The atmosphere in the ward has become less dull, and grandpa's hints and mediation, intentionally or unintentionally, have eased Luo Qishan's mood a lot, and I think Yan Cone may also be deflated, right? Grandpa said so much, it is impossible not to be touched by him, he is a smart person, he should understand grandpa's meaning and good intentions.

It's just, does Yan Cone really think so?

said to buy fruits, but it took a long time to come back, the key is that there are a lot of fruits in this ward, all of which were sent by Du Cheng and Asa, do you still need Yan Cone to go out to buy them? He just took the opportunity to walk away because he talked about sensitive topics.

The corridor in the intensive care ward area was quite quiet, and the man who bought the fruit walked slowly, as if he was deliberately slow. When I walked to the door of the ward, I stopped, wondering whether I was thinking about the problem or whether to go in.

At this moment, the door of the ward opened, Luo Qishan came out, and saw Yan Cone empty-handed, but she was not surprised at all, and asked casually: "Didn't you buy fruit, why didn't you buy it?" ”

Yan Cone did not change his color, and said lightly: "The fruit in the commissary at the door is not too fresh, so I don't want to buy it." ”

"......" Luo Qishan was speechless, can this man be a little more boring? Bear two faces under one hood! Obviously I didn't really buy fruit!

A hint of resentment appeared on Rosisanne's pale cheeks, glaring at him, and pulling him by the arm......

"Come here, I have something to tell you."

"But I don't have anything to say."

"You don't have to say it, just listen to me."

“……”

Yan Cone twitched the corners of his mouth helplessly, and followed Luo Qishan to the corner of the aisle.

Luo Qishan was actually a little lost and sour in her heart, she could feel that he hadn't lost her anger yet, but this kind of thing couldn't be forced, she could only be patient.

The two fell silent for a moment, and he just looked at her quietly...... The milky white tweed coat is paired with a blue sweater, without makeup, and the face is plain. Simple makeup can't hide her natural beauty, the clothes set off a more bright and clear skin, pink lips smeared with lip balm, a light layer of luster makes her honey lips look very delicious, if the freeze attracts people's attention, can't help but want to have the urge to take a bite......

She is clean and youthful, but her coquettish eyes at the moment faintly reveal a bit of bewitching style, falling on Yan Zun's face, looking at his gaze, Chu Chu is moving, indescribably charming.

"She looks so good in everything she wears......" Yan Cone couldn't help but say this sentence in his heart, but he wouldn't say it.

Luo Qishan looked at his posture and knew that he would not take the initiative to speak, so she had to sigh lightly: "Don't you do this?" If you feel uncomfortable, just scold me, or give me a beating, don't you always hold back, okay? I'm really afraid that there will be an invisible gap between the two of us, which will put the relationship we have built up before in jeopardy. The most terrible thing is not that there are contradictions, but that you know that there are contradictions but are unwilling to solve them, blindly avoiding them, even if you may be fine in a few days, some shadows will accumulate in your heart and slowly become a knot that you can't get over. That's the last thing I want to see, you know? ”

Luo Qishan said it very bluntly, and Yan Cone didn't understand. He raised his eyelids and said lazily, "Are you really sure you want me to scold you?" ”

"Yes, I'm sure. As long as you don't hide your bad feelings, as long as you tell me, I think it's better than if you ignore me so coldly now. If you don't feel happy, it will only get worse if you hold it back, and only when you say it will you be comfortable and get by. You shouldn't be unaware of such a simple truth. Lotsia looked firm and brave, bright, full of anticipation.

She is a brave woman, and the light in her eyes at the moment makes Yan Cone tremble slightly...... The fleeting look of regret between the eyebrows was quickly replaced by a coldness.

"Okay, since you have to say it, then I'll say a little." Yan Zun's calm tone was filled with a chill that made Luo Qishan's heart palpitate.

"In Jinhong No. 1, after you were poisoned, you said that it would take half a year to get pregnant, but in fact, the discharge of residual poison only takes two or three months, and then it will not affect pregnancy, because you are not deeply poisoned, and the rescue is timely. But you said that it would take half a year, and the real reason was the birth control pill. You used the poisoning to cover up the fact of the contraceptive pill, you didn't plan to confess to me at all, if it wasn't for Sister-in-law Chen who found out that you were hiding the contraceptive pill, you would continue to hide it from me. Luo Qishan, are you behaving like this to treat me as a husband? Do you have a sense of family? Don't forget that we are husband and wife, shouldn't we confess to each other? Shouldn't we discuss big and small things with each other? In the final analysis, you actually have not entered the role of marriage and family from a single life, you are used to making your own decisions, have you ever thought that you are not alone now, you have a husband, you have a family, every decision you make will have a huge impact on me and you, but you are still only in the single period of thinking! Reflect on it, am I right? Yan Zun's expression was stern, and the depth in his eyes made people feel like a boulder pressing on his heart.

Luo Qishan froze, her beautiful cheeks were white and red, and her ears were hot, not excited, but surprised and ashamed.

There is no single life to enter the role of marriage and family. This sentence simply pierced the point in the bottom of Luo Qishan's heart, and it hurt her heart.

But this sentence is also like a slap in the face, and it woke her up fiercely!

Yes, she has been single for the past twenty-five years, and she is not like many young people in modern society who actually started to get married* long before they got married, and started to live married life early. She used to do what she wanted, very comfortable, very free, all kinds of heavy decisions, and she could make her own decisions when she became an adult, and she never had to worry about anything. And now, she is married, and it is no longer a world of one person, no longer a single person who can do whatever she wants, and every major decision she makes will be shared by her and her other half.

Yan Zun's tone gradually softened a little, and his face became less cold and hard: "Maybe what I said was a bit heavy, maybe you think I'm making a big fuss, but that's not the point...... The point is that we should all think clearly, from single to marriage, there is another person in one person's world, how we should go on, what to do, in order to maintain and manage our relationship and marriage. In this regard, I am not good enough, we all need to introspect, improve, and learn. The subject of marriage is too complicated, it is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along, we must find a suitable way and method, otherwise, even if we pass this hurdle, there will be more violent conflicts in the future. You and I should think about it...... I'm sure you'll understand what I'm talking about, it's not that I'm still angry with you, but that we have too many deficiencies to improve, and I hope you can understand what I'm talking about. ”

Luo Qishan stood still, Yan Cone had already entered the ward, leaving her alone to blow the cold wind by the window where she had walked.

Yan Zun's attitude, Luo Qishan had no anger, no resentment, because she was awakened, what he said was right, but she hadn't felt it before, and now she was suddenly broken by him, and there was a kind of enlightening effect.

Luo Qishan was deeply immersed in Yan Zun's words just now, she was not stupid, she instantly realized that an important key she needed to understand was - will she really live married life? Even, she and he are now eager to have children, but have they really thought through the various problems after giving birth?

Luo Qishan only felt a chill on her back, became unusually calm, and her brain was much more flexible, thinking of all kinds of questions, she understood...... She and Yan Cone are like two travelers walking in the desert, suddenly seeing an oasis, they can't wait to drink water and want to be full, but in fact, overdrinking is prone to problems. She and Yan Cone are too eager for a beautiful love to happen to them, when the other party enters their sight and begins to be tempted, the feelings that have been stored for twenty or thirty years erupt all of a sudden, too eager to have love, ignoring that the two before marriage have no feelings, lack of understanding, and have no plans for the life situation and future after marriage. It can be said that in the hearts of this couple, there is no concept of what married life is like.

Marriage needs a run-in period, and some people think that they have passed the run-in period before marriage* or in getting along, but in fact it is not. Therefore, some people often complain that their life after marriage is completely different from that before marriage, that is, the run-in period has not passed.

During the run-in period, some couples are fortunate to adapt to married life after the run-in period, while others fail in the run-in period and then go their separate ways......

Yan Cone and Luo Qishan belonged to the run-in period after realizing that they had entered the run-in period, and the fierce collision produced sparks, and after hugging each other warmly, they found that they were not ready at all. To put it bluntly, the two are in love, and marriage is just love?

Love is beautiful, marriage is complicated and difficult, who can reap happiness, who doesn't get it after bumps and bumps?

Luo Qishan left the hospital silently, not feeling unwilling, not unconvinced. She needs to calm down and think about it, does she really need this marriage? Do you really plan to bear the "unfreedom" brought to you by marriage for the rest of your life?

Yan Cone had to think about the same thing as Luo Qishan...... He wondered if he really loved Luo Qishan and could tolerate her for the rest of his life. Not for his grandfather, not for his mother, not for anyone, just for himself, should this marriage still exist? If he were given a new choice, free to choose without family pressure, would he still marry Lokishan?

This is definitely the biggest test faced by the couple, the contraceptive pill is just the fuse, the most important thing is not this, but a huge collision of the two people's knowledge and understanding of marriage, concepts and values and outlook on life! [There will be an update in the evening]