Chapter 361: Conceptual Differences

Chapter 361

"What can I say about you, say good things about you" Wang Ma showed a little embarrassment on her face, and told a serious lie in front of Zhang Cuilian.

"Come on, I hear you." Wang Dahua pursed her lips and sat on the edge of the kang with a displeased face. One leg was put on the other, and he said in a bad tone: "What is a woman, she shouldn't be too strong, I'm the one who wants to be strong but has a bad life."

Wang Dahua's parents suddenly became honest, and Wang's mother, who was talking eloquently just now, seemed to be choked by someone at this time. I didn't dare to speak at all, and there was a strange feeling in the room. Zhang Cuilian also felt that it seemed that they were a little out of place here.

"That, don't worry about it. That's it. Zhang Cuilian was a little embarrassed to play the round, and said to Wang's mother with a smile: "In fact, it is also a good thing for Xiaohua to be motivated, and it is also worth encouraging young people to want to break through." Now someone comes to the door to propose marriage, and Xiaohua likes it, so it can be seen that this fate can't be stopped. ”

Wang Dahua snorted coldly: "I am a lesson from the past, I haven't understood what kind of man I am, marriage is unreliable." It's better to rely on people than on yourself, who can rely on whom to live a lifetime, Xiaohua has the ability to do better than anything else, I look at that tofu factory."

Wang Ma was furious when she heard this, and she puffed up her chest and screamed against it: "Okay, what do you know what a woman's family does, what if you lose money?"

Wang Dahua shouted back in the same decibel voice as her mother: "Money, money, money, you know money." If it weren't for the fact that the old Yang family was rich, would you have been able to marry me, what is happening now, I have become a widow. It's not enough for you to scourge me, you still want to scourge Xiaohua"

"Sister" Wang Xiaohua exclaimed.

"Big Flower" Wang Wu couldn't help but open his mouth to stop it.

But it's too late, and Wang Dahua's words have already been spoken. Wang Ma seemed to have been hit hard by a heavy hammer, and she sat in place stupidly.

"Sister, what are you talking about。。。。。 you are doing this?" Wang Xiaohua complained twice, and then persuaded her mother: "Mom, don't take it to heart." My sister didn't mean that, she just had a quick mouth."

Wang Ma suddenly covered her face with her hands and whimpered and cried. The sound came from his chest and spilled through his palms into everyone's ears. Forbearance, sadness, despair, and pain are mixed together.

Wang Dahua also knew that what she said was too heavy, and she wiped her tears. While crying, he said: "I don't blame you, I just want you to think about it." Now it's different from what you used to be, and you can't rely on men for the rest of your life. If I don't grit my teeth and stiffen up all these years, who can I rely on, can I find a man to raise my son?"

"Sister, don't say it. It's a big deal that I'm not married, I'll support my parents and be an old girl. Wang Xiaohua also lost her temper, and the two sisters made a fuss.

Wang Wu saw that Zhang Cuilian was still present, and his sister's face was dull when he didn't get along with him. Seeing that Zhang Cuilian had the intention of leaving, she sneered at her: "I'm really embarrassed, I made you laugh." ”

Zhang Cuilian glanced at Wang Dahua and then at Wang Xiaohua. I couldn't hold back for a while, and persuaded him: "The family doesn't have overnight worries, don't hold anything in your heart." After a long time, it became a misunderstanding, but it became a gap in my heart. After so many years of wind and waves, there is no need to make trouble on this. I really apologized for the bad idea. ”

Wang Xiaohua hurriedly pulled Zhang Cuilian over, and said quickly with apologies on her face: "Sister-in-law, what are you talking about." There are times when this tooth fights with the tongue, and our family is not a quarrel. It's all the old yellow calendar, don't worry about it. ”

After speaking, he smiled helplessly: "You said that you were a matchmaker who came to the door to kiss, but it made you in a dilemma." It's a bit of a bump."

Wang Ma wiped her eyes and sniffed. sneered and said, "What's wrong with this, your sister-in-law is not an outsider." She patted the kang beside her again, and said to Zhang Cuilian: "Come and sit down, this family matter hasn't been said yet, where are you going as a matchmaker?"

Wang Dahua has always been cool, and she also knows that she lost her temper just now and lost face. At this time, I was in a panic and didn't know how to break the situation, and I saw that my sister and mother were open. Quickly pulled Zhang Cuilian back, and patted her face twice with anger and laughter: "It's all mine, no, there is no door on the mouth." Talking nonsense in a hurry, damn it, damn it"

It turned out that when Wang Dahua was old, there were also matchmakers who came to say goodbye, and her young girl didn't understand anything. I fell in love with a very handsome young man in the next village, but unfortunately his family conditions were not very good, and his parents did not agree.

At that time, the husband's family conditions were good, and Wang Wu and his family made a marriage with this family. It's just that I didn't expect Wang Dahua to have a hard life, and he was widowed at a young age. Now it is very hard to lead the children with her in-laws.

"I wasn't unhappy because my family was poor." Wang Ma talked about the past, and her eyes couldn't help but turn red again. She raised her face and said pitifully: "I think that the girl has raised so big, and it is a pity to give it to others for so nothing." You said that if she was bullied, her father and I wouldn't be able to see it. Besides, this married girl goes back to her parents' house all year round. Whoever is willing to put it aside"

This is the truth why she doesn't want Wang Dahua to marry in the next village, not because her family is poor.

Wang Dahua also heard this reason for the first time, and she had some doubts in her heart. couldn't help but secretly glance at Wang Wu, only to see that Wang Wu also nodded with a serious face. Only then did I become convinced that what my mother said was true. I felt guilty and wanted to find a crack in the ground to get into.

"The old Song family is good, and Song Lei's child was also grown up by us." Wang Ma stretched out her hands and held Zhang Cuilian's hand again: "Last time, Xiaohua told you what was in her heart. Honestly, I don't believe the two of them can be together. Zhang Cuilian hurriedly waved her hand to signal her to listen to her words: "You also think about problems from the perspective of children, you can't always think from your own perspective." You also want the good of your children, and you also want them to be taken care of for the rest of their lives. You also know that the man's family is too high, and the girl is married too far away for you to take care of. But if you think about it, you can avoid it."

Zhang Cuilian took herself as an example: "My family conditions are not good, and I was given to my mother when I was a few years old. Later, when I returned home, there was also a younger brother below, and I couldn't eat or wear. I was able to finish high school because my adoptive parents sponsored me, so my family didn't want to provide for me to go to college. The money I spent on college was all my own part-time job, and my own mother didn't pay a penny. ”

The four members of the Wang family were all surprised, no one expected that Zhang Cuilian, who looked at Zhang Cuilian who was like a lady with no worries about food and clothing, would have such a past. I didn't expect that there were still people who worked while going to school, which shows how much suffering she suffered back then.

"Lao Gu's family conditions are very good, my father-in-law is an army officer, and my mother-in-law is in business. What my sister-in-law uses, what I use, the conditions of our two families are very different. But look at it, how Lao Gu treats me" Wang Ma said convincingly: "That's not at all, who doesn't envy you in the whole Zhuangzi." ”

Wang Dahua raised her eyebrows in surprise, and couldn't help asking: "Then you are at least still a college student, you don't have a job." ”

Zhang Cuilian sighed and said: "Yes, why haven't I had a suitable job with the army all these years, and I haven't arranged this job even if he changes jobs." ”

"But I haven't been idle all these years, I work when I have a job, and when I don't have a shift to go to, I look for private work. I don't rely on him to support myself, and my parents don't reach out to my in-laws when they need money. My in-laws dare to say that I have a status in the family.

It's not impossible to be a stay-at-home wife, the question is whether your husband agrees that a stay-at-home wife is a job

If he thinks that it is not difficult to take care of household chores, take care of the elderly and educate children. thinks that his wife is just doing some housework and has been pampered. As for the dedication to the family, he also thinks that he is supporting his family and wife by himself. He is disrespectful to his wife, so what is the use of this stay-at-home wife

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