Chapter 981

Niuniu raised her head arrogantly and shouted, "Go to the restaurant, it's not as delicious as Sister Nan's cooking!" ”

"Niu Niu!" Liang Zi called with a wrenched face.

Niu Niu quickly covered her mouth and blinked with a pair of big dark eyes, which looked so cute. No one would criticize children's fairy tales.

Get! People have ripped out all the thunder and thunder in the sky. Now that they have refused, of course Tang Bonian will not pull them hard, anyway, he will live here for a few days, not for a while.

"Then we'll come back tomorrow for a follow-up visit." Tang Bonian got up and said.

Andy Tang held the children in his arms and watched them sit in the car, and the convoy went out one by one. At this moment, a few black cars came, and Fang Monan, who was far away, looked at the license plate number from the province, and didn't know where it was sacred!

However, it didn't seem to be looking for Fang Monan, Donald's convoy stopped, and soon moved again, and the two cars drove away one after another.

Fang Monan and the others went to the kitchen to eat, Aunt Lian and Vera started cooking when they were feeding the medicine, and Fang's father and they couldn't because the time was up, so they went to the hotel with Fang's mother and grandma, and it was difficult to excuse the appointment.

Besides, people are here to find their daughter, and there are people at home to accompany them, so Fang's father is not joining in the fun.

The lunch was very rich, everyone chatted while eating, and of course, they also chatted about the pomp and circumstance of the Tang family.

Lin Jiajia said slammeringly, "This pomp is nothing, I heard that the cost of raising children in Hong Kong's wealthy families is even more prohibitive." It is said that from the moment the child is conceived, he will not hesitate to spend tens of millions. Booking the first-class wards of the best private hospitals in Hong Kong, more than one million supplements, star-rated medical teams, hundreds of thousands of prenatal education equipment, and the escort of top bodyguards are absolutely insignificant. As soon as the child is born, there are various professional infant technicians to care and educate the baby in all aspects. ”

"I can't imagine how this money was spent." Lian Yufeng was dumbfounded when he heard it, and he couldn't believe it.

"The specific number may be a little watery, but it will certainly not be less." Lin Jiajia said.

"I have always been rich and ladylike, and I have been a great man since ancient times." Fang Monan said with a smile.

"Raising sons in poverty and daughters in wealth is an ancient folk saying. The words "poor" and "rich" here imply meanings that are different from money. It's more of a kind of quality cultivation. Because the boys and girls have different personalities. So the girl wants to be rich and well-informed, or a steamed bun will be abducted! And boys really have to be poor, and when they grow up, they can bear hardships and stand hard work and have a sense of responsibility. Old Man Lin said.

"Oh! We finally found out why we were so 'miserable' when we were children. It turns out that the roots are with grandpa. ”

Lin Jiashang's eyebrows fluttered and began to tell the 'history of blood and tears' of their Lin family's men. It was really tears for those who heard it. Sorry for the listener! But the smile in his eyes can't be hidden.

"Then don't you regret it now!" Lin Chengdong pinched the chopsticks in his hand, said something wrong, and immediately put the chopsticks on his body.

"Of course......" Lin Chengdong raised his hand to protect his face. Dad, don't get excited, don't get excited, of course I don't regret it. ”

"The grinding of life has made my will stronger; Especially after entering the society, bear social responsibility and family responsibility, so you must be poor to inspire your ambition, otherwise you will be lavish, and you will have a child, how to serve your parents and raise your wife and children! Lin Chengdong said gratefully, "I am very grateful to your father!" ”

"Raise your parents, and raise your wife and children! Jiashang, your personal issues should also be on the agenda, and you should set an example for your younger brothers and sisters. Old Man Lin shook his head and said.

"Ahh Lin Jiashang muttered, "I haven't had enough fun!" ”

Hehe...... Everyone pursed their lips and snickered.

Hum! Guys who are not righteous, Lin Jiashang stared at these guys who were watching the excitement one by one.

When it comes to the topic of raising children, the fathers here always have a lot to talk about.

"It's not the same for girls." Lin Jiajia smiled very sweetly, "It's held in the palm of your hand, like a jewel." ”

She relieved Lin Jiashang's siege in one sentence, Lin Jiajia didn't do it for nothing, she was gesturing with a sports car in her hand.

Lin Jiashang hasn't had time to be grateful, hum! I know that you girl is not so kind.

"Hey...... It was before marriage, and after marriage, it became a dead fish's eye. Lin Jiaxiang smiled secretly.

"Little San'er, are you itching?" Lin Jiajia clasped her hands into fists and crackled.

"This is not what I said, this is what Cao Xueqin said." Lin Jiaxiang hurriedly declared.

"Being alive is a kind of cultivation, and life is endless, and self-reflection is endless." Fang Monan was old-fashioned and said very Zen.

"People are small and ghosts are big." Grandma Lin said with a smile.

"To tell the truth of the proverb handed down by the ancestors, there is a certain truth, although the appearance is born from nature, but it also needs the careful care of the day after tomorrow, and it needs to be delicately carved on weekdays, which obviously requires a certain material foundation. From another point of view, in addition to giving better material conditions, it is more necessary to broaden the girl's horizons and knowledge. Fufu also means 'abundance'. If you know beauty, appreciation, and discrimination, you will know how to protect yourself and not be tempted by the outside world. Grandma Lin said with feeling.

Qiu Hongye, as a mother with a daughter, was also heartbroken and asked positively. "Then what Aunt Lin does!"

"Since childhood, I will be taken in and out of various occasions to increase my ability to read the world, and when I am as old as a flower, and then I will grow up in the world, I will not be easily confused by all kinds of flashiness and vanity, so that I will not be greedy for small profits, and my temperament will be extraordinary; A girl who has never seen the big world, under the sugar-coated cannonballs of the gentlemen, is likely to be defeated by rhetoric. Wealthy girls, because they are well-informed, independent, assertive, wise, and know very well what they are really pursuing. Grandma Lin was interested and talked eloquently.

"Hmmm! Well! Autumn leaves nodded frequently. Reasonable. ”

"Rich daughters are actually a kind of investment in education, the wealth of education; Raising a poor man is a kind of frustration education, men should be self-reliant, and boys who have not experienced failure and setbacks will not grow up.

The boy will have to struggle in the future, and he must be let know that money is not easy to come by; Girls are meant to be married. She must be trained to discern things, so as not to be coaxed away by a piece of cake in the future. ”

"The ancients said that the heavens will descend on the people, and they must first work their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skin, and suffer their minds, so that they can cultivate themselves and govern the country and the world. To be a real man, I don't know how many hardships, cold eyes, humiliations, and setbacks I have to suffer in this life. Therefore, boys should cultivate a hard-working, simple, hard-working style, benevolence, righteousness and filial piety from an early age, especially in material matters should not be given too much. Otherwise, it is easy to become another gentleman.

20 years of enrichment. Hibiscus out of the water; After 20 years of poor raising, the sword was released. ”

"You have said so much about poverty and wealth, and we will only say two words." Grandma Liang smiled.

"I know that." Fang Menan said with a smile.

"You know?" Everyone looked at Fang Monan in unison.

"Stocking!" Fang Monan said with a smile. "This Liang Zi should have a deep understanding."

"That's right! At that time, children were the main body of play. The national policy of family planning has not yet been promulgated, and it is not uncommon for families with only children. But pitifully rare. It's not enough to have two. Families with five or six children are commonplace, and seven or eight are not new. So I think back to when I was a child, in the sixties and seventies. An impressive phenomenon: there are many children. Liang Zi recalled the past, and he remembered it vividly, and he thought that he would try his best to forget.

Old Man Lin said with a smile, "At that time, whether you lived in an alley or a government compound, between neighbors, children could be 'group', which was described as 'black pressure'. ”

"That's right! I remember when I was a child, I played horseback riding, double-ball bases, officers and soldiers catching thieves, and so on, and there were often children all over the mountains and valleys charging into battle. Sometimes the school-age children in the alley are summoned to simulate military games, and the officials are sealed according to the military chess (land chess), and the two camps are sealed from the commander to the squad leader, and there are still a number of children who can only be soldiers. This also leads to a scene that occurs at every turn: when it is dark, parents call their children's nicknames at the top of their throats, calling the children who are playing crazy outside to come home for dinner, and some of the eldest and second and third children take turns to call. Liang Zi sighed, "Now this kind of voice can't be heard at all." Many people lamented the intimacy of the neighborhood relationship back then, but in fact, the establishment of this relationship is not without a certain kind of association with the number of children, and the children play together and string back and forth. ”

"I remember that Liang Zi is an only child." Autumn Momiji looked at him and smiled.

"I was the king of children at that time...... Balabala. Liang Zi talked endlessly, quite a little, recalling the feeling of the eventful years.

Liang Zi is talking about the eyebrows flying and dancing, and everyone listens to it with relish, especially the grandchildren of the Lin family who grew up abroad, as well as Niuniu and Maotou and their sisters and brothers. I haven't heard of it, I'm very envious!

Fang Monan smiled and said nothing, at that time, there were many children, parents and dual-income workers, or working in the fields in the countryside, and the children were all free-range. Parents don't have time to care, children have a lot of their own leisure time, they are active in the streets, alleys, fields, mud fights, hoops, jumping bands have become classics of that era. At that time, most children exercised for at least three hours a day, and although they were not materially rich as they are now, they were physically strong.

It's not the present and the future, tutorial classes are everywhere, in addition to opening up a way to make a fortune, the child's body is really incomparable, every year military training does not faint a few, does not refresh the record, that is not considered military training.

Nowadays, there is only one baby seedling, and parents are gradually looking at academic qualifications, and there is a general concept of 'emphasizing literature over martial arts'.

The child's physique is gradually 'vitrified', and the parents' refined cultivation of the child has exacerbated the child's physical condition.

"Wow...... Wow......! The crowd was amazed.

"It turns out that Dad was so naughty when he was a child." Niuniu's words were laughed by everyone.

"Huh! Grandma, Mom, why are you two coming back! Where's Dad! Fang Monan got up and said.

"Your dad has something, what are you talking about?" Fang Menan pulled out a chair for the two of them, and the two sat down.

"How about it, do you want to come again," Fang Menan smiled.

"Hey! No need, your uncle is really willing, ordered a table of dishes, and ate it. Grandma hurriedly waved her hand. (To be continued......)

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