26. He Xiaojun's ideological transformation
He Xiaojun is not Liu Xia Hui, so the beautiful woman who is alive and fragrant threw herself into her arms, so that a revolution has already started in a certain part of him.
He Xiaojun is not a person who eats the ancients, so he doesn't want to break the rules of following the customs of the locals.
What's more, the current situation is not something that a normal man can refuse, unless he is a saint or an incompetent person.
He Xiaojun is neither a saint nor an incompetent person, but also a person with strong blood, so he has the impulse and need for this.
Moreover, what made He Xiaojun even more unbearable was the temptation that he had never imagined in his previous life, and the woman of this era who regarded men as the heavens, gave him a strong sense of superiority.
Isn't it? In He Xiaojun's previous life, due to the imbalance between men and women, there was a pattern of more men and fewer women in society, making women become precious animals like giant pandas. At that time, women occupied almost half of the sky.
Although, not all women have become tigers, but they have basically been hung up and sold, not only no longer obedient to men, but asking men to do this and that, like the situation that women in this era regard men as heaven, has long been extinct.
And now, there are still three women with He Xiaojun as the sky, how can He Xiaojun not have a sense of superiority? What if you can resist such temptation?
What's more, He Xiaojun, who has just crossed into this era, is confused about his future and his future life after seeing the war, poverty and backwardness of this era.
People who can't see the future often give birth to the idea of being drunk today. He Xiaojun is no exception, in the face of the slim future, he lost confidence, and also gave birth to the idea of being a monk for a day and hitting the clock for a day, with an attitude of coping, to face the days in front of him.
It was under such a mentality, coupled with his not very firm mind that he couldn't resist the temptation of this vivid color, He Xiaojun had already decided to indulge himself from his heart and accept the status quo in front of him.
Ah Mei, who was nested in He Xiaojun's arms, didn't know about his psychological changes, and she knew that He Xiaojun's thoughts, which spanned more than half a century, were not understood by a country woman like her, who had no culture and no knowledge.
The only thought in Amei's heart now is to serve the man around her who is not only her own task, but also makes her extremely excited.
"Leader, you know what? Many widows like us here, after being widowed, have never been able to get the love and mercy of men in their lives, so our three sisters can meet a man like you who has a noble status, ability, and love for us, which is already how much incense our family burned in the previous life to get it. Our three sisters will be grateful to you and serve you wholeheartedly. ”
Amei's words made He Xiaojun hear the widow's helplessness.
"Listen to Ah Lian, aren't you widows here allowed to find men?"
"Yes, you can find it, but you have also seen it, how can there be a decent man in our village? Moreover, there are not even many men, like Brother Han, Apu, Ah Guang and Da Niu, who are barely passable, they are all nearly fifty years old, and that's it, they all make many widows in the village worry about it. ”
What Amei said is also the status quo, in Chen Village, except for the few people she just mentioned, the other men are either old people who no longer have that ability, or children who don't have that ability, and the ratio of men and women is indeed extremely imbalanced.
"I heard Ah Lian say that your sisters have never looked for a man after being widowed, aren't you lonely for so many years? Still haven't met the right person? ”
He Xiaojun really doesn't know much about how Amei and the three sisters can be alone under such an atmosphere. Since he had already felt pity for their sisters and had decided to help them, He Xiaojun naturally wanted to understand their thoughts.
"Leader, we who have been widowed for many years, how can we not be lonely when we are alone in the empty room every day? Our sisters also want a man to love and pity us all the time. ”
After Amei poured out the bitter water in her heart, she told He Xiaojun the reason why they didn't look for a man.
"He Jiaotou, I'm not afraid of your jokes, our family background was not bad when we were young, and our sisters at home have all studied in private school for two years, so although we are not noble people, but after all, we know a few words, and our vision is higher than that of the women in the village.
Oh, it turns out that these three sisters are still rare cultural people in the village, no wonder they speak in a tone with a bit of chewing words.
However, perhaps this is also the sorrow of their three sisters.
In that era, in the environment of Chen Village, culture could not be eaten. has no culture, but has no such and such ideas, and lives casually, and like the three sisters of Amei, if they have ideas, they will not be able to achieve high or low, and they can only endure loneliness.
"He Jiaotou, because of this, our three sisters have been lonely for many years and empty for many years. If it weren't for your appearance, our sisters might never be able to get a man again for the rest of their lives, so our sisters are very grateful for your pity. ”
Hearing Amei's confession, He Xiaojun, who knew more about the mentality of widowed women, couldn't help but think of a story he had heard in his previous life and that he had been a joke about.
The era in which that story took place should be similar to the era He Xiaojun is now traveling, because there are also bandits in that story. The place where that story happened should be similar to the place where He Xiaojun is now, because there are also overseas Chinese women in that story.
The story goes like this: Once, a gang of bandits ransacked a village.
That village was not as lucky as Chen's, and was eventually breached and sacked by bandits.
During the ransacking process after the bandits entered the village, one of the bandits met an overseas Chinese woman like Amei.
It may be that the woman's appearance is good, or it may be that the bandit hasn't seen the woman for a long time, anyway, this bandit can't help it, and he can't care about the time left to evacuate, so he pushes down the woman and goes up.
Not long after that incident began in a hurry, the horn of the bandits' evacuation had already sounded, and the bandits, who were not yet satisfied, had to hurriedly withdraw their troops and prepare to return to the brigade to evacuate.
Unbeknownst to him, when the bandit went out, the victim, who was also not satisfied, said something to him that made him dumbfounded and almost wanted to stay.
The victim's woman said, "Brother bandit, when are you coming again?"
When He Xiaojun listened to this story, because he didn't know the era in which the story took place, he questioned the authenticity of the story on the spot, and only listened to it as a joke. Now, after understanding the current situation of the contemporary era and listening to Amei say the voice of overseas Chinese women like them, He Xiaojun has completely believed in the authenticity of this story. Lonely and empty overseas Chinese women, coupled with the contemporary restrictions on the relationship between men and women, it is not surprising that such a story happened.
Although this story was told in He Xiaojun's previous life, there was a certain element of ridicule, but in the current He Xiaojun's opinion, it has more sadness. Isn't it? If the society is developed, where are the bandits and widowed women?
Thinking of this, He Xiaojun felt a little more sympathy and pity for Ah Mei and the three sisters, and the desire to let them get rid of the current poverty and empty days was also a little stronger.