After Xu Yanfeng returned to Yanchang, it was close to the early hours of the morning.

My grandmother lived in the First Hospital of Yanchang City, which is the only tertiary hospital in Yanchang.

After rushing to the hospital, Su Muyan, her mother, her uncle's family and her second aunt's family were all outside the custody room.

"Mu Mu, how is grandma?" Xu Yanfeng's tone changed.

Su Muyan's eyes were red, and he said in a low voice: "Just after the operation, the doctor said that there is still hope if you can persist tonight, if you can't persevere......

Speaking of this, Su Muyan couldn't go on.

After her mother saw Xu Yanfeng, the grief in her heart was touched again, and she covered her mouth and sobbed.

Although the eldest uncle and second aunt usually have little time to take care of their grandmother, they also have sad faces at this time. After they saw Xu Yanfeng coming back, they all stepped forward and said, "Yanfeng is back." ”

Xu Yanfeng didn't have a good impression of them, and hummed lightly. Then he said to Su Muyan: "No, transfer my grandmother to Nancang, or the hospital in the capital, where the medical conditions are good." ”

Su Muyan shook her head when she heard this and said, "The doctor does not recommend transferring to the hospital for the time being, if you want to transfer to the hospital, you have to wait until your condition is stable." ”

Xiang Xiujie once served as the director of the General Hospital of the Beijing Military Region, presumably Su Muyan also thought about transferring to the hospital, the conditions of the General Hospital of the Military Region are among the top in the country, and the treatment there is definitely better than that of Nancang.

It is estimated that when Su Muyan mentioned it to the doctor, the doctor rejected her. In a situation like my grandmother, it is indeed not easy to travel long distances, and if you want to transfer to the hospital, you must also be in a stable condition.

Since this is the case, Xu Yanfeng had no choice but not to mention this matter for the time being. Pin all your hopes on the First Hospital of Nancang City.

Family members are not allowed to enter the intensive care unit, and there are special nurses to take care of patients. So Xu Yanfeng and the others could only wait outside.

At about three o'clock in the morning, two doctors on duty hurriedly pushed the door and walked into the intensive care room.

Xu Yanfeng immediately became nervous, he knew that it must be the doctor called by the nurse inside.

Everyone nervously watched the situation in the intensive care room through the glass window. About ten minutes later, two doctors walked out and said to Xu Yanfeng and the others: "The family members should go in and say goodbye." ”

Hearing this, Xu Yanfeng's mother was unsteady on her feet and almost fell to the ground. Fortunately, he was supported by the second aunt behind him.

Everyone knew what the doctor meant, and they rushed into the ward together.

Grandma had already fallen into a deep coma, and she couldn't hear the words of "goodbye" at all. Everyone cried at the bedside for I don't know how long. The doctor, who had been standing nearby, checked again and announced that Grandma had completely passed.

Xu Yanfeng and the others were really grief-stricken, even if the uncle was so affectionate at the beginning. At this time, I couldn't help crying. After all, it is a relative who raised himself, and if he doesn't have any sadness at this moment, he is really not as good as a beast.

According to the customs of Yanchang City, after someone passed away. The body is to be parked in the hospital morgue first. Then go home and hang up the photos. Let relatives and friends carry out filial piety, and officially go out of the funeral three days later, and pull the body to the crematorium for cremation.

Now that my grandmother has passed away, even if I grieve no matter how sad I am, I have to go through the procedure according to the custom.

Everyone cried for a while, after all, the uncle was the eldest son in the family, and he said first: "Huijuan, Huimin, how should you prepare for this?" ”

The second aunt and mother are both women, so they naturally have to listen to the eldest brother.

After they said let the eldest brother watch it. The uncle said to Xu Yanfeng again: "Yanfeng, what is your opinion?" ”

Xu Yanfeng said: "I don't have any opinion. Uncle, you are well-informed, you can do what you want, I will listen to you. But I only have one thing, everything has to be simple. ”

Congjian is not disrespectful to his grandmother, Xu Yanfeng also wants to make his grandmother's funeral beautiful. But after all, he is now the mayor of a city, if he is too glamorous and is poked on the Internet by someone with a heart, then his career will come to an end.

The uncle understood this and nodded: "I know, let's not notify many people, just talk about the relatives at home in a small range." ”

After sending the grandmother to the morgue for placement, the group returned to their old home in Yuanxi County.

Although my grandmother has been living in the city in recent years, she is from Yuanxi County after all, so it is better to do the future in Yuanxi County.

On the way back, everyone split up to inform relatives and friends that their grandmother had passed away.

Xu Yanfeng didn't want to notify too many people, but some people had to be notified, after all, there were many things that couldn't be done by them, and they needed outsiders to help.

So Xu Yanfeng notified Gao Lei first, and after telling him the news, Gao Lei didn't say anything for a long time. Then he choked up and said that he would rush back to Yuanxi County immediately.

The second notice is Yao Zhenliang, Xu Yanfeng's good mentor and good brother also needs to be notified.

The order of the rest of the notices is messed up, but the main notices are some who are more haode in personal relationships with Xu Yanfeng. If there was only a working relationship, Xu Yanfeng would not have informed them.

Even so, Xu Yanfeng felt that there were many people to inform. The main reason is not to inform others, in case people know about it afterwards, they will feel that Xu Yanfeng has a distant relationship with others, so they don't tell others.

Sometimes this kind of wedding and funeral is really difficult to get, and I want to keep a low profile, but Huaxia is a personal society. If it is too low-key and does not pay attention to human feelings, then the road ahead will only become more and more difficult.

There is a song with lyrics like this: "It's hard to find a friend, it's easy to walk when there are more friends", which is about social relationships.

zuihou, after Xu Yanfeng made some phone calls, he was really a little annoyed. The main thing is grieving now, and it's too tiring to pull out a phone number and wonder how this person relates to him, and whether to notify him.

So Xu Yanfeng decided not to inform him, and he didn't care about it.

After the group came to their old home in Yuanxi County, they opened the door and cleaned it up briefly, and someone had already rushed over.

The uncle came over to Xu Yanfeng at this time and said, "Yanfeng, your grandmother has passed away, and you need to find someone to 'take care of big things'." ”

Now the family members are in grief, and many details cannot be considered, even if they have the energy to think about it, trivial matters should not be considered by the family.

Therefore, according to the custom, it is necessary to find a person to be the chief and be responsible for directing the people of all sides to do something. Such a person is known as "in charge of big things" in Yuanxi County.

This kind of "big thing" must be of a certain age, and the hairy boy is definitely not good, and he can't command others. And when you are older, you see a lot of things, and you know what to prepare and do.

Originally, this kind of person should be found by the uncle, because he is old and knows a lot of old guys, and there should be one suitable for "managing big things".

But the uncle's character is not good, and his reputation is very bad, depending on what he means, he should have contacted a circle of people, and everyone promised to bow and bow and pay filial piety, but they would not always help here.

With such an uncle, Xu Yanfeng can't afford to be angry with him.

At this time, Guo Yuanyi came, and he was also one of the people notified by Xu Yanfeng. After learning that the mourning hall was located in Yuanxi County, he immediately rushed over.

"Guo, there is still a lack of 'big things' at home, do you have time these days? Can you work hard? Xu Yanfeng said.

Guo Yuanyi has now retreated to the second line, and has a false name as the chairman of the trade union in the Yuanxi County Government, and usually helps people do some weddings and funerals.

Xu Yanfeng needs his help today, of course he won't shirk.

"Yan Feng, don't worry. You don't have to worry about your grandmother's business, I'll take care of it. Guo Yuanyi said.

With Guo Yuanyi, the "big man", Xu Yanfeng is also relieved.

As the sky brightened, more and more people came to the house, and many people didn't know Guo Yuanyi. But the other party came to help, and knowing that Guo Yuanyi was "in charge of big things", he obeyed his command.

Soon, my grandmother's funeral hall was built, and everything that should have been bought was bought.

The gift book was also bought, and some people began to offer gifts.

Seeing this, Xu Yanfeng hurriedly said: "The person who comes to pay his filial piety just bows and expresses his heart, and the gift money will not be accepted." ”

Who will come in the next few days, Xu Yanfeng doesn't know. It is estimated that although some people did not receive Xu Yanfeng's notice, they would also rush over when they heard the letter.

When the time comes, if there are many people who salute, it will not be a good thing for Xu Yanfeng. If there are some more "big gifts", it will be even more troublesome.

Therefore, tell everyone directly that it is the easiest thing not to receive gifts.

But as soon as Xu Yanfeng's words fell, the eldest uncle and second aunt objected in unison: "How can you not accept gifts, this is the custom." ”

Xu Yanfeng only thought of himself just now, and forgot about his uncle and second aunt.

They are all older, and they must have attended weddings and funerals a lot of times. The gift money that was spent, it can't be spent in vain. You have to take it back when you have something to do.

If there is no account book, the people notified by the uncle and the second aunt will be happy, because they have saved money. But the eldest uncle and second aunt have lost a lot.

It's really hard to do this kind of thing.

Xu Yanfeng knows the character of his uncle and second aunt, and they value money very much. If Xu Yanfeng insisted on not setting up an account book, then the eldest uncle and second aunt would not object. After all, Xu Yanfeng's identity is different now, and they don't dare to stand up to it. However, their hearts will certainly not be happy.

Xu Yanfeng now hopes that the family will work together to handle his grandmother's funeral, but he doesn't want anyone to be unhappy and awkward. If you panic and make some unpleasantness, I'm sorry for my grandmother.

At this time, Gao Lei came, and when Xu Yanfeng saw this, he said to his uncle and second aunt: "That's it, Gao Lei is not here, I want him to keep an eye on the matter of Suili." Let's set an upper limit, and if it exceeds this amount, Gao Lei will not be allowed to accept it. How much do you think this cap is appropriate? ”

The eldest uncle and the second aunt glanced at each other and did not speak.

Xu Yanfeng said: "How about 200 yuan?" ”

The habit of Yanchang City is that ordinary relationships are 100 yuan, and slightly better relationships are 200 yuan. Xu Yanfeng felt that the circle between the eldest uncle and the second aunt was at most 200 yuan.

The eldest uncle and the second aunt glanced at each other again and said together, "Okay." ”

And they have an account in their hearts. If they give 100 or 200 to others, then they won't give them more. So the upper limit of 200 can still make them accept. (To be continued......)