Volume 4 Chapter 47 Good Mother Psychology enlightens ignorant boys

Huang Tingting was a little unhappy about Han Ming peeking at her bath, but she didn't blame the child, she wanted to see what Han Ming's attitude was towards it while dealing with it coldly. When Hamming finally admitted his mistake to her, she was very happy.

"Mom, I was wrong!" Han Ming apologized to his mother with a ashamed face.

"Tell me, what's wrong with you?" Huang Tingting asked.

"I—I peeked at my mom taking a shower, I'm a little rascal!" The words were squeezed out of Hamming's mouth with great difficulty, and his face was as red as a purple eggplant.

Seeing Han Ming's embarrassed appearance, Huang Tingting couldn't help laughing. "Hamming, you're a good boy, not a rascal!"

Han Ming was confused by his mother, "I peeked at my mother taking a bath, why am I not a little rascal?" He asked, puzzled.

At this time, Huang Tingting suppressed her smile and enlightened Han Ming with a serious face. "Han Ming, in ancient times, people of all ages, men and women, young and old, were naked and calmly opposite each other, and there was no secret about each other's bodies, and then people gradually put on clothes, but at that time they wore clothes to protect their skin and keep out the cold. Later, people gradually developed a sense of shame and used clothes to cover their shame, and the nudity between men and women could not be seen casually, especially after the woman's curvy body was wrapped in clothes, it became particularly mysterious and seductive in front of men. ā€

Speaking of this, Huang Tingting looked at Han Ming, and Han Ming lowered his head in shame. Huang Tingting asked softly, "Han Ming, are you curious about your mother's body?" Do you want to know what Lu Dao's mother's body looks like after taking off her clothes? ā€

Han Ming waved his hand again and again and said, "No! No! ā€

Huang Tingting said a little unhappily: "Han Ming, you didn't tell the truth!" Aren't you curious about your mother's body, why do you want to peek at me in the bath? ā€

"I, I ,??????" Han Ming was speechless.

"Son, you are a boy in the hazy period of youth, and the woman has caught your attention, but the woman is a mysterious word to you, and you want to know what a woman is like but you can't know. Some boys like you, driven by intense curiosity, will look for opportunities to peek at their moms or sisters taking a shower. Han Ming, did you see your mother's body that time, in fact, there is nothing mysterious about a woman's body, and there is nothing to hide from her children, such as our woman's breast, which is a breastfeeding organ. If you still want to see it, Mom can show it to you again! After reading it, you won't feel mysterious. Do you want to see it? ā€

Huang Tingting unbuttoned her blouse with her hands, she wanted Han Ming to look at her breasts again, which made Han Ming ashamed and embarrassed. He waved his hand to Huang Tingting and said, "Mom." I won't watch it, and I'll never peek at you in the shower again! ā€

Huang Tingting said: "Han Ming, you are a boy in puberty, peeking at a woman's body is difficult to avoid, my mother has been engaged in education for many years and has studied educational psychology, I can understand you, you don't blame yourself!" But you are still young and lack self-control, and every insignificant detail in life may affect the formation of your outlook on life. So I'm still going to criticize you for peeking at your mother's bath! You are now a student, and from now on, you should stop thinking nonsense, and you should devote your strong intellectual curiosity to your studies without distraction, and strive to become a person who will benefit the country and the people in the future. That's what mom hopes for you. It's also Daddy's hope for you! ā€

"Mom, don't worry! I will definitely be a good boy with excellent character and learning! ā€

In this way, in the face of Han Ming's psychological problems in the budding period of youth, Huang Tingting did not use simple and crude methods to teach children. Instead, the method of cold treatment and frankness skillfully resolved the child's heart disease. Since then, the mother and son have become closer and returned to their happy life. But it didn't take long. and because of a man, Han Ming had an emotional rift with Huang Tingting, and this man was the school's teaching director.

In the early days of the Cultural Revolution, he was stationed in the county education bureau as a member of the workers' propaganda team to do leftist work, and then he was sent to Huang Tingting's school as the teaching director.

Chen Jianguo is in his forties, with a medium build, broad shoulders and a square face, his voice is like a bell, his aisle carries the wind, and his gestures reveal the simplicity and ability of the working class. Chen Jianguo came to work from a deep ravine and has a wife and a son in his rural hometown. Because he works outside all the year round, his wife is found by his parents in his hometown, he has no emotional foundation with his wife and his personality is incompatible, so he does not love his wife and children, he divorced his wife a few years ago, and now lives a single life. When Chen Jianguo came to work in the school, he was immediately fascinated by the beauty and temperament of the female principal, and the longing for women and love that had been suppressed for many years in his heart was reawakened, so he always looked for opportunities to contact the principal Huang Tingting in the name of discussing work.

At first, Huang Tingting admired Chen Jianguo's positive and serious attitude towards work, but when Dong Jianguo came to her to discuss work more and more frequently, some trivial matters also came to ask for instructions and discussed, and sometimes even came to her house after work to talk about work. When he came to Huang Tingting's house to talk about work, he often brought some vegetables and fruits and other things.

Dong Jianguo is a simple person, he is not good at expressing his emotions, let alone using words to express his love for a woman, those words of love and love are too numb for him to speak. So his love for Huang Tingting is expressed in such a clumsy way, hoping to make Huang Tingting understand his thoughts. Huang Tingting is a person who understands, and she has doubts about Dong Jianguo's motives for frequent contact with her, and even the child Han Ming can see that the teaching director is pursuing his mother.

Although Dong Jianguo is pursuing Huang Tingting, anyone with a discerning eye can see that these two people are really not a good match. But Dong Jianguo has been carried away by his unrequited love for Huang Tingting, he can't see the huge gap between himself and Huang Tingting in terms of cultural knowledge, temperament, cultivation and living habits, and simply thinks that by virtue of the working class is the leading class, and his glorious identity as a member of the working class will get Huang Tingting's love, because in that era, as long as you are a glorious People's Liberation Army or have the identity of a great working class, it is easy to get a woman's love. Under the domination of this kind of thinking, Dong Jianguo chased Huang Tingting more and more, and finally one day he said to Huang Tingting that he wanted to marry Huang Tingting as his wife. Huang Tingting rejected him very tactfully on the grounds that she enjoyed her single life and didn't want to get married! Huang Tingting's refusal did not calm down Dong Jianguo's pounding heart, he still kept confessing to Huang Tingting, and he was determined not to stop until he reached his goal!

In Huang Tingting's eyes, Dong Jianguo is a simple and decent person, and he has many good morals of the working class. Although Dong Jianguo's education level is not high, he is diligent and hardworking in his work, and he is a conscientious and responsible teaching director. Huang Tingting thinks that Dong Jianguo is a good subordinate at work, but they are by no means on the same path in the emotional world. In the face of Dong Jianguo's persistent pursuit, it is necessary to resolutely refuse without hurting his self-esteem, how to deal with the relationship between the two? Huang Tingting made a difficulty.

One day after dinner, Dong Jianguo came to Huang Tingting's house to talk about work, Huang Tingting felt that she had to make a break with Dong Jianguo neatly, and she couldn't drag it out like this anymore. She didn't want Han Ming, who was doing her homework on the side, to hear the conversation between them, so she asked Dong Jianguo to go out for a walk, and Dong Jianguo happily agreed. (To be continued......)