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On my list of things I hate, "two people who have been in love for a long time suddenly separated" must be in the top three. But most people still have to declare "I wish you happiness" and "I wish you to find someone better than me". Obviously crying behind the computer screen and unable to speak, but still trying his best to pretend to be free and easy, it really makes people want to laugh at their childish pretentiousness, and inevitably feel sorry for them.

A couple who I know but are not familiar with, once swore that they planned to get married after graduation, and they didn't contact each other for a long time, and one day they suddenly saw the state of the girl's hair, and sighed that Singles' Day was coming but they were alone, only to know that they had broken up silently. deleted the couple avatars that had not changed for several years, replaced the ** name, and dried up the clues left by the other party. In her state, her friend replied, "It's okay, it'll be fine after a while." She said, "Yes, yes." ”

If there is one of the easiest professions in the world, it must be the psychiatrist when a friend falls out of love, and anyone can casually prescribe the all-purpose prescription of "time". We all think that "almighty hot water" is a joke, but as everyone knows, "almighty time" is also the same.

A few years ago, when the 33-day breakup was hot, some people said that Huang Xiaoxian had been in love with Lu Fan for seven years, but forgot that he only used 33 days. These thirty-three days actually didn't make Huang Xiaoxian forget about Lu Fan, but just made her a Huang Xiaoxian 2.0 version, a person who no longer lives for Lu Fan, but for a better self.

I once met a girl, and her two boyfriends broke up with her because of some personality conflicts, which made her feel frustrated. She once said: "I thought that I had forgotten about it so long after I broke up with my first person, but when the current one and I mentioned breaking up, I realized that I was even more sad than the first time I was dumped, and the memories of the first breakup came flooding back, and I felt like a rotten person." ”

All she did was not to think about it, she just relied on time to kill her sadness, and she never found the real reason for the breakup. When she meets the latter one, all she can gamble on is luck.

Any lonely time after a broken love, if you don't grow up, then you have wasted those tossing and turning nights, and the suffering brought to you by the suffocating love. One day, when you are faced with the same situation again, you will only get worse and worse.

Time can't save that sad you, only you can save you. What time does is make you numb and get used to it, but it can't make you let go. Some things, if you can figure it out, a second is all, and some things, you can't figure it out in your life, and your life is also imprisoned.

What you really need is to learn to grow up over time and have the ability to heal yourself. And this qiē has nothing to do with the length of time.