Jiang listened to the words of his mother and sister-in-law, and stopped what he wanted to say. Or her own sister spoke more directly to her sister, and the corners of her lips twitched, and she said to her: "You are too kind, people who give birth to different hearts like this can't stay or marry." ”

Yan Shenyou wanted to sneeze again, she must have had a brain twitch to feel that this family was very warm!

In fact, this family is still very warm, at least, the people sitting here are all Jiang's grandchildren, and they are naturally similar in feelings. And they are all daughters of families, so the ideas are naturally closer. At this time, although the family is hypocritical, it has not yet reached the point where it will not be able to do anything but hypocrisy. Since Da Jiang has picked up the words, the others will not be sharp, and they will all speak bluntly.

Fan Wen Yan explained to Jiang: "Otherwise, what can you do? Born to be the daughter of this family, with fine clothes and food, and slaves and maidservants, since they have enjoyed this blessing, they have to bear this matter, how can they take advantage of all the good things? What can you endure, she can't? She has an outside heart, and she is not the same as the family, what do you want her to do? He relied on her and married her, and she didn't have a family in her heart. ”

Fan's father is an official to Situ, her mother's surname is Mi, and she is the beloved daughter of Prime Minister Mi. Jiang Rong was able to marry the Fan family because the Jiang family hanged their three daughters in the "Bingyin Rebellion". The atmosphere is very good! There are many families in the world, but they are reluctant to do this, and after the chaos is quelled, some of them quietly take their daughters back, and let another person - naturally they will not marry too well, and most of them will be quietly sent away. Some simply did not admit that such a daughter was robbed, which made many women of the same age as the Jiang family miserable.

After the Fan family got married, he always restrained himself with various etiquette rules, and he was proud of his family, and he was a clan woman, so he naturally had to consider the overall situation.

Da Jiang is also a clan woman who married an heir, and then said: "This is legislation for future generations, if everyone follows her example, the family will be dissolved." When such a person uses you, when you are a family member, once something happens, she can take you as a foothold, what is the use of such a relative? After getting married, when you go to your in-law's house, you are still like this, taking advantage of you everywhere, wouldn't it ruin the reputation of the family, and you have to make enemies for the family? And she has a suspicion in her heart, and she has this bad thought, and she will use such scheming to deal with her family in the future, hehe......"

Yan Shenyou couldn't help but tighten his scalp when he heard this "most hated word by netizens", and said in his heart, MD! You cows! With such a group of relatives, Yan Shenyou suddenly felt that he was really too young, too simple! In this world, she has to learn.

Unexpectedly, what was even more awesome was the Jiang family, and her old man made up a sentence: "You young don't know, Sanniang's mother-in-law, didn't your mother-in-law also get sick when she died of illness before she proposed marriage?" ”

Yan Shenyou's little ears were erected again, and his eyes were round, looking a little funny and cute. Jiang Shi reached out and touched the top of her head and smoothed her hair: "Look at her, it's as if she understands it." ”

Jiang waited for Jiang to finish teasing her daughter before saying: "If you don't understand, I will tell her to listen, and if you listen to it more, you will naturally understand." To choose a day for apprenticeship and to learn the truth of being a man, where can you wait for the day? ”

Jiang Shi showed a pleased smile, and she also combed her short bun, looking very kind: "Back then, the first emperor received Zen, and he came to the generals and families to say that he came in person. It's also the luck of our family, I don't know if it's good or bad, your aunts are all ...... Family affairs can't be married, but other people's families are different. The Chu family is famous, and the son-in-law's maternal ancestor is also a capable minister, so he naturally wants to express one or two. His family is lucky, and the Taiwei Chu who went is your mother-in-law's father, and there are many servants in the family, and he escorted the family to escape from the capital and was not robbed.

It's just that the Yan family is really rude, so they agreed to marry a daughter to him. Although Yan Cheqi was vulgar at that time, he was also young and ambitious, and the official was in a high position. It's not very humiliating to her, which ancestor didn't come to stay up from a white ding? Who knows, hehe, this person is most afraid of pretending to be smart and treating others as fools. She did the same thing as Erniang, her own father was nothing, the first emperor was watching from above, so he had to promise your mother-in-law and her son-in-law's father. Within three months of coming back, a girl from the Chu family fell ill and died. This is still the disposal of my father! "If there is not such a precedent, Jiang and Jiang Rong would not be so straightforward and decisive when they deal with Erniang, and they should always think about what to do. Now that there is a precedent, it is just to do it.

The third aunt Zhou also added a sentence at this time: "If she has something, the family will naturally support her, and if there is something at home, she will naturally want to work." Just thinking about taking advantage of the family, Jin Zun and Yu are noble, and I don't want to suffer a trace of grievances, any offending work is someone else's, and others deserve to be tired and worship her," he said with a sneer, "Even the Son of Heaven can't do it!" ”

She is of the same clan as Fan's cousin. Prime Minister Mi Lao has two daughters, one married to the Fan family and the other to the Zhou family, Fan Situ's daughter is the same age as Jiang Rong and is married. Zhou Sikong's daughter unfortunately married early, so he rushed to marry his niece to the Jiang family. This cousin of the Zhou family has to call Fan's aunt an aunt, and everyone is a relative. is Jiang's sister, and she is also married to her mother Jiang's relatives of the same clan, but the generation is slightly wrong, from Jiang's here, the big Jiang family is a generation shorter than her husband Jiang Xi. But in this era of bloodline, bloodline is more important than seniority.

The second aunt You Shi also said: "That's exactly the truth. ”

Jiang Shi was silent, and Yan Shenyou was also silent. Yan Shenyou began to worry about his future, but after thinking about it, he actually felt ...... There seems to be a little bit of truth in what these people are saying. Can't you resist? Do you really want to accept it? According to her father's unreliable appearance, I am afraid that he will not be able to protect his wife and children. Is it going to be swollen now?

At this time, Yan Shenyou didn't notice at all that her grandmother was saying bad things about her grandfather, and she really didn't care much about her grandfather, who she had never met and had never heard anyone say good things about him.

Jiang Shi only said: "I see." ”

Jiang sighed: "I didn't tell you, I thought that your mother-in-law had been working hard in that family for so many years, and she was getting better, and she had some tricks, if you knew a lot of her private affairs, it would not be good to expose it." It's better to respect your in-laws, make less mistakes, and just let your son-in-law live well with you, let's just push it. Who knows...... Even if you don't say it, you ...... It's always been hard for my son. ”

Jiang couldn't hold back anymore and threw herself into Jiang's arms, and the mother and daughter hugged Yan Shenyou and cried, crying so that Yan Shenyou was restless. At the bottom, Fan's and You family, Da Jiang and others hugged each other, and they were crying breathlessly, but it really seemed that they were doing anniversaries and missing their ancestors.

It's so easy, they collected each other's tears, and Jiang told her daughter again: "Look at your mother-in-law, it's even more difficult than you were then, and the concubine also admits it, and it's better for your three little uncles than for her own son, which hasn't delayed your eldest uncle's advancement, who in Beijing doesn't praise her for being virtuous and blessed?" Although our family is not afraid of things, it is better to have more than one thing, you can live well with your son-in-law, or just pass. Since childhood, the son-in-law has been known for his good temper and hard work, but now he just can't turn a corner. ”

Jiang's words are also based on this, Yan Suzhi's father didn't love his mother since he was a child, and he favored his younger brother Yan Pingzhi. has a brother, but he has a lot of responsibilities, and he also reprimands him with a straight face. It was easy for him to read, but he was willing to listen to his husband and worked hard. studied well, and when he didn't see his father praising him, he was not annoyed, but he thought he was not good enough, and ordered him to give up his real job to his younger brother, and he also gave up. Unexpectedly, there was a story about the family, poked his thunder point, and exploded him, and since then he has been running wildly on the depraved avenue without looking back.

These are the inside stories that the Jiang family probably doesn't know much about, and they involve some old things about the Yan family that have been pressed into the corner and can't be mentioned.

Jiang secretly made up his mind, in the past, he felt bad and told his daughter that his mother-in-law's family was not good, and he was originally married low, if he was proud because of this, he was afraid that it would be more difficult to get along with his mother-in-law. If one is not good, even if he can get divorced, in the end, his daughter will suffer. Now I have to take advantage of the opportunity of my daughter's home to keep her more, and talk about it, so that my daughter has some hole cards in her hand, so that she can mediate calmly.

Jiang Shi choked up and said, "I understand what you said......"

Ah Yuan, who was waiting on the side, couldn't hear it, and knelt down: "Old lady, you can help the lady, that family, it's messy!" The old lady was born without pain, but she preferred to be raised by the little woman, and she wanted to earn a good name. ”

Jiang was about to scold, but Jiang had already asked, "What's going on?" ”

Ah Yuan said: "The lady didn't let me say it, I was afraid that the family would worry, but now it will be two years......

Sometimes, as a servant and servant, if you want to be qualified, caring, reused, difficult to replace, and have a very good relationship with the master, you have to say things on behalf of the master that it is inconvenient for her/him to say. Ah Yuan is such a loyal servant, otherwise the Jiang family would not have handed over her eyeball-eyed daughter to take care of her. Ah Yuan has been her personal servant since Jiang was in her mother's house, and she was married as a dowry to the past. Jiang's original choice of people was for this, and when he arrived at his in-law's house, the children born had their own servants, and they were relieved.

After Jiang's self-marriage, life was really bad, her husband was originally a good haode, but he didn't know which thunder point he was poked, and he went out of shape all of a sudden, not at all the appearance of a good boy who was gentle and frugal in the legend. After a few months of marriage, my father died again! After crying with a stomach, he wiped his tears, thinking that if it was a son, everything would be fine, at most when the husband died. She also had many dowries, and she could afford to raise her son, and she taught her son well, and she lived like this. I didn't know that she was born a girl, but her husband never stepped into the door again. From this point of view, the round house is not something he is happy to do. Jiang's stomach was bitter, and he didn't dare to tell his family, for fear that his mother would worry. At most, let his brother come out and repel Zhao's provocation.

It's been nearly two years since this happened, and if you endure it any longer, I don't know when it's over. Ah Yuan saw it in his eyes and was anxious in his heart, because he didn't want to make his own decisions. Today, I can't help it, so I have to let my mother's family know that the house is really clean and bright on the outside, and it's a mess on the inside!