She's a goddess, but you're a girlfriend

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At the end of the story, Ni Hao and Qi Fei were arguing for Qiao An, Ni Hao wiped the shoes left by Qiao An, Qi Fei pouted and said: "Don't wipe it, you can't wear it if you wipe your big feet again." Ni was so angry: "I'm your girlfriend, why do you want to belittle me so much and elevate her!" I'm jealous! I'm jealous! Blow up the earth! ”

Qi Fei didn't raise his head and replied to her: "You are my girlfriend, she is my goddess, can you compare?" ”

The rich and handsome Qi Fei has liked Qiao An since elementary school, because Qiao An was good to him, helped him write his homework, wrote his name, and praised Qi Fei in front of Qi Fei's mother with two bars, Qi Fei liked Qiao An so much, and later he went abroad, soaked in girls, and came back to meet Qiao An, but he still fell. But the prince finally followed Cinderella Ni Hao away, the two of them fought and made a stupid comparison, and the queen fought in the queen's bloody world, watching them noisy and noisy, with a smile on the corner of their mouths.

Reading the whole book here really makes people laugh.

A few days ago, I worked overtime until eight o'clock, and on the way home by taxi, I boarded another **, and there was a girl who called her K, and came to me and said: What should I do if I have a conflict with my boyfriend.

After asking carefully, I learned that her boyfriend had a crush on a girl for four years since high school, and the reason for the crush on that girl was that the girl said to the boy during class, "The teacher is coming, put away the phone", K wanted to cry without tears and said: "Do you say that he is **, he likes others for four years for this reason." ”

I thought about it for a while, and I couldn't bear to tell her that the reason why I became a couple in high school was that the girl borrowed a mechanical pencil refill for the man, and now they are both about to get married. In the past, a person didn't have too many reasons to like another person, but the feelings are not fake, now that we are older, we have more calculations, but there is less attachment to that **.

K pouted and said: "I just can't get used to him saying let it go, I think that girl is like a goddess in my heart, last time I said that the girl was not good, and he also said that I was funny." ”

"Do you know the girl?" I asked K.

"I don't know her, but I've seen her everyone, and I don't feel perfect."

"And is your boyfriend good to you?"

K didn't hesitate and replied to me: "Very good!" After a while, he added: "We have been together for a year and a half, every time I have an awkward relationship with him, he is very patient to coax me, and every time I get angry and break up, he is as anxious as anything, usually too, before and after the saddle." ”

"Girl, do you know, if he doesn't like you, he will be annoyed if he coaxes you once or twice, and you can't get it back if you break up once or twice, understand?"

"I know," K smiled, "but I'm so scared that he has someone else in mind." I'm very scared. ”

That's all for the story.

For many people, they will experience a stage of more obsession and fanaticism in the relationship, falling in love with someone, it doesn't matter if the other party loves you or not, in your heart he or she is perfect, especially if you can't be together, he or she is worshiped as a god, the advantages are infinitely magnified, and the disadvantages disappear, just like the face of a female star in a cosmetics advertisement, a picture as big as a bathtub, and you can't even see a pore.

He doesn't allow anyone to slander her, and he doesn't like people to say anything bad about her. But then what he defended was really the girl you had your eye on? What he maintains is just a person who bears her name, has her skin, and is full of your beautiful expectations for all the gentle details.

Such a girl is in his heart, how can his girlfriend rest assured? But he knew better than anyone else that she was an unattainable dream, and if she was really in front of her and appeared, she would lose her meaning as a dream and become ordinary and mediocre.

A person is good to you, you will know. When he was awkward for you to make trouble for that "her", he held your hand again and again, not to show that he liked it, but that one with freckles on his nose, a little confused, like to be coquettish, occasionally awkward with him, give him a gentle kiss, hug fiercely when leaving, the real girl who lives next to you?

I have heard countless examples of awkwardness for the "goddess" and "ex-girlfriend", there are always girls who can't get over the hurdle in their hearts, no matter how good their boyfriend is to themselves, they don't want to believe that he has let go, so they keep asking, they keep making trouble, forcing their boyfriend to delete the other party's contact information, and the other party occasionally mentions a sentence as if facing a big enemy, "I know you can't forget her!" "It's like a mantra.

But if he really can't let it go, he won't coax you, and if you force him to delete more contact information, he will still try his best to contact the other party. There are no winners on this road, only two loses.

The way to make another person feel your love is not to compare what he has given you with others and what he has given to others, not to keep him from free, or to try to destroy the perfect image in his heart. Tao Yuanming also understands that there is no Peach Blossom Paradise in this world, but it is just like a safe harbor in each of our hearts.

Rather than suffering from gains and losses, and being unreasonable, it is better to be tolerant, consider him from his point of view, and use your concern to explain your concern. When you destroy his safe haven, you are also destroying your own image, and you are defending his dreams as well as your own feelings.

There are so many better things you can do, and instead of making both of you sad, why not make both of you happy.

She's a goddess, but you're a girlfriend.