Chapter 179
Jia Min sent someone to call Daiyu, sat down with her daughter-in-law, and waved her hand to let the girls waiting in the house retreat.
As soon as Daiyu saw it, she knew that her mother had something to teach them, so she quietly sat up straight, and secretly looked at her sister-in-law Yang's expression, and saw that she was not panicked, scared and other expressions, so she was slightly relieved.
Jia Min tapped on the table, and his smiling gaze swept over his daughter and daughter-in-law, "Yu'er, you have grown up now, and there are some things that you should know about the Dao." Although there are many taboos for my daughter in the boudoir, I have never felt that it is better to be blocked. You are all smart and sensible children, who know what to do and what not to do. ”
Yang and Daiyu got up at the same time, lowered their hands and bowed their heads, and responded respectfully: "Yes, my daughter (daughter-in-law) understands." ”
"Okay, okay, let's all sit down." Jia Min smiled: "I just give you a word of advice, I believe you are all measured." She took a sip of tea, took a sip, sorted out her thoughts, and then spoke again, "Yu'er must be strange, what did your sister-in-law cry just now?" ”
Daiyu's face flushed, and she bowed her head a little embarrassed, and her slender jade fingers unconsciously rolled up the veil.
Jia Min smiled and said, "Seeing that your sister-in-law is harmonious, I can't be happier." Just now, your sister-in-law came to ask me for guilt, saying that she had been married for two years, and there was no good news, and she wanted to put two people in the house for your brother. ”
Daiyu wanted to speak, but Jia Min waved her hand, "Let's listen to her first, do you think it's inappropriate." Saying that, Jia Min said the names mentioned by the Yang family just now, and looked at her daughter gently: "What do you think?" Tell me about it? ”
Daiyu thought about it, looked at the Yang family again, and then spoke, "If I'm not mistaken, the fathers or mothers of several of them are all on errands in the house, and they all take care of some things." If you take them in, you will have children. I'm afraid that their hearts are so big that they are not good for their sisters-in-law. ”
Jia Min said in his heart, Daiyu really gave birth to a seven-trick exquisite heart. She always thought that in a dream of Red Mansion, Daiyu would die early, just because she saw it too clearly.
Yang blushed a little, "That's what Mrs. said just now." ”
Jia Min nodded slightly, "That's what it means, except for these children who were born and grew up in the mansion." The big girls around you, especially the nurse's daughter and the like, in short, the girls who are very familiar with you, can't be lifted. ”
Yang and Daiyu looked at each other, and it is customary nowadays that the big girl who serves her closely will generally be her husband's aunt. Everyone thinks that the girl who has grown up by her side since she was a child must be loyal to herself. How. But the mother said, can't you let the girl around you serve her husband?
"The girls around you, who are not a few years older than you, have grown up with you. On weekdays. What you like, what you don't like, what you like, your temperament and hobbies, they all know it thoroughly. The days go on for a long time. Even you yourself may not know you as well as they know you. Such girls become aunts, once they have bad intentions. I'm afraid that the ones mentioned earlier are even more terrifying. ”
"In this world, as long as several women share a husband, there is no one who does not think about themselves. Even if not for yourself, you must also do it for your own children. Compete for favor, power and profit, there are many things to fight for, can you still guarantee that they have the same heart as you? When you have one or more enemies who know you very well, you don't die yourself. ”
"If you want them to be loyal to you all their lives, let her rely on you all the time to live, and only you can be her backer, only in this way can they be wholeheartedly for you."
"If you are really tired of your husband, or if you are not in good health, and the heirs of your husband's family will continue, the best way is to bring someone in from outside the house. Send someone to inquire and find an honest and honest son to lift up, which is much easier to control than that girl. She is already one level lower than you, and she has no power in the house, and she has set up rules, no one can say that you are wrong, but that you are generous. ”
Jia Min said a few words, paused slightly, picked up the tea and drank it, and let the two girls think about it for themselves, "Of course, I still hope that you can love your husband for a lifetime, and no other woman will insert it during this time." Don't believe what is written in the four books of women, what three obedience and four virtues, being a wife should be virtuous and generous, and taking the initiative to take concubines for her husband and daughter-in-law are all stupid. If you want to have a restless house, take a little wife back. ”
Daiyu and Yang both made Jia Min stunned, which is completely inconsistent with the current lady's education, okay.
Jia Min smiled slightly: "For example, your second uncle's Aunt Zhao gave birth to a son and a daughter, and for the sake of her children, she always has trouble. It's all just for her to sue in your uncle's ear, how many beatings Baoyu has suffered. Your second uncle is so tired of Brother Bao now, it is not without her credit. Besides, Brother Lian's daughter-in-law, Brother Feng'er, is amazing? Brother Lian'er's house and her own personal maid were all sent away, leaving only Ping'er, who was considered a confidant. But you often go to your grandmother's house, you should also know a little bit about it, the people in the Manchu Mansion hate Brother Feng to death, but they praise her very much, what does this mean? ”
"So, don't think that the girls around you will have the same heart as you? That's impossible, everyone has selfishness, this is normal, the key is to see how you control the selfishness of the people around you, so that they don't hurt you because of this. ”
Jia Min said too much today, and Yang and Daiyu were still a little dazed for a while, and they had to go back and think about it.
Seeing this, Jia Min waved his hand, "You go back and think about my words, but I want you to understand, first, you can't be blindly virtuous and virtuous as a wife, and when you should use some thoughts, you must also use some thoughts; Second, it is necessary to understand the indispensable truth of guarding against others, don't blindly trust others, and think more about yourself. In this world, women are already difficult, and I hope you can all live better, better. ”
After all, Daiyu grew up with Jia Min since she was a child, and her acceptance of her mother's occasional rebellious words is quite high. After Jia Min dismissed the husband who taught her daughter the fourth book that day, she still asked Daiyu to read the fourth book of the girl through and think clearly. In her words: "When the prophet follows the rules, he knows how to step on the edge of the rules and make his life better." "Poof, what she meant by that was very much like what she said to a lawyer in modern times. If you first understand and understand the law, you will be able to exploit loopholes.
But Yang is not, she was raised by an orthodox lady's education. Even before getting married, she also learned the methods of fighting in the back house, but her mother was not as terrible as Jia Min said. Still, she could at least tell. Jia Min really treats her like a daughter, and she doesn't even betray her in this kind of private talk. For a while, Yang couldn't say what thoughts were in his head, anyway, it was messy, and he fell asleep in a huff.
When she returned to her parents' house occasionally, she quietly selected some of what Jia Min said to her and told her mother. Liu sighed and touched her daughter's hair: "Your mother-in-law is the most shrewd, you can listen to what she says, and you usually learn more." She's not going to give you a black path. ”
"Your mother-in-law doesn't rub sand in her eyes, she has a lot of eyes and a lot of means. But she is really good to the child, from your husband to your sister-in-law, that is not a careful upbringing. "To tell the truth, even now, Jia Min is the object of envy and jealousy of all the women in the capital. Nowadays, no matter how decent the man is, he has two or three concubines by his side. Those sons and daughters of the prince's family, not to mention, all grew up in Qiluo. But Lin Ruhai is the exception, and Jia Min is the only one from the beginning to the end. And it is especially tested, no matter how hard you go, he just won't take the bait. After so many years, from Duzhong to Jiangnan. All the officials have also figured out that the beauty trick, which is similar to a move that hits a hundred shots, will also be missed.
Yang got her mother's words. He is more respectful and filial to Jia Min. Jia Min also nodded to her in private, "You are only nineteen years old, you are in a hurry to have some children, and it is not too late to wait for two more." It is extremely dangerous for a woman to get pregnant and give birth, and there are a bunch of women who forget because of childbirth. If you want to have a child, you need to take care of your body first. ”
Jia Min specially invited Huang Zhengjian, who is the best at gynecology in the Tai Hospital, to invite Huang Zhengjian Huang Yuanzheng, and asked him to check his daughter-in-law's pulse, see if there is anything in her body, and then recuperate.
Jia Min's matter of hiring a doctor for his daughter-in-law here was quickly known. This is quite normal, she asked the imperial doctor to come back, and she didn't avoid people, and she dug out a lot of small recipes from Huang Yuanzheng to recuperate her body, but Huang Yuanzheng was depressed.
"What's the matter, Brother Rui's daughter-in-law is not in good health?" At the banquet, Jia Mu suddenly asked.
Jia Min, who was listening to the play, was stunned for a moment, and turned his head to look at Jia Mu: "Where did you start with this?" ”
Jia Mu said: "Didn't you ask her for a doctor?" What's the matter, what is Huang Yuanzheng saying, but she is not pregnant? "It's about her grandson, and Jia's mother is worried a lot.
Jia Minle was happy, "The news spread quite quickly, and it was quite outrageous. ”
"Alas, you girl, what are you selling, don't say it quickly." Mother Jia glared at her daughter.
When the other people in the banquet heard this, they all looked at it with concern, and Mrs. Wang had a faint smile on the corner of her mouth, and asked, "Mrs. Gu doesn't have to worry, young child, the body is good, just take care of it more." ”
Jia Min said: "My daughter-in-law is in good health, but I was afraid that her first child would be difficult to conceive, so I asked the doctor to come back in advance, take a look at her, and then adjust her body." After all, when she is strong, the child can be strong. ”
Jia Mu and the others were a little speechless, "Is this what it is?" ”
Jia Minqi said: "If it's not for this, what else can I do for it?" ”
We all thought that you were fighting to hold your grandson, so you found a doctor to show your daughter-in-law.
Xing has always been very kind to Jia Min, and said with a smile: "Look, look, this is a good mother-in-law, your daughter-in-law is blessed." ”
Jia Min smiled: "Don't dare to be a sister-in-law." ”
Now, Jia Min is sitting in the garden of Ningfu admiring plum blossoms. A few days ago, the plum blossoms in the Ningfu Garden were in full bloom, and Jia Zhen asked his wife You to prepare a banquet, and Jia Jing personally went to the Rong Mansion in the west and invited Jia Mu and others to enjoy the flowers. Jia Min's post was sent by You Shi personally. Thousands of begging, if you want Jia Min, she must come. Speaking of which, You Shi is still very grateful to Jia Min's aunt. Since she tied up the old lady of the family from the Taoist temple, although the old lady still loves meditation, she has gradually taken care of the affairs of the clan. Jia Zhen, Jia Rong, father and son, have a lot of rules, not to mention drinking and gambling at home, raising dramas and the like, even if they go out to a banquet, they don't dare to be too presumptuous. The most important thing is that Jia Jing is back, Jia Zhen and ...... It has to be broken constantly.
You Shi was really relieved in her heart, fortunately, the time is still short, there are not many people who know the Tao, and she can still cook secretly. If this is revealed after a long time, the reputation of the entire Jia clan will ...... At that time, I'm afraid that even she won't be able to get out of it.
Jia Min was quite reluctant to go to the door of the East Mansion, but You Shi asked for a thousand invitations, so she nodded and agreed. I didn't plan to bring my daughter and daughter-in-law with me. But when I thought about it again, it was cold in winter, and I was stuffy in the house every day, so it was rare to be able to go out for a walk and relax, so I called both of them.
I don't want to, she asked the doctor to recuperate her daughter-in-law's body, and it actually made a lot of trouble. Jia Min is embarrassed, do you want to gossip like this.
Jia Min brought her daughter and daughter-in-law over for breakfast. First go to Rongguo's Mansion to meet Jia's mother, and then go to Dongfu together. At first, playing in the mangyuan, a few little girls such as Daiyu, Baochai, Yingchun, and Tanchun also looked east and west, and folded a few plum blossoms into a bottle.
A few girls, you come to me a word, talking about what bottle to use to arrange flowers, Daiyu remembered the old days. said with a smile: "Listening to my mother, my brother was fascinated by reading when he was young, and when he saw everything, he came up to the book, and he even folded it. Insert a bottle, you have to turn the book again and again, and only after learning to understand it. ”
Yingchun and a few people have never heard of it, and they are very curious. "What book, still teach this?"
Daiyu smiled: "I have also read the book, and I am still in my study now." Sisters, sisters want to see. I sent it to someone. ”
"Thank you very much."
Baoyu went to the East Palace because Lin Rui got up in the morning today, and did not come to Ning Mansion, he kept following behind a few sisters, listening to them, and interjected and asked, "Cousin really has learned this?" ”
Daiyu leaned sideways slightly and nodded, "Yes, Grandpa Yuan also specially instructed him." "Literati, everything you play is elegant, so you can set a standard. Daiyu followed Yuan Zhen and naturally learned this. Compared with Lin Rui's scientific examination, Mr. Yuan's focus is on the Four Books and Five Classics, and he is rarely taught on miscellaneous matters, for fear of moving his temperament. For Daiyu, Yuan Zhen is mainly miscellaneous, with four books and five classics, and Daiyu learns quite happily.
Baoyu sighed: "Flower arrangement, as long as you look beautiful and enjoy it, why bother to be far-fetched, and then come up with any regulations, but lose the interest of nature." ”
Although Daiyu didn't say anything again, she felt that what Baoyu said still made some sense, and she couldn't help but be a little impressed by this cousin who was rated by her mother as unlearned and unskilled.
After everyone walked around for a while, You Shi came over to invite someone, saying that the banquet had been prepared. Mother Jia took the lead and sat down separately, Baoyu looked at Daiyu who was more and more elegant and elegant, and then looked at Baochai with a delicate posture, and a few sisters and sisters with different postures, and they were reluctant to go. He secretly glanced at Jia Min, and saw that she didn't seem to object, so he happily sat down in the girls' seat.
Jia Min naturally saw it, but because it was a family banquet today, there were no outsiders, and the atmosphere at the banquet was very relaxed.
Baoyu was extremely happy to see that Jia Min was silent, and kept talking to Daiyu. Daiyu had just made some changes to this cousin, and she also gave him a little answer, and she didn't know what to do with Baoyu. He was so happy that he couldn't help but drink too much, and he was a little tired for a while, and his eyes couldn't open a little.
Jia Mu saw the order: "It's so coaxing, rest and come back." ”
Jia Rong's daughter-in-law, Qin, was standing on the side and waiting, and when she heard this, she hurriedly came over and smiled: "We have here to clean up the house for Second Uncle Bao, the ancestor can rest assured, just leave it to me." Then he waited for Baoyu's nurse and waited: "Mama, sisters, please come with me from Uncle Bao." ”
Jia Mu has always known that the Qin family is a very appropriate person, and when she saw him go to settle Baoyu, she was naturally very relieved.
During the banquet, everyone didn't feel anything, and Du Jiamin looked at Yimu in front of him with some familiarity. After drinking another glass of wine, the corner of his eye just happened to see a slender girl following Baoyu. She suddenly remembered, isn't this the part where Jia Baoyu opened the meat! Jia Min is embarrassed, Baoyu is only twelve, right?
Well, Jia Min has been wearing it for too long, and many plots in the book have been forgotten. At that time, this was the first time Jia Baoyu went to the Illusory Realm. Still in a dream, it became a good thing to be with a fairy, and it was a spring dream. After waking up from the dream, the first time that the attacker knew what he had left, and the two of them did ridiculous things after returning home.
But Jia Min remembered wrongly, she thought that Jia Baoyu was in the Qin family's bedroom with the attacker, and she had achieved good things. She is still strange, Jia Baoyu is surrounded by so many people, why are the two of them so eager to do this kind of thing, and no one knows about it? If others don't say it, just Jia Baoyu's nurse Li, can she stop it? Even if in the Rongguo Mansion, no matter how casual it is to teach men, it is impossible for a twelve-year-old child who has not yet grown up to experience the affairs of men and women.
She was puzzled here, and when Baoyu got up from a nap and watched his expression attentively, there was nothing else except for a little blush? and the people around him all came back with Baoyu, and there was no special expression on the face of the nurse Li. Could it be that she remembered wrong, Jia Baoyu opened meat not in this episode?
After the banquet, Jia Min went back with a stomach full of questions.
Winter is coming, and soon it will be the end of the year, Jia Min has too many things to do, do some New Year's gifts, and take her daughter and daughter-in-law out of the country to the banquet and return the banquet. The queen in the palace, when the New Year is approaching, often recruits Jia Min into the palace. As soon as there were too many things, she threw them away.
At this year's New Year's banquet, Jia Min still sat in the closest place to the queen, whispering to her from time to time. When she got up to change her clothes and came back, she met a young woman in palace clothes, in her twenties, with plump skin and a charming appearance.
The woman blessed her body slightly, trembled slightly, and called: "Auntie." ”
Jia Min was stunned, and carefully looked at the palace beauties in front of her, and sure enough, she had three or four points of resemblance to her second sister-in-law, Mrs. Wang. "Yuan Chun?"
Yuan Chun nodded slightly, "Yes." ”
Jia Min sighed slightly, and asked softly, "How are you doing?" ”
Yuan Chun's eyes were red, and he almost wanted to cry, but he couldn't bear it, revealing a sour smile: "The queen mother is very good to me." ”
Jia Min was also a little sad when she saw it, but after all, this is not the place for gossip, she only asked the most important words: "Yuan Chun, my aunt only asks you, do you want to leave the palace?" ”
Yuan Chun came to wait for Jia Min today, in order to arouse the blood relationship between the two, so that Jia Min could recommend himself in front of the queen. In the past year, two of the people who entered the palace with her to be a female historian have been favored by the saints and sealed their positions, and they are serious palace concubines. Although the position is not high, it also has a serious name. When she saw this, of course she was anxious. But his family couldn't help at all, and his uncle was able to arrive, but he was promoted out of Beijing. Yuan Chun was recently ridiculed by the sisters who cherished the day, and he was naturally not angry in his heart. It happened that Jia Min came over at the New Year's banquet, and she had the courage to come over to meet people.
But to her surprise, Jia Min asked her if she wanted to leave the palace as soon as she saw it.
What kind of palace is out, if she wanted to marry an ordinary person, she would not have come in through the door back then. Since he entered the palace that day, he went out without any results, and he was ashamed to death.
Jia Min asked again, Yuan Chun looked at her pitifully, biting her red lips lightly, with an indescribable grievance. When Jia Min saw it, she didn't understand what this niece thought. She smiled slightly: "When the old lady was going to send you to the palace, I said that I would never care about your affairs anymore." I just made an exception to ask, for the sake of our surname Jia. You are my niece, and you should always do your part as an aunt. Obviously, what I want is not what you want. In that case, you don't have to come to me again. After she finished speaking, she planned to bypass Yuan Chun and add it to the banquet.
Yuan Chun was a little anxious, and hurriedly said, "Auntie, can't you help me?" ”
Jia Min didn't reply, and said lightly: "I said, if you want to leave the palace, I will help you plead with the queen." For the rest, there is no need to speak. After saying that, he deliberately stood for a while, and there was no sound behind him. She sighed secretly, everyone has their own ambitions, she did what she had to do, and the rest couldn't care so much.
Back at the banquet, although Jia Min had a smile on his face, his eyes inevitably showed some emotion. Queen Cui glanced at her with a smile, leaned over slightly, and whispered, "Your good niece is looking for you?" ”
Jia Min didn't move, and replied: "Yes." Why, do you see it all? ”
Cui Shi smiled: "After so many years in the palace, if I don't have this ability, I don't know how many times Lu Dao has died." ”
Jia Min was silent for a while, Xiao Jin's relationship with Cui's family is very good, and Cui's own five sons, even if this is the case, in the deep palace, I don't know how many murderous traps are waiting in the Dao. She is the queen, and even so, a little concubine, how difficult it is to survive in the palace! Yuan Chun has been in the palace for so many years, haven't you seen it through! (To be continued......)