Chapter 637: Qihui's feelings
The first watch arrived, followed by the second watch.
Everyone talked and shouted in a room, yes, and made a few intimate words with the elders, and in early summer, Luo Xiaoqiong went to the West House with Zhao Qihui to talk about it.
There was a thick stack of books on the kang head of the West House, and in the early summer, he picked up a few books and looked at them, and said with a smile: "Sister, are you spending all your time reading books now except eating and sleeping?" ”
"Almost." Zhao Qihui smiled embarrassedly, "Last time, I was more than 20 points away from my first choice, Jiang Wenyuan said, if I don't redouble my efforts, this year is still a bit suspenseful." ”
In the early summer, he gossiped forward and poked his head: "Sister, listen to what you mean, has the candidate for my brother-in-law been officially decided?" ”
"Nope." Zhao Qihui shook his head, "If I can't get into the ideal university, it's impossible to be sure." ”
Luo Xiaoqiong frowned: "Did he say it?" ”
"No, he didn't say it, but ......" sighed, Zhao Qihui smiled bitterly, "Didn't I always go to his house to ask him questions?" At that time, his father and mother were very enthusiastic about me, and they always tested me in and out of words, whether I could be with Jiang Wenyuan.
Later, after the test came down to the notice, I felt that he helped me so much, no matter whether I was worse than him in the test, I should congratulate him, but his father and mother saw me very cold, I didn't react for a while, and thought they were sorry for me, so I comforted them, saying that I will take the test again next year, and it will be fine.
When I got home, he came to see me off. His mother told him to help with the work, and no matter how stupid I was, I understood. After that, I never went to his house again.
Before going to report. He came to me and said that he liked me and told me to work hard to get into college next year, and he said he was waiting for me on the college campus.
Then I asked him if I couldn't pass the test, and he didn't like me anymore, and he told me that I wasn't, and he said he saw it. My self-esteem is very strong, and if I don't pass the exam, I probably won't be happy with him, so he wants me to stand as high as him.
When I went to school, he wrote me a letter every half a month, all anecdotes about being in college, and. Even some of the difficult solutions he came up with are listed for me above.
Later, he asked me to write down the questions I couldn't solve on the letter, and he would write the correct answer to me the next time he replied.
Let's be honest. If it weren't for his help, I wouldn't have had the bottom of my own insistence, but now. I don't think I've had a problem this year. ”
"Do you like him?" Hatsu asked.
Silence for a moment. Zhao Qihui said: "I should like it." ”
"How can you use the word 'should'?" Luo Xiaoqiong sighed, "Sister." You have to figure out whether you like it or not.
If you like it, then you have to be ready to be admitted to the same school as him, or other schools, but you can give him permission, that is, you Zhao Qihui will identify him.
If it's just because you thank him for helping you and don't like him from the bottom of your heart, then you'd better not go to the same school as him and slowly dilute the relationship, so that everyone looks good. ”
"Quite a heart!" In early summer, she poked Luo Xiaoqiong, and then looked at Zhao Qihui, "Sister, I agree with Xiaoqiong's opinion, if his family is so snobbish, if you marry him, you will inevitably be troubled in the future." ”
Luo Xiaoqiong echoed: "That is, no matter whether you are better than him or worse than him, his family will feel that you were admitted to college because of him, and if you marry him, you are also Gao Pan, don't think I think people too badly, it is their practices that make me have to think so." ”
Zhao Qihui looked at the two of them seriously: "Listen to what you mean, don't you agree with this family business?" ”
"No, no, no......" Chu Xia waved his hand again and again, "Our opinion is not important, what matters is how you feel in your own heart, we are not afraid that you will not feel accurate and mistake yourself." ”
Luo Xiaoqiong quickly picked up: "That's it, we just play the role of a reminder, the key issue is up to you to figure it out, and also, you have to think about whether Jiang Wenyuan's attitude towards you is determined that you have to be you, this is very important." ”
"Yes, if he decides that you have to do it, the attitude of his family doesn't matter, because you can't go back to the village, and you won't have a lot of contact with his family in the future, right?"
"That's the truth, you see that Chuxia and Head Zhou are like this, because Head Zhou has to be in early summer, so since she married into the Zhou family in early summer, no one dared to bully her."
Chu Xia looked at Luo Xiaoqiong speechlessly: "Why is this still pulling on me?" Is my sister's business the same thing as mine? ”
"Although it's not the same thing, but the situation is similar, if it weren't for the fact that Head Zhou was so determined, do you think the Zhou family would accept you so easily?
You know, no one knew Uncle Baohe's life experience at that time, you were just an ordinary little rural girl, what I said was not good, but that's the truth, right?
Let's take me again, it's Zhao Qiliang who I fancied first, if it weren't for your help in matchmaking, he wouldn't have been able to choose me at all, but I still dare to be with him unswervingly.
The reason is very simple, I have been to the Zhao family with you before, I know the character of this family, I know that they are not snobbish, and they will not look down on me because of this.
So Sister Qihui, I will take the incident between me and Chu Xia as an example to sue you, either the man is firm enough, or the in-laws are good enough, otherwise, you have to make other plans in advance. ”
Zhao Qihui knew about Chu Xia and Zhou Mikang.
Zhao Qihui also knows about Luo Xiaoqiong and Zhao Qiliang.
Therefore, when Luo Xiaoqiong compared the affairs of the two, she was also thinking seriously.
Although she is older than Chu Xia and Luo Xiaoqiong, emotionally, she must admit that she doesn't seem to be as clear as the two of them.
First of all, Jiang Wenyuan's family can't compare with her parents, so Luo Xiaoqiong's example can't be replicated in her own.
Then, she can only consider Jiang Wenyuan's feelings for herself.
Looking back on the interaction and interaction between the two, it seems to be more like a teacher and a student, including when the two are together, what the other party talks to her is always learning and learning.
On the third day when Jiang Wenyuan came back from winter vacation, he came to her, and after politely greeting the family, he began to test her, because she answered a very simple geometry question incorrectly, she was trained to be a dog blood spray.
Grandpa and grandma turned to Jiang Wenyuan, saying that he was for her good, and he was a strict apprentice.
Yes, it was useful for her to learn, but her affection for him seemed to be increasing in the percentage of fear.
Thinking of this, she looked at her sister and sister-in-law seriously: "It doesn't seem to be a sign to what you said, his parents can't be like my parents, and he can't treat me like Captain Zhou did to Chu Xia." ”
In early summer, there was a black line: "Sister, this can't be a complete copy, although what Xiaoqiong said makes sense, how can there be such a completely identical thing in this world?"
And I don't agree with Luo Xiaoqiong's words that my brother doesn't care about her, yes, she took the initiative at first, but later, it was my brother who took the initiative, okay?
Brother's personality is there, it is impossible to maintain a person as domineering as Zhou Mikang, and Jiang Wenyuan, who my sister is meeting now, should have a different personality from my brother and Zhou Mikang, so he and his sister must have their own way of getting along.
Sister, think about it, when you are with him, are you down-to-earth, and are you really looking forward to living with him every day in the future. As for his family, ......, by the way, sister, how many brothers and sisters does he have in his family? ”
"He has an older brother and a sister above, a younger brother and a younger sister below, the elder brother and sister are all married, the younger brother will get married next year, and the younger sister has not yet found her in-laws."
"There are a lot of children...... "In the early summer, he stroked his forehead, "Sister, you have to think about it now, this kind of family, there is such a college student, and a whole family must be staring at it."
If you really do it, the burden will definitely not be small, I am not saying that children should not be filial to their parents, I mean, sometimes excessive filial piety will definitely tire you to death.
For example, if my brother's child is sick, my sister's family is about to build a house, something is wrong with my brother's family, my sister needs to solve a job, my father and mother are not feeling well, and my relatives are begging for ...... for something, all of these will naturally ask you for help.
If you don't help, you will be said to be ungrateful, and if you do, your life with your future brother-in-law will become a mess, and there will be a problem with your children's education.
If you give birth to a child, if you bring it yourself, you can't go to work, you are locked up at home, you don't worry, you bring it to your mother-in-law and father-in-law, you don't worry, you bring it to your uncle and aunt, I'm afraid that your mother-in-law and father-in-law are unwilling.
Anyway, these messy things must be indispensable, you must think about them all in advance now, otherwise, when the time comes, you will be saddened to death. ”
Luo Xiaoqiong looked at Chu Xia with a surprised expression: "I said, how could you think of so much?" It's also said that the head is Taoist, as if you've experienced it, Xia, don't scare people so much, okay? ”
In early summer, he gave her a blank look: "Get out!" If you think about these problems, you can think of them, so why do you have to experience them yourself to say them? ”
Luo Xiaoqiong said unconvinced: "I didn't think of it, and Sister Qihui didn't think of it either." ”
"You grew up in the Fu hoard, of course you can't think of it, my sister is a fan of the authorities, if it was changed to someone else, she must have thought of it a long time ago."
Zhao Qihui looked at Chu Xia bitterly: "Xia, let you say this, how can I think about my future with him, it is gloomy?" ”
"It's not gloomy, as long as you have the courage to bear this qiē, of course, what I said may be a little exaggerated, expected, inevitably a little exaggerated, right?"
Zhao Qihui's face twitched even more: "Your exaggeration, but you have lost all my confidence." (To be continued......)