Chapter 385: Nieces and nephews
"No, I'm still early, and it will be three years later." Hongli touched his chin and said.
This year is a big year for the draft, and I am not old enough, and I am not suitable, although there will be some show girls who fall into the show, but, help, the unsuccessful ones are not those who are not looked down upon by some identities, or some who have already had a marriage contract, and deliberately failed to open up the relationship in the palace for fear of being selected, and there is really no one suitable for them.
"A little girl, you're not old yet, are you?" Hongtian said suddenly, anyway, he felt strange about this.
You said that the fourth aunt's house is not short of manpower, why do you want Eniang to help greet you, yes, it is indeed to help greet aunts and aunts, but, aunts and aunts, who is not familiar with the fourth aunt's house, why do you need Eniang to greet them?
Obviously, it was for the mother's family brought to others.
I am a few years younger than Hongli, naturally it will not be me, it is obvious, the fourth aunt will do this, it must be to let Eniang help each other, at least let Eniang brush it first.
"Could it be my third brother?" Hongli held on to a glimmer of hope.
"Alas, it's not that I said you, you have deceived yourself to this point, your third brother is a concubine, you Ama don't say it, what do you care about, do you think I don't have to owe favors to let my Eniang help brush the election? Do you think the fourth aunt would be so stupid? ”
Do you think it's you? Hongli slandered again, and he was also good-tempered, otherwise, you Hongli wouldn't be able to repay the love you owe us in your lifetime!!
"Seems to make sense." Hongli continued to touch his chin and said, "Then what to do, I don't want to get married yet." Brother, think about it. ”
"It's better to take a look at my Eniang first, my Eniang has always been very demanding, really, but don't help you choose any of my Eniang when the time comes, what have you done to make the girl like you, this is not good."
Sometimes a blind cat encounters a dead mouse, maybe it just happens, or else. Where did you get so much ape dropping!!
"Makes sense. Whoever you picked, let's go and scare that girl again. ”
Hongli said as he went to the front yard with Hongday.
In fact, in this blind date, basically everyone will bring the girl of the right age in the family. There are also girls over the age of 10. It depends on how big your face is. How many excellent girls in the family are placed.
Like Ning Hua, he also brought the eldest daughter of Ning Yuan's family over, although she was only nine years old. However, who made the aunt of the family Qifujin?
Since the separation, Ning Hua and the Earl's Mansion have not been in contact very often, plus the threshold of the Earl's Court is also quite high, and the uncle and several cousins also have military merits, so the girl in the Earl's Mansion is really not worried about getting married.
At most, the two families have seen each other, and they came to Ning Hua to ask for help, and trouble Ning Hua to enter the palace to ask for a holy decree, and there is really no need for Ning Hua to worry about anything else.
Ning Hua is also happy to be a bad person, anyway, isn't it just a mouthful, when the time comes, he will take out the gift money to drink the wedding wine, how comfortable it is, it is much more convenient than finding someone by himself.
Like after this election, there are happy events in the Earl's Palace, but it is not a concubine, a concubine, and a marriage, according to the convention, Ning Hua only needs to pay the gift money, and no one needs to arrive at all.
In these years, there are too many relatives, if you go to attend other people's weddings regardless of your concubines, then basically in the second half of the year, Ning Hua has to drink wedding wine every day.
Over the years, the children of the Eight Banners have been in contact with each other, and they have calculated each other, and it is estimated that there are no more than three or four generations, and they can basically be ranked as a little relative, at most the relationship is farther away, or closer.
In addition, this year is a big year for marriage, firstly, it is a draft, and secondly, everyone can also see that the imperial court will obviously fight with the west in the near future.
Naturally, I have to prepare to get married, in case I really go to the battlefield, I will stay for a while, it's not good!
Like Ning Yuan asked Ning Hua to bring his daughter out this time, he also thought like this, what's the matter, he still has a position now, and he has a good family affair for his daughter, in case he really has something to do on the battlefield, he can't care about the following, and the eldest daughter can at least marry better.
Of course, for the sake of safety, he and Ning Hua have mentioned that it is best to follow the text, the kind of scholarly family.
Anyway, the little girl has an aunt who used to be the first talented woman in the capital, so what's the matter, she can also get a little cheap.
What's more, the little Ulanala clan is also very strict with her daughter, Shuhui is not like Zhiwei, she can be literate and martial, and people don't know martial arts at all, although a large group of boys in the family practice all day long.
Like Sifujin's original idea was to let Shuhui be Hongli's daughter-in-law, anyway, Hongli is not the elder, Shuhui is also from Shangsanqi, and Ama is also considered a high-performing stock in the army, and it is absolutely possible to match Hongli.
Of course, the premise of this is that Ning Yuan has not made a mistake in this battle, and he has to come back alive.
If she died, she was willing, and the fourth master would definitely not be either.
Even if she wants to take care of her cousin, she can't harm her son, right?
The little Wulanala clan naturally agreed, Ning Yuan asked Ning Hua, and when Ning Hua heard it, he naturally immediately objected.
Although people can't compare to the blood relationship of my aunt's cousin, it can be regarded as cousins, together, if the child in a lifetime has a disability or defect, what can I do!!
Fortunately, over the years, Ning Hua has been familiar with each other in the capital, which family is married, and there are some unsightly things in the family, which is still a little clear, so he gave Ning Yuan an example.
The most successful is naturally the example of the second room.
People are aunts and cousins, at that time, Ning Hua also specially took Zhiwei to drink wine, people saw Zhiwei coming, I don't know how happy Lu Dao was.
Zhiwei was by Kangxi's side at that time, you said that the big celebrities around Kangxi came to participate in other people's weddings, which is a lot of face-raising things, not to mention, Zhiwei also expressed enough sincerity to the marriage of his cousins and cousins, and the gift was quite heavy, and people were naturally even happier.
And kiss on kiss, anyway, in the eyes of the world, how to see how appropriate.
After the newcomer enters the door, it is also the harmony of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the most important thing is that the third son and the daughter-in-law get married, and the two grow up together, and the relationship is very good.
And in the second year after entering the door, I hugged the doll, which was still a handle, and the second room was naturally happy.
Although there are already several grandchildren, who would think that there are many grandchildren?
Then, the little couple continued to give birth again.
Well, the second one is a daughter, and the second room is also happy, anyway, the full moon of the two children, the 100-day wine is very lively, and Ning Hua also went to participate, but there is less Zhiwei.
Then, the tragedy came, and when it was time to hold the first birthday banquet, no one called anyone.
Although generally speaking, daughters may not be like sons to hold a week, however, the first birthday banquet still has to be placed, which is also a very important festival in life, but the second room is ignored.
Ning Hua didn't expect it at that time, there were too many things, how could he remember the first birthday of a baby in the second room, the most people posted it, to see if the relationship was close, if it was close, it would go, and if it was not close, let people send gifts to the door.
When Ning Hua heard the news, he brought it up when he heard someone chatting sometime in Dafang.
It is said that this daughter has bad eyes.
There are many meanings of bad work, and the most likely one is that the eye is blind, and even if it is not blind, there must be a problem anyway.
Otherwise, with the second room's temperament that loves to show off, how could he not hold a first birthday banquet and not bring his daughter out to shake?
The eldest son of the family brought it out is called a courtesy.
It's as if their family will give birth to sons, and other people's families won't.
And the fact that the child has an eye disease is definitely a scandal among the nobles, and it will affect the future of the other children in the family.
The safest way is to use the excuse of illness and send it to a place like the family temple when the time comes.
Therefore, although the people in the uncle's room only talked about it in private, they really didn't dare to say it blatantly, because if it was really big, it would more or less affect their children.
Ning Hua was not interested in paying attention to how people dealt with it, so he just took this as an example, and told Ning Yuan by the way that marriage with a relatively close blood relationship would affect the health of the child.
Sifujin and his sister-in-law are cousins, so they are naturally close, of course, the possibility of children having problems will be lower than others, but there is no guarantee that there is none.
I have to say that Ning Yuan is really a good Ama, after listening to Ning Hua's words, I went to some colleagues to inquire, some aunts and cousins, aunts and cousins are married, it seems that there are so many problems, either early death, or disability, or children die more prematurely.
Ning Yuan thought about it, and asked his wife to politely reject Sifujin.
Whether the little Wulanala clan has talked to Sifujin, or how to talk about it, Ning Hua doesn't know the way, anyway, as long as he knows the way, his niece will not have anything to do with Hongli.
It may not be true, but no one can gamble on it.
And Ning Hua also said to Sifujin this time that he would bring his niece, and Sifujin naturally agreed.
In the view of Sifujin, the children of the nobles in the capital, which one is comparable to Hongli, although Hongli's talent is a little worse, but the Manchu people started with military merits, who minds that talent, that is only respected by the Han people.
Just let Ning Hua see, this child in the capital, our Hongli is the most outstanding and the most suitable for our niece.
Ning Hua took Shuhui around, and chatted with Wufujin and Sanfujin for a while, and then let a few girls play on the gazebo by themselves, and by the way, let a few children make friends.
Compared with Ning Hua with Hongday and Shuhui, there are more children brought by the third and Wufujin, and each family brought three.
Generally, a few Fujin will bring, naturally it is their own mother's family, compared to Dong E's family, it is really more prosperous than Wufujin's mother's family Ding.
Look at the three brought out by Sanfujin, all of them are from the grandmother, but the appearance is slightly worse, not to mention compared with Sanfujin, it is compared with Wufujin who is the worst of all Fujin, that is about the same.
But you have to know that the three girls are still thirteen or fourteen years old, and Wufujin is older than Ning Hua.
This can be seen the posture of the three girls. (To be continued......)