-- A technique that boys mistakenly think can make girls happy

Some boys think they are proficient in coaxing girls, but in some cases it backfires. The theme of this year's survey was "Techniques that boys mistakenly think can make girls happy".

■The girl's head cannot be touched

"If you don't like someone, it's completely counterproductive. It may even be disgusting because it is too intimate." (25 years old)

"A lot of men thought it was going to be popular. In fact, it will mess up the girl's hair, which is super annoying." (29 years old)

Nearly 50 people cited the act of "touching the head". Basically, it's not a "person you like" or "someone you're dating."

■It's not feasible to show your true masculinity?

"Help lift heavy loads. It's really a heavy thing, it's okay. If you have a little something, you don't need to help at all." (27 years old)

"When you walk into a place, take cover behind it. It varies from person to person, and some people behave like this disgusting." (31 years old)

"I think it's good to just exercise." (aged 56)

I think I'm showing my manly nature, and maybe I'll scare the little girl away.

■A very dragging tone

"People who shout 'how are you' when they open their mouths are super annoying." (aged 26)

"I think people who shout 'come with me' are the ones who make the mistake. If you really have the heart, the action will make people feel more happy. Let's say giving gifts or something." (30 years old)

"Boasting about yourself, counting your own history of prestige or something." (32 years old)

Most girls don't like to be called "you" (おまえ). Instead of boasting about how good you are, it's better to give gifts in a practical way.

■Preconceived misunderstandings arise

"Texting too many emojis" (27 years old)

"I thought girls liked flowers and puppets. And the pink stuff, I don't really like it." (31 years old)

"Don't think that the princess can make a girl happy by hugging and giving pink things." (29 years old)

In addition, there are "exchanging love stories" and "frequent text messages", etc., which are also things that boys mistakenly think girls like.

Of course, turnip greens have their own preferences. But unilateral imagination is often the beginning of misunderstanding. Don't assume that she'll be happy to do this, but take a closer look and learn the tricks to make her happy.