The two of them came out of Mr. Tong's office, it was already seven or eight o'clock in the afternoon, although the summer solstice was coming soon, the days were long and the nights were short, but the night still came.

"Let's go back together, my arm hurt today, you still help me drive, right?" Li Zilong proposed.

Mu Yan looked at his eyes, shining more and more in the dim aisle, and when she saw that it was getting late outside, she nodded.

On the way, Mu Yan glanced at Li Zilong in the passenger seat, who seemed to be tired, so she directly adjusted the seat back slightly, and then closed her eyes and lay down.

Mu Yan thought that he had been explaining the ins and outs of today, as well as the handling of the whole matter, as well as the situation on the media's side in Mr. Tong's office just now. Mu Yan thought that when she went to buy gauze to bandage him, it turned out that there was still an arrangement for the media on his phone.

It was also at this time that Mu Yan knew how many things that the man in front of her had silently done in today's affairs that she hadn't seen. I couldn't help but be touched for a while, and the man in front of me was afraid that he was getting better and better.

It makes sense to say that he is a celebrity around Mr. Tong, this kind of employee with outstanding ability in all aspects, employees who can solve problems for the leader, of course the leader likes it! I am afraid that what he can bring to Mr. Tong is far beyond the scope of his duties.

The night of the city is always bustling and gorgeous, and although it is charming, Mu Yan is no longer in the mood to explore it.

"You can put me down next to you and help park my car in the neighborhood." When the car drove to the door of the supermarket near the community, Li Zilong's deep voice came from the co-pilot.

Mu Yan wondered if he was addicted to smoking, so she put him down. I drove the car directly into the community and returned to my residence.

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As soon as I opened the door, before I could change my shoes, I heard my mobile phone ringing, and when I looked at the screen, Feng Jingjing sent a video.

While continuing the video, he changed his shoes.

"Yan Niangniang, how are you doing lately?" Feng Jingjing's big face appeared on the other end of the video.

"It's okay." As he spoke, he threw his bag on the couch, and then lay down on the couch, ready to have a big chat with his close friend.

"Yan Niangniang, what kind of experience did you say you had after marrying Qiao Hai?" Feng Jingjing, who has always been hippie and smiling, suddenly asked with a serious face.

Mu Yan instantly recalled her married life with Qiao Hai, and then the picture of quarreling again and again flashed in her mind, and for a while, she didn't know how to answer her question.

Then he carefully searched for his inventory vocabulary and said: "Marriage is two people from different families who put together and start a journey that hurts each other!"

In addition to hurting each other, you are hurting yourself, putting yourself in a cage and expecting the person in the cage to open the cage, in fact, that person can't open it at all! So some people will say that marriage is a siege. ”

"Wow! I really think you have a point! Feng Jingjing looked at Mu Yan with an admiring expression, and then said, "You are really an emotional expert!" ”

Mu Yan glanced at her and said, "Wouldn't it be that you, the newlywed, had problems soon after getting married?" What contradictions can you have in a different place? ”

"I don't know, anyway, there are a lot of small contradictions, and sometimes he doesn't answer when I call him. Sometimes he calls back and comes too late. I got angry and hung up on his phone, and he knew that I was waiting for him to apologize, but it took a long time to call me......"

Mu Yan thought it was a big deal, but it turned out to be a small matter, so she smiled and said, "You guys are playing at home as a child, where is it like marriage?" ”

One sentence made Feng Jingjing dumbfounded, and then said unwillingly: "Where, I also found that he has become a lot more stingy after marriage......

Mu Yan didn't wait for her to finish, interrupted her and said: "Those problems of yours have been carefully considered before getting married, these problems in different places are all problems that will exist, I also mentioned them at the beginning, you said that these are not problems, there will be a lack of communication in the original place!" ”

"But I didn't notice this problem before?" Feng Jingjing argued.

"You are not married, of course he will not let this kind of thing happen, and even if it happens, he will try his best to make up for it, but now, you are married, he will naturally communicate with you in a more authentic and comfortable way.

Before getting married, he pursued you, naturally ignoring his own feelings and nervous you, and will communicate with you in the way you like, which is of course expected! No matter how much he loves you, he has to have his true side!

Besides, you haven't lived together yet, living together, the living habits, ideological concepts, and contradictions between the two people are even more, and it's not a thing for you to do this! Mu Yan breathed a sigh of relief after analyzing.

"That's it, but before he got married, he promised me that I would take care of me for the rest of my life, love me, and spoil me, wouldn't that be all a fart~!" Quietly said a little depressed.

Mu Yan was completely speechless: "Before getting married, he pursued you, naturally he paid more, and he was more willing to tolerate you more." But marriage is not like this, marriage is two people taking care of each other, you feel sorry for me, I love and pamper you, two people warm each other, if you have to treat marriage with an attitude of falling in love, sooner or later you will be exhausted.

Man, it's like the exam paper when we were in college, if you score more than 90 points, it means that this man has been eaten to death by you, and you make him willing to be a cow and a horse for you;

If it is between a passing grade and 80 points, it means that the two of you are equal in strength and pay for each other; If you don't pass, it can only mean that you have already been eaten to death, and you only have to be a cow and a horse and be disgusted.

So you have to take advantage of the time period when he loves you, and slowly cultivate him in the direction you envision, rather than by discharging anger, which is the easiest way to push him farther and farther away, but to make him feel that you are vexatious. ”

After saying so much in one breath, Mu Yan was a little weak-hearted, her own married life was a mess, how could she teach others one by one, but what she said she actually tried on Qiao Hai, and the effect was far from what she imagined.

In the end, she concluded that because Qiao Hai didn't love her, she couldn't use these tricks at all, and she unconsciously laughed at herself when she thought about it, but fortunately, these tricks were finally delivered to useful people, Mu Yan felt that these truths were like the children she had conceived, and finally had a bright future!