Chapter 339 is just like that

Li Mingyu had a pale face and explained to his mother embarrassedly: "Mom, what are you talking about." Getting married, just to be lively! ”

Mother Li stomped her feet angrily: "I don't know this yet? If only it were in our village, it would be fine. But where is this, do you know how much a table is for this banquet? ”

Li Mingyu was silent, he knew that this was also because his family was too poor. If you have a banquet at home in your hometown, you can cook the dishes yourself with the ingredients you can cook. It is understandable that there is a lot of excitement in front of relatives and friends.

But the prices here are high and there are few relatives, and the people who come and go are their colleagues and a few fellow villagers. There are only eight tables in total, and the gift money and fee will be the same.

But when my mother's family comes, it's different, you have to eat, drink, and live, and you have to have money. And they will not give them the gift money, and if they give it, they will have to pay it back in the future. It's better not to come, and those who can move around in the future are just close relatives.

can think of that eldest brother, how can someone who is so rich in the family pick these reasons? It's nothing more than a good face, but there is no money in your pocket, and everything is in vain.

But he understands these by himself, how can Gu Zhiqiu understand? She is now happily looking for a suitable hotel, and has drawn a list to arrange for these relatives to have a good time on the grassland.

Suddenly, I told her that I didn't want so many people to come to my mother's house. How could she understand it for a while? Isn't that embarrassing? It's really hard to be.

Li Mingyu was undecided, and Mother Li could see that he was worried about Gu Zhiqiu's fear. Angry, he stretched out his hand and twisted his ears heavily: "Are you afraid that your mother-in-law will not succeed?" You tell her that if her mother's family comes, she will be in charge of her own food and housing, and our family will not have that money. ”

Father Li came over and said with hatred: "Just tell her that it costs a lot of money for your mother's family to come." If the gift money is given to us, our family will take care of it. If you don't give the gift money, our family won't worry about that. ”

Originally, I didn't want to take advantage of my mother's family, didn't I say that their family was rich, so I didn't care what the gift money was.

Mother Li muttered: "Originally, I didn't agree to find a foreigner, and I couldn't live together." And her parents are divorced, so she can't be like this in the future. Our family is poor, and my daughter-in-law can't stand it and runs away, what can you do? ”

Get! As soon as I got married, I was worried about divorce. In the world, there are really few families who can think so ahead.

Li Mingyu thought about how to tell Gu Zhiqiu about this for two days, and he knew that Gu Zhiqiu would definitely be angry no matter what. Until Gu Zhiqiu went home in the evening to get the money, saying that he was going to the hotel to pay the deposit. Li Mingyu knew that he had to say this, and he couldn't hide it.

"Then, that little autumn. I have one thing to tell you ... Li Mingyu's appearance of wanting to speak and stopping made Gu Zhiqiu wonder. It must be nothing good to be like this, Gu Zhiqiu couldn't help frowning and said, "What's the matter?" Can't talk well, this grinding chirp! ”

Li Mingyu cautiously said to Gu Zhiqiu: "That, how many people are you going to come?" ”

Gu Zhiqiu immediately understood in his heart what Li Mingyu's hesitation and worry were for. But this is my own wedding, only once in my life.

"It's just like I said before, there aren't many people in their twenties." Gu Zhiqiu's understatement attitude made Li Mingyu even more hesitant, and he felt that this was impossible to say.

Seeing Li Mingyu like this, Gu Zhiqiu instantly understood. This must be what the in-laws meant, and Li Mingyu is very difficult between them and himself.

Thinking about the words An Rong had said to him more than once before getting married, and thinking about the quarrels between his parents over the relatives of the Gu family in those years. Gu Zhiqiu couldn't help but be upset, and then looked at Li Mingyu's cowering appearance and wanted to say whether to say it or not. She was both helpless and distressed in her heart, thinking that her willful temper usually made Li Mingyu angry, and it was really a little too much to worry about him getting caught in these things after getting married.

"Alright, don't be embarrassed. At most, let my parents and my eldest brother and sister-in-law come, and you can go back and talk to your parents. ”

Gu Zhiqiu's concession made Li Mingyu breathe a sigh of relief, and assured her with a smile: "Don't worry, wait for your father-in-law, mother-in-law and eldest brother to come." I will treat them well and will not disgrace you. ”

But how could Gu Zhiqiu be embarrassed to say this? Could it be that to tell the truth, my in-laws dislike the cost is too high and are unwilling to come?

Gu Zhiqiu and An Rong couldn't open their mouths, and there was no way to say it to Gu Dehai. Tell your eldest brother Gu Zhicheng that you can't be scolded? In the end, only Zhang Cuilian was left.

She thought about Zhang Cuilian's encouragement to herself over the years, and thought that she was empathetic and had a lot of ways. It's better to breathe with your sister-in-law first, so that you can give yourself a face at a critical time.

Zhang Cuilian understood the attitude of her mother-in-law's family from Gu Zhiqiu, and was even more worried about her future.

Thinking about how much regret it would be if you couldn't let your loved ones come over to cheer you when you got married?

But when you think about it, not everyone thinks so. For example, my original idea was that everything would be fine after getting the certificate. Don't have any more moths, and don't dare to hold any large-scale weddings. I was afraid that Shao Hua's brain would twitch that day and come up with some bad idea.

There was an example in the previous life, it was a cousin of the Shao family. Before getting married, the bride price was also given, the three gold were also bought, and the house and car tickets were all in place.

But on the wedding day, when the bridegroom came to receive the bride. The mother's family suddenly got up a moth, sat on the ground and started asking for things again. The bridegroom was also ruthless, and the auspicious time had passed. He stood outside the door and called out to the bride, and asked her if she would come with him.

Zhang Cuilian's cousin is really biao, seeing that her relatives and friends are all around. I wanted to show that I could "hold" my in-laws, and I tried my best to pretend there. Help my mother's family ask for things, and if I don't give it, I won't go out of this door.

The groom left at that time, and a dozen cars left like this. The bride was dumbfounded, and the Shao family became a joke. At that moment, the Shao family made a fuss, saying that they had never seen such a person.

But there was no way, and after making a phone call, the groom's parents couldn't be the master and were very angry. In the end, the Shao family personally sent their daughter over, but the man's family refused to accept it. There was a quarrel on the spot, and the man's parents wanted a thoughtful wedding for the sake of face. Helplessly, the groom said at the time that the bride could ignore the general situation towards her mother's family at such a time. It can be seen that no matter what happens in the future, I will not have the same heart as myself. Don't want such a daughter-in-law.

Fortunately, at that time, the custom was to hold a banquet first and then a marriage certificate, and the two families only had the entanglement of the bride price. In the end, the man didn't want money, and he didn't want this cousin.

The woman's family has money for nothing, but the reputation is stinky, not to mention that the girl is also ruined. casually inquired and said that this girl was not of good character, and this family could not be married. So that cousin had to go to another place to find someone who didn't know the roots, and that was after a few years.

Zhang Cuilian knew that Gu Zhiqiu's matter was not so serious, at least she got her marriage certificate first. But this newlywed joke will not be easy in the future.

An Rong listened to Zhang Cuilian's relays and worries, but she was not as angry as she expected. It's a little inconsistent with the picky character she remembers, trying to be perfect, and I don't know if it's a lower requirement.

But Zhang Cuilian is a mother, and she also had a daughter who was almost 20 years old. She put herself in her shoes, of course, hoping that the wedding was the most romantic, warm and unforgettable. What a sad thing it is for a mother not to be able to make her daughter happy on the day of her marriage.

Especially like Gu Zhiqiu, who has the best food and clothing from childhood to adulthood. An Rong cultivated her like an eldest lady, which was her own princess dream.

"You don't understand!" An Rong seemed to have a halo of charity on his head, and said the nice words at the head: "We have to respect the man's ideas, after all, this is the marriage that Xiaoqiu will face in the future." This is the man's home field, and we should follow the host. ”

Seeing Zhang Cuilian's disagreeing look, she sneered: "Why don't you agree? ”

Zhang Cuilian rarely contradicted An Rong: "Mom, I just can't understand your thoughts." When your son got married, it was not allowed at the time, place, and conditions. We didn't have any form here, we just invited relatives and friends to have a meal to make a fuss. The same is true when I returned to the army, although I didn't have the experience of marrying my relatives. But we all have it, you think about the mood of you and my dad at that time, and think about Gu Zhicheng's approach. I don't have any regrets as a bride, how many regrets do you have for being a mother? You've been thinking about it for more than a year, and it's hard to let go. ”

The eldest son was forced by the situation, and the youngest daughter in the palm of his hand. just got married casually, and now even a lively wedding has become a luxury. Zhang Cuilian felt uncomfortable, and she couldn't understand it.

An Rong snorted coldly: "Do you think I don't understand these truths?" The problem is that the in-laws can't give it, so let's not take it big. On this issue, let the in-laws see the bearing of our family. Thinking that she owes Xiaoqiu in this matter, she will let her everywhere in the future. ”

Zhang Cuilian was a little annoyed, could it be that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the west wind pressing the east wind?

But she is a daughter-in-law, and she can't be the master of her sister-in-law. She brought her sister-in-law's words, and An Rong arranged the rest.

When Gu Zhicheng heard such news, he was so angry on the spot that he had to ask for leave to participate. I also want to ask in person if the Li family is so short of money. An Rong stopped him and whispered for a long time behind closed doors.

Zhang Cuilian didn't ask what happened in the discussion, but only An Rong went to see off her relatives when she got married that day. Gu Zhicheng was angry and did not allow Zhang Cuilian to go, but Gu Dehai was ordered by An Rong not to go。。。。。

There was no way, Zhang Cuilian contacted Gu Zhiqiu. I mailed her a passbook, which was deposited in Gu Zhicheng's name. This is a dowry given to her by the husband and wife。。。。。