548, On the question of marriage
Xin Yi smiled and looked at Jian Chengcai again.
"Do you know about your early love?" For high school students, it's better to focus on studying.
How important high school is, this delay, I can't get into a good university, and I am limited in how wide and far I can go in life......
Xin Yi wants to talk about these two children, both of whom are her younger siblings, and she has this supervision.
"Sister, you won't be so vulgar and want to study hard, right? Don't be old-fashioned, only those fools who stumble on books can't get a girlfriend. Jian Chengcai's face didn't matter.
Now, bad students love girls with good academic performance, don't look at the girls with good grades in the class, they look very well-behaved, but how many are still original?
Stupid, it's not a terrible crime to fall in love, as for being said so seriously by adults?
“……”
Xin Yi choked, is the times changing too fast, or has her thinking been caught up behind?
She remembers that when she was in high school, she was really immersed in the sea of questions, and there was no half-discriminating mind.
Maybe, it's also stupid to read, in addition to being able to answer questions, interpersonal and social skills are close to zero.
"Don't want to go to college?" Xin Yi asked Jian Chengcai.
"My dad is such a big company, I just study Peking University, my dad also has a way, what are you anxious about?" Jian Chengcai is still indifferent.
Lao Tzu has the ability, why does he have to work hard as a son?
Lao Tzu worked hard to make money, isn't it just to create a better life for his son? Besides, students who study well will definitely do well in the future?
The most unreliable thing in this society is the grades, and it's stupid.
"I can't communicate with you." Xin Yi pressed her scalp, she really couldn't keep up with the way of thinking of middle school students now.
Turning to Jiaojiao:
"Ah Cai has a good family background, and he has a lot of reasons to justify his lack of learning, but you are different, your mother hopes that you can be admitted to university and find a decent job in the future."
Jiaojiao smiled a little shyly and said in a low voice:
"Sister Yiyi, the purpose of being admitted to university is to find a good job, and finding a good job is to make more money, and to earn more money is to live a good life, and you can buy whatever you want. If I marry Ah Cai, I can live a good life. ”
"......" Xin Yi looked at Jiaojiao with surprise in her eyes.
Jiaojiao gave her the impression of being simple and serious, and I often heard my aunt say that their youngest daughter stayed up late for homework or something, why did she confess her heart be like this?
Whether to see the world so realistically would distort her worldview.
"Jiaojiao, you're only a teenager, and you're thinking about getting married?" Xin Yi was a little helpless.
In fact, she said this very unconfidently, she said that Jian Chengcai was okay, and said that Jiaojiao had no position at all, what do people think about you?
"Sister Keyiyi, you're not much older than us, and you're also married." Jiaojiao smiled and said that she didn't take this as a big deal.
"Moreover, Ah Cai and I are only in love, and we haven't gotten married so soon, and my mother only allowed me to fall in love when I went to college, so I have to wait. I really don't understand what they all think, my mom wants your dad to be so open-minded. Jiaojiao said regretfully.
Jian Chengcai sat crookedly, as if he was spread out on a chair, and young people are probably like this now.
Xin Yi himself has reached this level, and he has been regulated a lot by Tang Jinteng, so when he sees someone who is more unruly than himself, he can't stand it. Turn your face away and look to the other side.
Jian Chengcai took the things on the table and said:
"My dad...... is only tolerant of the third sister, and my second sister was not like this before. ”
It should be the pressure exerted by the third brother-in-law, the Jian family is not very feudal, but it is definitely not very enlightened. Besides, Old Man Wen was still there before, and he still attached great importance to the marriage of the younger generation.
"Then you can't marry me?" Jiaojiao asked suddenly.
Jian Chengcai smiled perfunctorily: "Why not?" I'm a son, can my dad still let me get married? ”
"Why isn't your eldest brother married yet?" Jiaojiao asked again.
"My eldest brother, he is all my public nuisance, he used to be engaged to someone, and my father-in-law gave him a refund. The daughter of the building materials company quit the marriage and drove away a batch of materials, but did not pay, the family held a grudge, and the person introduced by my eldest brother later was not killed by the family. So what about going abroad, coming back with gold plating, and doubling in value. Jian Chengcai said lightly, it's none of his business, but there is no way to block the exit.
Jian Chengyou's original marriage was indeed as Jian Chengcai said, it was originally done, but because the cooperation between the two families was unpleasant, Mr. Wen was stunned and let people retreat.
The building materials company was a small company at the beginning, and it was natural to rely on it when it was close to the Wen family. But after the Wen family got married, they pressed the price of materials again and again, and they took a penny for a penny, and the Wen family wanted to use 3K money to get 5K goods, how could this be done?
The building materials company thinks it's all in-laws, and I don't want to make too much trouble, so I want to discuss, 5K goods can't work, give 4?
But the Wen family said on the other hand that they were insincere, they were all a family, and they still took their interests so seriously, so they didn't want the goods under the list.
The two families stiffened back and forth, and in the end, the family still didn't let go, and the Wen family proposed to withdraw from the marriage. That family still thinks that the business will not be benevolent, but the Wen family insists on tearing their faces, no, retreat.
The matter of returning this is not over, the Wen family said that the batch of materials is going again, the deposit is paid, and a batch of goods is taken away, and the balance is not settled, so it is over.
The family's inquiry was fruitless, so they shook the matter out.
Jian Chengyou has such a family background, and his own conditions are not bad, but he can't talk about the object, and he feels that the Wen family has problems with their life. Naturally, the right family will not put their daughter into such an in-law's house, and the Wen family can't look down on the small family.
So Jian Chengyou's marriage was consumed like this.
Xin Yi listened to the two children younger than her, and felt very strange.
She always felt that she was still very young, only nineteen years old, still in school, married, married, married, these things are still a long way from her, and now it is a little funny to say this?
But what did the two kids say?
Jiaojiao's face was surprised:
"Sister Yiyi, is nineteen years old still young? In ancient times, women got married at the age of fourteen, and there were many babies at the age of fifteen or sixteen, and women at the age of twenty were old women, and they were still young at the age of nineteen? I've heard that you can get married in college, right? I'm just waiting to get to school. ”
“……”
Very good, Xin Yi choked again.
After a pause, he said a little seriously: "If you don't study seriously now, you won't be admitted to college." ”
"If you can't get into college, there is still a talent, he said, I can choose whichever university I have money."