Not only Dai Jun was curious, but even Dai Changming and Ye Jiaying were also two people, Dai Changming asked: "Haodong, an old song, come as soon as you open your mouth, sing affectionately and lushly, word for word, is there any story in this?" ”

"A little personal story." Xu Haodong said: "My ex-wife Xu Yunxue liked this song very much when she was alive, and when we confirmed our relationship in college, she had three chapters with me, the first of which was that she must be able to sing this song "Ah Lian". And the reason why she likes this song is for two reasons, one is that she has been sick since she was a child and is in danger of dying at any time, if this song is sung sadly, it is in line with her state of mind. The second is her nickname, which happens to be called Ah Lian, and she has always thought that this song seems to have been written for her. ”

Dai Jun sighed, "It turned out to be really for love." ”

Dai Changming knew Xu Haodong and was afraid that he would be sad because of the past, so he changed the topic in time, "Xiaojun, don't you have a question to ask your Uncle Xu?" Hurry up. ”

Dai Jun took out a pen and a small notebook, and said seriously: "Secretary Xu, I am a reporter from the campus e-newspaper of the High School Affiliated to the University of Tokyo, thank you for accepting my interview." ”

Xu Haodong sat upright, "Oh, do I need to cooperate?" ”

Dai Changming smiled and said, "Haodong, cooperate, this is also the main purpose of my invitation to come." ”

Xu Haodong nodded, "Okay, comrade reporter, please." ”

Dai Jun said: "Secretary Xu, do you have an idol? Who is your idol? ”

Xu Haodong said: "So far, I have an idol, that is, my father, he has been a farmer, a soldier, a worker, he is an eighth-level lathe, the only one among the more than 500 lathe workers in the factory. What he is most amazing about is his eyes, any part in his hand, he can see at a glance how much error is, accurate to plus or minus 0.1 millimeter. ”

Dai Jun said: "Secretary Xu, do you have ideals? What is your ideal? ”

Xu Haodong said: "When it comes to ideals, there are more. When I was a kid, I wanted to be a soldier, then I wanted to be a worker, and then when the factory was gone, my father was laid off, and I wanted to be self-employed. When I was in junior high school, I wanted to be a writer, when I was in high school, I wanted to be a big money, and when I entered the Provincial Teachers College, I wanted to be a teacher. However, life is always unpredictable, and after graduating from university, I stepped into society and entered politics by mistake, so my dream now is to be a good official. ”

Dai Jun said: "Secretary Xu, what do you think of campus love? Do you support students in relationships? ”

Xu Haodong said: "Ouch, this topic is too big. Comrade journalist, your question is questionable, campus, is it junior high school or high school or university? Students, are they junior high school or high school or college students? Of course, I don't support junior high school students and high school students falling in love, but love has the most powerful power in the world, the most mysterious, and the most sacred. Love is coming, and no one can stop it, so whether I personally support it or not has no practical meaning, so I can't give a clear answer. ”

Dai Jun said: "Secretary Xu, you are avoiding this question. ”

Xu Haodong said: "Okay, I think so. Life without love is not wonderful and imperfect, but those who are obsessed with love and abandon their studies will definitely lose love. Life can not have a specific plan, but there must be a plan, in my life plan, there must be love, but also career. And for a student, if he can succeed in both love and academics at the same time, his future will definitely be successful. ”

Dai Jun said: "Secretary Xu, what do you think about failure? What do you think can be done to reduce and avoid failure? ”

Xu Haodong said: "First of all, I want to state that there is no word failure in my personal dictionary, and I never regard failure as failure. Secondly, the ancients had a saying that failure is the mother of success, and this sentence is very reasonable. However, I don't agree with this sentence 100%, because this sentence has become an excuse for many losers. Again, I think there are two kinds of failures, one is understandable and the other is inexcusable, and I seriously despise the latter. Also, in order to avoid failure, I have two mottos, one is that attitude is everything, and the other is that details determine success or failure. Also, in order to increase the probability of success or to reduce and avoid failure, my trick is, learn, learn, and learn again. ”

Dai Jun said: "Secretary Xu, what do you think of the problem of students' pocket money? How much pocket money do you think students should have? ”

Xu Haodong said: "This question is so difficult to answer. However, just last night, our family happened to discuss this issue. My daughter's son is 11 years old, and my father-in-law gave each of them fifty yuan a week of pocket money, while I gave them an extra two hundred yuan each. My father-in-law asked me why I did this? I said that educating and nurturing children used to be the norm for the poor to be poor and the rich to be rich. Now that the times are different, the society has progressed, and the education and training of children should also keep pace with the times. For example, if the poor are poor, occasionally they will be rich for the poor, rich for the rich, and sometimes they might as well come for the rich to be poor. My experience is that you can't get to the end of everything, and the same is true for people. The poor are always poor, and the rich are always rich, of course, they can cultivate talents, but from a psychological point of view, such children are likely to have psychological problems, or low self-esteem or even distortion, or pride and arrogance. Therefore, it may be more effective to relax a little and stimulate it occasionally. ”

Dai Jun said: "Secretary Xu, are you a scholar?" ”

Xu Haodong said: "Absolutely, this is documented, and it is also my pride, and there is always only the word excellent on my report card." ”

Dai Jun said: "But, Secretary Xu, you were admitted to the university but only took a junior college, what is going on?" ”

Xu Haodong said: "It was a turning point in my life. At that time, my parents were both laid off, my grandparents were sick one after another, and the family was in urgent need of money, and the family was very short of money. So I had the idea of giving up the college entrance examination and entering the society in advance, so I secretly went out to set up a stall to do odd jobs, wasting the most critical half a year before the college entrance examination. Later, my parents and teachers persuaded me to take the college entrance examination, and after hard work, I was reluctantly admitted to the then Dongjiang Normal University. ”

Dai Jun said: "Isn't this a failure? ”

Xu Haodong said: "Of course not, I only admit that this is a setback, but also a test, and I am not depressed at all." If I take the college entrance examination normally, I believe that I will definitely be admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University, and I will definitely be able to become an engineer or professor. But I also became famous when I studied as a teacher, and I was still excellent, not worse than famous college students, and not even worse than those who studied abroad. So I didn't fail, I just paused for three seconds on the road of life, and then turned my head and walked on another path. ”

Dai Jun said: "Secretary Xu, how do you educate your children on the issue of learning? ”

Xu Haodong said: "Hmm...... I never pay attention to their scores, I focus on their health and learning attitude, I talk to them on an equal footing, discuss various issues, occasionally remind them, sometimes impart a little bit of my own experience, but I never put pressure on them. If there is any specific requirement, it is to read two extracurricular books every month, the list of books is recommended by me, and I have to write a review after reading each book. ”

Dai Jun said: "Last question, Secretary Xu, I heard that you have a junior military academy there, can I sign up?" ”

Xu Haodong smiled, "Haha, I can't answer this question, you should ask your father." ”