Moreover, this kind of patient will always be afraid of being abandoned by others, and when the intimate relationship with the person he relies on ends, he will feel unusually hopeless. This also just explains that Chu Yulan will be so tendonous and have such extreme ideas, which is also derived from this characteristic of dependent personality disorder.

The main cause of this personality disorder is that the dependency needs of early childhood are not adequately met, resulting in a "verbal phase" (a state of complete non-self-reliance in infancy) in adulthood. The lack of this need makes a person's "psychological lactation period" continue to prolong, and some people are even in a state of "lifelong psychological breastfeeding".

For Chu Yulan, in the six years from a few months after she was born to when she was more than six years old, because of that informal welfare home, her dependence needs were not satisfied, but she suffered a lot of injuries, which is the main reason why she suffered from this mental illness.

And when she gets the love of her current parents, the need in her heart has been released, so that while her heart is satisfied, the "psychological lactation period" has been continuously extended, so that she is at the point where she is now.

Thinking of this, Chu Chen asked, "Xiaolan, who are the relatives in your mind?" ”

Chu Yulan immediately replied: "My parents are counted as one, and my uncle and grandparents are usually good to me, half of them, by the way, and brother, you are counted as one." ”

"Me?"

Chu Chen pointed to his nose when he heard this, and said, "Although it is very likely for me, what if it is?" ”

Chu Yulan hurriedly said: "Brother, you must be, you admitted that you had that jade plate in the morning, plus the other two points, there is no such coincidence in the world." ”

Chu Chen shook his head helplessly, knowing that the possibility was indeed very small, and since the matter was already like this, he didn't think about it anymore. However, from Chu Yulan's answer, he also knew that Chu Yulan was so afraid of herself, which was also a typical feature of this personality disorder, and she cared too much about the thoughts of the people she relied on.

got the answer, Chu Chen was also worried about how to deal with the relationship with Chu Yulan, people with this kind of personality are very easy to be hurt by criticism, so much so that there is no need to talk about it, and he will not criticize her now, the key is that her current submissive appearance really makes him very uncomfortable.

And Chu Chen thought that he might have to face her all the time in the future, which was really a headache for him.

"Xiaolan, can I discuss something with you."

Hearing this, Chu Yulan hurriedly said, "Huh? What's the matter, brother, you just say it. ”

Chu Chen said as kindly as possible: "Xiaolan, can you not treat me like this?" ”

"What? Do you hate me again, brother? Chu Yulan's eyes widened, and she said with a somewhat panicked expression.

Seeing this, Chu Chen hurriedly said: "Xiaolan, you misunderstood what I meant, I mean, don't you be so afraid of me like now, are you at home and like this to your relatives?" ”

Hearing this, Chu Yulan breathed a sigh of relief and said a little weakly: "At home, I am very happy and comfortable with my parents, but they will not scold me." ”

When Chu Chen heard this, he finally knew what the crux of the problem was, and said: "Xiaolan, I was in a bad mood in the morning, I say sorry to you, I promise you, as long as you don't make a big mistake in the future, I will definitely not scold you." ”

"Brother, you don't need daoqian, it's not good for me in the morning, I made you angry."

Chu Yulan waved her hand again and again, and then asked, "Brother, what is the big mistake you mean?" ”

"It's simple, don't do immoral things, it's fine." Chu Chen said.

Chu Yulan nodded hurriedly and said happily: "It's no problem, I definitely won't do immoral things, my parents have also taught me this way since I was a child." ”

"Well, you can rest assured now, but I said in advance, it's better for us to be in contact like before for the time being, don't be too close, our current relationship has not been determined, and I haven't adapted yet, do you know?"

“haode。”

Chu Yulan had no opinion on this request, and she was already very satisfied to get Chu Chen's previous assurance.

"Alright, it's almost time, let's go on......"

In the next journey, there was a section of the road that was particularly difficult to walk because of the steep slopes, but fortunately, with Chu Chen's help, otherwise Chu Yulan would have been tired and lay down, fortunately, that distance was only two or three hundred meters.

Finally walked through that part of the road, Chu Yulan panted and said: "Brother, I found that the resources of Chinese medicinal materials here are very rich, and Weishenme will not develop them?" ”

Chu Chen asked with some curiosity: "Hey, Xiaolan, do you still know Chinese herbal medicine?" ”

Chu Yulan smiled and nodded: "Well, because of my body, I have studied Chinese medicine pharmacy for a period of time. ”

"Oh, we do have a lot of medicinal materials here, such as Banlan root, parsnip, Bupleurum chinensis, grass cassia and so on, not only there are many kinds of Chinese herbal medicine resources, but also excellent quality and large amount, which is our unique advantageous resources here. However, you have also experienced along the way, there is no similar road, even if there is a big business opportunity, it will not develop. ”

"However, there is no road to build, but wild Chinese medicinal materials, no matter how much they are dug up, the most important thing is that they can be artificially tended. However, although this mountainous area belongs to the developed loess landform, due to people's long-term disorderly cultivation and nomadic activities, a large number of vegetation has been destroyed, resulting in serious soil erosion, ecological imbalance, and barren land. ”

"This is not the most critical, the most critical thing is that we have a lack of water resources here, without water, how do you say to develop?" Speaking of zuihou, Chu Chen couldn't help but feel sad for the future of those villagers, could it be that the future of these people can only go out to work, and Zuihou relocate elsewhere?

"Brother, I know that there is a kind of Chinese medicinal herb that is suitable for the geographical environment of this mountainous area."

"Really? Which one is it? Chu Chen hurriedly said in surprise.

"Forsythia."

"Forsythia? Is it the kind of forsythia that we often use? Chu Chen said with some doubts.

Forsythia, also known as yellow flower strips, shells, green warps, falling warps, Huang Qidan, etc., it is a kind of traditional Chinese medicine that clears heat and detoxifies, mainly treats the beginning of fever, wind-heat cold, fever, upset, sore throat, acute nephritis, etc., which is very common in daily life.

"Yes, that's it, I've seen it in books before, forsythia is cold-resistant, drought-resistant, afraid of water stains, strong germination, and has no strict requirements for soil, and can grow in brown loam, brown soil, and fluvial soil, among which brown loam and brown soil are the best. Forsythia has very strong vitality and adaptability, acidic and alkaline soils can grow but is not tolerant to salinity, and has a wide range of suitable growth. ”

"And it can also grow on arid sunny slopes or rocky crevices with soil, and even on the weathered parent material of bedrock or purple sand shale."

"Forsythia is still very hardy and can safely overwinter in alpine regions and bear fruit. Forsythia germination force is strong, the clump is fast, and its distribution area can be expanded quickly, forsythia is resistant to pruning, the root system is developed, the taproot is not obvious, the lateral roots are thicker and longer, and there are many fibrous roots, which can be widely extended around the taproot, and have strong absorption and soil fixing ability. ”

"This kind of life habit of forsythia is just right for the soil and climate environment here, and it has strong vitality, so you don't have to worry about competing for land with farmland and mountains and forests, and you can also protect the environment, which can be said to kill multiple birds with one stone."

After listening to Chu Yulan's introduction, Chu Chen smiled and said:

"Xiaolan, I didn't expect your memory to be so good, but although I saw this forsythia in the mountains when I was a child, but in our place, it is still unknown whether it can be planted on a large scale, and whether the medicinal herbs can be sold at a good price also depends on its quality, our land here is barren, and I don't know if forsythia can be planted well."

"And to solve these two points, the key is to look at the cultivated jishu, this point can only be solved by going back to the capital, of course, I will first xiexie Xiaolan your reminder."

Chu Yulan heard the compliment, and said very happily: "Brother, you don't need to thank you, in fact, I can write these down, it is also because of the relationship between the teacher who taught me at the beginning, he happened to study this, after I go back, I will help you contact him, maybe he has a way to cultivate forsythia!" ”

"Haode, you don't care if you succeed in this matter or not, I'll give you a gift after a while." Chu Chen said with a smile on his face.

"Really!"

Hearing this, Chu Yulan couldn't help jumping up excitedly: "Brother, what are you going to give me?" ”

"Don't worry, you'll know when you get there......"

After that, the two walked for almost an hour, and finally arrived at their destination, Lujia Village.

Lujia Village is surrounded by mountains, surrounded by terraced rice fields developed by villagers for generations, at a glance, those terraced fields are thick and rough, simple and powerful, quite spectacular.

But after all, the fields are limited, so each household in the village does not have much arable land, and even some fields are small and barren, even if the annual harvest is good, in addition to food and clothing, the annual harvest is only limited.

Looking from a distance, the entire Lujia Village, dozens of households, most of the houses, are earthen houses, which look a little dilapidated, and only a few are brick houses. However, it was supposed to be the time to cook dinner at this time, but he didn't see the feeling of curling smoke above the village, which made Chu Chen feel a little strange.

Before Chu Chen and the others arrived at the entrance of the village, they saw Lu Erniu running towards them in a panic from a distance.

"Erniu, what's wrong?" Chu Chen saw Erniu's tearful appearance and asked eagerly.

Lu Erniu cried and said, "Chu ...... Uncle Chu, you can come, my mother wanted to commit suicide just now! ”

"What!"

Hearing this, Chu Chen couldn't help but be shocked, and said, "Didn't I ask you to bring the word before, I have the money for the treatment, why can't your mother see it!" ”

Lu Erniu choked up and said, "I'...... My mom thought I was lying to her, she said she didn't want to drag us down, and she was going to drink pesticides just now, but fortunately my dad found out quickly, woo woo......"