Chapter 263: Respect

Yan Ling glanced at Fluttershy suspiciously, and then thought that the two children were adopted together, and Fluttershy knew Zu'er before Yan Ling adopted them, so maybe she would know what Zu'er was thinking.

"Hehe, in fact, it's nothing, I just want to ask Zu'er what he likes? You are also older, and my mother will not hide it from you, and now there are many good sects that come to the door and say that they want to collect Zu'er. You should also know that the resources for cultivating in the sect are much better than following your mother's side, although your mother is reluctant to let you go, but she can't delay your future, so I want to know what Zu'er likes? In this way, it is good to help choose a good school. ”

Fluttershy looked at Zu'er in embarrassment before she said, "Mother, you can't let Zu'er stay with you, Zu'er's personality is too pure, and my daughter is worried that going to the sect is not suitable for him." And Zu'er doesn't have anything he particularly likes, alchemy talismans, he is quite interested, but Zu'er's favorite thing is to eat, and he likes to eat things made by his mother. ”

Yan Ling is embarrassed now, in fact, she is also clear about Zu'er's character, it is better to stay by her side, but after all, she is an adopted son, and her two children have gone to a good sect, so she will keep Zu'er by her side, Yan Ling is worried that Zu'er and Fluttershy have other ideas.

"Fluttershy, you're older, your mother won't hide it from you, your mother has her own ideas, although you are adopted, but your mother has always treated you as her own, and I know that Zu'er is the most hodee to stay with me, but I am worried that you will blame me later. After all, the resources of the sect cannot be compared with me here, and the things that can be seen in the sect will be much stronger than those in Niang. You also know your mother's character, if it is not a last resort, your mother is reluctant to leave Maple Leaf Valley, which is not good for your growth. Yan Ling sighed, not knowing if Fluttershy understood what she meant, if it was her own child. It's okay no matter what, but after all, he is an adopted son, in case the child thinks that he is a liar in the future, Yan Ling really has nothing to do.

"Mother, you don't need to say this, we all know how you treat us, in fact, Fluttershy is also in favor of letting Zu'er stay with her mother. But we are a little worried about outsiders' statements, we know it in our hearts, but outsiders don't know that they will think that our mother is biased. Fluttershy saw that Yan Ling was talking to herself so clearly about it today, so she told Yan Ling these words. In fact, among the children, Fluttershy and Zu'er have the most relationship, although they were both adopted by Yan Ling, because they have been with Zu'er for the longest time, Fluttershy sees Zu'er as a younger brother in her heart. I usually take more care of my Zu'er.

β€œhaha。 My daughter has really grown up, and the mother you said is not worried. What outsiders think is someone else's business. We don't care, I'm worried that I will make the wrong decision and delay your life. Hearing Fluttershy's words, Yan Ling understands that although she doesn't treat them as adopted children in her heart, after all, the children are already old and have thoughts and memories when they are adopted. You will have your own ideas.

"Mother, Zu'er is willing to stay with her mother, Zu'er doesn't want to go anywhere. Zu'er will be very well-behaved, what does the mother let Zu'er learn, Zu'er will learn? Zuer is stupid though. But you won't be lazy, mother, you just let Zu'er stay by your side" Zu'er, who finished eating the sugar water, also snuggled up to Yan Ling's side and expressed his heart to Yan Ling.

In fact, Zu'er is really reluctant to leave Yan Ling's side, only by Yan Ling's side can he feel his mother's love, Yan Ling treats them no different from Yongkang, and even treats them better, Zu'er doesn't want to lose this feeling, so he doesn't want to go to any sect at all, he just wants to stay by Yan Ling's side. And Zu'er always feels that his brothers' talents are intelligent, and he can't compare them, and he is very interested in these things, but the most interesting thing is food, he wants to stay by his mother's side and learn to make food with his mother, so that he can make it for his mother to eat in the future, this is Zu'er's always wish.

Hearing Zu'er's words, Yan Ling smiled a little, what is this kid thinking? "Babies, come to my mother." Yan Ling held the child on his lap one by one. "Mother doesn't want you to learn this and that, it doesn't matter if you don't learn anything, even if you don't learn anything, you won't know anything, it's your mother's child, your mother's baby. My mother asks you just because I don't want you to suppress your interests and hobbies, it's okay, my mother doesn't force you. It's like Fluttershy likes Lingzhi and flowers, and if Zu'er likes food, then Mom will give Zu'er to make it delicious. Mother only wants you to be happy. ”

This is what Yan Ling has always thought, in the past, Yan Ling didn't seem to be able to do these things with Baby and Yongkang, but at least Yan Ling didn't force the child to learn what the child didn't like. Now that Yan Ling is the mother of five children, Yan Ling plans to teach the children all the time according to this idea, whatever you want, nothing will happen? She didn't seem to feel that the children were too attached to cultivating immortals, in Yan Ling's heart, cultivating immortals was just a means, just like everyone in the previous life Shijie wanted to go to work to earn money, all for life.

It's just that the degree of diligence depends on your living standard, in Yan Ling's view, a comfortable and stable life is enough, so she doesn't force the children, but if the children have more lofty ideals than her, she will also support them unconditionally, and even create the most haode conditions to help the children.

Yan Ling and Fluttershy Zuer chatted for a long time, feeling that the estrangement that had always existed in her heart was gone, and she had always been unsure of what the two children thought, but now it was all clear. The family just doesn't need to hide anything, and Yan Ling feels that this matter has been successfully resolved.

In the evening, Yuan Qingxuan returned to the room and asked Yan Ling about today's results, "How is it?" Is Zu'er interested in refining? ”

Yan Ling shook his head, and Yuan Qingxuan patted Yan Ling comfortingly, "It's okay, we still have time, slowly understand, we can always find something that the child likes?" ”

Yan Ling smiled, "You don't need to understand slowly, I already know what Zu'er likes." ”

Yuan Qingxuan raised his eyebrows, "Oh, Ling'er knows what Zu'er likes, so it's much easier." By the way, what does Zuer like? ”

Yan Ling smiled and said, "Zu'er likes food, so I decided to keep Zu'er by my side to teach him and teach him how to cook food." ”

Seeing Yuan Qingxuan's surprised expression, Yan Ling smiled even more happily, since Yuan Qingxuan lived in Maple Leaf Valley, Yan Ling realized that Yuan Qingxuan's dead face was divided, and he would always have only one expression when he treated outsiders, but he treated his family differently, seeing the children Yuan Qingxuan would put on a pampered look, and he could even play with the children.

"Ling'er, have you decided?" Yuan Qingxuan asked Yan Ling again, Yan Ling has never let others interfere in the matter of teaching children, so Yuan Qingxuan can only put forward opinions appropriately, but Yuan Qingxuan does not object to Yan Ling's education method, especially children, they can choose their own lives, Yuan Qingxuan feels that this is quite haode.

"yes, it's decided." Yan Ling sighed. "As long as Zu'er likes it, when he doesn't like it, it's okay to learn other things, anyway, it's his own choice. You don't think it's too much of a joke, do you? ”

This time, Yuan Qingxuan shook his head, "This is the child's own wish, weishenme will feel child's play, now the child is still young and immature, but at least they express their current wish, isn't this what Ling'er has always wanted to do?" I also don't want to put too much pressure on my children. ”

Yan Ling nodded, feeling that it was really rare for him to make such a decision, after becoming a parent, Yan Ling knew how naΓ―ve his previous thoughts were, no parent is willing to let their children do nothing for a lifetime, it is the wish of all parents to hope that their children will become Chan, but Yan Ling really wants their children not to have so much pressure in childhood.

When the children are older, they will put pressure on themselves, and this shijie will also give them a certain amount of pressure, and when that time comes, what the children want to learn, Yan Ling will definitely try his best to help them, but for now, it is better to give the children a worry-free childhood.

Yan Ling has long understood that in this shijie, the pressure of children is much more than that of modern shijie, in modern times, most of the children are learning some dance piano and these things, but in this shijie, learning things are related to life and death in the future, especially cultivation, Yan Ling even feels that his approach is wrong, after all, children do not work hard when they are young, and they are likely to face a life and death crisis.

But even so, Yan Ling is willing to respect the children's choices, these are their own choices, even if they really die because of this in the future, they will ask for it themselves.

Zu'er's matter was decided, and Yan Ling directly asked Yuan Qingxuan to announce the news, after all, they were all staring at these two children now. It is possible that Yongkang will go to the Royal Academy, so there is no way to find a sect now, and Zu'er Yan Ling has to stay by his side.

As soon as this news came out, there were many rumors from the outside world, and many people criticized Yan Ling, feeling that Yan Ling's approach was simply misleading, his own children were sent to the Royal Academy, and the adopted children were left behind. It's just a vain mother, Yan Ling didn't hear these gossips, and Yuan Qingxuan did the same, he didn't explain these words at all, even if they told others, no one wanted to believe them.

There are even a few highly respected powers who deliberately rushed to Maple Leaf Valley, intending to take the child out of Yan Ling's hands, this is an adopted child, Yan Ling can adopt it, and they can too, as long as the child agrees.

As a result, Zu'er's statement completely disappointed them. But they didn't help Yan Ling correct his name, in their opinion, Zu'er just let Yan Ling raise crookedly, so haode A child of Tianling Root doesn't want to forge ahead, and doesn't think about how to improve his cultivation as soon as possible and become an immortal as soon as possible, but wants to learn what kind of cooking skills, this is simply a shame in the world of cultivating immortals. (To be continued......)