"What kind of mentality is the mentality of the strong?" Lu Xin wondered.

"As I just said, when you pin your happiness on other people, you suffer from gains and losses, and you are not strong in terms of mentality! The strong rely on themselves to solve problems, and the weak rely on others to solve problems. Li Shanmin said coldly: "When you blindly count on the golden finger given to you by God to win success in life and win emotional success, you are a weakling!" ”

"But the problem is that the golden finger given to me by God has been born with me, and I can't use it!" Lu Xin argued: "You can't say that I am weak with a golden finger." ”

Li Shanmin said coldly: "I said that you are weak because you are afraid of losing, you are afraid of losing these golden fingers, and for the really strong, they can give up their education, common sense, experience, official position, rank, wealth, and honor at any time, and then put in new things at any time, they are not afraid of losing and making a comeback!" And you, you've been afraid of losing, are you always worried that martial arts magic will leave you, are you always worried that those confidantes will leave you, the real strong are not even afraid of death, how can you worry about the loss of foreign objects! ”

"But I was originally a sling, a weakling, my strength has only improved for more than a year, in such a short period of time, it is difficult for me to transform from a sling mentality to a rich and handsome mentality!" Lu Xin said in a sullen voice, he couldn't stand Li Shanmin's harsh words to him.

"Do you think that a rich and handsome man is a strong man?" Li Shanmin sneered: "How many rich and handsome people are worried that their parents will go to prison, and how many rich and handsome people have met female liars who play with their feelings. How many rich and handsome people have exhausted their family property due to drug abuse and bad gambling! ”

Lu Xin smiled bitterly: "Then how should I adjust to become a strong man's mentality?" ”

Li Shanmin said with a smile: "The wolf is not a favored animal of God, God has not given it the speed of a cheetah, the majesty of a lion, and the physique of a rhinoceros. Compared to various life in nature, wolves are indeed not strong, wolves are close relatives of dogs, man's most loyal companion, and there are many similarities between them. But dogs have long lost the ability to survive independently, and without human protection and breeding, I am afraid that dogs would have disappeared from the earth.

Although by all conditions, wolves are not considered strong, and even compared to some animals. The wolf is still in the position of the weak. But the wolf never thinks of himself as the weak, on the contrary, the wolf thinks of himself as the strong. Maybe it's this mindset that determines their actions, or maybe it's their personality that dictates that they have to have that mindset. Either way, they pride themselves on being strong. No matter what kind of enemy you face. This strong mentality will not change. Facing a weak flock. Needless to say, even in the face of animals and even humans that are stronger than themselves, they will not show weakness in the slightest. They will not defeat themselves without a fight. Retreat without a fight.

First of all, you have to always hint at yourself at the psychological level, to be a strong person who never gives up and never retreats, faces the peak, and thinks about climbing it; Facing the sea, thinking about crossing it; Facing the blue sky, thinking about crossing it; Even the tiger and wolf, and we must defeat it.

As far as your current situation is concerned, you are always afraid that some powerful force will attack you, you are cautious, you want to be a good citizen, you don't dare to punish evil, but if you look at my experience, you will understand that when you are strong enough to a certain extent, no matter how huge that force is, it will bow to you, and it is very likely that because of your savings, it will change some of their past fucked up inhuman systems, so that hundreds of millions of grassroots farts will have a much better life because of you. ”

Lu Xin nodded hard, every time he punished the wicked in the past, he was always worried that he would not be framed by a certain force for defense, and of course he was caught in the detention center to drink water and die, and he shrank back and sometimes didn't even dare to act bravely, Li Shanmin reminded him very right this time, he would not punish the wicked because of fear in the future.

Li Shanmin said: "As far as your current situation is concerned, you still have a problem, you are afraid of worldly rumors, afraid of criticism from others, afraid of others saying that you are stepping on two boats, afraid of others saying that you are engaged in the harem of three thousand beauties, afraid of others saying that you are a big breeder, afraid of others saying that you play with feelings, so you have been suppressing your inner demons and suppressing your own desires!" ”

When Lu Xin heard this, his brows furrowed, and he said in surprise: "Isn't it right for me to suppress the demons in my heart?" ”

"The demons in the heart are like a flood, it is better to block them than to sparse them, the more depressed you are, the more terrible the demons will break out when they break out, do you believe it, if you suppress them like this, sooner or later you will break out because of the failure of your feelings, and kill the woman who left you," Li Shanmin said sternly.

"Ahh No way! Lu Xin's eyes widened, he didn't believe that he would do such a thing.

"Do you know why there are so many people who kill and abandon their lovers because of love and hate, men kill their girlfriends, women kill their boyfriends, this kind of thing is not uncommon," Li Shanmin said in a deep voice: "This is why, it is because those murderers have the fear of being abandoned before this, they have been suppressed, and when they are really abandoned, their demons explode, uncontrollable, they kill people!" ”

"Then what should I do!" Lu Xin looked afraid: "I don't want to pick up a butcher's knife on the person I once loved!" ”

"Then you don't have to be afraid of other people's criticism, you have to be brave enough to be a playboy with a hundred people," Li Shanmin giggled: "When you only have one woman, you are always afraid that she will leave you, and when you have hundreds of women who come and go at a moment's notice, you will not be afraid that any woman will leave you." ”

"That's not right!" Lu Xin suddenly remembered: "I remember, as long as I use the Immortal Couple Gong with any woman, that woman will always remember my taste and will never leave me!" ”

"Uh," Li Shanmin snorted and said, "I want to correct what I just said, your situation is different from others, your demon in the heart of women is not that you are afraid that women will leave you, but when you are at your lowest, no beautiful woman respects you, you hate all beautiful women, you swear that one day you will make a fortune, you will not fall in love with any woman, you will play with all kinds of beautiful women like crazy!" ”

"I don't think that's a demon," Lu Xin laughed at himself, "It's just a complaint when children can't get their favorite toys." ”

"That's a demon, many people do wrong things in their lives are inseparable from the psychological trauma he suffered in his childhood and adolescence," Li Shanmin said with a smile: "What you said in the second half of the sentence is a bit interesting, yes, for a man like you, a woman is like a child's favorite toy, because he started late or for other reasons, the director's beloved toy is occupied by other children, and the child will be depressed all day, if you always find that there are many good toys in this world that are occupied by other children, You could have gotten those toys, but you never got those toys, and the demons were born from that. (To be continued......)