Zhao Xinmei's persuasion of her parents was successful, and through some conversation, her parents understood her choice, and only told her to explain it to her husband and in-laws.

"Don't worry, I have my own principles of doing things, and I will explain them clearly to the relevant personnel. By the way, there is another thing I want to tell you in advance, if I do come, I will have my own house, I will not come to you every day to disturb you, and I will come back once a month as I do now. Zhao Xinmei said.

The latter words provoked the old mother to not like to listen, "You girl, why are you telling us this?" We didn't say we wouldn't let you go home every day! ”

"I have received your love, the girl who married out of the house splashed the water out of the door, I have self-knowledge, besides, solving my housing problem is also one of the conditions, I have my own house, what are I doing when I go back to you every day?"

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Zhao Xinmei's husband, Qu Weidong, is the son of a middle-level cadre of Xiangyang Food Company, he graduated from a junior college a year earlier than Zhao Xinmei, majoring in machinery, and was assigned to the state-owned Xiangyang Food Factory.

Zhao Xinmei entered the factory in the second year, in the factory Youth League Committee organized a May Fourth Youth Day activities, she and Qu Weidong met, shortly thereafter, Qu Weidong launched a crazy pursuit of her, at the beginning Zhao Xinmei did not take Qu Weidong's pursuit seriously, after more than half a year, Qu Weidong's mother asked someone to say matchmaking, and showed rare sincerity, at this time, Zhao Xinmei has been in the factory for nearly three years, is also twenty-five or six older young women, has reached the age of talking about marriage, looking around, there are many suitors, But none of those people's own conditions can be compared with Qu Weidong, so she accepted Qu Weidong's pursuit.

After marriage, of course, her mother-in-law's family treated Zhao Xinmei very well, but her relationship with Qu Weidong became boring, perhaps because of Zhao Xinmei's promotion, Qu Weidong, who was an ordinary agency employee, felt pressure.

Back at home, Zhao Xinmei found an opportunity to inform Qu Weidong and her in-laws of her plans, her in-laws are also retired or about to retire old workers, their thoughts and worries are similar to Zhao Xinmei's own parents, they are all from that generation, and the concerns are almost the same, Zhao Xinmei and them also made the same explanation and persuasion, the two old people know that their daughter-in-law is a very independent person, they don't take their opinions too seriously, just make some kind reminders, Zhao Xinmei patiently explained every question, and her in-laws finally said that it would be good to decide the affairs of young people.

When Qu Weidong heard the news, he was stunned at first, and then said coldly: "You've thought about it, cut it first and then play!" ”

"I've thought about it, but I haven't been there yet, isn't this telling you, how do you call it cutting first and then playing?"

"Didn't you be seduced by some old classmate or old friend over there?" Qu Weidong is full of vinegar.

"Qu Weidong, I warn you! If you want to talk baseless nonsense again, I will be in a hurry with you! Zhao Xinmei shouted angrily.

"I don't believe it, even a large state-owned enterprise like ours is struggling, and a private enterprise can be as good as you say?"

"You don't know what the outside world is like when you go to work in the factory office building except at home every day, and your vision limits your imagination."

Zhao Xinmei couldn't get used to Qu Weidong's attitude towards life all day long, long before they got married, she persuaded Qu Weidong to take advantage of the leisure at work, study more, and recharge, so as not to keep up with the pace of the times, Qu Weidong turned a deaf ear to this, and said that she was nosy.

Qu Weidong felt that Zhao Xinmei looked down on him, "I am a frog at the bottom of the well, I don't have your wide vision and knowledge, okay?" ”

"I'm not saying you're a frog at the bottom of a well, I'm saying that you don't take the initiative to learn about the outside world yourself, and you're skeptical of everything out there."

Don't look at Qu Weidong's fierce pursuit of Zhao Xinmei, in fact, he is a bit machismo, after catching up, with Zhao Xinmei's promotion, Qu Weidong felt that he was half a head shorter than his wife, and he felt very uncomfortable, coupled with the gossip of his colleagues behind his back, he not only was not happy with Zhao Xinmei's promotion, but thought that his wife's promotion made him unable to raise his head.

Hearing that Zhao Xinmei wanted to be transferred out of the unit, Qu Weidong disapproved on the surface, but in fact, he was a little happy in his heart, and finally he was not in the same unit with this woman who made her very faceless in front of her colleagues, and she would never have to be so depressed in the future.

"Okay, whatever you want, I can't take care of your business anyway." Qu Weidong looked indifferent.

The family has finally passed, as for friends, the relationship is average, I know to say hello, I don't know I don't have to tell at all, friends with excellent relationships, report it, explain a few words, and the other party is not too deep.

Now that the factory is full of people, Zhao Xinmei thought that her resignation report would be easily approved, but it had been three or four days since it was handed in, and there was not even a single message, but the departments of the office building of the agency had spread, and they all knew that the young and beautiful deputy section chief of the enterprise management department was going to resign.

What's this called? The leader hasn't approved it yet, but it has spread below, and the colleagues she knows inquired when they met her, which embarrassed Zhao Xinmei, and she decided to go directly to the cadre personnel department to find out.

"Section Chief Zhao, your resignation report is in the hands of the factory director, you can ask the factory director if you have any questions." Said the clerk of the Cadre Personnel Division.

Zhao Xinmei immediately went to the factory director's office, "Factory director, may I ask ...... my resignation report?" ”

The factory director is a middle-aged man in his fifties, with a neat back combed and a pair of glasses, who looks like an intellectual who graduated from a university in the sixties. ”

"Factory director, who else do you need to discuss a resignation report? Now that the authorities have spread, when will you give me a letter? ”

The factory director did not answer Zhao Xinmei's question, but fiddled with a beautiful signature pen in his hand, "Xiao Zhao, why did you suddenly remember to resign?" ”

"There's no why, I just feel that it's boring now, and there's no passion for work."

"If you're bored, you're going to quit? Times are really different. Xiao Zhao, have you thought about it? Resignation is a big deal, but don't take it as a joke! ”

"Thank you for the reminder, I've thought about all this."

"You also know that the original female members of the team have retired, and we originally intended to train you to enter the factory-level leadership team as soon as possible, but we didn't expect you to suddenly resign, which caught us off guard!"

"Thank you for your kindness, since I have made the decision to resign, please consider others. I apologize for disappointing your expectations. ”

"Xiao Zhao, I don't know if you have noticed, among you young people, your promotion speed is the fastest, you have only worked for less than five years, and you are now the deputy head of the enterprise management department."

"This ----," people are emotional animals, not to mention that Zhao Xinmei is still a woman, hearing the words of the factory director, she lowered her head, her mood at the moment is very complicated, stopped for about two or three minutes, Zhao Xinmei raised her head, "Director, your love and Xiangyang Food Factory's cultivation of me, I will never forget, I would like to express my heartfelt thanks!" I'm really sorry, I have made up my mind, please understand my decision. ”

Having said this, the factory director saw that Zhao Xinmei had made up his mind, so he no longer made senseless reservations, "Xiao Zhao, since this is the case, please sit down for a while." ”

Entered the factory director's office, the factory director didn't let her sit down, Zhao Xinmei had been standing just now, and now the factory director asked her to sit down, and brought an invitation, she sat down on the sofa next to her, "Factory director, what is the matter with you?" ”

"Let's talk about the substance now. What do you want to do in the future after resigning from Sunningdale Food Factory? Want to start your own business? The factory director said.

"No, I don't have the capital to start my own business, and I don't necessarily have to suffer some hardships, and I'm ready to join the management team of a private enterprise."

"Oh, so there's already a goal?"

"The other party has already contacted me twice, and I have also visited the other party's company for on-the-spot inspection."

"The treatment given by private enterprises must be higher than the income we have here." The factory director said.

"It's true that the income is higher, but the income is definitely not the key to the problem."

"What is it about you that that appeals to you?"

"According to my observations, private enterprises, at least when I go to inspect this company, the deepest impression is that they are full of vitality and vitality, as well as their flexible mechanism, relaxed environment, and extremely high work efficiency, and so on." Zhao Xinmei said.

"You think we don't have a lot of things here?"

Zhao Xinmei did not answer directly, she agreed with silence.

"You said these questions, your business management department once mentioned to me, I believe that are your opinions, in fact, I have long been aware, but our reality is here, some things are not that I am unwilling to do, but the intricate relationship between state-owned enterprises, mutual constraints, many times I am more than enough, lack of strength!" The director lamented.

"Factory director, the system and mechanism of state-owned enterprises are not formed by any one person at a certain time, and similarly, the current situation of Xiangyang Food Factory is not caused by you. There is one example that impresses me so much in reality that I have mentioned on many occasions. The private enterprise I am talking about is also engaged in food processing, their output is not much smaller than ours, the whole factory is less than 700 employees, counting the cadres above the workshop director, all the full-time management personnel together are only about 30 people. Do you think there is a way to compare the cost of this product? But if you want to talk about attrition, it's all in the same boat, who do you push into the water? Who can you subtract? ”

The factory director agreed with Zhao Xinmei's opinion very much, and he immediately answered, "Don't talk about downsizing, even a simple employee diversion is difficult to carry out, people just want to work less, or even not work, but also get more money." ”

Zhao Xinmei believes that the state-owned Xiangyang Food Factory is quite complete in all aspects of the staff, and even some specialties have caused a waste of talents, because of the lack of effective incentives, some talents would rather mess around and abandon their martial arts, rather than worry about the affairs of the unit. In an environment where there is no difference between doing more and doing less, or the difference between doing and not doing, or very little, it is understandable that some people give up on themselves.

In Zhao Xinmei's impression, the factory director is a technocrat who is outstanding in both production technology and enterprise management, otherwise, among the hundreds of intellectuals in the factory, he would not have stood out and become the leader of Xiangyang Food Company. However, in such an environment, he is also unable to make a move, and only one incentive policy has been discussed many times in the whole factory.

"I understand your difficulties very well, factory director, to be honest, you have the hardest job to do." Zhao Xinmei said.

"Understand? I don't think you're using your resignation to protest my inaction. ”