Under Liu Yuru's questioning, Xu Haodong had no choice but to copy and come up with an explanation on Baidu.

"A confidante is a confidante who is spiritually independent and equal in soul with a man, and can achieve deep resonance. It's not just an emotional trash can for men to blindly pour out their troubles, or a nest for birds to return home only when they are hurt in the outside world. Due to the particularity of men and women, confidantes are known as a kind of fourth type of affection that is free from family affection, love, and friendship, and is the highest level of heterosexual friendship. But it is more dangerous, once it is uncontrollable, it will cross the line into the love between men and women. Generally speaking, a wise man lets a woman foil herself, and a wise woman lets a man flatter herself. A confidante is a beautiful background in a man's life, and the scenery is picturesque only for you. A confidant is the most precious, the most rare, and the most coveted existence in a man's life. ”

Liu Yuru said seriously: "I am honored to say this. ”

Xu Haodong said: "Confidantes believe in such a sentence; True love spans the length of life, the length of the soul, and can exist in various forms, and what men in this world need most is not only a wife, but also a confidante. ”

Liu Yuru smiled slightly, "I know that the most important thing to be a confidante is to abide by the boundaries, you have set the tone for our relationship, and I will abide by it." ”

"When you are sick in bed and fighting with pain, the person who holds your hand and is flustered and tears is the wife. She is afraid of your pain, afraid of your death, and wants to hurt for you, die for you. She cried and cried. Obsession with you, move you, make your soul uneasy. And confidante no, confidant doesn't cry, she just stands at the head of the bed, stares at you quietly, reads your heart, and then tells you with her mouth and her eyes and her heart that she knows where your pain is, she understands you, and is willing to share it silently for you, so that your soul is no longer lonely, so that you are gratified. It can be seen that the essential difference between the two is: crying because I love you; I don't cry because I understand you. ”

"Haodong, although you are from Baidu, I am still very, very moved by what you say."

"Oh, then I'll play again, and let you be moved a little more...... A man, if there is a woman in his life who loves you unforgettablely, and there is a woman who understands you, what more can a husband ask for? If a woman wants to be eternal in a man's life, she must either be his mother, or be a confidante that he will never get, understand him, but it just doesn't belong to him, give him appropriate care, but don't give him affection, don't give him the threat that you will fall in love with him, and don't let him have the urge and passion to fall in love with you, this is a confidant. The confidante is like a naughty seduction, and with a single eye on you, he hooks out the mischievous, enthusiastic, active part of all the men in you. In front of her, the man has no way to escape but surrender, and he really can't escape, and he doesn't want to escape. Normally, the wife is the confidant, and the confidante is the listener, she may be a gentle and lovely child, or she may be like a bold buddy, in front of her the man can be a tired bird or a prodigal son, can be tired, lonely, helpless, evasive, lazy, and she is able to accept your night, give you quiet, and be your space to recover your energy. If the wife is the sun, the lover is the moon, then the confidant is the star, the sun and the moon have tiredness, but the star does not, it sparkles and shimmers, willing to be lonely but brilliant and long. No matter how high you are in front of others, you can't look up to you, and in the eyes of your confidantes, you only have dignity and no majesty. She can walk through the layers of masks, walk into your heart as if no one is there, and have a soul dialogue and communication with you in a language that you and she understand...... All in all, in short, those who can be confidantes must be the best among women, and those who can have confidantes must also be wise among men. ”

"Giggle...... Fleshy, too numb, too shameless, while praising me, he also praised himself. ”

Xu Haodong said: "I am serious. ”

At this time, someone at the door answered: "Brother-in-law, when will you be serious about me?" ”

It's sister-in-law Xu Yunjie who is here.

Xu Haodong smiled: "The vinegar jar is here." ”

Liu Yuru said with a smile: "To be exact, it should be a small vinegar jar." ”

Xu Yunjie was not to be outdone, "What do you mean, do you want to unite against me?" ”

Liu Yuru hurriedly said: "Don't dare, how dare I." ”

Xu Yunjie said: "Sister Yuru, don't listen to his nonsense, I'm not a vinegar jar, because I don't have any vinegar to eat." ”

"Hehe......" Xu Haodong said with a smile: "I don't know who said it, saying that Dr. Liu Yuru took the opportunity to save me, not only took off my clothes, but also saw my body, the acetic acid is a hundred times more sour than the old vinegar in Shanxi." ”

Liu Yuru smiled and leaned back.

Xu Yunjie blushed and complained: "Brother-in-law, can't you tell others everything." ”

"Okay, girl, listen to me." Liu Yuru said with a smile: "Your brother-in-law was injured this time, and he can't get better in a hundred days, so in these 100 days, he basically can't take care of himself." In other words, in these 100 days, he will be under your management, and you can toss him as much as you want. ”

Xu Yunjie smiled: "Okay, he has been bullying me, and now it's finally my turn to raise my eyebrows." ”

Xu Haodong said with a sad face: "It takes a hundred days, is it so serious?" ”

Liu Yuru nodded and said: "Haodong, it's not just a matter of talking about hurting your muscles and bones for a hundred days, with your current injury, I'm afraid you won't be able to get out of the hospital in a hundred days." In addition, you have lost too much blood and your body is too weak, and I think it will take more than a year to return to your pre-injury health. ”

Xu Haodong sighed: "I can't work for a year, I'm going to be finished." ”

Liu Yuru asked: "Haodong, are you worried that the upper authorities will send someone down and take your place?" ”

"Yes, that's exactly what I'm worried about." Xu Haodong nodded and said, "So, Sister Yuru, I can't stop working, I have to keep working, even if it's lying in bed." ”

"I see." Liu Yuru said: "I discussed with Dean Chen, and I said that you will recover quickly, you will be able to get out of bed in one month, and you will return to normal in two months." ”

"Well, that's it."

At this time, someone at the door said, "Isn't it the right time for us?" ”

It is three big talents, Xia Fulin, vice chairman of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference, Wang Weiming, director of the Propaganda Department of the Municipal Party Committee, and Li Zijian, chief of the first section of the secretary of the Municipal Party Committee Office, as well as the wives of the three of them, as well as the gifts and flowers in their hands.

After the condolences, the women withdrew, and only the men were left in the ward.

Xu Haodong opened his mouth to criticize the three of them, "You guys don't have a good headband, and you come to see me with something, it's to make me make a mistake." ”

Xia Fulin smiled and said: "The three of us are exceptions, which shows that the three of us have a little personal relationship with you, as the secretary of the municipal party committee, you can't live without a few friends." ”

Wang Weiming said with a smile: "The three of us only spent less than 300 yuan in total, which is not beyond the prescribed range, so you can rest assured." ”

Xu Haodong nodded, "Okay, let's not take it as an example." You have come just in time, and I have something to ask you about. ”