When he went home for the Chinese New Year, Li Zeyu bought a lot of gifts for his family, but Li's mother was not satisfied, she wanted to see how much money her son earned, even if it was to show her a number.

But where did Li Zeyu get too much money? I had to do all kinds of perfunctory things!

Life at home is decadent, eating, drinking, and having fun every day. Li Zeyu wanted to do something serious, but in the first few days before the Chinese New Year, his parents' relatives and friends held happy events every day, and his parents always took him, although he was not happy, but it was not good to disobey his parents.

But every time I go to someone's house to drink wine, I will always be asked the same question:

Zeyu, when are you going to get married?! We're all waiting to drink your wine!

At first, Li Zeyu was very annoying, but it was not easy to show it, but after being asked a few more times, he got used to it and felt that it didn't matter! What you asked, my personal questions have nothing to do with you!

Li Zeyu remembered a passage he had seen and thought it was very good:

"The premise of respect is mutual, which is the foundation of any human relationship.

For example, if someone tells me 'I'm married and living happily ever after,' I will reply, 'That's great!' ’； But if this person says, 'I'm married and living happily, you should get married too!'" I would say, 'No, no, I'm still at ease like I am,' and if this person says, 'I'm married and I'm happy!' How old are you, why aren't you married? I would reply, 'It's not surprising, many people don't die beyond the average life expectancy!' ’； If you have a mental retardation and want to find fault and say, 'You are so old and still don't get married and have children, are you psychologically abnormal?' Then I'll reply, 'Okay, it's a shame better than a thirsty creature like you who only knows how to move pistons!' ’。

Another example is when someone says, 'I have a child, and I feel happy to be able to take care of a little life!' I will reply, 'You are so blessed, ask for kindness!' ’； People say, 'I have a child, and I feel happy to be able to take care of a small life, do you have any plans to do that?' I'll answer, 'No, I don't like kids!' ’； If this person says, 'I have a child, and I feel very happy to be able to take care of a small life, so you should hurry up and build one, life without children is incomplete!'" I would reply, 'Incomplete?' Where is it incomplete? I didn't miss an arm or a broken leg! ’； If it's another retarded person who wants to find fault and says, 'How can you be a man without offspring?' Some organs have grown white! I would reply, 'What does it matter, isn't your head white?' ’。

It's as simple as that, if you want to kidnap me with morality, you will be bound by me with morality, and if you want to share your 'life experience' with me, I will teach you to be a human being first. Concession! ”

I accidentally saw a passage, but there was a sense of shock.

Indeed, the solution of personal problems depends only on oneself and has nothing to do with others! However, due to the influence of Confucianism for a long time in our society, we generally follow the concepts of "the words of the matchmaker of the parents" and "the unfilial piety is the greatest", so that the parents' intervention in the marriage of their children is more than that of the old society, and the hope of having children is even more earnest. And completely ignore the current social reality, as well as the competitive pressure from society!

On the twenty-sixth day of the lunar month, my cousin got married, this is my mother's own nephew, and it is definitely not okay not to go.

Li Zeyu is ready, several uncles and aunts will definitely talk in his ears! Indeed, as soon as this cousin gets married, these brothers of my mother's side and her own generation have solved their personal problems, and they are bound to become the target of public criticism!

But looking back, the pressure of society is different from the past, and the reality of society has forced men to feel a little cornered.

Office workers can't save much money all year round, and when they get married, the woman definitely needs to buy a house, as for the bride price and the like, don't care about it for the time being. How many of today's office workers are wealthy? Seldom! The vast majority of them are a little hard-earned money that their parents have saved by working hard for decades. But the child wants to get married, and he can't do it without a house, so he trembled and took out the money and gave the child a down payment. The family has been hollowed out, and the child has also been saddled with a huge mortgage! As a result, all kinds of family problems emerge one after another, is this what we want to see? Apparently not! But this is indeed a social reality!

Li Zeyu originally wanted to be an ordinary office worker, because he didn't think about how much cost pressure reality would bring him. Moreover, he never thought of getting married so early, according to his plan, it is more appropriate to complete a lifelong event around the age of thirty!

The book returned to the main story and went to my uncle's house, and sure enough, Li Zeyu was "besieged" by his relatives.

Li Zeyu quietly listened to the anxiety they expressed and the danger of not getting married soon, and felt a little funny in his heart: What happened to these people? Am I breaking some national law by not getting married now? Why are they so worried? But I'm only twenty-five years old!

After they finished speaking, finally no one spoke, Li Zeyu said lightly:

"I have no money now, I have no social status, how will I live after I get married? You should all know the truth that poor couples mourn everything, how high are the requirements of girls now, is it difficult to divorce after life is unbearable? Which of you will be responsible for me then? ”

Although Li Zeyu's tone was very calm, he was firm, and the relatives who said it looked at each other. Even his parents didn't know how to refute it!

Yes, Li Zeyu is just expounding a truth: You don't have to worry about my business, my life is my own, and how I want to live it is my business! If you want to be responsible for me, then I can listen to you, but if you can't take this responsibility, then please shut up!

After being quiet for a long time, my aunt spoke:

"Zeyu, in this way, it doesn't matter if you don't want to get married now, your cousin has a female classmate who is the same year as you, or arrange for you to go on a blind date, it doesn't matter if it doesn't work, if you do, you can fall in love first, and then get married later!"

Mother Li seemed to have grasped a life-saving straw:

"Sister, you're right! What does this girl do at home? How does it look? ”

The aunt continued:

"It seems that the family is doing business, this girl is very good-looking and tall, and it should be no problem to match Zeyu, but she didn't go to college, and she followed her parents to do business after graduating from high school!"

"Well, it's good to do business, the girls in this business family are all shrewd and capable!"

Uncle added!

"Zeyu, why don't you meet with someone and have a chat, what if you fall in love with someone?"

Mother Li said to Li Zeyu.

"yes, that sounds like a good condition, let's see!"

The second uncle also chimed in.

Li Zeyu couldn't cry or laugh a little, he always felt in his heart that blind date should be a marriage model for men and women only in ancient times, and now it actually happened to him! Could it be that he really couldn't find a woman? There is also a need to solve personal problems in such a way! But after looking around, the expressions on the faces of the relatives were all concerned and worried, at least the starting point was good!

Forget it, then promise them, go on a blind date, and complete the characters they handed over!

My aunt hurriedly asked my cousin to contact someone, and they only had time at night, which was a coincidence, after lunch, he had to help pick up the bride, and after picking up the bride, he would have to visit the church and have dinner, and he couldn't go back at night!

Li Zeyu's parents smiled after hearing this, and the stone in their hearts seemed to fall to the ground all of a sudden!

Seeing his parents like this, Li Zeyu didn't know what to say!

At this banquet at noon, he didn't have much appetite, he didn't even go to the table, he found a big bowl in the back kitchen, filled some lotus seed white fungus soup, and went upstairs after drinking, waiting for the team to leave.

As soon as I got upstairs and sat down, the phone rang, it was a text message, or an unfamiliar number!

Li Zeyu clicked on it and took a look: Zhang Qin!

He read it right, it was indeed Zhang Qin!

"Zeyu, I'll get married tomorrow, can you come? --Zhang Qin"

He was a little confused, Zhang Qin was still married, and as she said, she still invited herself! But what surprised him was why he got married tomorrow, and Liu Chao didn't send him an invitation? He's a good brother who can wear a pair of pants!

The mobile phone was turning around in Li Zeyu's hand, and the anxiety in his heart rose unconsciously!

"What time is tomorrow?"

Li Zeyu still replied with a text message.

"Tomorrow at twelve o'clock at noon, welcome hotel."

Soon Zhang Qin came back.

Li Zeyu has been thinking about whether to ask her why she sent a message to herself, not Liu Chao, could it be that Liu Chao knows about their past? Or is it something else?! After thinking about it, he still felt that he would ask clearly, otherwise it would be as he thought, Liu Chao would know, then he would make everyone very embarrassed in the past!

"Why did you message me? You got married for such a big event, why didn't Liu Chao even notify me? “

"Because I broke up with him......"

It took about two minutes for Zhang Qin to recover!

Parted?! Really fake! How long has it been? A few days ago, the two went to Guangzhou together, and they showed love for each other, why did they suddenly break up? And why did Zhang Qin suddenly want to get married? Where is this? That's bloody, isn't it?

Li Zeyu dialed Zhang Qin's phone:

"Hey, how did you break up?"

"There's no reason, I just don't think it's appropriate!"

"No, does Liu Chao know about our past?"

Intuition told Li Zeyu that this should be the reason!

"Yes......"

After a long time, Zhang Qin responded.

Sure enough, as he thought, Liu Chao knew! He really knows Li Zeyu too well, because he knows these things, he feels that he can't be sorry for Li Zeyu, although Li Zeyu and Zhang Qin are already in the past, they still feel that they can't be with their brother's ex-girlfriend, so the two broke up!

But according to the time, it should be a few days before the two break up, who is Zhang Qin married to? Li Zeyu did not continue to ask about their breakup, because he was very sure that everything should be as he thought in his heart.

"And who are you marrying?"

"My colleague!"

"Are you kidding? Just a few days after you broke up, you married someone else, what are you doing? “

"It's nothing, you'll know when you come!"