"I don't know if he let go of me, but I think I let go of him." Sister Zhang said lightly.

Mu Yan chuckled in her heart, it turned out that the strongest relationship for four or five years at the beginning was just one sentence in the end: I have let go. But when I think about it again, what can I do if I don't let it go?

"I think my husband is more suitable for me, although my ex-boyfriend is obedient to me, I can say whatever I say in front of him, he spoils me very much, he can give up himself for me, but I know that the man I need is like my husband, although I used to love my ex-boyfriend very much." Sister Zhang sighed.

For a while, Mu Yan didn't know what to say.

But Sister Zhang turned to bring out a gossip: "I have a classmate, although I married her first love, but now I am not doing well." ”

Mu Yan looked like gossip, posed and prepared to listen to the story.

"They were because her husband was bored, so they made a random call, and then she happened to receive it, and it happened that the two of them were in the window period, hit it off, and they were also vigorous when they were in love, and finally she gave him her first time, but his true nature was soon exposed, and he smoked, drank, and was full of swearing, and his moral character was extremely poor." Sister Zhang commented like a commentator by the way.

He continued: "She came to me crying and told her, so I told her directly, don't get married. But she herself said that something like that had happened to them, so naturally she couldn't break it. ”

Sister Zhang suddenly felt a little excited: "If you see yourself as important for the first time, then don't dedicate yourself so easily." ”

Mu Yan thought for a while and said: "In your era, men will care about a woman's first time, if there is no first time, you will definitely be looked down upon by men." ”

Sister Zhang said with a negative face: "Who said it, it's not the first time for me to marry my husband, love is love, and it has nothing to do with whether it's the first time or not." ”

Only Mu Yan stared at her with big eyes and stunned.

How much of this Sister Zhang has passed?!

It is said that when Sister Zhang said her most private things so boldly, Mu Yan's eyes widened, and she looked at Sister Zhang with a curious baby.

I only heard Sister Zhang lower her voice and whispered to Mu Yan: "Actually, at that time, my ex-boyfriend and I had reached the point of talking about marriage, all the processes of meeting my parents were gone, and the house was bought together, so we were only ready to prepare for the wedding." ”

The careful Mu Yan still saw the instantaneous darkening of Sister Zhang's eyes.

"But at that time, he was in the stage where the job was not assigned after finishing college, and it was not easy to find a job, so he couldn't find a future at all, so he was encouraged to become a soldier, and this time he went for several years, he was in the army, and he was pinched on the phone, until we broke off contact later." Sister Zhang is immersed in the memories of the past.

"You all have that kind of relationship, do you just break it?" Mu Yan asked a little unwillingly.

"Therefore, the warmest feelings will eventually fade over time, and feelings are the things that cannot withstand the test of long-distance distance." Sister Zhang concluded.

"Then does your husband really not mind? Is he the first time? Or is it not the first time that he doesn't mind? According to the customs of your time, even if it is not the first time for a man, he will care if his daughter-in-law is the first time. Mu Yan inquired.

"He's the first time, I'm his first time, but he's not my first time. We met on a blind date, and we didn't have a deep relationship when the relationship was confirmed, and I told him directly that I had a boyfriend before, and everything that should have happened between men and women has happened, and if you don't mind, don't talk about it, and if you don't mind, I'll take you seriously. I am only responsible for your present and future, after all, I didn't know you before, and my past is not responsible for you. ”

"Then how did your husband react at the time?" Mu Yan asked.

"I was silent for a while, and then I said I didn't mind continuing to date." Sister Zhang turned to say: "My classmates actually have some who hide their husbands, they used chicken blood when they got married, and they also repaired their hymen, but I think it's very hard to hide one thing for a lifetime, so why not say it on the face." ”

Mu Yan looked adoring: "Sister Zhang, I admire your way of dealing with the world, your courage, your courage!" ”

Then he said: "However, in my heart, I may be influenced by feudal thoughts, but I still feel that the first time is very important, and I will give the first time to whoever I decide to be with, otherwise I can't even accept it, and how to let others accept it, I also don't mind if the other party is the first time." ”

"Maybe I've been more rebellious since I was a child, I think it's just a one-time thing, and it's not gone after one time, it's not because you have that membrane that men will treat you well, and it's not that many men get it and don't cherish it much."

"Then he quarreled with you later, did he really not mention it?" Mu Yan asked next.

"Nope."

"Then your husband's mind is open enough."

"Otherwise, how could we come together, we still have many similarities in values." Sister Zhang suddenly looked proud.

On the way off work that day, Mu Yan suddenly had a new view of some values, maybe some things were caused by a misunderstanding, so that she didn't express it, so she sentenced herself to death, maybe Zilong didn't mind the mistake of that night.

When he got home, Qiao Hai was cooking in the kitchen. Mu Yan walked into the bedroom with her handbag, and as soon as she put down her handbag, she received a video invitation from her mother, and Mu Yan has maintained the habit of chatting with her mother every week since she was in high school.

Accepting the video invitation, putting on headphones, my mother's familiar face was presented in front of me, followed by my mother's voice: "How was this week?" ”

"That's good!" Mu Yan is used to only reporting good news and not bad news.

"The leaders are all good to you at work," Yeon's mother seemed to want to listen to something.

"It's good, work isn't like that," Mu Yan's consistent subtext.

"It's not easy to start a family now, you have to live a good life with Qiao Hai," the mother began to instruct.

"Well, I'm living a good life," Mu Yan hurriedly replied.

"If you encounter anything, you should discuss it with Qiao Hai, don't lose your temper at every turn, quarrel, quarrel hurts the feelings of husband and wife, if there is anything between husband and wife, there will be nothing between husband and wife." Mother Yan continued to advise.

Mu Yan suddenly felt that her mother's words were wrong, could it be that this man said something to his mother again? It's not like this hasn't happened before, there was a quarrel before, and Qiao Hai sued Yan's mother without winning the quarrel.

At that time, my mother came over on video to say something, live a good life and so on, listen to Qiao Hai's opinions and so on, and then the more Mu Yan listened, the more she felt that something was wrong, so she recognized Qiao Hai. Unexpectedly, this man began to sue again.

Mu Yan suddenly felt that this man was capable enough, and he actually sued his mother.

So he hurriedly asked his mother: "Did Qiao Hai talk nonsense to you again?" ”