Chapter 325
Fang Monan said with a smile, "How else to say that there is an old man in the family, if there is a treasure, the army flower is sultry major wolf!" ”
"Yes! Those of us who are old people may not know a single word, but the elderly have rich life experience and can be used as a reference for us. Especially the old people in our village sit under the old locust tree every summer, and they like to talk about the ancients, "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" and "Romance of the Sui and Tang Dynasties" are easy to come by. Da Chengzi smiled.
Stone chimed in, "That's right! When I was a child, I didn't have entertainment, and I liked to listen to my grandfather talk about the ancients. ”
Fang Monan smiled and said, "It's rare to have a human body; It is a treasure; people can live to a long time; It's a treasure; The elderly have rich life experience; It is a treasure; as a junior, there is an opportunity to repay the senior, is a treasure. She quipped, "Just think; Aren't you also a treasure in a few decades? Therefore: the old and the old...... All the old people are living treasures!"
"Haha......" Several people were amused by what Fang Menan said.
The fat man smiled, "Back to the above, the four basic principles of life also need to know how to give up, people's time is limited, energy is limited, ability is limited, and funds are limited." Life is short, children are long, and it is impossible for a person to be able to do everything seamlessly, it is impossible to be all-encompassing, everyone is satisfied, and it is impossible for everyone to raise their hands in favor and let everyone support it. Because we are not RMB, we do it for everyone. Three thousand is good for you, eight hundred is with me, no one is perfect, no one is perfect, there is no gold and no gold, things are always divided into two, there are good and bad, only relative, no absolute. Therefore, those who should give up must give up, giving up is an art, only if you know how to give up, will you succeed. Giving up is a tough choice. What to give up? What to keep? How much to give up? How much to keep? Which ones should be abandoned? Which ones should be kept? What exactly do you want? Don't want anything? What to do? What not to do? Life should have its own plan, its own goal, what kind of person should it become, and how should a person spend his life? All of these require a person to weigh the pros and cons, make trade-offs, and learn to give up. Giving up is the art of choosing. Willing to give, willing to give, reluctant to get. If you want everything, you get nothing. ”
Da Chengzi said to the stone, "Listen carefully, these are rare experiences. ”
The fat man then said to the stone, "If you want to succeed, you must endure loneliness, endure loneliness in order to master real talent and learning, and endure loneliness in order to have the confidence to work." Endure loneliness so that you don't think cranky. Self-cultivation refers to a person's efforts to improve one's own quality and ability through study, training, cultivation and cultivation in accordance with the requirements of a certain society or a certain class. Self-education and self-shaping in all aspects are the only way to achieve self-improvement. People always improve their personality through the process of self-cultivation, so that their life realm gradually improves. Self-cultivation is the only way to self-improvement. Self-cultivation is mainly self-cultivation, strict requirements, self-improvement, self-reflection, self-dissection, exorcism and righteousness. Only by regulating oneself can we continue to improve. If a person wants to make progress, he must work hard and earnestly carry out self-cultivation. Self-cultivation can improve the quality of life, and it can also determine the success or failure of a career. Self-cultivation is not only conducive to the integrity of an individual's personality, but also reflects the degree of social civilization. The most important thing in self-cultivation is moral cultivation. Moral cultivation refers to a kind of moral practice in which people transform themselves, educate themselves, form their own moral character, and improve their moral realm according to certain moral principles and norms. Self-exercise, cultivating sentiments, and noble emotions can promote people to achieve great careers and improve their personalities. Emotion is a stable attitude towards things that is unique to human beings, and it is a psychological experience that is linked to people's social needs. ”
He paused for a moment and continued, "Everyone has emotions, but not everyone has noble emotions. It is more difficult to change an emotion than to change an understanding, and the transformation of an emotion requires not only a process of understanding, but also a long-term and even painful process of tempering. Personal cultivation is inseparable from the exercise of consciousness in the practice of social life, and the cultivation of emotions and the sublimation of spirit are consciously cultivated in real life. Therefore, actively devoting oneself to social practice, breaking through one's own small circle and small scope, working diligently and pioneering, not afraid of difficulties, consciously exercising one's tenacious will and indomitable spirit, improving the feeling of natural, social and artistic beauty in social practice and life, and enlightening one's soul and cultivating one's sentiments with various rich and noble feelings and interests in the rich practice of social life is an important cultivation method for cultivating a sincere, firm, simple and tenacious character and shaping a self-perfecting method. Therefore, only by enduring loneliness can we learn knowledge, and only with real talent can we succeed. ”
"The ancients said, 'Self-cultivation, family harmony, governing the country, and leveling the world.'" Da Chengzi said, "Self-cultivation comes first." ”
Da Seiko continued, "You have to withstand the temptation. Now life is colorful, the society is complex and changeable, the current life is colorful, the current relationships are mixed, the current birds and people are all kinds of colors, the current deception tricks are renovated, there are scams everywhere, there are traps everywhere, there are people and demons everywhere, demons and monsters are prevalent, and I am cheating. If you are not careful, you will be deceived, and the birdman will be entangled like a poisonous snake, making you worse than dead. Therefore, we must be able to endure our temperament, withstand temptation, and we must adhere to the "cautious independence" and pure quality. "Prudence" is a traditional method of moral cultivation, which means that even when individuals are alone and unsupervised, they stick to their moral beliefs, be cautious about their words and deeds, and do not do anything immoral, prostitute, gamble, or do low-level and interesting things. Withstanding temptation is the foundation and guarantee of a person's career success. No matter what the situation, whether there is supervision or no supervision, we must be self-respecting, self-loving, and self-disciplined. "Prudence" is not only a kind of cultivation, but also a state of life. Da Chengzi also said, "Only after long-term hard training in practice, insisting on prudence and independence, and strict self-discipline, can the external social norms be transformed into the conscious will and action of the subject; Only by cultivating and cultivating a high degree of consciousness can we have a clear goal, be strong-willed, and be good at overcoming all kinds of difficulties, and only at any time, in any place, persistently, permanently, and not intermittently, and be cautious and alone, and grasp ourselves. He continued, "It may be difficult to do this, we can't be perfect, saints, think twice, but at least don't make a big mistake." ”
Stone nodded, "I'll think about it often." ”
"Tsk...... You two have so many feelings! Fang Menan said with a smile, "'If you are poor, you will be good alone, and if you are good, you will help the world. We don't have such high ideals, but we must strive for the cause, open up for life, be down-to-earth, not boastful, not exaggerated. Because people don't commit easily, they have a lot less mental baggage and psychological pressure; Without impetuousness, there will be more energy to devote to career struggle and research, and return to a free and casual state of life. People must have a normal heart, and plain is true. ”
Da Chengzi, Fat Man, and Stone nodded.
Da Chengzi asked again, "The fat man really plans to open a factory in the Northeast." ”
The fat man nodded, "That's right! I'll go after the New Year. ”
"Count me in, let's go together, and I'll also go build a feed factory." Da Chengzi brewed tea again, "It's time for me to go out too, our feed factory has already radiated a lot of provinces." ”
"Good! I was just about to tell you this! The fat man laughed. Take advantage of the time to actively expand. ”
Fang Monan frowned slightly, and said again, "Fatty, be wary of genetically modified crops and hormones, don't worry, I will give you information on this." ”
"Hmmm! I understand! The fat man nodded.
"What is GMO?" Daseiko and Stone asked curiously.
Fang Menan gave them a brief explanation and let them understand the pros and cons.
"Ahh This is really the imperialist heart that will not die! Da Chengzi said angrily, "If this enters our table and eats like this for a long time, it will really become the sick man of East Asia in the new era." ”
"yes!" Fang Monan slandered in his heart, these have nothing to do with ideology, they have to do with living space, how can the side of the couch allow others to snore, the earth is so big, there are so many resources, in order to survive, either you die or I die, and the law of natural survival is the same, natural selection.
Think about the endless stream of genetically modified soybeans in later generations, 60 million tons per year, as well as corn, rice, etc., even the seeds of agricultural cultivation must rely on imports for 50%, and the remaining 50% Although they are made in China, they have been given a neck to the owner.
What is even more lacking in virtue is that we lack ourselves, those who sell fungus are soaked in formalin, those who sell ham are smoked with dichlorvos, those who sell salt are filled with industrial salt, those who sell yellow eels are fed contraceptive pills, mercury fish, melamine milk powder, lime flour, magic beef, gutter oil, and colored steamed buns, these chemical foods have appeared one after another, and they have really harmed the millennium.
Lay out the layout as soon as possible, and hopefully change something! No one could answer her question, not even herself. Everything looks at money, completely destroys morality, and makes morality have no bottom line.
"Yikes! It's not early, go to bed! The stone snorted and looked up at the wall clock, "It's so late." "Tonight was really teachable.
"Wash and sleep!" Fang Menan stood up and stretched.
The four of them walked out, and the old mother said, "You guys have finally come out." ”
"Huh...... I forgot the time when I talked. Da Chengzi smiled.
"Alright, follow me." My mother smiled, "The stone sleeps upstairs, and the bed is already made in the guest room next to Nannan." She continued, "Daseiko followed me downstairs to the guest room, and the bed was made. ”
The lights in the room went out one after another, and they soon fell asleep. (To be continued.) If you like this work, you are welcome to vote for recommendation and monthly passes, and your support is my biggest motivation. )
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