Chapter 538: Who's Responsible
Chu Tianshu looked at the situation, and knew that he couldn't tell Grandpa Leng Feng clearly, and he was afraid that the old man would have an accident in a hurry, so he didn't dare to tell the old man the truth, so he had to say, Grandpa Leng, can you tell me the contact information between Leng Feng and his parents, we are in a bit of a hurry to find him.
Grandpa Leng Feng has a natural wariness of strangers, and he refuses to say whether he lives or dies.
Liming was unwilling and continued to explain loudly to Grandpa Leng Feng.
Chu Tianshu got up and glanced at it, and saw that there was a wall calendar next to the telephone in the center of the living room, on which several sets of big numbers were written with a pen, thinking that the old man had no relatives and friends in Linjiang, and his eyes were not very good, these groups of numbers should be the phone numbers left by his family, and they were specially written in the calendar book in order to contact the old man.
Chu Tianshu pretended to look left and right, blocking the old man's sight, and recorded these sets of numbers with his mobile phone.
Dawn's voice is getting louder and louder, but Leng Feng's grandfather tilted his ears sideways, stared at his eyes, and asked what you said, and I don't know if he really didn't hear clearly or deliberately fooled Dawn with the back of his ear.
Seeing the dawn fire rising upward, Chu Tianshu grabbed him and said, "Uncle, forget it, let's go back first." Let's discuss together and see what to do next? β
Liming was also helpless, so he had to follow Chu Tianshu out.
On the way back, Dawn was overshadowed, talking to herself again and again, how could Mengmeng get mixed up with a child like Leng Feng?
In order to comfort Liming, Chu Tianshu also wanted to touch the situation, so he kept talking to Liming, and finally had some understanding of the background of Li Meng's runaway.
Li Meng ran away from home after a quarrel with Liming, but the cause is still in her mother Zhu He!
According to Liming, Meng Meng had already had signs of abnormality a month ago, he had been out on a business trip, and Zhu He went to the school to find out about the situation with Teacher Lin.
But that Teacher Lin is too angry and hateful! This is the original words that Zhu He said to Liming later.
Chu Tianshu could imagine what kind of attitude Teacher Lin would have when he saw Zhu He.
Sure enough, with a strong emotion, Dawn roughly described the conversation process he knew about Lu Dao.
That day Zhu He found the school, Teacher Lin's attitude was naturally not good at first, she sarcastically mocked Zhu He in front of other teachers in the teaching and research department: "Li Meng's mother, don't look at you as a professor, you can educate children, you are really a layman." β
Zhu He originally had an opinion about the school, thinking that Li Meng had changed from a good child who loved learning to what he is now, and the school and teachers had a great responsibility. Are you trying to shirk your responsibilities when you say this? β
"What is my responsibility?" Teacher Lin's attitude became worse and worse, she said: "Professor Zhu, don't think that you can teach college students well if you can teach middle school students well. Let me tell you, if you weren't afraid of hurting your face, Li Meng wouldn't have been able to stay in the top class for a long time? β
Li Meng's class is the key class of this middle school, the head teacher Teacher Lin is the teaching pacesetter in Linjiang City, the province's excellent class teacher, she thinks very highly of herself, Li Meng's grades continue to fall behind in the class, affecting the ranking of the class, she has long wanted Li Meng to stay in this class.
When Li Meng learned of this situation, she had a rebellious mentality, so she simply worked against Teacher Lin, ran to the worst borrowing class in the school every day, and got to know Leng Feng as soon as she came and went.
Leng Feng's class is a borrowed class, and they are basically children with poor grades.
Considering Zhu Yongzhi's special status, the principal of the school has always disagreed with Li Meng to change classes, and only asked Teacher Lin to grasp Li Meng's studies in the short term.
Mr. Lin had a strong opinion on this, and he had a dispute with the school leaders about it.
About she also had a fire in her heart, and she just took advantage of this stubble to vent her dissatisfaction on Zhu He.
Teacher Lin didn't expect that Zhu He was better than her and more sincere than her in how to be a teacher.
Zhu He grasped this sentence, and reasoned with him, and the two became arguing with each other, and the scene was so radical that they finally talked about the principal.
But this time, the principal did not criticize Mr. Lin, but rebuked Zhu He very unceremoniously: "As a parent, you can't just take care of your own career and ignore your children, you have a certain social status and your career is relatively successful, but you must learn to care for your children, learn to communicate, and learn to make friends with your children." β
"Don't talk about these big truths!" Zhu He began to lose her temper, she thought that the principal and the homeroom teacher were shirking their responsibilities and excusing the school, which was not right. If a student has a problem, the school first has to review its own education, and the school will take the blame for everything, what kind of school is this?
Zhu He said: "I hope you can explain, what have you done in addition to instilling meritocracy in children? β
Teacher Lin hurriedly said: "Today's children have to rely on grades!" β
Zhu He said: "But my family's Mengmeng grades were originally very good, and when she was in the unified examination for high school, she was among the top ten in the city, and you took the initiative to ask her to come to your school!" β
Teacher Lin was not to be outdone: "This is to ask you as a parent, she drinks, skips class, and has early love, do you know these things as parents?" Ever cared? β
"But she became like this at school!" Zhu He was angry, she didn't want to shirk her responsibility as a parent, she wanted to take advantage of Li Meng's changes to make the school wake up, and not to beat her to death with a stick as soon as she saw her child's grades slipping. She was very dissatisfied with the education method based on grades, and was even more annoyed that Teacher Lin wanted Li Meng to transfer to another class.
Zhu He quarreled with the school for more than an hour, but in the end there was no result.
The next day, Li Meng began to skip school, she thought that her mother was making a lot of noise at school, which made her very faceless in front of her classmates, Teacher Lin said that it was acceptable for her to drink and skip class, and said that she was in early love, she couldn't accept it, which made her feel insulted.
All right! You say I'm skipping school, so I'll run away to you!
All right! You say I'm in early love, then I'll show you love!
This is what Li Meng thought at that time.
In those days, Liming was very busy, and there happened to be a big order to do, flying around every day to accompany customers to inspect and negotiate, and so on this list, I went back and asked Li Meng about her study, only to learn that her grades had declined, not to mention, and often followed the children in the borrowed class to skip class and go online or shopping.
Liming was in a hurry, and he wanted to talk to Li Meng when he had breakfast today, but he lacked the patience and methods to communicate with Li Meng, but he was robbed by Li Meng and made his donkey skills poor.
He was very angry, and the words he said were also very radical, and it was probably those radical words that made Li Meng completely lose confidence in this family, and finally made the move of running away from home.
Chu Tianshu listened to Liming's narration, and his heart was also full of feelings.
Whose fault is this?
School? Teacher? Parents? Child? It seems that there is something wrong and there is nothing wrong.
Under the existing education system, the whole society is revolving around the baton of the college entrance examination, the advantages and disadvantages of schools, the high and low level of teachers, the honor and disgrace of parents, the good and bad of children, almost all need to be evaluated by scores, rankings and promotion rates, and all the pressure is passed on to the children who are not yet adults, their immature shoulders are overwhelmed, followed by adolescent rebellion, similar to the tragedy of Meng Meng running away from home is staged almost every day in all parts of the country.
Chu Tianshu thought that if he could one day be in charge, he would first try to free the local children from the shackles of scores and create a space for them to learn freely.
Alas! Thinking of this, Chu Tianshu smiled silently again, feeling that his idea seemed too naΓ―ve.
In today's increasingly fierce education industrialization, the college entrance examination is still the only fair arena for ordinary children, the so-called quality education, the so-called independent enrollment, the so-called guaranteed recommendation, these measures for the reform of the education system, the most reckless or mere formality, or hiding dirt, did not bring good news to the children of ordinary people.
Back at Zhu Yongzhi's house, when Zhu He heard that Li Meng ran away with a boy who was borrowing a class, his legs were weak and he almost fell to the ground, but fortunately, Ning Xin was next to her and helped her to the sofa.
Cold Front, Bad Boy, Runaway...... These words were stirring in Zhu He's heart like a stirrer, and they were about to crush her heart.
It's terrible that her daughter ran away from home with a bad boy!
Meng Meng, Meng Meng, go home, Mom loves you! For a long time, she made an affectionate call in her heart, and at this moment, she really understood what a mother's responsibility was.
A black cloud rose and covered the room heavily, and Zhu He felt like he was about to suffocate.
Mrs. Zhu cast her hopeful eyes on Liming, waiting anxiously for him to speak.
However, Liming didn't know what to say, he looked at Zhu He on the sofa, and then at Zhu Yongzhi who was sitting upright, and said nothing.
Liming's attitude was difficult for Mrs. Zhu to accept, and she said excitedly: "My granddaughter, you drove her out of Lu, you have to get her back for me!" β
Dawn's face changed, and her body trembled uncontrollably, almost uncontrollably.
Mrs. Zhu asked again: "What about my granddaughter, what happened to her?" β
Facing the condescending posture of the old mother-in-law, Liming, who wanted to be angry, suddenly became speechless, let out a long sigh, got up and walked into the study, took out his mobile phone and kept calling, asking familiar people if they had seen Li Meng.
Mrs. Zhu was so angry that she trembled, and Zhu Yongzhi, who had been silent, opened her mouth.
"Wishing Crane, Dawn!" Zhu Yongzhi got up suddenly and said angrily: "Look at the two of you, don't you look like parents." Mengmeng has come to this point, and the responsibility lies with you! β
"Dad......" Zhu He wanted to say something, but he couldn't say it in his throat, and he endured it a few times, but he still couldn't hold it back, and tears flowed out.