"Huh...... Zhengping brother-in-law, don't be sad, I begged for the design drawings for a long time, Nannan didn't give them to me. Han Zhiqian stepped on the clogs and comforted, and under the light, he was gentle and elegant, warm as jade.

Time seemed to slow down, away from the noise and hustle and bustle of the outside world, and my heart calmed down all of a sudden.

"Let's go! Eating and chatting, Nannan was already hungry. Dad Fang came back to his senses and said.

The group arrived at the dining room, "Ah! It's still tatami mats......" Xiaomei said with a frown, "I'm really not interested in this." ”

This is a traditional Japanese room, there is a soft futon under the knees, there is no extra seat, it is estimated that after an hour, the Chinese people who have long been impatient to kneel and sit have numb legs, such as 10,000 ants biting.

"It's simple, and the tatami mat design is often hollowed out underneath, and some small tables that can be raised and lowered can be installed for easy use. It retains the Japanese style of tatami mats, but it is sitting, so it is both. Han Zhiqian smiled, "The Japanese restaurant in the Huitou Hotel can be designed like this." ”

"That's right!" Xiaomei nodded seriously, "It's okay today." ”

The style of the whole box is elegant, concise, clear lines, and the overall layout brings people elegance, cleanliness, and a strong sense of geometric three-dimensionality. Borrowing the natural scenery from the outside, it brings infinite vitality and vitality to the interior, giving people a feeling of affection. The green pine and bamboo on the wall are used as decorations, which is worthy of the prestige of the bamboo sea.

The tatami mats, which are small and simple and combine with the style, create a warm, refreshing and elegant atmosphere, without pretentiousness, and the fragrance of the wood wafting through the mixed food in the restaurant makes people appetize. It makes people have a pleasant mood to eat.

Authentic home cooking, eating and chatting.

"Nannan, why are you kneeling!" Xiaomei asked in surprise.

"That's not bad!" Fang Monan hooked his lips and smiled. "The emergence of chairs has not only changed the dining table, but also changed the psychology of Chinese people."

"This changed the dining table I know, the Tang Dynasty used to kneel and sit, the dining table was equivalent to the kang table low, the emergence of chairs, people's dining table gradually became higher, and people liberated their feet. The impact on all aspects of life is huge. Han Zhiqian said with a smile.

"As for the psychological aspect, before the chair appeared. People have to kneel on formal occasions. This kind of sitting posture seems very uncomfortable now, and I am afraid that it is difficult for us to continue this sitting posture for half an hour. Therefore, people in ancient times had to be trained hard from an early age in order to adapt. The first etiquette that children learn is to kneel. Its significance is similar to that of a new recruit. Kneeling training. In addition to honing the children's will. The more important thing is self-cultivation, because no matter how much you train, you will be uncomfortable sitting for a long time. The heart will be restless, so kneeling training is the cultivation of one's own mental cultivation, so that the heart and sitting posture are in harmony and unity, so as to achieve perfect kneeling. Therefore, people who have been trained to kneel and sit have a tall and capable temperament, and they all have a rigorous and tenacious character. Dad Fang said with a smile. That's what it means! South-South! ”

Fang Monan nodded in agreement and said, "More than that!" Before the advent of chairs, kneeling was the right sitting in social situations, whether you were a son of heaven or a grass person, you had to kneel. Now people may be hard to imagine, at that time, the emperor and the ministers deliberated, when the ministers bowed to the emperor, the emperor was almost kneeling, this approximate equality, the relationship between the emperor and the subjects, the relationship between the emperor and the subjects at that time was more like a partner, kneeling did not have the special meaning of the current low, but a kind of respectful and pious performance. After the appearance of the chair, the meaning of kneeling has undergone a major change in connotation, the emperor sits on the chair, condescending, and the subjects kneel on the ground. ”

"Think about it!" Everyone nodded thoughtfully.

Grandma smiled, "The scene of kneeling and sitting is very common, the Han Dynasty played on TV, the debate between Confucianism and Huang Lao, all kneeling and sitting, in front of the emperor, freely express their opinions, right!" ”

Xiong Baochun also said, "I remember that in the Hongmen banquet in "Historical Records", Xiang Yu and Xiang Bo sat in the east, Fan Zeng sat in the south, Pei Gong sat in the north, and Zhang Liang served in the west. ”

"The appearance of this chair and high-legged table laid the material foundation for sitting around eating, and people gradually began to sit around a table to eat, until the appearance of the Eight Immortals Table, eating at one table has become a custom, and the separate meal system has also changed to a joint meal system." Fang's mother smiled slightly.

Dad Fang said thoughtfully, "Huh! It's strange, how come Europe also has chairs, and there are no kneeling seats, why is there no such tendency to servile? ”

Han Zhiqian said with a smile, "Actually, the reason is very simple, in the etiquette of Europeans, kneeling is rarely used, except for kneeling to God, not kneeling to anyone, even if you see the monarch, you only kneel on one leg." ”

Fang's father continued, "In ancient China, kneeling was the most commonly used etiquette, not only between monarchs and ministers, but also widely used between superiors and subordinates, between grass people and officials. So after the appearance of the chair, the inequality of kneeling is revealed, which gradually plays a servile role. ”

"Hmmm! Well! Han Zhiqian sighed, "No wonder people often say that there is no China after Yashan." The preservation of traditions is something that should be learned like other peoples. ”

"The chairs of the Song Dynasty were widely popular, but the national strength has gradually begun to decline since the Northern Song Dynasty, I don't know if it is a coincidence!" Xiaomei raised her eyes and said.

"Only God knows!" Grandma's index finger points into the air.

"Hehe......"

"You don't have to sit on your knees." Fang Monan shook his head and chuckled. She meditated cross-legged for a few days and nights, and kneeling was a trivial matter for her!

"It's uncomfortable to sit down!" Xiaomei let go of her legs after a while, "Hmm! It's still so comfortable. ”

"Huh...... It's good to be at ease. Fang's mother smiled and relaxed her legs.

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Everyone continued to eat and chat, Han Zhiqian took care of his daughter carefully, he was really a twenty-four filial father.

Xiaomei asked, "Did Zhengping's brother-in-law want to spread the clothes just now!" Don't! This will lower the grade. ”

“givemefive！” Fang Menan stretched out his hand and said with a smile. The two clapped their hands and shook hands, looked at each other and smiled.

"Women like to be unique, unique, and don't want to be a big commodity." Xiaomei smiled, she liked this dress very much.

"The rise and fall of the cheongsam, just like the fate of the word 'Miss', also changes with the general environment." The word 'Miss' is still nice if it is not defiled. Xiaomei said with emotion.

"Defiled?"

Everyone suddenly realized that after the liberation, the word Miss was almost extinct, and everyone was a comrade. After the reform and opening up, 'Miss' is very popular again. At every turn, it is 'respected Mr. and Miss', but from the reform and opening up to the prevalence of 'three escorts', 'Miss' has changed its taste. At this time, if you still call someone 'Miss', you will be considered to be insulting her personality!

"Alas! Really, good words have changed their flavor. Grandma said with a frown.

"That's right! The cheongsam does show the subtle elegance of oriental women. The problem is, it's also a little soury now. In the twenties, cheongsam became popular, and in the thirties it reached its peak of splendor. The daughter of the Song family is a loyal supporter.

In the early days of the founding of the People's Republic of China, the cheongsam was already 'revolutionary', paying attention to generosity and beauty, but lacking sexiness and feminine gentleness. During the sixties and seventies, cheongsams apparently disappeared again. In the eighties, it became popular again, and it was still popular for a while. It's just that now the cheongsam has begun to become professional and uniformed, and some hotels, hotels, dance halls, and manufacturers have made some hostesses and waiters wear cheongsams in order to promote and promote. Some fit well in cheongsam, while others are ugly. There are even some 'escort ladies' who also wear cheongsams in order to attract 'prostitutes'. So the whole style is low. The noble ladies with status had to stay away from the lovely cheongsam. Although the cheongsam is beautifully dressed, who would dare to wear it rashly on the street! Xiaomei said angrily, "I have to wear it at home." ”

Xiaomei's beautiful eyes glared at someone without a trace, cheapening someone who was careful.

Han Zhiqian and his wife's eyebrows flickered, naturally they couldn't hide it from Fang Monan, she pursed her lips and snickered, hum! Isn't it just the love between husband and wife!

Han Zhiqian promised, "Xiaomei, don't worry, I won't generalize." ”

"Thank you then." Xiaomei smiled and said sweetly.

"Hey, hey! To show affection, go back to the room. Fang Menan joked, "It's going to give you goosebumps." Rubbing his arms exaggeratedly.

"Hehe......" everyone laughed.

While eating and chatting, this meal naturally lasted for a long time, and the eldest Xiao Ying'er fell asleep in Han Zhiqian's arms.

After the banquet was dismissed, Fang's father went back to the city alone, and Fang Menan and the others stayed in the hot spring hotel, where Fang's father had a small room and was not very comfortable to live in.

Fang's father just drove to the gate of the hospital, and Lan Tianlang got out of the car, "Have you eaten!" ”

I'm so busy today that I forgot to eat lunch.

"After eating, I ate with the Gui family, and I arranged them in the hotel." Lan Tianlang reported.

"There! Although it is a little smaller, it is better to be clean and tidy, comfortable to live in, and the main thing is that it is cheap. Dad Fang nodded.

Fang's father slowly came to the door of the operating room, it was still full of people, obviously the operation was not finished yet. As soon as they saw his arrival, the pastoral dean and the director of the department hurriedly stepped forward, which was called an enthusiasm.

The two of them told Fang's father not to show his stuff when he confessed, he said! I see. (To be continued......)

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