Chapter 1019
"I just want my mother to help me, you can see my current body,......" Yu Tao said while pointing to his bloated body, "I have seen a doctor, and said that the way I look now is not normal, and I must take care of it."
Just like my mother-in-law said, I will definitely not rest assured that others will help me take care of the child, so I have to trouble my own mother, my mother should be filial to your part, I will do it for her! ”
"What about me?" Yu Guangjiu stared at his daughter with a dissatisfied expression, "Your mother went to take care of you, who will take care of me?" ”
The fire in Yu Tao's heart came up: "My mother is sick, are you embarrassed to let her take care of you?" ”
"You also know that your mother is sick, so why are you embarrassed to let her help you take care of the child?" Yu Guangjiu replied.
Father said this, Yu Tao is really dumbfounded, yes, don't let my mother take care of my father, is it possible, let my mother take care of my granddaughter?
It seems that with this kind of gentle method, it is really impossible to completely solve the matter, is it necessary to really turn the other cheek? Although she thought so at first, she still didn't want to come this far until she had to.
Of course, it's not that I'm worried that without the support of my mother's family, my mother-in-law will look down on me, as far as the Zhou family is concerned, there will never be such a possibility, and it's not that she is in love with the Yu family and reluctant to be at home, but she doesn't want her mother to be embarrassed.
When I was angry, I wanted to break with the Yu family, pick up my mother by my side, and have nothing to do with the Yu family from now on, but, if you think about it, it is unrealistic.
No matter how bad it is to treat my mother at home, it is a place where my mother has lived for decades. Let her leave from now on, she will definitely not be able to accept it in her heart. Although the eldest brother, second brother and younger sister are not good to their mother, it is impossible for their mother not to worry about them.
If she didn't know Zhou Xikang at the beginning. If you don't get together with Zhou Xikang, won't the Yu family be what it is now? She asked herself this question countless times, but there could be no correct answer.
When she was young, her parents didn't have a good relationship, but they still got along well with their brothers and sisters, especially between her and her eldest brother. It can almost be described as having nothing to say, at that time, it must have been the eldest brother who helped her get angry when she was bullied.
After the eldest brother got married, because of the sister-in-law, the relationship between the brother and sister gradually faded, but compared with other brothers and sisters, they were still the closest, until she married into the Zhou family and refused to help the eldest brother change jobs. The relationship between the brother and sister really fell to the freezing point.
The sister-in-law who didn't like her very much in the first place, every time she looked at her, her eyes were cold.
Between the second brother and her, there is already a sparseness. Seeing that she rejected her eldest brother, she didn't even mention it, but. The relationship with her is even weaker than before.
As for the little sister, she has been comparing with her everywhere since she was a child. When she married into the Zhou family, her little sister blew wind in her ears. I hope she can help her find a good man, the implication is that you are married, but you can't just take care of yourself.
Over the years, the relationship between her and her family has become weaker and weaker, even if she gives back to the Yu family far more than any daughter can give, the family is still not satisfied.
Because in their opinion, others are married to ordinary families, and they are too busy to take care of themselves, so how can they have the ability to help their parents' families? And she is different, she married into a big family like the Zhou family, and became the grandmother of a big family, so she naturally has to pull her mother's family up, even if she can't compare with her in-laws, she is a hundred times stronger than ordinary people's families.
In fact, in terms of facts, with the help of the Zhou family over the years, the Yu family has been more than a little stronger than ordinary people, but unfortunately, this is far from satisfying their desires.
Therefore, under this asymmetry between supply and demand, the relationship between the two sides is becoming more and more tense......
For her father, she has no feelings, I believe that not only her, but also the eldest brother, second brother and younger sister, feel the same way about her father - in this family, there is no difference between him and him, and even said that if there is no him, they will only live better.
Good gambling, good at beating his wife and children, smoking and drinking - this is Yu Guangjiu.
But Yu Guangjiu also has an advantage, that is, filial piety.
What Old Man Yu said to Mrs. Yu, he will implement it without discount, and because of this, his good gambling and beating his wife and children, Old Man Yu and Mrs. Yu not only don't care, but often excuse him.
In the past, Mr. Yu and Mrs. Yu lived in several families in turn, but since she married into the Zhou family and changed a more spacious house to her parents, the old couple has always lived in their house.
In such a family, Cong Qiuying, who was supposed to be the owner, has become the most statusless outsider, if you arrange it in order, the ranking of status in this family is like this - Old Man Yu, Old Lady Yu, Yu Guangjiu, Yu Gang (eldest brother), Yu Qiang (second brother), Yu Xiang, Wang Meiyu (sister-in-law), Li Xinlan (second sister-in-law), Yu Mei, Cong Qiuying.
If the second uncle and aunt come over, together with the nephews, nieces and nephews, the status of the mother will be even more backward.
A woman's position in her mother-in-law's house is given by her husband, which is not bad at all, because Yu Guangjiu's contempt for his wife led to the fact that all the people in the Yu family, including the juniors, have no respect for Cong Qiuying.
If it weren't for her mother, Yu Tao would never have asked the Zhou family to help them transfer such a big house.
Originally, their family lived in a small suite, but the Zhou family was rehabilitated, and when the items were returned, they compensated their family for the house, so that her parents and brothers and sisters-in-law moved to this large suite of more than 100 square meters.
In this era, this kind of house is extremely scarce, and it is definitely not something that can be lived in with money, which is not only a matter of living comfortably, but also a symbol of status!
Then, as a matter of course, the grandparents moved in.
She didn't stop at the time, because she felt that everyone knew that her closest person was her mother, and she created this condition for her family, not looking at the face of the monk and seeing the face of the Buddha, everyone should also have more respect for the mother.
At the beginning, everyone did give her this feeling, until two years later, she was infertile, and she didn't know when they showed their true colors, it turned out that what she saw was always fake, and her mother's so-called status was higher than before, just cooperating with them to act.
At that time, she was very angry, but it was easy to ask God to send God, and she didn't want her in-laws to know about this kind of family ugliness, so in the end, she could only endure it.
Unexpectedly, her patience reaped their intensification.
If this time, handle it like this again......
Suddenly, Yu Tao made up her mind, and she looked at Yu Guangjiu indifferently: "Dad, why did you marry my mother?" ”
Yu Guangjiu didn't expect his daughter to ask him this question, he was stunned, frowned, and said, "Why else is this?" When it's time to get married, you have to get married. ”
"Why my mother?"
"Why is that?" Yu Guangjiu snorted coldly, "I knew that she had this kind of temperament, and I wouldn't marry her if I begged, and I knew the death star with her elbow turned out all day long!" ”
"In other words, you regret marrying my mother?"
Yu Xiang, who already felt that something was wrong, shouted: "Second sister, your parents' affairs are solved by your parents themselves, what's the matter with you mixing here?" If your future child is so mixed with your marriage to your brother-in-law, can you be happy? ”
"Mom, do you regret marrying my dad?" Yu Tao looked at Cong Qiuying, and her expression was particularly strict.
"I ......" sighed, Cong Qiuying smiled bitterly, "What do you regret about this, isn't every woman like this?" Marrying a good man is your own blessing, and marrying a man who doesn't hurt you can only blame yourself for your bad life.
However, after giving birth to a few of you, my mother doesn't regret it at all, my mother thinks that her life is worth it, peach, don't worry about my mother in the future, live your life well.
You have given enough for your family, and in the future, no matter what anyone asks, you don't have to agree......" Instead, she looked at Yu Guangjiu, "I know, you have always disliked me."
Back then, if it weren't for the small bride price that our family wanted, and there was no other person with you, you wouldn't have married me, and after you got married, you didn't like me everywhere, and no matter what I did, you didn't feel right.
You compare me with other people's daughters-in-law everywhere, and think that other people's daughters-in-law are good everywhere, and I feel really guilty for delaying you for so many years, so let's go and divorce the marriage, and I won't drag you down in the future. ”
"The beauty you think!" Yu Guangjiu glared at her with red eyes, "Do you want to leave me and live a good life with your daughter?" Dream! ”
"Yes, in order for my daughter to live a good life, I have to leave you, I have to let her break off from this family, you one by one, are you her relatives?
It's just a matter of calculating her, even her man is calculating, is this what people do? It's a good thing that Tao'er is married to an upright man, otherwise, wouldn't you be angry with you?
In the past, I always thought that as long as time goes by, you should be different from when you were young, but now that I look at it, I am really stupid.
Before, I didn't want to leave you, but in order to let the children have a complete home, in order to keep the children from laughing, I endured it.
Now that the children are adults, I have nothing to bear, whether I go to enjoy the happiness with my daughter, or suffer myself, it is more comfortable than living with you! ”
"Mom......" Yu Tao looked at Cong Qiuying with a surprised face, she didn't want to make a fuss, but she was afraid that her mother would be reluctant to give up this home, but now it seems that she really underestimated her mother!
"Tao'er, Mom is weak, but not a fool, Mom also knows what you are afraid of......" sighed, Cong Qiuying smiled bitterly, "Mom knows even more, you are reluctant to let Mom suffer alone, but, compared to being dragged down by Mom alone, and being dragged down by this big family, Mom is still selfish." (To be continued......)