What is the father's mentality when he finds out that his daughter has a boyfriend?

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It is said that it is like the cabbage that the farmer has worked hard to grow for a season is arched by the pig......

2

A similar situation is mentioned in the classic philosophical work "The Legend of the Laughing Forest" -

Mr. Daoxue married his daughter and went out, and in the middle of the night, he was still wandering and pacing in front of the hall. Fuyun: "Xianggong, please sleep late at night." The gentleman paused and said, "You don't know, the little beast is being presumptuous there at this time!" ”

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My father belonged to the category of elegant literati (that is, arrogant and sullen). The biggest table xiàn is jealousy. That's when I can see it-

- "Shall I go play with him?"

- "Hmm."

- "I'm going to Hainan to play!"

- "With whom? How unsafe a girl is......

- "XX Ah"

－「…… Hmm."

Summary: Whenever I mention my boyfriend, he must always answer me with "um" (tsundere!!). This must be tsundere, hey!! ）

But according to my mother, it was actually like this in front of her.

"I didn't even call my birthday baby......

"Father's Day baby didn't call me......"

"Labor Day baby didn't even call me......"

"The baby didn't call me on the weekend......

"Baby hasn't called me in a long time......

……

"Could she have been tricked away......

^_^

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Facing his four daughters, Mr. Yu Guangzhong couldn't hold back:

Of course, I have no prejudice against Cantonese boys, and in my six years in Hong Kong, there are many cute Cantonese teenagers in my class, who are quite pleasing to the teacher, but I am reluctant to let all my four daughters be taken captive by those "beautiful boys" and "lak boys". However, who the daughter wants to marry, to put it more freely, it is their free will, to put it more mysteriously, it is karma, why should the father suffer from gains and losses? What's more, in this matter, mothers are often in the key positions, and naturally become their daughter's close advisers, and even close comrades-in-arms, and the object of the fight is not her boyfriend, but her father. By the time the father woke up, he had already suffered from the enemy on his back, and it was difficult to reverse the situation.

In the eyes of the father, the cutest time for a daughter is before the age of ten, because then she belongs completely to herself. In the eyes of her boyfriend, she was the cutest when she was seventeen years old, because at this time she was like a graduating student, and she was already focused on outward. Father and boyfriend have congenital contradictions. There is nothing more perfect in the world for a father than a young daughter, and the only drawback is that she will grow up, unless you hide her for a long time with a freeze, which is probably against the law, and sooner or later her boyfriend will come on a horse or a motorbike and kiss her awake.

……

Once upon a time, the laughing Pei Shan herself, and even the most naïve Ji Shan, were transformed into "girls" under the magic wand of time. In the dark, there are four "young boys" who are sneaking in, and although they are tiptoeing and holding their breath, I feel that there are four pairs of eyes behind me, like all bad boys, with burning eyes and bad intentions, and when the time comes, they will stand in the light, pretend to be a hypocritical smile, and call me father-in-law.

Of course I wouldn't answer him. How can it be so easy! I am like a fruit tree, which has been standing here for many years, wind, frost, rain and dew, everything has a share, in exchange for a lot of fruits, overwhelmed. And you, the boy who occasionally passes by, actually stretch out your hand to pick the fruit, and you deserve to trip you over the roots of the tree!

Excerpt from "My Four Imaginary Enemies" in Yu Guangzhong, the original text is here: My Four Imaginary Enemies.

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Driving to another city to attend my daughter's wedding, listening to Bob Carlisle's Butterfly Kisses, tears fell from my eyes......

Thinking of the bits and pieces of the past 27 years, my daughter was called Daddy for the first time, walked for the first time, fell in love for the first time, and now started a new life with that lucky person......

Do you know? I want to bless you both, and I decided to tell you in front of you and your mother, and it turned out to be true:

The woman a man loves most in his life is not his wife, but his daughter!