Li Yajuan said: "Just now, Deputy Director Chen Wenyun came to you and said that he would invite you to dinner at half past five in the evening, and the location was in the private room No. 336 of the Qinghe International Hotel.

When Xiang Tianliang heard this, he was stunned, "Sister Li, are you kidding?" ”

"Can you joke with the leader? It says on the letterhead, read for yourself. Li Yajuan pouted.

It was really written by Chen Wenyun himself, and Xiang Tianliang said strangely: "No, since ancient times, subordinates have invited superiors to dinner, is the sun going up the mountain from the west?" It doesn't make sense for a superior to invite a subordinate to dinner. ”

Li Yajuan smiled and said: "The superficial reason is very sufficient, you cooperated with the relevant departments to sabotage the extraordinarily serious case this time, and you were commended by the municipal party committee, and the honorary title at the end of the year must be indispensable, Chen Wenyun is in charge of the organization and personnel work, and concurrently serves as the secretary of the party committee of the bureau. ”

Xiang Tianliang said: "This Wang Yifan, as well as Yao Jinxing, Wu Shiyong and Su He, are all with Chen Wenyun, right?" ”

"Some people weren't before, but now they are, and in general, they're all in the same group."

"There's no good banquet, I'm not going, Sister Li, you help me find an excuse to push it." Xiang Tianliang sat on the sofa and shook his head and said.

Li Yajuan walked over and said with a smile: "You have to go." ”

“weishenme？”

"Because I promised you to come down."

Xiang Tianliang looked at Li Yajuan, stretched one foot between her legs, and said with a wicked smile: "Sister Li, you can do it, you are all my home." ”

Li Yajuan hurriedly escaped, this office is surrounded by glass walls on both sides, Lao Liu Tou is sitting there, and he can see it as soon as he looks up, and Xiang Tianliang is a person who does what he says, he is happy, and it is difficult to stop it, so it is better to stay away.

"Xiao Xiang, they invited you this time, because the drunkard didn't mean to drink, you can take the opportunity to find out their movements."

"You mean, they're because of the cold air that the old woman is releasing from her?"

Li Yajuan nodded and said: "That's right, the old woman released the air a few days ago, and she wants to carry out a large-scale adjustment of the overall cadres at or above the deputy section level, who can sit still, but everyone can't figure out the old woman's hole cards now, she is an absolute master in this regard, and she is deeply hidden, everyone thinks that you and I and Ye Nan are the people she trusts the most, and they should be able to know something, but Ye Nan is studying in the party school, and I never participate in the wine party, so you are the most suitable person." ”

After thinking about it, Xiang Tianliang said: "In this way, I really have to go, they touch my cards, and I will steal their cards." ”

"That's it, if you want to make a name for yourself in the Construction Bureau, you have to mingle with them."

But when I think of the wine game at night, Xiang Tianliang's head is a little big, Chen Wenyun is very particular about the rules, but he can't drop the chain in front of him, he can't lose face, and he has to win even more taste, and he doesn't understand anything about entertainment.

After thinking about it for a while, I still had to ask Li Yajuan for advice.

Li Yajuan smiled, "Hehe, it's okay, sharpen the gun in battle, and it's not fast." ”

Xiang Tianliang shouted vigorously, and Li Yajuan was happy, "Xiao Xiang, a teacher for one day and a teacher for life." ”

"This student has always respected the teacher, please start the class as soon as possible." patted his chest to the dawn and swore an oath.

Li Yajuan said with a smile: "Grandma Liu has just entered the Grand View Garden, and socializing is a rule that must be understood. ”

Xiang Tianliang said: "Don't worry, my memory is the best in the world, so I don't need a notebook, let's have a temporary cramming." ”

"Formal banquet occasions, of course, first pay attention to the number of seats, facing the door for the respect, the rest of the people are still left to respect the east, if it is a round table, then facing the door of the host and guest, the host and guest left and right hand position, then from the distance from the host and guest, the closer to the host and guest position more respect, the same distance then the left side of the respect to the right, if it is the table of eight immortals, if there is a seat facing the door, then the right seat on the side of the door is the main guest, if not facing the door, then the right seat on the east side is the chief, if it is a big feast, the arrangement between the table and the table pays attention to the chief in front and center, If you are the host, you should arrive in advance, and then wait at the door and usher for the guests, if you are the invitee, then you should follow the host's arrangement. ”

Xiang Tianliang nodded seriously, "Oh, I still understand some of my first steps, but I haven't been so particular." ”

"And where are you sitting tonight?" Li Yajuan asked with a smile.

Xiang Tianliang smiled and said: "I have a little soldier, and I must be in the last seat, facing the master and chief with my back to the door." ”

"Okay, let me talk about the order of toasting, generally speaking, the host first respects the guest of honor, then the guest of honor to the guest of honor, and then the guest of honor returns the salute, zuihou is the guest to respect each other, you must remember that the guest must not be noisy and toast, that is very impolite, and it is also very disrespectful to the host."

"Hehe," Xiang Tianliang smiled, "I'm very lazy in this regard, less active and more passive." ”

Li Yajuan continued: "Let's talk about the etiquette at the banquet, first, everyone is happy, do not whisper, most of the guests at the banquet are more, so you should try to talk about some topics that most people can participate in, and get the approval of most people, because of personal interests and hobbies, knowledge, so the topic should not be too biased, avoid self-respect, the world is far and north, the gods are boundless, and there is a phenomenon of digression, and ignore everyone, especially try not to whisper to others, give others a sense of mystery, and often produce "just the two of you." "The psychology of jealousy affects the effect of drinking."

"Second, aim at the guest and host, take into account others, grasp the overall situationMost spilling banquets have a theme, that is, the purpose of drinking, when going to the banquet, you should first look around at everyone's demeanor and expression, distinguish the main and secondary, don't simply drink for the sake of wine, and lose a good opportunity to make friends, and don't let some grandstanding drunkards mess up the host's meaning."

"Third, the language is appropriate, witty and humorous, sprinkled on the table can show a person's talent, common sense, cultivation and communicative demeanor, sometimes a witty and humorous language, will leave a deep impression on the guests, so that people invisibly have a good impression of you, so, you should know when to say something, the language is appropriate, witty and humorous is the key."

"Fourth, persuade the wine in moderation, do not force it, often encounter the phenomenon of persuading the wine on the wine table, some people always like to use the wine field as a battlefield, try their best to persuade others to drink a few more glasses, think that if you don't drink the amount, it is not real, and the hero is judged by the wine, and the person who drinks a lot is OK, and the person who drinks a lot is difficult, and sometimes the excessive persuasion of alcohol will completely destroy the original friend's feelings."

"Fifth, the toast is orderly, the main and secondary are clear, toasting is also a science, under normal circumstances, the toast should be in the order of age, position, guest and host identity, before toasting must fully consider the order of the toast, clear priority, even if you drink with unfamiliar people, you must first inquire about the identity or pay attention to how others call it, this is well known, to avoid embarrassing or hurtful situations, toast must grasp the order of the toast, there is a request for a guest at the table, he naturally has to be respectful, But be careful, if there are people of higher status or older who are present, you should not only be respectful to those who can help you, but also toast the Venerable Elder first, otherwise it will make everyone embarrassed. ”

"Sixth, observe words and colors, understand people's hearts, if you want to be appreciated by everyone at the wine table, you must learn to observe words and colors, because to communicate with people, you must understand people's hearts, left and right, in order to play a good role at the wine table."

"Seventh, the edge gradually shoots, sit firmly on Mount Tai, at the banquet to see the occasion clearly, correctly evaluate their own strength, don't be too impulsive, try to retain some wine and speaking proportion, neither let others underestimate themselves and don't show themselves too much, choose the appropriate opportunity, and gradually radiate their edge, in order to sit firmly on Mount Tai, so as not to give others the idea of this ability, so that everyone does not dare to underestimate your strength."

Xiang Tianliang listened with great joy, "Sister Li, it turns out that you study these things all day long, you are deep hidden, enough to write a book." ”

Li Yajuan glanced at Tianliang with disgust, "Listen, pay attention to it, the following content, you can use it tonight, as the saying goes, the wine is thicker and thicker the more you drink, but there is also a lot of knowledge and details on the wine table, you have to pay attention to it, first, the leaders drink each other before it is their turn to toast, toast must stand up, raise a glass with both hands, second, you can have many people to respect one person, never one person to respect many people, unless you are a leader, third, you respect others, if you don't touch glasses, how much you drink depends on the situation, such as the amount of alcohol the other party, The other party's drinking attitude, must not drink less than the other party, you must know that you respect others, fourth, you respect others, if you clink glasses, a sentence, I drink, you are free, show generosity, five, remember to add more wine to the leader, don't blindly give the leader wine, is to represent, but also in the leader really wants to find someone to represent, but also pretend that he wants to drink because he wants to drink instead of drinking for the leader to drink, such as the leader is not strong enough to drink, you can stop the person who is ready to respect the leader by knocking on the side, six, pick up the wine glass, hold the cup with the right hand, and pad the bottom of the cup with the left hand, Remember that your cup is always lower than others, if you are a leader, know the point, don't put it too low, otherwise how to call the following people, seven, if there is no special person present, it is best to touch the wine in chronological order, do not favor one over the other, eight, clink glasses, toast, there must be a word, otherwise, why should I drink your wine, nine, don't talk about things on the table, drink well, things are almost the same, everyone knows in their hearts, otherwise people will not be open to drink with you, ten, if, purely if, encounter the situation that the wine is not enough, Put the wine bottle in the middle of the table, let people add it themselves, don't be stupid and don't rubbish to pour the wine one by one, otherwise what if the people in the back don't have wine? ”

Li Yajuan said a lot, and Xiang Tianliang sighed after listening to it, "Alas, I remember it, but unfortunately I can't apply it, Sister Li, why don't you go with me." ”

Li Yajuan smiled: "You are less stinky and beautiful." ”

Xiang Tianliang said with emotion: "It's better to drink with friends, there are not so many stinky rules, you can drink if you want, and you will be happy." ”

Li Yajuan said: "This is a compulsory course, if you want to mix in officialdom, you have to learn this set." ”

"Chinese people, fuck, it's a nation that wants to die and suffer to save face."

Xiang Tianliang knew that there was no good banquet, and it would be difficult to pass tonight.