealous, what you can do is to treat him sincerely, and he will naturally know your goodness when you are in the room, as for the room, it is enough to keep the rules and restrain her, you don't have to lower your body and talk to her crickets, just ignore her. Remember not to talk about the length of the person behind your back, although Tongfang is not a powerful character, but after all, he has served him for many years, there are still some feelings, you are new to do your best as possible, everything must be frank and frank, keep the bottom line of principles, and you can naturally see people's hearts over time. You remember, you are the eldest woman, and unlike the concubine and aunt, you are the one who can share the hardships with your husband.

When you are in the house, you have to do it yourself to serve the masters, don't push everything to the maids, so it is easy to raise their hearts, as far as possible do not let them into your room, it is too strange for the husband and wife to have more than one outsider, you do your own clothes, shoes and socks, to give your husband and wife a space to be alone, form a habit, others will not dare to enter your room easily, he can be alone with you, talk about what is in his heart or something. On weekdays, you should be filial to your mother-in-law, remember that it is best to ask your father about everything first, and don't make your own opinions, so that your mother-in-law will like it. ”

Having said so much, Yang Lan just hopes that the child can be independent, once she becomes a wife, she will be independent, and she will have to face all the hardships alone, even if she has the support of her mother's family, many things are helpless.

"And the most important point, don't take everything out of your mother's house, don't tell your mother's family about your husband's family, and don't show my mother's attitude at every turn, which will belittle your husband and make him disliked. The day you get married, you are a member of his family, everything you think is for the sake of your husband's family, the ugliness of the family should not be publicized, and you should not think that you are from Rongfu in front of your mother-in-law, it is very remarkable, use this frame to press people, this is the most stupid, and living a small life with your husband in harmony is the best policy. ”

The eldest girl slowly reddened her eyes and nodded seriously, she knew that her aunt was all good for her, no one had ever told her before, and she really didn't know.

"Okay, I've said everything I can say, remember that the newlywed period is your best time, and your attitude at this time will determine what kind of treatment you will receive in the future, be humble and cautious, show the bearing that your family girl should have, don't let people underestimate you, but don't be arrogant." Yang Lan nodded at her last.

"I remember it all, thank you, Auntie." The eldest girl nodded gratefully.

"Well, you rest, I'm leaving." After Yang Lan finished speaking, she felt more comfortable, and finally got everything done.

The eldest girl personally sent Yang Lan to the gate of the courtyard, Yang Lan waved her back, and then took Lamei back to the courtyard.

Yang Lan woke up as soon as she entered the house, "I'm back, I've said everything." ”

"You don't know?" Yang Lan glanced at him, not angry.

"Hehe, I know that my daughter-in-law is the most soft-hearted, and she definitely can't let go of her thoughts." Rong Yi sat up and put his arm around her and undressed her personally.

Yang Lan glanced at him, "I've said everything that should be said, I don't know if I can listen to it, anyway, my responsibility has been fulfilled." ”

"That's fine, she's a clever person, she can understand your hard work, and how she lives depends on whether she can stand up by herself." Rong Yi rubbed her shoulders and persuaded her.

"Well, that's the only way, we did our duty, and she still lives with her own heart, in fact, I think it's not good to marry too far, and my mother's family can't help." Yang Lan shook her head.

"What if she doesn't marry far away? There is such a father, you see that no one has come to inquire about her now, and besides, she is a concubine, and she is a person who picks her identity, and there is one, and the father said that the young man is not bad, and he will come back when he becomes a parent. Rong Yi said with a smile.

"Alright, let's sleep."

"By the way, have you written all the people you invited, and I also want to invite a few colleagues over for a drink." Rong Yi asked suddenly.

"It's almost written, Ming'er will show you, what are you thinking, are you going to deal with the Lu family?" Yang Lan asked with half-closed eyes.

Rong Yi laughed, "How do you know?" ”

"Hmph, as soon as you pout your ass, I know what you are going to do to save up bad water." Yang Lan muttered angrily.

"Hehehe! Or the daughter-in-law understands me. Rong Yi leaned over and kissed her on the face. (To be continued......)