Is it all the fault of not working hard?
Why can't you get married, and the men's article is put on frequent festivals, and this article can be regarded as a spur to everyone! It seems that it is easier to feel lonely during the holidays! Why can't you get married-Why can't you get married - If you don't work hard but ask the other party to be "Yuko Oshima", why can't you marry a man.
■Three conditions for marriage within two years
Men who can't get married are actually not "can't get married", but "don't get married". At the end of the day, it's just not trying.
Men aged 20-49 who live in the city can get married within two years if they meet the following three conditions. Of course, physical and mental health, and family relationships are not too complicated are the main premises.
(1) Keep it clean
(2) Monthly income of 330,000 yen (including bonuses and overtime pay) (equivalent to about 19,000+ RMB, which is the current income status of Japan)
(3) I like the women around me
Anyway, it's not that hard.
■I don't like cleanliness
First about the first point. It is true that women will be disgusted with elements such as "fat, short, and bald", but they hate even more those condescending men who give up on themselves and think that they are the best silk.
In addition, men who believe that they can attract women with their appearance even if they are over 30 years old are seen as "frivolous", "incapable of working", and "about to cheat", and women avoid choosing them as marriage partners.
If you act cheerfully as usual, the flaws in your appearance are likely to turn into a sense of security and cuteness. However, if you don't love cleanliness, you can't do it. This can be easily done through basic habits such as bathing, doing laundry, brushing teeth, and occasionally shopping (discarding shirts with torn collars and cuffs).
At a time when informal employment is expanding, the second point is perhaps the most difficult. The basis for the monthly income of 330,000 yen is based on a survey that states that "unmarried women require a minimum annual income of 4 million yen for their marriage partners."
In fact, people with incomes below this number have difficulty living alone (men who are financially inseparable from their parents are hardly welcome), dating is AA, and traveling is even more impossible. Including overtime pay and bonuses, an annual income of 4 million yen is the basic.
This is not an easy target for hourly wage non-regular workers. However, there are many companies that have an annual income of 4 million yen if they have been in a small or medium-sized enterprise for more than five years.
■There are too many men who don't work hard
Finally, the third article. It's not that you have to give up your ideals, it's okay to pursue Yuko Oshima in your heart. On the other hand, be concerned about the people around you. Occasionally, if you go to a company cocktail party, a high school or university reunion, or a party of friends who share common interests, and relax, you should find a woman with eyebrows or lips that look like Yuko Oshima.
When you meet someone like that, ask her to dinner, ask her to go to a bar and hold hands and sleep or something. And when you want a friend to introduce a person who is married as a premise, don't say that the ideal is Yuko Oshima or something. No one will introduce you to that way.
That's all. A 30-year-old woman looking for a partner would have been furious when she saw this article. Because these three conditions are too simple. There is an unequal ratio of men and women in leadership. The threshold for women's appearance and age is higher.
Compared with this, why are these three conditions so low, but no matter how you find a marriageable man? Because too many men don't work hard to meet these three conditions.
(Fuyuhiro Omiya)