"Give me a copy of the Yangcheng Daily." Zhang Ying said while taking out the money.

"I'm sorry, the Yangcheng Daily is sold out today," said the newsstand owner, "or how about you buy a copy of the Peak Newspaper, the newspaper industry is quite hot today." ”

"The Pinnacle? How come I've never heard of it? Zhang Ying said in a skeptical tone: "The boss said, you won't recommend the newspaper that can't be sold to me, right?" ”

"How is it possible, I have never had a person in this newsstand here for ten years, I don't believe you go to the neighborhood and ask, how is my old Zhangtou's reputation in this area." The newsstand owner, Lao Zhangtou, heard that Zhang Ying didn't believe him, and he was so anxious that his face was red.

"Well, yes, I was wrong." Zhang Ying daoqian.

"But I really haven't heard of this "Summit Newspaper", I am also a person who likes to read newspapers, I know all the newspapers in Yangcheng, big and small, is it a newspaper from other cities?"

"It's not from another city, it's a newspaper in Yangcheng, but it's normal for young people to not know, this newspaper is newly opened, and this is only the second issue." The newsstand owner said with his head open.

"Can the new ones sell very well?" Zhang Ying was strange.

There is time for the rise of every newspaper, unless it is to find the kind of current affairs critics who are particularly awesome at the moment to attract popularity, or to open up the novel section to pull one or two top authors to serialize novels, I don't know what kind of situation is the situation of this "Summit Newspaper" that sold very well on the second day of opening, Zhang Ying is very interested in this.

"Do you know Su Shichen?" Old Zhang Tou asked.

"Of course Su Shichen knows the pride of our Yang City. is known as the most genius in China, how could you not have heard of it, "Journey to the West" written by him is very good-looking. It's just that the ending is too pitiful, but the most important thing is that the "Sherlock Holmes Detective Collection" he wrote is super wonderful, and I also bought a few books to treasure. In fact, Zhang Ying bought Yangcheng Daily because of Su Shichen's "Sherlock Holmes Detective Collection", although it has stopped serialization now, Zhang Ying is still used to buying a copy every day, and sometimes it becomes natural.

Zhang Ying suddenly had an idea, and said excitedly: "Could it be that Su Shichen has changed jobs?" "Sherlock Holmes Detective Collection" was serialized on "Summit Newspapers"? ”

However, Zhang Ying suddenly thought of something, shook his head, and denied his statement just now, "No, no, no." I remember that "Sherlock Holmes" signed a priority with "Yangcheng Daily" for publication, and as long as "Yangcheng Daily" itself does not give up the serialization of "Sherlock Holmes", it is impossible for the latest content of "Sherlock Holmes" to be published in other newspapers. ”

"Sherlock Holmes Detective Book has boosted sales for Yangcheng Daily. If the editor-in-chief of "Yangcheng Daily" is not stupid, it is impossible to give up the publication, in short, it is impossible for "Sherlock Holmes Detective Collection" to be published on the "Summit Newspaper", boss, you still say that you are not deceiving people," Zhang Ying said in a changed voice, "This is deceiving people." ”

"I don't know what the right of first refusal is. But when did I say that the latest content of Sherlock Holmes was serialized on Summit Newspaper? Lao Zhangtou asked rhetorically.

"You ...... just now," Zhang Ying was stunned, as if he really didn't. Lao Zhangtou just mentioned a name, and then the pile behind it was deduced by himself.

"Then what are you doing with Su Shichen?" Zhang Ying complained.

"Of course I have to mention him, Su Shichen wrote an article published on "Summit Newspaper", according to them, it is quite classic, so the sales will be so good." Old Zhang Tou said.

"Wrote an article? What article? Since Aiwu and Wu Zhangying like to read "Sherlock Holmes", they are naturally interested in the articles written by Su Shichen.

"I don't know if I haven't read it, I used to read the newspaper every day, but now I'm tired of reading it. However, I heard them say that Su Shichen's article serialized on "Summit Newspaper" today was as sharp as a knife. ”

"An article as sharp as a knife?" Old Zhang Tou's words successfully aroused Zhang Ying's interest, and he took out the money to "bring me a copy of "Summit Newspaper". ”

Zhang Ying took the newspaper. I found that the main page of "Summit Newspaper" was serialized by Su Shichen's article, and the title of the article was "Cultivating Self-Confidence"

"Cultivating self-confidence? Can self-confidence still be cultivated? Zhang Ying read carefully, the first sentence: value produces confidence, confidence produces enthusiasm, and enthusiasm conquers shijie!

"Value produces self-confidence, so how can one's own value be realized?" Zhang Ying saw the first sentence, and such a question unconsciously appeared in his mind.

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First of all, before I explain how to develop self-confidence, let me mention the shortcomings of human nature.

One is that he likes to blame and complain about others

This is a shortcoming that most people have, and our first reaction when we encounter a mistake is not how to correct the mistake, but how to shirk the responsibility and how to shift the mistake to others.

Zhang Ying was stunned, this is indeed the case, just like yesterday, he inadvertently copied the wrong thing, the boss asked him who he was, he subconsciously blamed the mistake on his colleague, it was really the same as Su Shichen said, the first thing he thought about when he made a mistake was not how to correct it, but how to shirk it.

Second: I don't like to praise others

It seems that our Chinese culture adheres to the golden mean, and in addition to its own low-key, it does not like to praise others.

But it's strange that people don't like to praise others, but they like others to praise themselves very much.

Take myself as an analogy, if the teacher compliments me, "Su Shichen, you did a great job today." "I might be happy all day, but it's a very simple thing for a teacher to just open my mouth and say something.

I don't know if you have ever thought that if we all just want to hear praise from others, and you don't praise others, and he doesn't praise others, then can you still hear praise?

If we all want to hear praise from others, and you don't praise others, and he doesn't praise others, then can you still hear praise? It really is! After reading the second shortcoming of human nature, Zhang Ying was stunned. It seems that this is really the case, praise is just a very simple sentence, weishenme just don't like to say?

After reading this paragraph, Zhang Ying is ready to change. Become a person who likes to praise others.

Third: I like to imitate blindly

I once heard a joke about the fact that one day a group of oil tycoons, having a meeting in heaven, and one of the tycoons came late and had no place, so they shouted: oil has been found in hell. So all the tycoons who were sitting in the meeting rushed to hell, and he was the only one left in heaven in an instant. "They've all gone down, is hell really finding oil?" Thinking of this person, he also hurried to hell.

Blindness is fully manifested in this story. In fact, blind imitation in the West is called conformistmentality, which is the so-called herd mentality, that is, unconsciously conforming one's behavior to the majority.

This is a disadvantage that all of us have in one way or another, for better or worse. Anyway, it's imitation, you imitate other people's dressing, you imitate other people's hairstyles, do you still have your own taste in the future?

Seeing this shadow, his face turned red. He just followed the trend yesterday and bought the hottest mobile phone. As a result, he found that it was not easy to use, and he would buy it only because his colleagues in the company had bought it, just for this reason.

This is blindly following the trend under the influence of the trend, which is really accurate!

Fourth: dare not admit your mistakes

This phenomenon is even more serious in China, probably because we Chinese people attach great importance to their own face, and for the sake of their own face, even if they are wrong, they don't want to admit it. This is the so-called death support, in a common folk saying, "to die is to face and to live to suffer". In fact, I think that this kind of protection is not a face at all, and it is completely meaningless.

I have always thought that this kind of thing is given by others, just like a name, and my own name is generally called by others, in the same way, face is given to you by others, and others respect you to reflect it.

Someone once jokingly asked a friend of mine a question and asked me what the most expensive "character" in China was.

He replied that it was the ancient Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period "Lü's Spring and Autumn Period" is a thousand words, this word is indeed very valuable, but this answer is not right, I told him that the most expensive "word" is "I was wrong" these three words.

Some people are willing to go bankrupt and be at the end of their rope, but they just don't say these three words, it's funny to think about it, what if these three words are said? Will people die?

Zhang Ying didn't dare to look down, he felt that this article was like talking about him, and he said all his shortcomings one by one, this feeling was as if he was stripping his whole body of clothes and letting everyone watch, a very unhappy feeling, and even some annoyance!!

I don't want to watch it, but I feel like I have to watch it.

Fifth: Say no to others

There is something strange about this shortcoming, at least I can't understand it, because I'm a more direct person, and if someone makes a request to me that I can't fulfill or is unreasonable, I won't hesitate to refuse.

But some people are not like this, I once heard an example, a person is very friendly, no matter what conditions others put on him, he will agree, one day people say, "I don't have money today, is it okay to have a meal at your house", he replied yes; Then someone said, "I don't have any money, can you lend me a little?" and he also replied; Someone in Zuihou asked, "I don't have a house when I get married, can you lend me a house?" and his answer was still good, he slept on the street alone that night, and he starved himself by lending the money to others.

Being kind to others is a very good quality in itself, but being too friendly is a disease, and the people of the United States call this "caretaker personality disorder", so if you don't want to be the hero of the story we just told, then you have to learn to say no, and at the same time try to change, try to say more "I want" and "I want".

Of course, if a woman is in front of a man, don't repeat these two words.

"Gotta say no, gotta say no!" Zhang Ying is a bit like the person in the story, once a colleague borrowed money from him, he agreed, and then ate instant noodles for a month, at that time he didn't know what was wrong with him, he just couldn't say the word no, it turned out that he also had a little bit of this kind of caretaker personality disorder.

If it weren't for seeing this report, Zhang Ying believes that he would never know, this article touched him too deeply!!

The next ones are still one by one, and the pen is still sharp.

Truly! After Zhang Ying read this article, she found that Lao Zhangtou's sentence was true, this article was too sharp, as if a sharp knife had been directly inserted into people's hearts, dissecting the shortcomings of human nature to the fullest.

The weakness of human nature mentioned at the beginning of this article, almost half of it, Zhang Ying has more or less a little bit, I really don't know if I don't read this article, it turns out that I still have so many shortcomings, it turns out that I am really so bad.

The shortcomings of human nature are really the shortcomings that all people may have!

"What a sharp article, I can't believe it was written by a fifteen-year-old student." Zhang Ying gasped after reading the shortcomings listed in the article.

"That's right, if you don't have such sharp writing, how can you write a wonderful novel like Sherlock Holmes." Moving on -- all right, we'll talk about the shortcomings, and now let's go back to the topic of this article, how to develop faith.

If the first half of the article is a sharp knife, then the second half is a candy that teaches people how to develop self-confidence...... (To be continued......)

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