Chapter 148

My mother sat in such a luxurious cafeteria and said in a low voice, "I guess there are two reasons why the cafeteria is so luxurious: one is that the university cafeteria is a place where students must go every day, three meals a day, and it is a problem to survive without eating. Therefore, it should be the premise for students to eat and live well. The second canteen is so magnificent, who is embarrassed to litter and rude in language, only suitable for a humble gentleman and gentle and elegant. ”

Fortunately, they sat in the corner.

"Poof! Dayan can really think about it. Dad looked around, "You're really right, the meal is extremely quiet, everyone is gentlemanly, and everyone is beautiful." ”

"What a pity! Even though the dishes are very rich, I am still not satisfied, all poached eggs, pancakes, yogurt, bacon, pizza or sandwiches, ice cream, desserts, steaks, salads are all Western food. None of them are for us. My mother said in a worried tone: "Xiaobei! Can you eat enough! And this nutrition keeps up. ”

"Mom, I can eat enough and keep up with nutrition, otherwise how can I surpass my sister's." Mo Bei quipped: "Besides, I'll go home every few days and ask my sister to make up for me." ”

"That's right! I forgot that Nannan is a first-class cooker, better than my mother. At this point, Mom admitted.

After eating, Mo Bei returned to the apartment to continue practicing, and then prepared to go to the elementary school in the afternoon.

As a result, the more I listened to my father and mother's brows, the more wrinkled they became, and they became a 'Sichuan' character, which was really worrying about handing over my daughter to an American school. What kind of school is that! In class, it is like a free discussion, and you can laugh out loud; Teachers and students often sit on the floor, neither big nor small; Going to school is like playing a game; School ends at 3 p.m. every day; There is no unified textbook yet. I'll have to ask this time. Said said.

After school, my dad and the others followed Mebei to the conservatory.

After Fang Monan cooked the meal at noon, he quietly opened the door of the study and poked his head in, Johnson was reading with a book.

When Johnson heard the movement, he turned his head, 'shhh', and pointed to Joseph, who was still sleeping on the sofa bed.

Fang Monan whispered: "It's noon, don't you want to eat?" ”

Hear her question. Johnson put the book down and stood up quietly. He walked over lightly and closed the door to his study.

"Let's have lunch, will you eat?" Fang Menan asked again.

"Eat, I'll eat, Joseph hasn't slept well for a long time, let him continue to sleep!" Johnson thought for a moment.

"That's good! Come here! Fang Mo Nan said.

For lunch, I had Western food, steak, pumpkin soup, salmon, baked apple pie, etc.

Johnson looked at Fang Menan in surprise, "You did it." Can you eat it? ”

Thomas said, "No." Give it all to me, thank you. "As he spoke, he was going to Dwayne Johnson's tray.

Johnson's eyes were quick and he took the tray away. Thomas shrugged regretfully, and the knife and fork started, eating his own.

Johnson put the tray back on, and when he saw that the food inside was full of flavor, he didn't know what it tasted like. Try it, "It tastes good." He commented in his heart, looking at the doctor with some surprise, it was really a real person who didn't show his face. Speed up your meal, and when you're done, continue to watch Joseph go.

After the meal, Thomas brushed the dishes, wiped them clean and put them away. He and Fang Menan were each in the living room with a book to read, waiting for Joseph to wake up. Who knew that he would be able to sleep this time, "The sun will go down soon, and Joseph will not wake up, he will really be able to sleep." He asked curiously, "Nan, how did you put him to sleep." ”

"It's easy! When I was tired, I fell asleep. Fang Menan said.

"Cut! Who doesn't sleep when he's tired and eat when he's hungry. Thomas scoffed.

"If you think too much, you tend to be cranky. He who suspects that he has a dark ghost cannot sleep. Fang Menan said. There are many reasons for this, especially for Joseph, who lives an irregular and fast-paced life. is famous, and the more reporters who pick up dung, take quotes out of context, how to improve sales, and tease everyone's nerves. In addition, family factors, emotional tension, trauma and sequelae of surgery and other factors have increased people's psychological burden. When this psychological burden exceeds the body's limit, it will cause autonomic nervous disorders, such as insomnia, headaches, anxiety, and various ailments. ”

"Yes! In particular, you have to show your perfect side in front of the media, and if you can't expose your shortcomings, you are afraid of being exposed by the media, and then the bad fans will abandon you and be beaten back to your original shape. Thomas said: "No wonder you don't let Xiaobei be exposed, the god is mysterious." ”

"A few of those child stars grew up normally, early love, drug abuse, alcoholism, drug abuse, and ruined their lives." Fang Monan said, "Of course I have to protect my sister, although she studied classical music. ”

"Hey! Think about it, being a star is also tired, not at all. Thomas said.

"There is a give-and-take, become a public entertainment figure, and gain fame and fortune. It's not right to spy on someone else's unscrupulous journalists. Fang Monan looked at the person standing at the door of the room with deep meaning and continued: "But as a celebrity, it seems logical to be consumed by the masses. You can't have it both ways. The most important qualities that celebrities need to possess are self-deprecation and a sense of humor, and a strong heart that is unmoved by external objects. Oscar. Oscar Wilde famously said, "There is only one thing worse than being talked about, and that is that no one is talking about you." By then you should have cried. ”

"You also taught Xiaobei like this, no wonder when she released her first record, the negative news was overwhelming, and she was able to survive." Thomas said suddenly.

"Heaven and earth have changes in surplus and deficiency, and people have the process of birth, growth, weakness, and death, which is an irresistible objective law in nature. First of all, people should understand these truths, do not take themselves too seriously, lift them too high, and relieve themselves of pressure mentally. Fang Menan glanced behind him, and then said: "You have to take things lightly, don't drill the horns, people have nothing before they are born, they are nothing." Born from the mother's womb and turned into a human being, there is. There are from small to big, from big to old. When you are old, you want to die, and in the end, you close your eyes, stretch your feet, and when you die, you have nothing left, and you return to nothing. Whether you have power or wealth, who can take away power, gold and silver?"

"It's empty to come, it's empty to go, so why worry about everything," Thomas muttered.

"Tsk...... You know that. Fang Monan said in surprise.

"Huh...... Jerry's got it. Thomas scratched his head. That old boy is full of energy to learn Chinese. ”

Fang Menan said meaningfully: "A person with a strong heart, even in the so-called adversity of the secular world, his heart is peaceful, confident, and full of happiness. Because his world is no longer just a secular world, he also has his own unique perfect inner world, in this world, he has his own standard of happiness and happiness, and in this kingdom, he enjoys happiness and joy that others cannot enjoy and cannot understand. Nearly 200 years ago, the Danish thinker Gorkegaard lived a life of poverty and a short life, but he was strong in heart and full of happiness in his life. The happiness of such a person is incomprehensible to ordinary people. A person with a strong heart is actually a spiritual nobleman. He was aware of the finitude of man's life, as a human being with spirits, of a thinking man, and at the same time of the infinite nature of the life of thought. He knows how to reconcile his life with his own world of thought, and he is also able to recognize the material standards of the secular world and the alternative coordinates of his spiritual world. Therefore, people with strong hearts often do not lose sleep, are not anxious, do not be impatient, and do the worst in life whenever and wherever they want, but pursue the best. Therefore, all the changes no longer make him feel that the world is suddenly turned upside down, and life will be changed beyond recognition, a firm belief that can support him to live safely. She always believes that the strength of the heart is the real strength.

"It's so hard for you to say, that's a god." Thomas listened. "I don't know how many complicated experiences I have to have, and in these countless complex experiences, I don't know how many right and wrong choices I have made, and I don't know how many different tastes I have tasted that others have not tasted. The so-called perfection is built on the bottom of the mistakes that have been experienced. The realm is enviable, and the process is so difficult. He laughed at himself and explained, "I'd better be a layman." He added, "I don't know if there is anything in this world that everyone likes." ”

"Yes!"

"What?" Thomas sat up straight and listened.

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"Poof......" The sudden laughter made Fang Monan and the others turn their heads to look.

"Everyone loves this person, and no one will dislike it." Johnson said, standing in the doorway.

"You're awake! I can really sleep! Thomas said as he saw Joseph behind Johnson. How, how it feels. ”

Joseph and the two walked out and sat down on the couch, "Looks like you're looking much better." Fang Mo Nan said.

"Thank you." Joseph stood up and bowed in thanks.

"Nothing? That's it. Fang Menan took out some flower tea and incense from the medicine box and said, "These tea leaves can relieve the residual medicine in your body and help you sleep, and these incense can calm you." She handed it to Joseph and said, "The rest depends on what you think in your heart, there are some things that others can't help you." ”

"I understand." Joseph said.

Fang Menan handed him a few packets of Chinese medicine, as well as a prescription. "In addition, although your vitiligo cannot be cured, these medicines can delay and reduce your pain, at least it doesn't look so ...... It's scary. Her voice just fell......

Johnson glared angrily, "What is scary, the wording can't be relaxed." ”

"It's a medicinal recipe that you can ask the chef to cook and eat." Fang Menan handed it to them.

Joseph took the recipe, "I know all the things like rice and millet here, but what is this mung bean?" He looked up at her curiously. (Your support on this site is my biggest motivation.) )