124 You can't force a man to be strong
Looking at Anqi's appearance now, I feel very uncomfortable, she turned out to be a cheerful and bright, slightly big girl with a slightly big personality, she speaks heartlessly, she values love and righteousness in her work, and she is really good to Chen Qiao, but now she has a dead face, her eyes are a little swollen, and there are dark circles and big eye bags, and the whole person is haggard.
Angel sat in the car with the child in her arms, first calmed the baby, and then looked out the window in a daze. I saw that she was in a slightly better condition, so I asked softly, "What happened?" How did you become so emaciated? ”
She didn't answer me directly, but smiled bitterly and said, "I must have caused you a lot of trouble, but I have no one to run to except you, go home and let my parents worry, wait until I straighten things out before I talk to my parents." ”
"It's fine. You can live as long as you want, anyway, my house is big and the population is small, and you and the baby are more lively. I comforted her.
Angel smiled at me and said, "Thank you, Xuxu." ”
"Who are the two of us, don't be so polite, you can rest first." I didn't dare to pull the topic to Chen Qiao.
An Qi said that Chen Qiao's incident should be true, if it was just a momentary misunderstanding, she would not be in this state. This state of being completely devoid of spirit and energy is clearly the result of a long period of torture.
The baby finally fell asleep in her arms, and she took a long breath and said to me: "Slowly, I suddenly found that sometimes my parents are still very accurate in seeing people, and my father said that Chen Qiao can share the hardships with me. may not be able to share wealth and wealth, and now it has been said as a prophecy. ”
I probably know a little bit about Chen Qiao and An Qi, the two met in college, and they have a similar experience to me and Qi Yue. During the school days, everyone didn't care about anything else, but only talked about Fengyue. Every little couple is as beautiful as an idol drama. There will be some hardships in the middle, but after all, it was not much about economic matters at that time, and each other showed the best side to each other.
After graduation, everyone stayed in the imperial capital to be busy with their livelihoods, running around day by day, and taking off the original beautiful veil. Doing things in the unit during the day may not go well, and then looking at the couples who have become relatives, they will inexplicably anger others about the unsmooth daytime.
If you have a child again, the woman pays more, the girl who used to be a bird is gone, and she becomes a tiger mother, and she can't wait to become a superwoman every day, plus before the child is one year old, all the mother's energy is on the child, and it is inevitable that the management of the relationship between husband and wife will be neglected.
"This matter does not necessarily mean that there is no room for maneuver, Chen Qiao is still good in his bones, what if you misunderstand?" I didn't want Angel to make any bad decisions under impulse, so I persuaded her slowly.
"It's just one last step away." Angel said.
"What's wrong? Haven't slept with that guy yet? I asked.
"It's not." Angel shook her head, "I'm just going to catch the rape in bed." ”
I glanced at her dead eyes, and my heart was inexplicably sad. Why is it so difficult for men to understand a lactating woman.
After Angel gave birth to a child, she first asked her parents to come over to take care of her for a while, and then felt that for the normal growth of the child, she decided to resign herself to be a full-time mother, so she let the child's grandmother leave the imperial capital. Chen Qiao also agreed with this decision at the beginning, after all, he has been working for five or six years now. happened to have an opportunity for promotion during Anqi's confinement, and her salary rose a lot, and she could fully afford to support Anqi's mother and son, so she agreed.
I have to take care of my own children, I want to start a company, and I have to do my own design. Every day is as busy as a spinning top, and there is less interaction with Angel.
In the first year of being a mother, every woman went through a period of basically losing herself, and I understood this situation, so I didn't ask Angel much. Especially recently, things in my family are one after another, so I don't have a chance to breathe. There is less contact with Angel.
Unexpectedly, this was the case when I received her call.
Because there was a driver in the car, Angel didn't say more, and when I got home, I arranged her room in my room, next to it, and asked my aunt to buy another crib as soon as possible.
Now that Angel is like this, I really don't feel at ease if I live alone.
Depression is an ordinary problem, just a difference between mild and severe, and if you don't help her solve it, it is too easy for a person to get into a dead end.
After Angel packed up, she went to visit my dad first.
About Angel coming to live, I told my father, he was full of answers, saying that there are fewer people in the family and more people come to be lively, plus I really don't have any good friends in H City, Xiao Xiao was sent to the U.S. headquarters by the company after I returned to H City, and it is estimated that he will come back in a year. The rest of the people are general acquaintances. Angel can come, and Dad is welcome.
"Anqi, just live here as your own home, and tell Xu Xu if you have something, don't see outside." Dad said gently to Angel.
After a few brief gossip between the two of us, I excused Angel that she was too tired and needed to rest when she got off the plane. And he brought her out.
Back in the room, Angel was a little embarrassed and said to me, "I really didn't expect your father to be so seriously injured, I came at this time, abruptly." ”
"You're thinking too much." I sat side by side with her on the bed, put my arm around her shoulders and said, "We've known each other for years, and we'll see each other for more." I go to work during the day, and you are at home as if you were at home, and you can tell my dad directly about something. ”
Angel's tears flowed out again, and she couldn't help but throw herself into my arms and cry.
Tears flowed down my eyes as she cried, and my shoulders were soon wet with crying.
She cried for a long time, and when her mood stabilized, she told me about Chen Qiao.
After Chen Qiao was promoted, he had an assistant, he was an intern, and he was in the same school and department as Chen Qiao.
Angel didn't know the specifics, what she did know was the results. She found out that it was because she saw the WeChat messages sent by the two on Chen Qiao's mobile phone, and those messages happened to be seen by Anqi before they could be deleted.
At the time, she felt like the sky was falling.
She wholeheartedly raised children for this man at home, but this man spent money with other women outside, and even Chen Qiao gave the girl Angel the gift she always wanted.
Once a woman doubts a man, her powers of observation are nuanced and she will become Sherlock Holmes.
At first, she also hoped that she had just misunderstood, but as she deliberately paid attention. Little by little, the evidence was put in front of her, and Angel collapsed at once.
I listened to her finish the situation and asked, "Have you talked to Chen Qiao?" ”
"Nope." Angel shook her head and said, "I don't know how to speak, you know my character, and there is no possibility of going on at this point." But. Now that the child is so young, I don't know how to separate from Chen Qiao, and how will I talk to the child about her father when the child grows up in the future. ”
These worries of women are really nothing in the eyes of men.
"Angel, don't blame me for reality." I paused and looked at her seriously, "I'll be honest, don't be angry. ”
"I've only told you about this matter, so just say it, I don't want to be confused and make mistakes again and again." Angel's eyes were red as she spoke. "The role of girlfriends is to avoid detours at this time."
She can think like this, I feel a little less pressure about what I am about to say, but everyone's attitude towards marriage has always been to persuade and not to discourage, and my words are indeed a little difficult to say.
"You say, I have my own judgment." Angel was a little embarrassed to see me. Opening.
I sorted out my thoughts and said to her: "A broken family is very harmful to children, but a family that looks like a detached person is even more harmful to children, and I have a say in this." After Yan Yan entered my house, I didn't go home once, because I couldn't accept the cheating of my beloved father. ”
Angel looked at me seriously.
"If Chen Qiao's cheating is a fact, and he himself admits it, I recommend divorce." I said to Angel.
Her face turned pale, and tears flowed out again, and I watched her cry, and after a while, she spoke again: "Actually, I almost went to catch the rape that day." But in the end, I ran away, as if I was the one who did it, I didn't want the relationship of a few years to disappear all at once, and I didn't want this family to be scattered like this. ”
I didn't know how to comfort her, I loved her for seven years and gave birth to another child. Now that the child is less than a year old and her husband is cheating, this kind of thing cannot be calmly dealt with by anyone. She is different from me, I knew when I was pregnant that I was going to be a single mother, and I did my mental construction early. And Anqi has been running to grow old with Chen Qiao, and when she was pregnant, they were both happy now. Hey, it's hard to put into words.
"Anqi, you are the last person to make the decision, but I always feel that a man's cheating, especially during his wife's pregnancy and childbirth, is an unforgivable sin, but if Chen Qiao really wants to change, you can also consider giving him a chance. Now the main thing is to talk to him. I slowed my tone.
Angel loves Chen Qiao, and still is, I can see it in her eyes.
"I just don't have the courage to talk to him, otherwise I wouldn't have fled to H City to find you." Angel's eyes were a little confused.
"But let's face it." I say.
"But the child is too young." Angel's eyes were pitifully red.
I know that it will not be so easy to persuade her, and it will take time for her to adjust her mind and accept it all slowly. I remember someone said that after a few years of love, it will take a few years to forget this person. They have been seven years, and I don't dare to think about it if I forget that Chen Qiao will take seven years.
Perhaps, there is truth in the words of some emotional gurus. The best way to forget a relationship is to start a new one. I thought that after I broke up with Qi Yue, I was with Gu Qinzhi only a few months later, maybe this is the reason.
Think about it, I was just broken up by Qi Yue at that time, I was disheartened, no better than Anqi, the only difference was that I was full of hatred for Qi Yue at that time. And Anqi, because of the child, hated Chen Qiao incompletely.
"Anqi, if you can't make a decision for the time being, take a break for a while." I said to her, "Slow it down and deal with it, some things will be put on hold and you will figure out a solution." ”
You can't force someone to be strong quickly, especially emotionally.
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