"Personnel, personnel, be a person first, then do things, and in the end, you have to deal with people." Fang Monan said with a smile. "There's nothing wrong with being human! If you don't handle interpersonal relationships well, this is not easy to do! ”

"Alas! The world of adults is so difficult to understand! Mao Tou held his chin in his hand and sighed with emotion.

"Hehe......" Fang Monan hugged him and smiled and fell on the bed. You little ghost. ”

"The merits of the truth are naturally clear at a glance; Everyone can tell this truth, and it is better to sing than to speak. But at the practical level, people's behavior in the human environment is often not so clear. After all, human beings are emotional animals, not cold machines, one is one, two is two. Paul said as he sat on the couch.

In the final analysis, face is a special label that mixes friendship, recognition, credit, self-esteem, reputation, and of course, dignity.

Favors need carriers, that is, gifts, dinners and errands.

Fang Monan said unhurriedly, "So! It is impossible to be an absolutely perfect person, and it is a demanding requirement to be perfect. However, the pursuit of perfection should be everyone's ideal, and only by constantly pursuing perfection can we continue to approach the realm of perfection. If you do a good job, you will definitely do things much more smoothly.

Being a man first is indeed the premise and foundation for doing things well. As for what it means to be a human being, this is the wisdom of the wise and the benevolent, so you can ponder it slowly in the days to come! Everyone's life path is different, just as there can't be two leaves in this world.

But I think it's kindness, sincerity, and principle. Reason in reason, love in the relationship is what those who do big things and small things should pay attention to! ”

The little ones just pondered for a moment and then left it behind.

"Yu Ning, you know a lot!" Niuniu's innocent eyes sparkled, looking at Tang Yuning with adoration.

Tang Yuning squirmed embarrassedly, "It's not so much, it's all grandpa." ”

"What you're talking about is really hard to understand!" Erya shook her head and said, "One thing is the most important, that is, everything must have a degree!" ”

"Ghost girl?" Fang Monan took a comb to comb her shawl long hair, and said unhurriedly. "It's not just a degree. The important thing is supervision. It may take hundreds of years to change the cultural psychology of a people. Human affection is the internal logic of Chinese people since ancient times.

Human affection is our wisdom through the ages. In the past 2,000 years, it has become the only existing ancient civilization, and the role of human affection in maintaining social stability cannot be ignored. Dynasties can be changed, human feelings remain the same, and society survives. Blood-linked. Warmth of humanity. This is a tradition that makes the Chinese nation proud. Don't forget. our critique of capitalism's cold human relations; And now we also advocate warmth in society, and there is more family affection and family warmth than gold. Therefore, the questioning and criticism of those human societies are not in the public and not in the private. On the road of pursuing the rule of law, how to get rid of the shackles of the rule of man. Where there are two sides of the same body, there is no absolute distinction between good and bad! ”

"Isn't it written in this newspaper every day? Building the legal system. Right! Dabao said with a wink of innocent eyes.

"But now the law is so thick!" The second little hand gestured, "Why do you need to strengthen the construction of the legal system!" ”

"Stupid!" Niu Niu scolded with a smile. "It's useless to write it, the key is execution."

Tang Yuning said in an old-fashioned manner, "The Son of Heaven is guilty of the same crime as the common people, and it is all bluffing." You've seen a genius who did this. ”

The imps actually shook their heads.

"Look at what we are doing, Grandpa Lin talks about the ancients, we have listened a lot!" Dabao smiled and said, "Don't underestimate us! ”

Fang Monan couldn't cry or laugh, these little ghosts showed themselves again that they could understand.

Historically, China did not move towards the rule of law, is it because there is no law? The laws of ancient times were much harsher and more cruel than they are today. Just hearing all kinds of punishments makes people's scalps tingle!

The harsh laws of the "Great Ming Law" and the complete system of the "Great Qing Law" far surpassed other countries in the world at the same time, but as a result, we can only watch the rising country go to the rule of law, and we are always in the whirlpool of human rule.

This is because the human feelings under the Confucian ethics of governing the country confuse public and private, go beyond legal principles, and bending the law for favoritism has become a political evil that is difficult to get rid of in the feudal era.

In traditional society, Huaxia runs on two tracks, one is law and the other is human feelings. These two tracks are not parallel but intersect from time to time, such as the ancient saying "the law is nothing more than human affection" and the ancient law "it is not a crime to hide each other". Confucianism advocates that "human affection should be straightened out by heaven", and there is a saying among the folk that "human affection is greater than heaven". Human affection up to the temple and down to the countryside is not only based on the natural nature of human nature, but also because of the unity of righteousness and benefit and has been applied by the world. Therefore, ancient societies were humane societies; The rule of man in ancient times is, to a certain extent, the "rule of human feelings".

So from ancient times to the present, we have seen that if there is affection, there is a relationship; If there is a relationship, there will be consultation; Where there is discussion, there is flexibility; Where there are adaptations, the legal system is compromised. Then you will return the favor, and there will be an exchange of interests; Fixed interests become alliance circles; In the circle, the affectionate face is not the law; By extension, the whole society will talk about human feelings rather than the law.

But now, just as Dabao said to strengthen the building of the legal system, in fact, if the rule of law fails, it is not the responsibility of human feelings, but the problem of rules.

In modern countries with a legal system, there are also personal connections and personnel origins, and there are Skull and Bones in the political arena in the United States, family politics in Japan, and political interest groups and interest exchanges in Western countries. In the past, the president of the United States "rewarded" the ambassador post to the donors in the election campaign, although it was criticized, but it cannot be said that the United States is a politics of favors.

Because the operating rules are transparent, the authorization process is open and legal. It follows from this that it is not human favors that hinder the process of the rule of law, but the lack of open and transparent rules in society as a whole, the black-box operation of power, and the lack of real supervision.

Industrialization has had a great impact on the traditional human feelings and society of the Chinese people, the market economic system has not yet been fully established, the government controls resources, and the legal system is not yet perfect, especially the private and public boundaries of government officials have not been clearly demarcated. Some people rely on their fellow villagers, classmates, comrades-in-arms, relatives, and other relationships to form secret circles with officials who control resources, and collectively share fertilizer. Such a circle is a group network of interpersonal relationships, a kind of long-term cooperative relationship, these people often through this kind of social nature of human contacts, and even rely on the emotional relationship of relatives, fellow clansmen, fellow villagers or friends, so that the circle is more stable; As a result of many transactions and cooperation, small groups gradually developed from loose to close, constituting a relatively safe system, unless the spoils were uneven and few capsized.

******

"What do you think?" Jian Huixin stretched out her hand and shook it in front of Fang Monan.

Fang Monan came back to his senses and hurriedly said, "Okay! It's not too early, go to bed! Now, little ghosts, go to bed! Let's go home early tomorrow morning and strive to get home at noon. ”

"Hey! Okay, I'm finally going home. The little ones cheered.

"I like home so much! I thought you liked to come out and have fun. Fang Monan clasped his hands to his chest, raised his eyebrows and smiled.

"I've had enough fun, I'm so homesick, I don't know that the peaches, grapes, and apples at home should be edible." Dabao sucked his mouth, looking like a greedy cat.

"It's not that I'm homesick, it's that I'm homesick." Fang Monan scratched his little nose and smiled, "You little gluttonous cat." ”

"Alright, go to bed, and you'll be able to pick it up and eat it yourself tomorrow afternoon."

The children followed them back to their rooms to sleep.

Fang Monan put his hands on the pillow behind his back, and next to him were sleeping seven and eight forked Dabao and Erya. She couldn't sleep, she slept for five days at once, and it was strange that she could sleep!

Looking sideways at the two of them, their sweet sleeping faces, one by one, touched their smooth faces like peeled eggs, and before they knew it, they had grown up.

Fang Monan sniffed her nose, always feeling that there was someone else's smell in the room, a very familiar qi machine, and she sat up with a 'Teng'.

The children almost fell to the ground, and Fang Monan hurriedly waved his hand to move the children to the center of the bed.

Fang Monan scratched his head in annoyance, this guy, damn guy, why did he come and didn't wake her up.

She clenched her fists, I must look good next time we meet! Pretty!

In the middle of the night, Fang Monan closed his eyes slightly, calmed down, and tried to find out his divine sense, he didn't have much hope, after all, the capital was very far away from him, but he didn't expect to find him in the middle of the set.

Such a surprise had already made her forget to ask the master for her guilt, and sure enough, the technique was the ability to improve the fighting method, and it improved the fastest.

This kind of divine communication is equivalent to an indirect opening of the soul.

The two divine senses collided with each other, as if the souls of two people were also touching, giving her a wonderful feeling, as if she was embraced by him, her heart trembling and her heart palpitating.

Divine consciousness blends with water and milk.

The divine consciousness exchanged, and the thoughts of the two seemed to be completely integrated at this moment, which was subtle and charming.

Her various thoughts were fed back to the other party without reservation at the moment when her consciousness intersected, and many embarrassing thoughts were also inadvertently captured by He Junyao during the exchange.

Of course, the courtesy is still exchanged, and what he thinks in his heart, she can also capture it as soon as possible.

Hey! …… Sullen man.

The wisps of affection, wonderful, tactful, like a clear spring trickle, but the silent love is getting stronger, as if it is an invisible love thread, tightly surrounding and wrapping the two of them.

Compared with the last time, there was a bit of reluctance to communicate with the divine senses, and it was stopped at a shallow taste, but this time it was a real 'entanglement'.

Surrounded by sweet emotions, let them reminisce and be nostalgic, and the two embraced each other, and the moment was eternal.

The feeling of spiritual throbbing brought about by the touch of divine consciousness is very addictive, and it is difficult to let go of it as long as you taste it for the first time.

Don't think that this will forgive you!

Hum! I'm very angry! (To be continued......)

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