Yan Shenyou didn't know that Dao Shanpu had already arrived at the gate of the city, according to her estimate, it would be these two days since Shanpu came back, she never expected it to be such a coincidence, just on the day that the Chu family just mentioned the brothers and sisters of the Shan family, he arrived.

Yan Shenyou is introspecting. To say that she doesn't know what filial piety she pays attention to, that's nonsense, as Chu said, people's hearts are biased. Her heart was biased, and she indulged Ah Wan. Moreover, there is another reason that both grandparents and grandchildren can't say - the exchange of interests. The Yan family needs the support of the mountain people, it is not enough to have Shanpu, the tribe in Awan's hands is also very important, and it must be fished into the hands of his own people. So intentionally or unintentionally, she didn't take the etiquette seriously, but subconsciously found several excuses for Ah Wan and Jiang Yun.

[Did I think about this when I supported her?] Yan Shenyou asked himself, and the answer was no solution. Thinking that at the beginning of the next year, the Chu family nodded in recognition of the brothers and sisters of the Shan family, and they may not have the same consideration.

A momentary compromise can lead to endless trouble. Yan Shenyou felt it now. However, if you want her to choose again, ask yourself, she probably won't strongly oppose it in the name of etiquette and gate.

With a wry smile, Yan Shenyou said: "I can't say it, I always have to take care of it." Her brother wasn't a fool. ”

Chu said: "The brother and sister depend on each other, and he will inevitably get used to her sister." Loving a son is like killing a son, and you can't get used to it anymore! At that time, I had to do it, but now it's not as good as ever. ”

Yan Shenyou nodded yes.

Chu Shi looked at her fixedly and said, "Can you do it?" ”

Yan Shenyou said: "I should have made up my mind a long time ago. ”

Chu said: "It's good that you understand it in your heart." ”

Yan Shenyou stopped talking.

She knows her own problems best, and her problems are not big or small. On the surface, he looks thoughtful, and he is also very compassionate, and he is very good at encompassing and teaching some people. In fact, to do big things, her character is flawed, or the policy when dealing with people and things, and the positioning of herself, there is a big problem - the pattern is still too small.

For example, in the case of Awan, she is not only eccentric, but actually a double standard brought by her vision.

The so-called thoughtfulness is actually to be tactful and do your best. To put it mildly, I want to take advantage of all the benefits. Although he also said that "you have to pay for everything", but when it comes to handling things, you are still not so decisive.

If you just look at her experience, there are a few major things that are a bit domineering, and then look at the details, but the principle is lost. The He Ernu incident is like this, the person was brought back by her, obviously according to the standard at that time, He Ernu should not stay, and stay at home in the future, He Ernu developed a later character, which is natural and her connivance. The same is true of Ah Wan's case, which has never pointed out the problem in a clear manner.

To put it more seriously, this is actually a lack of responsibility and fear of offending people. This kind of character is harmless for an ordinary person, and even if she is a little clever and can cope with some problems, such a habit will also make her earn good popularity and prestige. However, this is not the character of a leader. If you are afraid of offending people, you will never be able to be a leader.

A person with a weak character has no way to make others believe that she is right and dare to go with her. If you are not firm yourself, how can you make others believe it?

In the past, she could be like this, "thoughtful in everything" not to offend people, and those who offended were listed as □□ by her, and there was no need to worry about any revenge or anything like that. That's because the leader is her father! Now that she has her own ideas that cannot be endorsed or even opposed by others, such a political position cannot be compromised, and she must be firm. Stick to it from the inside out, never let go of every detail, never show weakness and deceive, and speak like a joke.

Otherwise, no one would stand up for her claims. In this matter, the only thing she can rely on is herself.

Yan Suzhi is second again, and then he drops the festival, there is still a lower limit. The indulgence of wives and daughters is only a special case, and it is not the collapse of the entire principle of repudiation. Therefore, the people of Angzhou are willing to serve him as the master, even if his black history is a mess. Moreover, the people in the state capital refused to accept each other, and the biggest reason was that compared with Yan Suyi, they felt that their aura was inexplicably much weaker.

The aura is very subtle to say, but in fact it is not so mysterious, it is revealed through every move.

Yan Shenyou is not without firmness, after all, he has been raised in the boudoir since childhood. Although he has more knowledge and insight in his life, he was not a leader in his previous life, and in this regard, he is objectively lacking.

In the past, the Chu family once said to her, "A general is incompetent, and thousands of troops are exhausted", and at that time, she had her own understanding, but it was not deep in the end. At that time, whether it was the Chu family who spoke or Yan Shenyou, who listened to the lecture, they were not the leaders of the same family. Subconsciously, he still attaches great importance to the inner house, although Yiyan Shenyou has learned some of the ways of the emperor, the degree of vigilance in his heart is actually not in place.

suffered a huge loss, and almost lost his life twice in a row. After being forced to Liangshan, Yan Shenyou had the enlightenment he has now. It's like a scumbag who listens to the teacher every day saying that "if you don't study hard, you won't be able to find a good job in the future", but when you read the book, you know this truth but don't think about it, or you consciously understand it; It wasn't until I graduated that I saw that the top students had signed the top 500 and I was still submitting resumes everywhere, that I woke up from a dream!

When I don't understand, I feel that I understand it very well, and when I listen to what others say, I feel that "I understand this, although I think it's a bit verbose, but what you said is good, I understand it, so I won't turn my face." When you really understand, even if others don't say it explicitly, just a random little thing, you can have a deep understanding.

Seeing Yan Shenyou's expression of emotion, the corners of his mouth twitched, covering his eyes with one hand, and swinging out with the other: "Go and get busy with you." "It hurts my eyes.

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When Yan Shenyou ran to see Yan Suzhi, Shanpu had already entered the city, so he went home to see his sister first. Since Ah Wan got married, she was ordered by Shanpu to restrain herself, except for the necessary study of cultural etiquette, she was only allowed to work on tribal affairs, and was not allowed to run around anymore. Recently, there has been a drought, and Ah Wan has been so busy that she has no mood to play or have the time to connect around.

Shanpu is still not at ease, and he writes letters from time to time, and also through Awan to learn about some of the situation in Angzhou, and also to control Awan's movements in real time. As soon as I came back, the first one was to meet my sister, see if she was more stable, understand some details, and then go to see Yan Suzhi.

Yan Suzhi has always supported some of Yan Shenyou's whimsical ideas. Even if it is not supported, it has not been explicitly opposed. Although Yan Shenyou's brain hole is large, many things are not unfeasible. It's just that this time, frankly speaking, Yan Suzhi was a little surprised. I didn't expect Yan Shenyou to see so far, his brain hole was so wide, and he ...... The attitude is so iconoclastic.

When there is not enough men, it is not uncommon for women to make up for it. Especially in times of war, women in the rear basically have to become the main force - many of them are strong and have become soldiers to fight, and there is a shortage of labor. These Yan Suzhi naturally knew the truth, but what he didn't expect was the feminist thought in and out of Yan Shenyou's words. This kind of thinking, I have to say, is very dangerous.

Yan Shenyou twice proposed that girls study and recruit female officials to participate in government affairs, even if the reasons are very good, the reality is there, and with Yan Suzhi's political sense, he still smells a trace of unusual atmosphere. As a father, Yan Suzhi is willing to indulge his daughter and see her do things that others dare not do and can't do.

However, Yan Shenyou's approach is still dangerous – she puts herself in a very dangerous situation. Not only did it attract opposition, but even more, if her brain hole was a little bigger, she would think that she was fighting for power, and it was for inheritance! That's not good. Before the cause is started, there will be a split first. But the problem pointed out by Yan Shenyou is real, but Yan Suzhi doesn't want to push his daughter into such a dangerous situation.

said that Yan Shenyou had ambitions, Yan Suzhi believed that he believed that Yan Shenyou's ambitions were aimed at the world and not any inheritance. But can others believe it? Her own brother has not grown up, and she already has the right to speak under one person in Angzhou, not only has the right to be a soldier but also has a mythical aura. said that she did not have the heart to seize the throne, how many people would believe it?

Yan Suzhi was very melancholy. He has always been a bitter man with the shadow of his childhood, starting with the second secondary school, and at the end of the second secondary school, he wanted his small family to be harmonious. Now there are only five people in the small family, and if the children are not in harmony, there will be no way to live this life.

Therefore, after reading Yan Shenyou's plan, Yan Suzhi decided to talk to her seriously. The tone of the conversation also made Yan Suzhi very hesitant, and his tone became serious, as if he was suspicious of his daughter, and his tone was too light, for fear that he would not be able to make her deeply realize the seriousness of the problem.

Yan Shenyou saw her father's serious face, and she was also worried that he would veto it, and she needed Yan Suzhi's support. Although he thought that he had chosen the right entry point, he was careful to sail the 10,000-year-old ship, and Yan Shenyou said tentatively: "Where does Daddy think he needs to change?" ”

Yan Suzhi looked at Yan Shenyou quietly for a while, and when he saw that she still looked sincere, he sighed again in his heart. He pouted, made a strange expression, and finally asked helplessly: "Are you really just here to meet the urgency of wartime, or to recuperate after the war?" Except for the suppression gate valve, there is no other thought? ”

Talking to smart people is complicated and complicated, and simple is simple, Yan Shenyou happily admitted: "These are all true, and it is also true that women don't want to be so aggrieved." ”

Yan Suzhi supported his forehead, the second year of middle school all year round, the days when his father and wife were worried about him are gone, and it is his turn to worry about his daughter. When he was in the second year of middle school, the trouble he caused was nothing more than "not making a weapon". His daughter went crazy, this ...... It's a little more lethal!

This dead bear child!

If this is a son, Yan Suzhi can beat him to death!

It's a pity that it's a girl......

Yan Suzhi had no choice but to coax her in a good voice: "This is not good for you." ”

The bear child also said very unappreciatively: "Just be good to everyone." ”

Yan Suzhi had a headache, and said to Yan Shenyou seriously: "Then I don't want you to carry the work!" ”

Although Yan Shenyou usually spoke to Yan Suzhi quite casually, at this time, he also saw that Yan Suzhi's attitude was not quite right, and he didn't dare to carry it, so he had to muttered in a low voice: "I just thought that if I had a girl in the future, I would be crushed to death, and I would be out of breath." ”

In Yan Shenyou's opinion, the state government will not object to such a thing as taking the remnant gate valve back for its own use. Even Yan Suzhi, although he asked Yan Shenyou to do it quietly, he did not disapprove of it in his heart. What can make him talk to himself over and over again is to fight for women's rights. So she bypassed what gate valve and only said what Yan Suzhi was worried about.

Yan Suzhi can understand this very well. The mouth still says, "Don't always say it, it's not good." It's easy to be defensive, or it can be aimed at you. ”

A father's heart, Yan Shenyou can't know what to do. Moreover, the facts are in front of us, the productivity cannot be raised, and the status of women is to be changed dramatically, which is impossible. Yan Shenyou's original intention was just to sow seeds. Yan Suzhi is already a rare enlightened parent in this era, and if he is tough at this time, it is not a firm position, but a brain in water.

Shang Ying said filial piety, and he had to say it three times.

It is impossible to fight a war without dying. When the time comes, the slogan "Women can hold up half the sky" is shouted again, and they will be helpless. Being able to shout such a slogan openly is a victory for Yan Shenyou's current state.

There is no hurry. Yan Shenyou is really not in a hurry to produce results in a day or two, and has long been mentally prepared for the day when the long-term war of resistance will not see victory. At present, we still have to focus on promoting production, get more little sisters over, do some practical things, and instill some ideas in them.

So Yan Shenyou nodded happily and agreed: "Daddy said yes." ”

Yan Suzhihu looked at Yan Shenyou suspiciously, and Yan Shenyou looked back generously. Yan Suzhi said helplessly: "You just think too much." ”

Yan Shenyou smiled at him.

The corners of Yan Suzhi's eyes jumped, and he stretched out his hand to rub her head indiscriminately: "You are my ancestor!" ”

Yan Shenyou pretended to be stupid......

Yan Suzhi wanted to say something more, but Shanpu came again, which made Yan Suzhi extremely depressed. He snorted angrily, "I'll go see him, you are not allowed to go forward." ”

Yan Shenyou agreed with a smile.

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Shanpu went home to see Ah Wan, and Ah Wan came down from the mountain and missed a good show in the state capital, which was very embarrassing. I had to tell my brother everything I knew, and at the end, he said, "Ah Lang is better to go to the envoy and talk about it." ”

Shanpu finally put his mind at ease. His sister didn't jump up and run to the state capital on the spot, which already made Shanpu feel very relieved. If Ah Wan doesn't jump, Shanpu can't help but be in a hurry. It's just that he knew that it would not work to rush over as soon as he heard the news, he had to arrange the things at hand before he could talk to Yan Suzhi.

In this matter, the one who has the most say is Yan Suzhi. Before Shanpu went out, he glanced at his sister with melancholy in his eyes. I deeply feel that I can't see Yan Shenyou today, and I will find an opportunity to talk to Yan Shenyou tomorrow.

Of course, when he saw Yan Suzhi, his attitude was still quite upright.

Yan Suzhi was not polite to him, and after saying a few polite words such as you have worked hard, he went to the point: "You know everything about the envoy from Jingzhou, right?" ”

Dear, it was you who sent the message to get people back, and asked if they knew the Tao, ......

Shanpu replied quite seriously: "Yes." He also thanked Yan Suzhi for abiding by his faith and not agreeing to the king of Hejian.

Yan Suyi waved his hand: "Isn't it right to talk and count?" When did you do what you should have done? ”

Shan Pu blushed embarrassedly, saw that the corners of Yan Suzhi's eyes twitched again, cleared his throat, and said to him, "Everything over there has been settled?" ”

When it came to business, Shanpu's face was no longer red, his speech was no longer stumbling, and his whole face was radiant: "Exactly." I had already set up defenses before I came, and I wanted to come to them to be busy with the autumn harvest, and I couldn't do anything that crossed the line. It's just that the direction of Huanjun seems to be a little uneven, and people can often be seen fleeing. There are also those to the south and those to the west. As he spoke, his brow furrowed slightly.

Yan Suzhi sneered: "That bastard in the river has a good reputation!" If it weren't for ...... "If it weren't for my daughter, I would have said everywhere that he had married his son and cheated on my family's marriage!" Seeing Shan Pu's curious look, Yan Suzhi waved his hand and said to him, "It's just a coincidence that Sanniang is dead, and your affairs will be delayed again." ”

Shanpu had already heard about Yan Jingshu's matter, and felt that there was something strange in it, so he still had to pretend to know very well, and said: "The world is unpredictable. But he said, "The day that was originally prepared is not right, so do you have to set another date?"

Yan Suzhi glanced at him, and said in his heart, are you really naïve or pretending to be stupid? Nodding his head, he said, "I have ordered Bai Xing to choose an auspicious day." ”

Shanpu showed a relaxed smile at this time, Yan Suzhi looked at his white teeth and couldn't help but want to cover his eyes. Seeing him like this, Shanpu couldn't propose to see Yan Shenyou now, and said euphemistically, can he go to the mansion tomorrow to meet Mrs. Tai and Mrs. Tai again?

Yan Su said: "I know what your idea is, come on, come on." ”

Shan Pu smiled slightly: "Let the monarch know the way." ”

For the first time, Yan Suzhi felt panicked talking to this little bastard!

Early the next morning, Shanpu really came. Gifts are necessary, and it is also necessary to visit the elders first. On this day, Yan Shenyou didn't nest in the backyard and wait for Shanpu to come over. Even if Shanpu came, in addition to meeting the Chu family and the Jiang family, he couldn't let him stay in the back house. Yan Shenyou simply went to the morning meeting, and after the meeting, when Shanpu came over, he chatted in Yan Suzhi's study.

As soon as Shan Pu saw Yan Shenyou, he was a little cramped. Yan Shenyou looked at Shanpu, these days outside in the wind and sun, quite dyed a light wheat color, with slightly dark eye sockets, she couldn't take her eyes off it. Ahem, the male color is also quite attractive......

Shanpu was even more cramped, he came to discuss "business", which made him feel that his motives were a little impure. When it comes to their position, the matter of marriage is a good marriage between two surnames, and it is normal to have a little entanglement of interests. Before Shanpu could speak, he felt that something was wrong. He was originally going to talk about Ah Wan, but he had been worried, afraid that the Jiang family's consent and the Yan family's acquiescence would be an expedient measure for the exchange of interests.

Recently, this kind of thought has become deeper and deeper, because the more he comes into contact with the eldest son of an old brand like the Jiang family, the more he feels that his sister is really lacking in rules. Why did Jiang Jiaken nod? Will there be sequelae in the future? Shanpu couldn't help but complain a little about himself, after all, he was young, he had too little experience, and he was still too shallow to see the problem.

I had the heart to ask Yan Shenyou, and suddenly felt that my marriage, although it was his wife at a glance, had also saved a lot of things for his goal.

I can't say what I want to say.

Yan Shenyou doesn't say that he is empathetic, but he will also look at some eyes, and when he saw that he wanted to speak and stopped, he asked, "What difficulties have you encountered?" ”

Shanpu hesitated: "I have something in my heart and I don't want to hide it from you." If you have something on your mind, keep it in your heart, and your doubts will only accumulate more and more. If you say it, you are frank, but I am afraid that you will be embarrassed. ”

“？” Yan Shenyou became interested.

Shan Pu turned his heart and asked. What he was most worried about was that he, as an elder brother, felt that Ah Wan was a little inappropriate the more he looked at it, and the Jiang family's attitude was very strange. As for the state capital, it was not said.

Yan Shenyou heard the strings and knew the elegance of the song, and she suddenly felt a little weak in this matter. But Shanpu is quite right, if there is a problem, it must be solved, and it cannot be rotten in the heart. decided to talk to Shan Pu earnestly, Yan Shenyou naturally couldn't admit it directly, and only asked: "Have you ever thought about forcibly demolishing them?" ”

Shan Pumo.

Yan Shenyou asked again: "Why don't you forcibly demolish it?" ”

Shanpu himself couldn't answer, he was stunned for a moment, and said: "I am very envious of the civilized ...... under the mountain" Halfway through, he stopped again.

Yan Shenyou looked at him with a smile and said, "What else?" ”

"I don't say anything to you about the good of two surnames, only that two people can take a fancy to each other, what do you rely on? Appearance, background, character, bearing, experience...... And so on, pinching together is a person, and when you take it apart, everything is empty and empty, and when you put it together, it is real and a living person. Even if you only hit one of these at the beginning, the side has to follow, and you can't open it. What's more, sometimes, it may not be just one of them. You...... Why bother yourself? ”

Shanpu listened silently, with a look of shame on his face, and said solemnly: "I have been taught." That's what I thought, but lately, I've been feeling uneasy. At that time, the intention was true, and the worry was also true at this time, if there was something wrong, I still wanted to make up for it, and I really didn't want to do things badly. ”

Yan Shenyou let out a strange voice in his throat and asked, "What's there to be disturbed?" It's like I haven't done my homework for a long time, I've forgotten my books, and I've lost my words. The original broad horizons have also been lost. ”

Shan Pu said solemnly: "I have admired civilization and civilization for a long time, and I only hate the barbarian body and the etiquette is lax. If there is anything wrong, please also ask the little lady to spur from time to time. ”

"I say, listen?"

Shan Pu paused, and said firmly and slowly: "I'll listen." ”

Yan Shenyou let out a sigh of relief and said, "Awan, it's time to grow up." In the past, we didn't say it, not because we didn't want to care, but we really had nowhere to say it—what to say about it? In the past, there was something wrong with her, and everyone didn't talk about it, but to see your face. However, your face is not always used, the real top is her own ability. ”

Yan Shenyou once again felt that others thought she was capable, but in fact, she didn't have much persistence before.

Shan Pu said embarrassedly: "Mr. Bai is watching the day, and after the decision is set, I have to lead the troops out of the city again...... She'll be handed over to you, whatever you do," the more she spoke, the more shy she became, and she stood up and apologized, "It's all my fault." Don't take what you just said, don't take it to heart. It is because I have become more aware of my own shortcomings recently, and it is because of my timidity that I am suspicious. It will never be like this again, and from now on, whatever is wrong, I will listen to you. ”

Skepticism is due to lack of confidence...... Dear, you said this, why am I still angry? Say you're just not confident? Yan Shenyou was a little helpless, and said to him: "You are really real, talk to Ah Wan more, you are not at home these days, and she is also extremely busy." Do more, and people will grow. ”

Shan Pu said: "I never doubt my sincerity, but I'm worried that I won't do well enough, and I'm afraid that someone better will compare me." In this sentence, the finger sentence was quite vague, and Yan Shenyou smiled knowingly: "I can save it." ”

Shanpu walked away step by step.

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Shan Pu had a long talk with Yan Shenyou, and in the end Yan Suzhi heard a hint of wind. I was indignant in my heart for a few days, but I still hummed and chirped with Jiang. Jiang knew that Ah Wan's matter was quite suspicious of Shanpu. Instead, Yan Suzhi appeased him and persuaded him: "The autumn harvest is coming, and you still have the leisure to vomit?" ”

Yan Suzhicai turned his grief and anger into motivation and began to arrange the autumn harvest work.

Yan Shenyou took stock of this year's harvest at Yan Suzhi and found that although the yield per mu was not as high as in a normal year, fortunately, the water conservancy project was well repaired, and there were some more advanced farm tools. Quyuan plough is more suitable for intensive cultivation, and it is also beneficial to the increase of yield per mu. This year's harvest is considered a passing grade.

Angzhou was relieved and began to repair, first heading to Huanjun. Take Huangjun, and then send troops on two ways to conquer Jingzhou.

Before their envoy arrived, a shocking rumor spread in the capital: Yan Suzhi married his daughter to the king of Hejian. They want to join forces, first go down to Yangzhou, then go down to the capital, and help the king of Hejian to ascend the throne.

The author has something to say: Aha

Shan Xiaolang is a ...... in front of the divine beast

Suddenly I think they are just so entangled in children's affairs, it will be very boring......

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